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I need to look good for my new school which starts tomorrow! I need help on the following things:

-I have a little acne! Is there anything to remove them before school?

-I have hair on my arms/legs! Are there any home remedies to lighten them coz i cant go to the store?

-A new hairdo! I have long brown hair, and it's not layered. I have never dyed/frosted it, and I want to have nice hair without putting harsh chemicals to my hair.

First off u could do a bananna honey scrub all u do is mix bananna and honey and salt and then put it on ur face.. and that may help cure ur acne problem...
Secondly u cannot do ne thing with ur arms not really umm u can shave ur legs but ur arms just leave those the way they are ull look weird if u shave them... and it will grow back worse. So just shave ur legs and arm pits...
Thirdly if u have a big forehead then u should maybe consider getting bangs, or u could just get ur hair layerd... and i agree with u completely about not getting ur highlighted its awful for ur hair i did once and i regret it forever! so dont go there... but u should get it cut differently...

im me sometime... and how old r u that could have an affect on what u do with ur hair... hope ive helped and hope ur school year is great!! :)

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hey yall i need some help (16/f/single) well i was with my bff yesterday..and we invited over her bf and his friend who i kinda like!..well my friend and her bf were makign out...and i was talking too the other guy and well he put his hand on my leg no big deal then he was rubbing it you know it was comfortable..well i told him i liked him and he said he liked me! it was great lol then he fingered me...while we were making out...then he asked me out i said ya...then i ono what came over me i took his hand and wa\lked upstairs and we had sex..greaaaat sex...i was on the pill anyways and we used a condom...but am i a slut and was that a bad thing?? im not pregnant or anything...sry that was long..please tell me! PLEASE DONT DELETE THIS IS IMPORTANT TOO ME!!!

well i think it was sorta bad thing but ur not necessarily a slut, but its a little crazy that u did this like while ur freind is downstairs making out with her boyfriend... it was awfully fast to move, and doesnt leave much more the relationship between u and this guy... but if u had fun and he had fun and u two still like eachother then it cant be that bad of a thing right? oh well its just more how u feel about it... hope ur alright :)

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well my n my bf have been going out for 3 years now...16/f btw...well weve gone too 3rd base...well once i was giving him head and he pulled down my pants we did 69 and the dorr knob was turning and his parents were there so we QUICKLY stopped and then pulled our pants up n sat there his mom was like hey guys...she said adam youre pants are unzipped! i was like oh crap she didnt think anything i hope...well i was wondering how do we prevent getting caught...should we do it in the car or got oo a ahotel maybe? MODS DONT DELETE!!! you dont understand i need help

Get together wen his parents r not home.. or wen ur parents r not home a hotel is too risky then ur parents will really think something is up.. and a car would maybe work but it would be uncomfortable most likely and someone could just walk by... so u should just wait untill u know one u guyses parents r going away or out to eat or something... hope ive helped ;p

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Crest Whitestrips Premium...worth the $30?

yes!! they work great! :)

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When I get my period, the first 3 days are very heavy. I wear pads on those days and then tampons the rest. I'm going down the shore on the days when it's heavy and I'm not sure what to do. I'm going to be swimming and everything, but do you think a 'super' tampon would be good enough? It's really heavy and I'm scared even the super tampons won't be enough. What should I do?

yes that should work... i wear tampons on my heavy days not pads... interesting

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All of my friends at school are always asking me who I like. I tell them I like no one, but there is this one guy thats really tall and charming, but never really smiles. He asked me to come to his 'party' but I don't know if I should. I don't know him too well to go to his house. So someone please help me!

GOOOOOO, parties r the best and if u dont get to know him better ull at least get to know other people better! go and have lots of fun! i mean what can it hurt if u dont go ull just be sitting at home (most likely) and then on monday all of the kids at school will be talking about it and how fun it was... and u wont know so u should goooooo :) hope u do!

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fthere is this guy and i really like him but i am going out with his brother and his brother is 17 and im 13 and the guy i like is 14 and i just dont no wan to do please help

tell his brother that u dont wanna go out with ne more because hes too old and then go out with the younger one... i dont think the older one will mind... do what makes u happy not what makes others happy!

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Ok there is a guy a like aand he thinks I'm cute and he and his friend asked if my friend and I wanted to go swimming and we said yes. But should I change my mind? I'm scared because what I fall or trip or something.


Sincerely,
CameronLover1

No, u should definetly go!!! have fun!

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hi im a 13/m and i dont masturbate by like just putting my hand around "it" and pushing or w/e i just take a pillow or w/e and sorta push on that (sorry if thats 2 graffic). is that abnormal or not?

as long as ur gettting what u need out of it then its fine.. more power to yah!

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ok my bff just stop bein friends with her old bff her old bff hates me she always puts me dowm and makes me wanna stab her she also calls my cell and says "ur ugly im pretty u need to die gay loser biotch" wat should i do??? i really need help or it will go on forever!!!!!!!!!!! plzz help.....thanx!!

well dont stab her thats my only advice just dont let her get the best of u!

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my boyfriend after 4 years of dating...that the whole thing was a bet to see how long he could play me!!! wtf is up with that?!?!?!

GET HIM bACK!! REVENGE IS SWEEEET!

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Alright. I just moved to Tucson from New York. Well, I got a really scary call from one of my friends in New York today. These really ghetto gangster chicks that we used to hang out with have turned against us and they know I'm coming back this winter and they're planning on beating the fuck out of all of us. They always show up at Ericas and Brittanys houses and threaten them and shit and tell them they can't wait until I can back so they can see all of us dead. I'm really scared because I know what they can do.

POLICE!!!!!!!!!

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i really like this one guy but hes going out with a girl... and it seems like this guy likes me and he calls me almost everynight and when were together he always wants to like make out and things liek that but then if he liked me why would he be going out with his grilfriend? so i don't know what to do anymore just go with the flow or try and work things out and just be friends with this guy...

hes a jerk cant u see that hes just using u u should tell him to either break up with his girlfriend or u two can only be freinds~! cuz the only thing that will happen here if u dont is u and his girlfreind will both get hurt and hell get nothing! hope ive helped!

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How long should u wait to know someone before you should kiss them??????

whenever u think its right it should happen naturally it shouldnt be a planned thing... :)

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hey guys! well there have been so many questions about the latest fashions and what to buy for school schools, but do u have any advice on bad fashion? like what things should we stear clear of at the mall this season

Stear away from brands... thats completely out... i mean if possible stear from the mall period! vintage stuff is in stuff without tags and labels hope schools great for yah!

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OK I REALLY NEED HELP. i am a girl and i have questions i will rate 5s no matter wat. ok well here goes: when i masturbate i usually rub it with something like a pillow or blanket. i don't really like to finger, i don't find a lot of pleasure in that. is that weird? please be honest. second thing: i don't know if i orgasm or not. it feels really good and i know that i'm "done" but i don't know if i actually Orgasmed or not. what's the feeling? does a bunch of stuff come out? more than the wetness before? how do i tell

hmm a pillow or blanket is really strange... lol ull know if u hit orgasm or not like ull feel it, so have u ever stuck ne thing down in ur vagina? that may help while also stimulating the clitoris... its sorta complicated but if u hit the "O" then ull know... hope i could help...

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hey! i came to u before with my problem about the girl i have a crush on liking my best friend and i thought u gave some great advice. so i'm coming to u again.

Before I told the girl how i felt, i wanted to clear things up with my best friend first. He told me that he wouldn't make a move on her and that i could have her. I didn't want him to just give her to me, cuz i thought that wouldn't be right. So later i asked him if he would go out with her, and he sed maybe when school starts again (we're freshmen). After he told me that, i went and told the girl just like she asked me to. She went on about how she was so grateful she was that i did that for her and that this was the happiest day of her life and that she has liked my best friend for a long time. After she sed that, i didn't think it was the right time to tell her my feelings. I'm so lost, wut should i do? plz help!

well, basically u probably shoulnt have set them up? but we cant go back in time can we? so lets look to the future... first ur freshman so the relationship is sorta stupid or at least will be because freshman relationships never r that great... soo u will probably have an oppurtunity sooner than later... and if ur sucha nice enough guy to hook up ur friend with the girl u like honestly there hasta be someone else for u, but im sorry there isnt much u can do here but wait or look for someone new and always have this girl in the back of ur mind? im really sorry but u can im me sometime if u want and we can talk more about it... sorry :(

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I`m 15 in about a month or so and I think i`m an alchoulic. I want to quit at times, but then again i dont. I didn`t come on here to get lectured, just advice on what to do in this situation. Thanks.

Signed
xx CaM

well if ur an alocoholic and u think its an issue than u could just moderate ur alcohol intake like rather than going places with ur friends that drink, ull just hafta make the right choices... i seriously doubt ur an alocoholic tho.. but u can im me sometime if ud like to discuss this topic further... mrdotjones

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im a cutter. i have scars all up and down my arm. only 2 people know about it. but every time i see my boyfriend i have to cover it up, and make sum sort of excuse. i HATE lying to him! i feel like i should tell him, but i dont want him to think im crazy and dump me! but like.. i cant stop cutting. its always been my way of calming myself down...

u need to stop and tell ur parents and get help... i hope everything works out good, but seriously thats a big problem and u need to tell someone that can help u... i hope u alright!:)

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Okay my best friend just told me shes bi..And im a girl to.I dont know what to do, should I still be her friend or should I like not be..Im kinda creeped out cause I dont want her to like hit on me or nething.What should I do? Im only 14 to what should I do

No that would be awful this is a crucial time in her life wen she definetly needs freinds... and she will not hit on u she is ur friend... so dont diss her thad be dirty!

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