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so i reeeeeeeelly like this guy and we started talking over aim and we've never met face to face i asked him who he likes and he said someone i dont know but when the subject of who i like got brought up he acted kind of weird i guess he really wanted to know who but i wouldnt tell him i cant get up the courage to tell him and he keeps saying you should tell this guy that you like him im confused and i dont know what to do because alot of times i tend to see another guy and then get confused between which one i like more but this time i reeelly like him im like in love with him i think this everytime and we have everything in common so basically my question is am i in love and should i tell him and does he really like this other girl or is he lying sorry this is so long ill rate high for trying unless its a dumb answer (link)
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Well i know what it is like to fall in love in this way. I told the guy how i feel and now im going out with him and am gonna meet him in the summer holidays. I think you should tell him how you feel, it might be hard but it will be worth it if he feels the same way which he proberly does. It is hard to know wether he likes this other girl or not, but even if he does he likes you more. If you have so much in comon then even if he doesnt feel the same way he will understand and it wont hurt your relationship how it is now. You might be in love. I know i am. Its great and i love being with him. If he lives too far away then see what you can do to meet etc. Tell him how you feel and good luck (please rate)
The Love Life Helper
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should i date a guy that's somewhat in the military? i like him, but i'm afraid to .. (link)
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Dont be afraid to date a guy that is in the military. If you like him dont be afraid to date him just because hes in the military. So yes you should date him if you like him how he is then yes date him and have fun. Hope it goes well.
The Love Life Helper
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ok well is there any other way to let a guy know you like him without actually having to say it (link)
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Lol well the answer to your question is no really. If you try to hint guys dont really get it most of the time so it is best to just tell him right away. Dont let a friend to for you because that always turns out bad and sometimes they think your friends are joking and messing about. If you cant tell him to his face then try spending more time with him and try to use your body language to show him. But as i said lads dont always pick up on this so just tell him. Alot of guys apretiate knowing how you feel. And you never know he might feel the same way. Good Luck
The Love Life Helper
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okay, so i'm 14/m, and she's 14/f, and i've known her for a really long time as a friend, and i've had a secret crush on her forever now.
so i said to her the other day, "hey, do you wanna go see a movie or something on friday" and she looks at me like i'm crazy. i've never really had a girlfriend before, and i think i totally f*cked up our relationship. she won't even talk to me anymore. anyone got some advice that could help?
Thanks,
Sam (link)
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Well im 14/f and if a guy did that to me i wouldnt have reacted like that. But its doesnt have to mean she doesnt like you. Try to talk to her and tell her how you feel, dont give up so easyly and just explain what u want to do and tell her if she doesnt feel the same way its ok and you can still be friends. Dont worry. friends to girlfriends dont always work but somtimes friendships do turn into more after time. Just tell her how you feel and ask her how she feels. Work it out and you will carry on being friends or possibly more what else could you want. please rate. and hope it all goes well
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Hi Im A 21 year old female. and im stressing. I Have a 24 year old boyfriend i have been with for the past 2years and a half. in this relationship i have bin cheated on,beaten up i have practically been abused mentally physically and emotinally. he say he love , i guess in his own ways.but i have been dealing with him and his baby mama to much. dont get me wrong i do love him. but i felt he stopped my life completly. i wanted to go to college or to the military and he didnt want me to go. but i was dumb. anyways i went away for training which i had to beg him to let me go, eventually he did. before i left i found out he cheated on me with his baby mama again. so when i went away i found someone.A 25 year old firefighter. someone who treated me like i have never been treated before, he respects me, he loves me, hes offering me the world, my mom spoke to him and she like him, so i had plan to leave my boyfriend to go to live with this guys now. i would love to be with this guy so much but my boyfriend refuses to let me go. now these days he all of a sudden want me and promises me to treat me good, but he promised that before.everytime i speak to my baby i smile he makes me feel happy something i havent been feeling in a long time, this is my story i dont know what do do, im a Virgo In Distress and i just cant figure out what to do. please help me, this is my future. (link)
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look this is a very stressing and serious issue. It is not really my place or anyone elses to tell you what to do. You must think about this and how it all effects you. But if you cannot then this is my advice to you:
If you have given this guy a chance and he as done all these things to you then it is not right for you to stay with him. Tell your current boyfriend that it is just too late to make up, too late to say sorry, and way too late to do anything about it. He has abused you too much to stay, you know i speak sence. Stay with the guy who makes you happy and doesnt hurt you like your bf has hurt you. Staying with someone who has cheated on you like that is wrong just plain wrong. Its not your fault its his no matter what he does u walk out that door leave your b/f and go live with your loveing 25yo firefighter. He makes you happy so go for it. Its your life, your future, dont let a guy control that. good luck in your life and remember no matter what do not go back to that guy who has abused you. please rate my advice cos i want that thankyou. Hope everything goes well have a pleasent future (anyone who seeks my advice i am aware that i cannot accept things is my inbox this is a problem i am curently working on if u want my advice mention LoveLifeHelper in your q thankyou all)
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is it better to be friend first before you get into a relationship?
because my boyfriend broke up with me because he said we messed our relationship up because we really wasnt friend when we went out and he wants to start over and he said he might or might not ask me back out is that bad?? for me??
because i love himm (link)
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Sometimes just been friends first is a good idea somtimes not so good. It can make a relationship hard to become more than a friendship however it can let you get to know this guy better and make you better together when you to go back out. Its not bad for you because he will get to know you better and you can get to know him. If you still like eachother after that then there is no reason why you shouldnt go out. If your good together and it works after getting to know each other then there is your answer go out and be happy. Goodluck with ur friend/boyfriend
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What is a good and healthy/safe way to loose fat in your inner thighs?
I'm 15 years old and a girl. I don't have access to a gym so please don't suggest working out at a gym
thanks a head of time. (link)
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Well taking up horse riding is a good way but that i supose you have to pay for and you might not have access but if you do its a really good way cause its working for me. Otherways i sugest are:
swimming,
running,
etc.
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I like this guy and hes punk but im preppy we talk online, on the phone (once in a while), and have gone to the movies together. but he always flirts with my friends idk what to do. maybe im paranoid but i think they flirt back. i dont no wut to do when he compiments them on their looks because he knows i like him! what to do? (link)
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Simple answer tell him how you feel. thats all you need to do to make sure he understands that u dont like him flirting with other people and you realy like him. easy.
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I am 20, a little athletic but i could stand to lose 20 pounds (i'm just a shade under 6' tall, 221 lbs.). I show everyone respect, I'm always referred to as a 'great friend' or 'like a big brother', but no matter how much i try i cannot get past that image. i'm either not seen as a date-able person or everyone i try to get close to lies and leads me on instead of telling me the truth and letting me know why they're not interested or what i was doing wrong. Am i doomed to be forever in the hell that we guys call the "Friend-zone"?
Any and all suggestions are welcome, but I have had enough 'help' from other guys. please understand that i'm looking for the female's answer to my problem.
thank you,
Confused-&-Sad (link)
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well i not sure how to answer your question but since i am female i thought i would give it a shot. If you need to lose weight i would advise that, but that isnt your problem.If girls see you in that way then all it means is you are a realy good friend to have and your a realy nice guy. I think to stop been in this so called "friend zone" you must stay friends with the girls you have but next time you with a girl be more boyfriend like because you must be doing somthing to come off as a friends for a brother. Try to become closer to a girl than a friend ever could, but dont mix with her and her friends too much because then you are being like a friend. Take a girl out impress her with a meal and somthing nice act like a boyfriend and not just a friend make sure you give lots of hugs and cuddles and o cause other stuff that guys your age do. Good Luck
Sorry if my answer was a little unfair i neednt mean to be mean. But i tryed good luck anyway.
The Love Life Helper
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Ok so heres my problem, I am really just feeling lonely right now. My friends and everyone I know basically is going out with someone and well nobody really seems to like me. I have plenty of friends male and female, I guess a pretty good personality (otherwise they wouldnt hang out with me right?)I just dont get it. I also have pretty low self esteem so right now I'm pretty much guessing I'm ugly or something because no matter what I do nobody likes me. My friends always have the girls coming after them even! And I'm always pushed aside...Sigh. Any advice, and I for one seriously don't have faith in that good personality is what they're looking for thing. Thanks
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Well i know what it feels like to be lonely. It sucks right? Dont worry about it is basically what i want to tell you. If guys dont like you for your personality then there is no point in having a bf if they only like u for anything other than who you are. Don't worry about having a boyfriend you got your friends, but if you want guys to notice you more try get their attention. Dont let yourself get pushed out and dont be afraid to be yourself and wear what you like. If you worrying about looks.dont. as long as you can carry yourself with confidence and like the way you look, other people will like the way you look at take notice. Dont worry about guys if. there is one out there for you, just wait for him to find you.
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what are things you can do for a one year anniversay? (guy who is planning for a girl)
i need to know for my friend so please help asap (link)
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Well it does depend on the age and what your girl likes. I personally like to be surprized and given somthing orginal, i also love roses. And if your old enough candle lit dinners, home cooked preferable, or a dinner out and an amazzing night if you know what i mean. GoodLuck
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ok um well im a 13 year old female i really like this guy ive fallen hard for him i mean i seriously have fallen like in love but he says he doesnt like anyone and we talk eveyday we have everything in common cept for the fact that im a girl and hes a guy lol well i guess my question is should i try or just move on since he doesnt like anyone (link)
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Well he says he doesnt like anyone but the chances are he does like you. If you have so much in common then stick by him and be friends for a bit. Just a little bit longer and try to tell him how you feel in some way. There is a possability he feels the same way, if you like him as much as you say it will be very hard to move on, so i advise against it, look at the way he is around you and use that to figure out if he likes you or not, if you cant decide ask him and tell him how u feel no worrys just come right out and say it, it maybe hard but its the best thing u can do cause guys dont realy get hints.
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Heres the sitch...im a 16yr male senior at my high school, and ive been BEST friends with this girl since sophmore year...problem is, ive fallen for her...hard. i cant get her out of my head, i get jealous of any other guys she talks to or who like her, and im really protective of her...but she doest like me when i like her, she said she had a crush on me back when i had a gf soph year, but now she doesnt like ANYONE. what should i do? ive liked her for two years, but she says it would be wierd to date bcuz weve been friends for so long... (link)
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Im in the same possition as you except im a 14yo girl. the best thing to do is to tell her how you feel. i told my best friend how i felt about him and he understood i never went out with him but atleast he knows how i feel and he might like me im not sure it could be the same thing for you, my advice is tell her how you feel and stay friends with her even if you dont go out now who knows what will happen in the future. A lot of couples start out as strong friends ships. She will proberly change her mind you just gotta make sure she always know how you feel make sure she doesnt forget because if she feels somthing for you then it is only a matter of time. But dont nag her just make sure she remembers you like her.
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