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this girl...
okay, so i'm 14/m, and she's 14/f, and i've known her for a really long time as a friend, and i've had a secret crush on her forever now.
so i said to her the other day, "hey, do you wanna go see a movie or something on friday" and she looks at me like i'm crazy. i've never really had a girlfriend before, and i think i totally f*cked up our relationship. she won't even talk to me anymore. anyone got some advice that could help?
Thanks,
Sam
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Well, I honestly don't know why she would act that way if you just asked her to a movie. Tell her you're inviting her as a friend, just the two of you and that you think it will be a lot of fun. Just call her up and explain you didn't mean anything by it. Then maybe during the movie make a move to put your arm around her or hold her hand. Just take little steps and then work up the curage to tell her that you like her. Good luck and don't worry you didn't mess up your relationship.
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Well im 14/f and if a guy did that to me i wouldnt have reacted like that. But its doesnt have to mean she doesnt like you. Try to talk to her and tell her how you feel, dont give up so easyly and just explain what u want to do and tell her if she doesnt feel the same way its ok and you can still be friends. Dont worry. friends to girlfriends dont always work but somtimes friendships do turn into more after time. Just tell her how you feel and ask her how she feels. Work it out and you will carry on being friends or possibly more what else could you want. please rate. and hope it all goes well
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