Wussup? The Name is Lianna, Im 20 y.o, I tend to give good advice, and be real with you. I say what i feel is right, i mean that will be the only way people actually listen. I recently had an account on here, but i deleted it. This is my new one. If you feel you need to ask me a question, please feel free to ask away, I dont discriminate.
Gender: Female
Location: Secaucus, NJ
Age: 20
Member Since: July 7, 2009
Answers: 93
Last Update: March 8, 2012
Visitors: 3926
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i'm 19 years old, female.
i guess i've always had it easy, in a way. i've always been told i've been a pretty girl, and i do have confidence but i think it hurts me a little bit when it comes to guys.
i've been close with this guy for a couple years now. and i still never have the courage just to text him and say "whats up" or anything like that, i always try to come up with a reason to text him.
for example. last night me him and my cousin were watching a movie. he took up the whole couch and i was like okay well i'll just lay on the floor then. and he was like no we can share the couch. and so his head was on one end and my head was on the other end. well i was on the awkward end where i had to turn my head and my back was starting to killl after a while so i asked him to switch spots with me, he didnt. hes stubborn like that.
anyways late last night when i got home i texted him and said "i cant go to sleep because my back is killing because of you!" and he was like "i didnt do anything to your back" and i was like "you didnt switch spots with me when i asked you! whats up with that? i thought we did things for each other" and he was like "you asked at the end of the movie" and i was like "no i asked in the middle, but i'll remember that for next time" and he was just like "lol alright"
just things like that when i look back at it, i look SO stupid for saying that???!
why cant i just act normal around him. i feel like i whine alot around him, because in a way i think its flirty but i know its annoying but i cant help it.
how can i stop this!? suggestions? (link)
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i think its you being yourself...and you shouldnt change nothing about it.. if he is still hanging out with you, then why should you feel that way..text him he is probably waitin for you to text him and say wussup.it doesnt hurt to try.
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I gave my boyfriend a handjob and he cummed and i wipped it off but i didnt wash it and about 40 minutes later i masterbated... can i be pregnant? (link)
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lol, nooo the cum was already killed by that time
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Hey I'm 15 years old... my bff started to be like bff with my ex boyfriend...but that was normal and she talked with me about everything he did with her ex girlfriend (the one after me)... but lately she's been acting really weird... like texting with him (I know it's him cuz I saw once a message), and in her b.day they were acting like bf and gf!! I told her abour that and she said to me that he wasn't her type at all and that she would never date her bff ex boyfriend... but yesterday I found a conversation of them in my computer and they said to each other I love You too much for my likeness... and this week like two days she's been I don't know where because she doesn't want to tell anyone... and the other they she called ME to go to her house URGENTLY... and when I arrived there with another friend he was with her in her house totally alone...I didn't like it at all... and today she ditched us because she was somewhere she didn't tell us (my friends and I and a friend that came from England who is friens with her since preschool!!) all of us are soo pissed with her... but I don't know if I'm more pissed with her because of her dating him even when she told me she would never date her best friend's (me) boyfriend or because she hadn't tell me and it's hiding it from me... :S I'm so confused...xoxo Claire (link)
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thats messed up in her part, if she like him she should have told you from the begining. to me thats not a true best friend because a BFF wouldnt do that..seriously you dont need her,,shes a lier and a man stealer..i mean if you can forgive her and still be friends with her then thats cool..if not then hang out with your other friends and stay away from her.
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Can i be pregnant if im a virgin and my boyfriend came near my vagina but not in it (link)
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yes, you can never be to sure if some went in there...so thats why it is recommened for guys not to cum near that area...you never know.
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Why is it that this is turning into a site for just teenagers? All they know about is boys, and sex, and makeup, and periods, and discharge, and tampons,etc. Why aren't there more sensible people here? (link)
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this is an advice website..obviously more young teenagers what to know a couple of things and are going through a stage in their life. i beleive that they are entittled to ask anything they wanna know..if it help choose a different advice topics and there wont be all those "teenagers questions"
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I have kinda had finger sex with myself before but I haven't gotten my first period yet. will I still get it? I'm 13 years old (link)
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yes you would still get your period..it will come soon
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okay so this guy asked me out and my best friend broke up wiht him like 2 months ago...i said yess and now idk if i should break up with him or not ebcuase it seemes liek all my friends are turning on me and stuff becuase either they like him or they feel bad for hiss x(who brokee up wiht him cough cough) now shouyld i brake up with him or stay with him?? (link)
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its not wat your friends want or you feeling sorry for him, is if you want to be with him or not..decide what you wanna do and not what other want you to do...If he treat you good y not stay with him? think about it.
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14/female, my boyfriend is 18/m
okay, well on august 13th, my boyfriend is going to jail for 6 months, minimum...and I decided I'm going to stay with him while hes in, anyone gone through this before ? any suggestions on how to make it work ??
thanks :) (link)
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wow, you are only 14! why would you want to spend your youth years waiting for a guy who is in jail?? does your parents know about this bcause im sure they wont approve of this. what happen after 6months he comes out and want to be with someone else?? are you sure he is not taking advantage of you?? He's a little too old for you, dont you think...you really dont need to be with a guy who goes to jail, its not good for you nor the relationship.
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Hey! I wanna take a shower with my boyfriend before he leaves for college.. how can i hint him into it? i don't like being too straight forward. (link)
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he wont resit so whatever you feel like doing do it..Flirt, ask him if he ever wanna join you in the shower? Or be like i "i wonder how it would feel if me and you took a shower together" say somthing like that
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I've been dating this guy for about 3-4 months, and I'm absolutely head-over-heels for him. But one thing has got in between us, he's been jealous of my one friend, Alex.
Alex and I have known each other for a few years, but have just started talking recently. At first, he was very flirty and would say things like "You deserve better than what you get" when I'd have fights with my boyfriend, or if I was having a bad day. And.. I told my boyfriend about it and what not, and of course he got upset. Don't get me wrong, I understand that.
So, I told Alex to back off and that I was sick of his flirting, and he hasn't done it since. He even messaged my boyfriend and told him that he hopes we stay together for a long time and stuff. Alex supports me a lot, with my writing and my problems. He's as sensitive as I am, and I think of him as a good friend, nothing more.
Well, he's coming back to town. I haven't actually seen him in a year. My boyfriend is upset about me hanging out with him, although he said I can. But now.. I feel like if I do go, I'd be upsetting him, and I'd feel guilty about it.
Any Advice on this situation? D: (link)
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Maybe invite your boyfriend to come along so he wont feel like you are leaving him behind..they might kick it off as good friends...but personally if he doesnt want to go, i say if you really feel its right for you to hang out with him then do so. but then dont get mad wen your bf hangs out with his female friends..it all depends if you are willing to sacrifie not hanging out with alex, and making your bf happy or vice versa.
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i'm 18 years old and i have a lisp, not the kind you usually hear but the kind when you talk and sh and ch sound different, and people always make fun of me. i've never had a boyfriend and i think that it's horrible, i always feel like i want to die because no guys like me. i don't think i'm ugly lots of people tell me i'm pretty some even say i'm beautiful and i do have some very good friends. but why don't guys like me?? i just don't know what is wrong with me besides my lisp. (link)
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theres always that special somebody for someone. theres noting to worry about you dont wanna be stressing anyways with guys..live your life go out, be yourself, && i can garanteed that a guy would start talking to you. **beauty captures the eyes, but personality captures the heart** that is ofcourse my favorite quote i live by it everyday.
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Im sorry for making this long but i would REALLY REALLY appreciate your help
Ok well im 17 and my girlfriend was 15. She broke up with me because she's to scared to lose me. She said when were together she feels like nothing can go wrong. But we don't get to see eachother as much as we want to and she starts missing me. She thinks alot and it always ends up ending what we have (its happened before). I love her but she says she wont be able to handle it when i leave for college. Which is only a couple of miles away, but we wont be seeing eachother at school. I tried to convince her that everything would be alright but she wont trust me. She said she wants to be friends so nothing will go wrong and she wont have to worry.
We see things very differently. She wants to be close friends and i dont. I see it as im looking at someone who i care about more then a friend but cant have. And she sees it as someone that she had a good relationship with.
I dont know what we are or what we are going to be. But i want us to be together, i want her to trust me. But i dont think thats going to happen. I dont know if this would change anything but she said that she's unhappy that i dont talk to her family alot.
My question is what do you think about this? What do you recommend that i do? And how is she feeling?
We broke up a couple of days ago and i think it was on the 3rd day that i agreed to being friends. Which i usually do after we break up. There's alot more to this question, ive been writing to vent. And i realized that she really doesnt love me. When we were together i was happy but it took us breaking up and me having the time to think about our relationship to see that.
Some of the reasons
. She would do stuff that would bother me even though they would bother her if i did them (such as talking to her ex which she's used as a excuse to breaking up with me)
. Push me to changing things about myself (being more talkative to other people, gaining more weight). I know it doesn't sound bad, but she said she wasn't happy with me not having those things.
I know she doesn't love me but i still miss her. Like i told you ive been writing alot. If she were to say she wanted to get back together do you think i should bring up my writings even if they might be hurtful? Or just forgive and try to forget? (link)
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love is good and sometime hurts. but if she love you and really care about you than no matter what she should give you her heart and trust you not to break it....shes young and doesnt know what she want...i think you should try to date someone with more experience with her because you seem like you know what you want..im 19 and my bf is 17, lucky him, & we been together for more than 4yrs becoz we both know what we want..you never know you can meet anyone.. good luck.
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hi i am 17 and my boyfriend and i have been going out for 1 year and i really love him i know he is the one for me. i have never been so sure but there has been girls that he has been talking about and girls that work at the store that he goes out of his way to go get something there. i am a very jelous person and i have this incredible heavy gut feeling that he is cheating on me what do i do? (link)
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next time ask to go to the store with him and see what he says, invite yourself anyways if he says no..If he does he might be hiding something, but still the right thing to do is look for signs and talk to him, tell him how you feel about him going to the store.usually when you have a heavy gut feeling is because something is up so get on it fast.
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Age:13
Gender:Female
So i like this guy and yes we do talk online sometimes. but at school we never talk coz i think were both too shy. he`s one year younger than me but were both in the same grade. My friend (who is friends with him) told me that he only goes out with girls because theyre "HOT". [and i also think that too sometimes]i really like him and all but i dont want to be with him. It seems like i dont know what that means but i also fantasize of being with him. I wonder if he asks me out, .. should i say yes or no? I think about him everyday and night. But im not obsessed. i Hope this doesnt sound confusing and i hope you can help. please&thank you. [: (link)
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get to know him abit more, maybe you would start to like him eventually go out with him. But dont rush anything if you feel like you dont wanna be with him then dont, but then again you dont know what you could be missing.
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hi there! sorry this is a bit long..
me and my boyfriend have been together for 8 months. recently we frequently have arguments. i love him so much, so it makes me sad that whenever we see each other we end up arguing about stuff. we both work and dont get to see each other everyday. my boyfriend has been especially busy with work. i really would love to see him every other day at least.. but when i call him at work he would sound annoyed like im just disturbing him. whenever we go out and have dinner.. he just seems more focused on the time.. kinda wants to leave early to have enough sleep for work the next day. he goes by a plan and a schedule and wants everything done "the right way" as planned. sometimes i feel like going out with me is added work for him. hope you could give me some advice on this, thanks! (link)
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he should always have time for you, but he might be really stressing out at work..So you have to really sit down and talk to him about how you feeling, thats the only way you know what is going on with him. He needs to totally be honest and open with you. I mean sounds like he have alot of things running through his head and is not open with you. get him to talk about how he is feeling and why he is rushing his time to go home and sleep early..He might be up to something, talk to him.
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18/f(me) 20/m (bf)
So I have a boyfriend who I have been with for about 2 years & 4 months. We don't go out much, but we see each other often. I know this is bad but I tend to lie about where I'm going to my bf and hear me out. My boyfriend doesn't have many friends and he doesn't go out much. He doesn't like me hanging out with guys and always complains if he goes along with me when I hang out with my friends. So I don't say theres guys there and I saw I'm at a girlfriends house. I feel bad but if I told the truth he'd flip. Also, he won't let me go to the club and I understand where hes coming from, but I offer him coming with me because if I were to go to the club it's not to get guys to hit on me and what not. I can't dance but I like to. Plus, theres other stuff to do there like pool,darts,tables to sit out and a lounge. Also, I wouldn;t dance with a guy, I would go with girlfriends or my bf. I see nothing wrong with this, but maybe thats just me. I don't know what to do anymore. And to top it off, I might be going to a college like an hour away from home and he'll be staying here. I don't know whether or not I should call it quits or take a break or just see what happens if I do go there and if it doesn't work out then break up. Any advice would be greatly appreciated :] (link)
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i can understand you you are young and want to have fun, go clubbing, chill with friends & guys and all that kinds of stuff. Being in a long relationship can kinda make you feel as if your tied down & married. Seems like to me that you are at that stage where you are growing up & wanna live your life. Almost every couple who has been together for such a long time, since they were a bit young tends to go through this stage in the relationship..At this point you really should take a break from your man. This would allow you to see if you really enjoy being by yourself or can live without your man. I hope he pretty much understands what a "break" not like a complete break up but just some time apart for you to clear your head. Remember that your man has probably already pass that stage and is just really to settle down without playing games and wants you all to himself, while you may wanna party and do you. So really take a little time apart to think about what you want in your life. He seems like a guy who really love you and wanna be with you forever. You dont really wanna keep lieing to him because in reality you are hurting him without him knowing, but you never know he can always find out the hard way and cause serious problem. so really think this over..(((trust me this happened to me before, i ended up staying with my man cause i realize that he was more important to me than anything and everyone else,,,4yrs && many more =)))) listen to your heart and not what by people tell you.. G00d luck
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I am inlove with the southwest dressing from mcdonalds, but i was wondering.. do they sell something similar to that.. like in the grocery store or something? :)
thanks for the help! (link)
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its called Newman's Own Southwest Dressing
click on the link type in your zipcode and search at your local store to buy it
http://www.newmansown.com/wheretobuy.aspx?iri_id=2066200427&prod_id=91
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I am a minor who is on medicaid
and I live near a clinic that knows I am on medicaid.
I am under 18
I was wondering if, I went to the clinic, would they give me a prescription for an emergency contraceptive, like plan b?
ALSO,
would my parents find out that I paid for it using medicaid?
or would it be confidential.
please, I have 3 days, I had sex last night. it's 3 am now. (link)
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you can buy those pills at your local pharmacy and noone will ever know you did. instead of going to the clinic..i guess if you tell them not to tell your parents they wont..but be on the safe side and purchase them at your local pharmacy
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i'm going away and i'm probablyyy going to get my period, just cause im that unlucky...i just started using tampons last month towards the end of my period but i've never been in water with them...im afraid its going to just leak everywhere and be really embarrasing. im using tampax pearl..i can also feel it up there...i thought i stuck it pretty far up there...it didn't necesarily hurt (only when i took it out) but i felt it. do i just have to get used to it? or are you absolutely not suppose to feel it? thankyouuu! (link)
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if you wear tampax pearl, thats the best..it would garanteed to stay protected, with no leak..make sure you insert the tampon correctly..you might feel it the first mintues you insert it but afterwards you wont feel a thing.
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my acne is sort of mild, and i wanted to know that if anyone who had pro-activ, if it is helpful? and should i buy it? (link)
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pro-acti is no good at all..try goin to the doctor and let them prescrible you cream for your acne...Different gel is good..
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