|
I want to know if he is cheating on me.
hi i am 17 and my boyfriend and i have been going out for 1 year and i really love him i know he is the one for me. i have never been so sure but there has been girls that he has been talking about and girls that work at the store that he goes out of his way to go get something there. i am a very jelous person and i have this incredible heavy gut feeling that he is cheating on me what do i do?
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
next time ask to go to the store with him and see what he says, invite yourself anyways if he says no..If he does he might be hiding something, but still the right thing to do is look for signs and talk to him, tell him how you feel about him going to the store.usually when you have a heavy gut feeling is because something is up so get on it fast.
]
I don't blame you for being worried if he is cheating exspecially seeing he is always around girls and talking to them. Personally I would be too
Look for the signs of cheating, If he is cheating and you ask him more than likely you will not get the correct answer.
1. Has he been less interested in you lately? Doesn't care about your interest and doesn't want to cuddle as much?
2. Does he shut off his phone at night or when you are around to advoid phone calls?
If you really want to get dirt on him question him and see if he hesitates, Look for nervousness, sweating etc. I'm not saying stalk the guy but maybe see what he is up too.
]
I understand where you are coming from. I think you should talk to him, dont accuse him, but just ask him. Have him reassure you that youre the only girl for him. If your suspision continues, then you should talk to one of the girls you think he has a connection with. My motto is trust until you cant be trusted. Meaning you should trust him, until you catch him doing something wrong and loose your trust.
Good luck!!!
]
Hmm..well i wouldnt accuse him of it right away.Is there any hardcore facts that you know of that could possibly point to him cheating? Id confront him and ask him if he been involved with other girls,and if he hesitates or studders if he says he didnt cheat on you then id think somethings up. I found a site that actually give 5 clues your boyfriend could be cheating and from what ive seen happen in my life they seem pretty accurate.
[Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
And if after you confront him it seems like hes really telling you the truth that he hasent cheated on you then jsut ask him why he seems different or distance to you lately.But hun if he's talking to hsi girlfriend about other girls and going out of his way to do things for girls other then his girlfriend id think something is up. Good Luck let me know how it goes!
♥ danielle
]
Ask him. Sure, he might lie to you, but going off of what other people say or "instinct" isn't 100% effective.
Communication with your boyfriend is the only way you're going to figure it out.
--Jack
(17/m)
]
More Questions: |