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Gender: Female
Location: LONDON
Occupation: student
Age: 20
MSN: katy21x@hotmail.com
Member Since: April 14, 2011
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i am having sex and i dont want my mother to know but she wants me to go for a test to make sure that i am not having sex what should i do before going for the sex test (link)
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before you go, i think you should just be honest with her tell her that your having sex, it may be hard but it's better than her npt trusting you at all.
be honest sweety :)
if your still too young then maybe shes concerned that you could end up pregnant she is your mother afterall.
if anything write back :)
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i wished it was like that! but now he hardly texts me but i see how it is. hes going to regret it later on. (link)
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he is cutie , just smile always lifes short
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yes she delete it. But im just going to let it be. What ever happens just happens. I cant force it :( (link)
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well shes s bitch sorry to say , aww :( dont be sad lifes so short to be upset sweetie . cheer up !
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thank you! well today i when to the girls profile and she delete it her account. I wonder why. I talked to my friend today and he told me just to drop him because if a guy really liked you he wouldn't be doing this in the first place :( (link)
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Why would she delete it ? she must be hiding something, yeah I agree with you friend but hunny its also your feelings to be honest. Dont be afraid to let go if its not making you happy any longer.
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how can you ask a guy for his number without making it seem like you're hitting on him? you just like talking to them and they are funny, but still kind of like them. i don't want to go up to one of them and be like can i have your cell phone number. also i don't even have a Facebook to communicate with them. i feel so out of touch with my school. (link)
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Hey sweetie, well if you know this guy long enough you can start a conversation and during that conversation you can ask 'oh hey i cant belive i dont have your cell phone number , do you mind giving it? only asking because i dont have facebook' something like that.. that wouldnt sound as if your hitting on him but sometimes its obvious in the way you react towards that person.
I think you should start using facebook its useful! And helps you communicate better with family or friends.
dont be shy at all , be sociable !
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Hello there :) well this is my problem. I have a boyfriend we been together for 4 years. on and off. Recently there has been this girl on his Facebook that likes his pictures and also he starts liking her statuses. Last night i was going through her page and saw a comment her friend post on one of her status. It said "oh look who liked this status Jake" I automatically knew she was talking about him because they call my boyfriend jake. There was another status were they were talking about him. he goes to party's with them and his brother. I'm confused because i been seeing this random things on Facebook so if they do this in Facebook imagine in parties. i think im just going to end up breaking up with him even if it hurts. I know it will get better with time :'( (link)
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Heyaa awww this is sad, but i know what you mean ive got a boyfriend to and in a relationship there is always someone who wants to come and ruin it all especially a female. Personally i dont think on & off relationships are good at all they make them seem weak , for that reason you might aswell end it.
But what i think is that if he actually truly feels something for you and if hes proved himself then you should trust him always. Hunny facebook just ruins things for relationships , it would be bad if your boyfriend started liking this girls pictures but if he aint then i dont know.
I dont think he is committed to this relationship not 100% because if he was he wouldnt be out partying alot, if he cared he would have the discreet to invite you as his girlfriend spend time together.
You need to talk to your boyfriend before making any sort of decisions you might regret later on, yes it does hurt but if something strange is going on you have to get up off your feet and talk to him like a woman :)
Dont be sad because of this of course it hurts , no one has the right to make you sad cheer up sweetie !
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I was raped by an ex that I still work with. Is there a way to tell someone so we can be separated but not be drug through a nasty confrontation with any of the people over me? I can't work with how it is now. I just want to be away from him, not have to tell everybody what happend.
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First of all that sounds horrible but the correct thing you had to do was to tell someone you trust (parents) what happened to you, this aint right . Rape is a serious matter we are talking about but it also depends of what sort of rape, if he threatened you to not say anything you shouldn't be scared at all you should go and inform your family or the police . However if you dont want to leave your work it shouldn't be you leaving anyway it should be him but that is not going to happen unless you take actions towards it.
I personally suggest you talk to someone you trust because it's going to make you feel better about yourself, don't be frightened sweetie if an ex done that he is a total idiot who doesn't deserve to be called a man.
I hope this helped :) if anything reply
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There's this guy & I really like him. We have talked before. The flirting & "I really like you & I hope we can date" kind of talking. Then he called everything off because I've dated a lot of guys in my past & because we barely knew each other. Then he dated his ex-girlfriend for about a month, then they broke up. & now we're talking again. I asked him why he did what he did & he said he doesn't know, but it was a mistake. I want us to be more than friends that make out & flirt. But I'm not sure if he does. I don't know what to do. (link)
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Urm i think your offering yourself too much to this guy, with all respect of course.. a guy likes a girl who is hard to get , to see that shes worth getting.
In all relationships us girls and boys want to make out and flirt but that is as time goes by , only time can tell if that would happen at its right moment.
Also i think he is right, if you barely know each other then there is no point in just rushing it and taking it fast? Get to know him more, show him that your a girl who has self respect who is to be valued not some trashy girl who wants fun cause then hes going to realise or notice that all you want is a 'good time' and thats not the way foward.
Maybe he is confused? he could like you, but maybe he just doesn't like the way you think? and when a guy finds out a girl has dated many guys it puts him off alot. Makes him think shes really easy? and gives her self to just anyone.
get to know him , and have more respect with yourself babe im sure its going to go better, also it can take time to go and like someone ? but just see how it goes. hope i helped :)
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im gay and my mother hates it and dont accept it but im about to graduate this year im a senior and im plannin on goin to college and im thinkn about goin natural so i can get dreads but my mother forbids it but wen i go off to college my mothers nt goin to b there to do my hair and i dont have a job so im nt and can pay to get my hair done in styles every week so wat yu thnk i should do?
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Well theres nothing wrong with being gay :)
and also there is nothing you can do to change that, if thats your sexuality well why be something your not?
Your mother should love you the way you are, she has a point no mother would like if their son or daughter had a different sexuality but its not your fault neither. Try and have a chat with her , like a man ! dont coward out.
erm im a bit confused with the hair to be real?
what do you mean?
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Ok. So at school, not a lot of guys liek me or notice me at all. Can anyone please give me some advice on how to get guys to notice me and like me and eventually ask me out? (link)
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Okay, so i see where your coming from .. dont hesitate things , first of all notice that your a lovely girl and just cause no one in your school notices you dont mean your not worth it.
There are millions of guys out there that must be dying to be with you, however always try and be yourself ... if you want guys to notice you make new friends? with males of course. But don't show them what your looking for , that way one of them must notice you even if they don't ask you out you could end up having a really nice friendship with them.
don't try and follow them other girls out there, be unique - show them who you really are.
be more sociable :)
good luckkK !! xx
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ok i like these 3 guys and i dont know for sure if they like me or not. one of them has a girlfriends and the other 2 dont. like any other middle school girl i keep my love for them a big secret. my question is how to make sure i know that they like me or not. (link)
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first of all, i know you like all of them but its better off with out them.
second of all dont try and seem to desperate to talk to them just to find out if they like you, if one of the other 2 did like you it would be kind of obvious right? plus you got to see what sort of chemistry or connection you both have :)
see if they respect you as the woman you are, be the girl a guy wants , not the girl who is desperate to look for a guy.
also if one of them two do like you play hard to get ;) its always the best .
&& be confident of yourself !
good luckk :)
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Hey there. Well my boyfriend is always super nervous whenever i dont text him back and whatnot. I tell him not to be but it persists.
Im 16 and female
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he is very insecure, maybe he cares alot about you but i think its going to get to the point where your not going to be able to take it anymore.
you need your own space aswell , he cant be up in your stuff all day , a text is fine but if hes worried cause you dont text him back to each text thats an issue. you should try and talk to him :)
im sure that would help (:
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I love this boy I loved him for about 11 months hes cute and nice though and my dad says I can't date him.Why? FYI:IM 11!! about to go to middle school!! SOS!! :[ (link)
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Urm, well i see where he is coming from you are 11 only but my first boyfriend i was like around 12 ... i kept it a secret from my family until i started to date another guy around when i turned 14.
Your dad could be trying to protect you may be the reason because your still a young girl not a teenager yet and hes a man , so he knows how male boys are even if they are the same age as you.
But you do have to try and talk to him tell him you like him alot , because honestly your quite young to say you love this boy? i'm just saying/
Have to convince your dad , also if this boy really liked you aswell he would talk to your dad tell him what his intentions are with his daughter, first of all it's your taste in guys nothing wrong with red heads .. tell him what you feel for this boy but dont pressure him some dads are really hard to convince..
Dont give up ! and dont end up doing something stupidd babe.
Good luckkk :)
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So i really like this guy alot, were not going out but i wanna kiss him, everyone is trying to get us to go out, so one of my friends (who is his to apperantly) told me that i should kiss him once then walk away, and that he will want to kiss me next time, but that i have to tell him that we cant kiss because were not going out, and that when i kissed him its cuz i couldnt risist, so here is my question should i do it? is it fair that i kissed him and i wont let him kiss me? please help im 13 hes 13 to and im really greatful for your answers (link)
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No you shouldn't , its always better when the guy makes the first move feels more special and i'm telling you this cause when i was your age i wanted to kiss someone so bad but i didn't wanna look desperate it's not a good look on a girl if she goes chasing a guy just for a kiss.
If he likes you he would take you out on a date , and when the moment is right you both will kiss.
your really young , you friends dont even know what they are saying !
good things come to those who wait just be patient :)
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im a girl, bi, sophmore
so i met this girl freshmen year we became really close and we ended up together (gf&gf). she then broke up with me during the summer. i loved this girl to death! everything i do and everything i think about is her!
there is not one day i go without thinking about her.she ignores me alot now and it hurts me alot. everytime she does something like that to me i end up crying most of the night cause of her. i would do anything to get her back. what should i do?? (link)
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If she loved you she would come back , if she doesn't you know the reason why she never made it into your future. You sound like a nice girl love , dont stress over someone who hurts you they ain't worth it.
I know you love her but when you think about all the things the person does to hurt you inside makes you dislike them.. i don't think she deserves you babe, your really young i bet loads of girls would want you . And i know you want her but you got to think about this , while she is out there having fun ... she couldn't care less , if she cared about your feelings she wouldnt have done anything like that. You should enjoy yourself and have fun babe :) good luck and always smile smile smile life is too short to be down :) xxxxx
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She came all the way from louisville,KY and don't know how to present her my gift!! :( SOS!!!! (link)
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thats sweet, but shes your grandma im sure she would love anything you would give to her :)
don't be scared , one day she wont be there so enjoy it while you can !
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Hi. I am a young teen. Well this is not a crisis but I have this thing that has been bothering me for years now. Okay, firstly I am obsessed with music. Since I was 10-11 years old. Everyone loves music, who doesn't! ;) But for me, its different. I've been writing poetry and short stories since I was 8 years old. I cant explain it but music is a part of who I am. I always have wanted to learn the guitar and some other instruments. My family is more intrested in my studies and me becoming a doctor etc. I would like to be a doctor too. Music as a job or future is unstable, unpredictable and not a good choice (i think) But no one understands how much I would like to concertrate on music. I feel embarrassed when I talk about learning instruments etc. We all dream of being on tv and we all want to do something with music. I want to pursue something in music. I love the message you can spread with music. Even if it is impossibe for me to do anything with this passion, I could make my own music and entertain family and friends. What should I do about this obsession?
Also I do not want to leave my mothers wish and my deep desire to be a doctor. Forming a band or something like that is something my family makes fun about so i dont talk about it. Also my friends think I live in some fantasy land cuz of this obsession and passion.They say that I should not spend time on this and concertrate on studiies, and that hobbies are useless (ones like mine) I have the passion, I have the desire, I dont think I am so bad in this category. What should I do? Leave this fantasy and just keep this obsession to a minimum in my heart?
I would gretaly oblige if you helped me out here (:
Music maniac :P :)
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I don't blame you at all , because i'm the same but with art and design i've always dreamt of being an artist from the age of 7... or a designer and i love it , without it im not me it describes me in every way and also it makes me express how i feel about myself.
You have a desire and passion and your family should be able to respect your decisions in everyway they should support you if you wanna do music in yourlife. Your studies are important to, shouldn't put that to one side neither hun.
Your mother wants you to be a doctor right? but ask yourself this are you happy with that? do you actually want to study to be a doctor?.. if you wanted that you would have chosen to do that from way back.
Since where all at a very young age we all have like an idea of what we want in life, i wasn't so sure and i'm 17 still at this point i don't know what i fully wanna be but what i'am concerned of is that i wanna do something that is based with art or design i absolutly love it. To be what you wanna be in life you have to put all your effort into this, just cause you love something its not an obssesion its part of who you are inside it comes within you.
Don't feel embaressed about what you dream it's narutal everyone has dreams ... so do i :) i wanna have my own company one day.
If i was you I would tell my parents that even though you know they want the best for you in life , they have to understand where you are coming from.. choose a particular category in which you wanna study music . I wouldn't give up that easily neither if i was you !
Your situation is sticky cause your unaware of what you want ... like to me i know you love music from what you told me but you also desire to be a doctor? give it some time to see what you want .. talk to someone who has the same interest as you , like for example myself i love art and design but i want to do modelling always been a desire to do that but i can't do it now until i have completed all my studies . Without good grades in life you won't get anywhere.
Good luck sweetie and i hope i helped ... im here if anything glad i could help !! :) xxxx
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I'm not sure but I'm thinking about having sex with my bf. But i don't want my parents to find out. What if I'm at the doctors and the ask if I'm sexually active and my parents are there for some weird reason. How do I keep them thinking tht I'm a virgin (link)
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erm well iv had sex and iv NEVER told my parents until my mum found out and im 17 , i lost my virginity at 14 yes it sounds wrong but like you get over it cause i dont regret it ever!
You dont need to go doctors sweetie , when the time comes for your parents to know you had sex well they would have to accept it , yes they would be dissapointed but at the end of thre day if you lose your virginity you cant take that back .. if your sexually active thats cool but also be sure who your having sex with dont have sex just cause you want fun and your horny. Do it because your in love and you trust that person 100% if not then there is something wrong with you. If your parents are strict with you and your mother decides to take you doctors shes excited LOL because i know she cares for you but there aint no need for that once its gone its gone and no one can do anything about it. Im glad its your boyfriend and not just any random guy :) GOOD LUCK BABE X
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I'm 19 years old male, and I have never even dated anyone. I'm too scared to ask a girl out, or even talk to them. Any advice? (link)
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Aww i find this so cute :)
I do understand where your coming from especially because your a male , and really now a days everyone wants to find 'their half' but to bo honest you shouldn't chase girls .. if you really attracted somneone they would also make a move to you.
Sometimes its better to have a chat with someone your really close with a best friend or mum or dad especially dad because they have been though more things in life.
I think you should be more confident with who you are , be more man about it and more secure of your words ... the more natural you are the more beautiful your personality would seem to someone :) GOOD LUCK !! XX
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is it good for a thirteen year old to have a job? (link)
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personally i think your too young to have a job, its legal by the time your 16 however even at that age its not that easy to get a job..
I think you should speak to someone in your family dad or mum to see if they know anyone who has a buisness but honestly you shouldnt be stressing about a job at this age.
Theres gonna come a time and moment for you to want a job , because your actually gonna need it.
think about it ;)
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