Okay,13 female
so my boyfriend just moved to indiana bc his dad works there and i just figured out that another guy likes me. Dont think im a ho or a slut or anything like that bc i was gunna break up with him anyway bc i cant do a long distance relationship i tried to call my current boyfriend and tell him i cant date him any more but i couldnt get a hold of him! I really want to go out with this other guy bc we have a good history (when you answer my question ill tell you what happend) so can some one plzz help!!!!!!
Hey,
unfortunately, everyone can't handle a long distance relationship. It's a part of life, but no reason to really beat up on yourself. Your current boyfriend is going to have to understand, but make sure to be conscience of his feelings when you break the news to him. Don't mention the other guy or anything, just tell him you can't do the long-distance thing, and you feel you guys should go your own ways. As far as the other guy, hey if you like him, you like him...I wouldn't suggest rushing right into another relationship, but there's no harm in going out. Hope I helped =)
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My parents invited me to go with them this weekend to laughlin, as a thank you for watching there dogs when they go out of town. But I don't want to be a third wheel. They have already stated that there are things other than gambling there to do. But I know my parents, and they like to gamble.
Any advice will be greatfully excepted.
Thanks;
Confused
Hey,
more than likely, your parents would really enjoy your company, so I definitely say go. However, maybe you all should make an agreement before going, just to assure your portion of the enjoyment. You could ask them to take this one trip and not gamble at all?? Or maybe to just promise they won't gamble on certain nights, or before/after a certain time? Stress to them that if you go along, you want to spend time with them, doing what you all like to do. I say your best option is setting limits on their gambling, that way they'll have their fun, but they won't let gambling dominate the enitre trip as a whole. Hope I helped =)
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Is it normal to not get sparks or feel anything at all when I kiss my boyfriend? When we first kissed I felt something but that was it. Anyone else know what I mean??
It's very normal. The first kiss is new and more exciting, but afterwards it's all about love. As long as you know you feel honest feelings for him in your heart, don't sweat the kisses.
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18f. This may be long, but bare with me! I am quite confused..
So last friday me and a friend were on a walk since we were at her parents friends house and we were bored. Well we walk past this kids house who has a pool and there were a bunch of hot guys out there and we werent familiar with the area so i asked them if they knew where this park we were looking for was. One of the guys, brad, instantly started talking to me and him and this other kid ben were flirting with me hardcore. Well i find out that my friend tried talking to brad on facebook then creepily got his number and texted him (so embarassed about that) and brad recognized my friend and said something. Well then we left and i asked my friend how she knew him, and then thats when she told me all that. So then about 30min after we leave, she texts brad saying something like: i don't want to bug you but i don't want you or your friends to think i'm a creep, i just thought you were hot. well then he replies haha no its okay, but your friend was sexy! i was like oh really he thinks that? :) so then she texts him a lil more and then he had to go but he was like make sure linds (me) texts me, i better get a text from her! so later that night i text him saying hey its linds:) and he says whats up babe? and then i reply, and then no response from him?? well then the next night he ends up texting my friend asking if me and her were partying that night and my friend said no because she was at her cabin.
Well i'm a little upset, i am a confused as to why he texted her when he was pretty creeped out by her, and he was the one bugging her to have me text him?? And we all have mutual friends, so it's not like hes just a random guy i know nothing about. But now my friend feels as though she can rub it in my face that he texted her, and i'm just like okaaay?? I don't know whats up with brad ..he was so into me saying i was sexy, he told my friend to have me text him ..then i text him and he stops talking? then he texts my friend, not me, the next night asking if we were partying? I don't get it..
Hey,
going off of what I read, it doesn't seem like he has an interest in your friend. His intrest is in you! Between Facebook, meeting in person, and having her number, he had ample chances to try to hook up with her if he had wanted to, but he didn't. When you came into the picture, however, he was allllll about getting in touch with you, and having you come around. Even when he texted her about the party, he was curious to know if YOU were coming to the party with her. Your friend can't really rub a text in your face when he's made it clear that he wants to get to know you better, even though your friend would probably prefer it be her. As far as him not responding to your text that night, who knows... Phone's don't always act right, maybe he has other stuff going on outside of trying to talk to you, but that's another story. Situation at hand says, he definitely has an eye for you, so if that's what you wanted, you're in luck girl! Hope I helped =)
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Im 18, going to college in a month. My brother is already away at college, my parents have been married for 25 years. i know my dad is cheating. I have told my brother, but i havent told my mom because there is a very strong sense in me that my dad will kill himself or hurt himself if someone were to find out.. which happened to my best friends dad. It doesnt matter what other people say, in my head im 150% that it'd happen. because i know hes cheating and have to watch him lie to me and my mom every day, i have no trust from him. Our relationship was great before, we were with together every day. now, were never together unless its a family function, and we dont even talk. i know hes lying to me, and everytime he does i wanna snap on him and just scream out all my anger and hurt but i cant. It kills my heart deeply that im going away to college with no relationship with my dad.. i look foward to events like getting married, and him walking me down the isle and all that... and i dont see it, because were not even close at all. My mom doesnt know or sense anything cause she works nights, and me and my dad are never home during the day. ive gone to counseling.. and still there never found a solution so i stopped going.
I really need help. My trust for everyone in my life is gone, and i dont wanna lose something so important, my family or my relationship with my dad. Its the worst feeling in the world..
Hey,
I know this has got to be a really tough situation for you. A close friend of mine suspected the same thing of his father not long ago, and came to me for advice. Like I told him, you can't let what happens between your parents damage your relationship with them individually. Your mom may already sense what you sense for herself. You have to remember, your parents are a couple. Just like you and your significant other might, they'll have issues in their relationship (marriage) that they'll have to work out together, for themselves. Your dad is still your dad, and I'm sure he loves you very much. You said the two of you used to be very close, so I'm sure he's a good father. Don't let your relationship with your dad wither away just because he makes mistakes. He's a man, he's a human. Also, don't distance yourself from other potentially productive relationships just because of this situation. Everybody is not the same. Just learn from his mistakes and work on re-buliding you guys' relationship as father and daughter. Hope I helped =)
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Okay sooooooo omg I was with my boy toy and he told me that me and his dick should kisss what do I do? He is really hott
Hey,
ummmm your "boy toy"...Are you guys in an actual relationship? If so, do you feel comfortable giving oral sex? If you guys aren't actually together, I wouldn't do that, especially if you have to think about it. You never know how many other girls call him their "boy toy", or what sexually transmitted diseases they might have. I'd be very careful with my body as a whole, especially my mouth! Hope I helped =)
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Iv been having this issue with my wife for a long time where her needs come first and my needs come last or sometimes not at all .I think she wants to whear the pants in the family but God forbid that won't ever happen but when I talked to her in a respectable way it always ends up in a argument and then she has wrong feelings I don't want to come across as I'm controling I just want to be equal when she wants something you better belive she'll. Get it and no hesatation about it eather but on the other hand when I need something she has this attitude like why do you need this for . I don't question her when she dicides she wants something but it you better belive it will get thrown in my face if ido go get something my money goes to the bank just like hers I help pay the bills just like she does and I make sure the bills get paid first anyways sex with her is hardly ever id say the last time was probably a year ago she has no intrest I think she might be cheating but no proof I no somethings got to give any sugestions
Hey,
You and your wife probably need to seek professional marriage counselors, they can help improve the weak areas in your marriage by a long shot! Personally, I don't think it's fair at all for a relationship to be completely one-sided. It is very selfish of your wife to make all the decisions, and disregard your input. Normally, I would tell you to try to talk it out with her, but since you say that doesn't tend to work, I'd suggest you try to bring a professional, or perhaps even a wise respectable family member into the picture to help open her eyes. As far as the sex life, that might need professional help for sure, family members can only help you to a certain extent. In order to strengthen your marriage as soon as possible, before things get worse, find out where you can find someone who does legit and meaningful counseling. Hope I helped =)
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do u lose your virginity if you use a tampon?
Hey,
tampons can't take away your virginity, though they may "pop your cherry". Until you've had sexual intercourse, you're still a virgin, by all means. Hope I helped =)
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Okay, so I'm desperate for someone's opinion right now. I recently, on July 12, had sexual contact with someone who I really shouldn't have. If I were to get pregnant, the world might explode and my partner and I would be exiled from our families.
So, here's what happened: we did everything, except we did not have sex. However, there was a point where he was on top of me and (I was wearing yoga pants and underwear,) but he pushed himself right into my vagina. I mean, he didn't go inside me, but he was pretty close to it. He might have a little bit, but not much at all. He was attempting to grind into me since we couldn't actually have sex. (He had no condom with him.) And when this happened, it freaked me out a little, so after like thirty seconds or so, I changed positions with him so that he was not doing that. To be honest, I didn't think much of it at all, until now, July 23. About two nights ago, I got a major head ache and some side cramps. The next day, today, I had intense side pains and just a little bit of a head ache when I woke up in the morning. My back hurt really bad, so I took an Aleve. It seemed to somewhat work. Later tonight, I had very minor side pains and lower abdomenal cramps. However, about two or three hours ago, I noticed my body temperature felt hot, but I was cold. I took my temp and got a response of 100. So I definitely had a fever. I haven't taken anything for it. I typed my symptoms into google and got "early pregnancy symptoms." So, of course, I began freaking out and remembered that night where I had sexual contact.
Basically, what I am asking is, do you think I am pregnant. Remember, I was wearing yoga pants.
Should I buy a pregnancy test, or am I freaking out for nothing. Please, please help me. Because if I am pregnant, some serious shit could go down and everyone's lives will be fucked up.
I'm sorry if I sound stupid. I just need someone to calm me down. Just don't lie to me. I'm hoping I am just catching a virus or something.
Thank you in advance!
Hey,
I highly doubt you're pregnant, but it's perfectly natural to be concerned. If your period is a bit later than normal, you might want to pick up a pregnancy test for clarity, but more than likely you're no where near pregnant, and all of your symptoms say you're catching a cold, flu etc.... Hope I helped =)
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Is it bad or umhealthy to wear your bra in bed? Is it a bad habit to get into, or is it okay?
Hey,
people have many different opinions on this question, but it's actually clinically proven that it is okay to wear a bra to bed. During pregnancy and cycles, your breasts may become sensitive, and it would even help to wear a bra to bed for support and relief, as long as it's not too tight. Hope I helped =)
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It's been two months since my boyfriend and I broke up but I'm still hurting. He treated me like shit while we were dating, hurt me so many ways, and yet when I got to bed every night the only thing I can think about was the way he held me and kissed me and I miss being loved like that. He didn't love me for me, he admitted that, but we had such a physical connection that that's what has hurt so much to lose. He pressured me into going farther than I wanted to physically and it made me sooo attached to him that when he cut it off, it made it twenty times harder than it should have because I know I was too young to deal with those kind of physical connections. We dated for seven months, he was sixteen and I was fourteen, but I'm fifteen now. I just don't know what to do. I'm sick of missing someone who didn't care about me. I just want to be held by him again, but only by him and I don't know why... Please some one help, I hate this hurt.
Hey,
Please please please don't yearn for a relationship with a guy that makes it clear to you that he's only looking for sex. You would be selling yourself sooooo short! There are so many other guys out there that you could date. Spend more time with family and friends, and date other people. This will help you get your mind off of the ex-boyfriend, for sure, and eventually, you'll find someone that you can count on to hold you, and show you affection, and you won't have to go further than you want to before you're ready. Whenever the hurtful thoughts hit you, get around someone/people who can help you take your mind off of them. Hope I helped =)
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i am a virgin point blank and i plan to stay that way for a long time. the other day some guy really wanted to have sex with me but i refused. he ended up managing to get all my clothes off but still nothing happened. i guess he was mad abd i was just uncomfortably laying next to him... he statred jerking off and his *** splattered everywhere. i remember it hitting my arm and thy but idk if it splattered on my...or where else. immediatdaly got up wiped it off. got dressed a and nd left... im a very paranoid person and need to know... do u think im pregnant???
Hey,
I highly, highly, highly doubt you're pregnant. More than likely, if semen would've splattered on your ......, you would've noticed it, and even still it would've had to do some traveling. Sperm normally dies within a few seconds after it touches surface skin (air) anyway. If you're really worried, you could take a pregnancy test, but they can only detect reliable results around the time you'd expect your period. Don't worry though, you're pretty much in the clear =)
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I gave my boyfriend head for the first time almost 3 weeks ago and every single time we get together he wants me to do it again. He will whine and beg and even do the pout face about it and make me feel really guilty. We haven't had sex yet but this is really bugging me. How do I just tell him no but that I do love him or that I want to hang out without doing this to him every time? I just want a real relationship and not be used for sex. I wish I never did this! :(
Hey,
you should never have to feel pressured into doing anything. If your boyfriend really loves and respects you, he will be alright if you tell him plain one time "I don't feel like I should have to do this everytime we hang out, sometimes I just want quality time, no strings attatched". If you really want to see where his heart is, tell him you're finished giving head altogether for a *significant* amount of time. If he acts as if thet's the end of you guys' relationship, then so be it. I know that can be the hard route to take sometimes, but in reality, he doesn't deserve you if he doesn't respect you physically, mentally, and emotionally. As far as the guilt feeling, everybody makes mistakes, everybody has made some not so good choices. Life goes on, you live and you learn. Don't beat up on yourselrf, just let the situation teach you. Hope I helped =)
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Well its a long story..me and my relationship with my boyfriend. To me its like a romeo and juliet type of thing. His grandmother doesn't understand my boy friend, at all she doesnt want him to date me. She thinks im trashy? When I'm far from it :,( She was apparently stalking my fb page and my friends, they acutally went as far as to creat an account as lous cousin Cody..but it was really his aunt trying to figure things out about us. So we have to hide were dating, its so stressing and the thought of not being able to call him if I NEED him just scares me. He calls me every chance he gets behind her back, my boy friends the most amazing guy I have ever been with and I miss him so bad..He knows this to, he tells me just to keep strong and to think that we will see each other soon..*I'm going into highschool this year* I'm so stressed..and so depressed right now..i should be happy my birthdays coming up..:/ I've been threw the ringer with this guy, with people starting stuff between us, All i know is that I love my boy friend..and I want to stay strong for him, but I don't know if I have enough courage? What should I do?
14 1/2 f
Hey,
You and your boyfriend really sound like you have something special. Often times parents/grand-parents just feel like no one is good enough for their child/grand-child. You shouldn't take his grand-mother's actions to heart. Continue to be yourself and stand by your boyfriend (This can't be an easy situation for him either, but he's enduring). Eventually, things will get better, and his family will see you for who you truly are. Plus, what will really matter to them in the long run is if your love for him is sincere, and if he's really happy with you. As long as that is clear to them, you all will be okay. You have a good boyfriend. He plans to be with you regardless to what his grand-mother thinks because he knows you and wants you! Just remember to think positive! =)
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