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Iv been having this issue with my wife for a long time where her needs come first and my needs come last or sometimes not at all .I think she wants to whear the pants in the family but God forbid that won't ever happen but when I talked to her in a respectable way it always ends up in a argument and then she has wrong feelings I don't want to come across as I'm controling I just want to be equal when she wants something you better belive she'll. Get it and no hesatation about it eather but on the other hand when I need something she has this attitude like why do you need this for . I don't question her when she dicides she wants something but it you better belive it will get thrown in my face if ido go get something my money goes to the bank just like hers I help pay the bills just like she does and I make sure the bills get paid first anyways sex with her is hardly ever id say the last time was probably a year ago she has no intrest I think she might be cheating but no proof I no somethings got to give any sugestions
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Get your butt into therapy. If your wife will consent to going, take her too, but if she wont, just go yourself.
You need more consistent, long-term help, then we can offer on this site. Old behaviors needs to change, both yours and hers, if this marriage is going to survive. Get some professional guidance with that change.
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Hey,
You and your wife probably need to seek professional marriage counselors, they can help improve the weak areas in your marriage by a long shot! Personally, I don't think it's fair at all for a relationship to be completely one-sided. It is very selfish of your wife to make all the decisions, and disregard your input. Normally, I would tell you to try to talk it out with her, but since you say that doesn't tend to work, I'd suggest you try to bring a professional, or perhaps even a wise respectable family member into the picture to help open her eyes. As far as the sex life, that might need professional help for sure, family members can only help you to a certain extent. In order to strengthen your marriage as soon as possible, before things get worse, find out where you can find someone who does legit and meaningful counseling. Hope I helped =)
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