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Question Posted Saturday July 24 2010, 12:58 pm

i am a virgin point blank and i plan to stay that way for a long time. the other day some guy really wanted to have sex with me but i refused. he ended up managing to get all my clothes off but still nothing happened. i guess he was mad abd i was just uncomfortably laying next to him... he statred jerking off and his *** splattered everywhere. i remember it hitting my arm and thy but idk if it splattered on my...or where else. immediatdaly got up wiped it off. got dressed a and nd left... im a very paranoid person and need to know... do u think im pregnant???

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Peeps answered Sunday July 25 2010, 12:25 am:
Sperm, cum, semen, jizz...whatever you want to call it...does NOT die when it hits air. It doesn't die 20 seconds after it hits air. It doesn't die 2 minutes after it hits air. I don't know why people continue to post myths like that so PLEASE do not listen to that nonsense.

I can prove it:

What's inside of your vagina right this very minute? Your natural fluids. Skin cells from your vaginal canal. And air. OMG! How can sperm survive?!

If you're thinking: Well, the inside of the vagina is warm. That must be the difference. Then how can you explain LIVE SPERM being found inside of a DEAD PERSON?

Sperm die when it hits air about the same time it takes for it to DRY UP and EVAPORATE.

It's highly unlikely that you are pregnant because the sperm did not get onto your vagina. If the only way ANY got on you in the first place was because a penis was beside you and a little bit splashed on your arm then it's likely none splashed between your legs.

Do I think you're pregnant? Probably not.

Virgin or not, sperm can travel into your vagina if it is put on the outer bits. NOT A MYTH. It's very true. They swim in fluid. If there is enough fluid on your skin then you can bet your money they're swimming on you. If there is enough fluid on your vagina entrance and it lands right there then you can bet your cash they're going to swim into the nice, warm comfort of your vagina. You don't need to have any sort of "insertion" of the penis into you to be at risk for a pregnancy if you participate in activities like this sort of thing. If it did happen to land just right onto your vaginal opening then you could very well become impregnated. In this case, you're probably fairly safe. Any sexual activity has risks though so I wouldn't go as far as to say you're 100% safe from being pregnant.

If your period misses for more than 1 week then purchase a home pregnancy test from the store and give it a try. A positive will mean you are definitely pregnant. No doubts about it.

If you want to stay a virgin then keep your freaking clothes on. Seriously. It doesn't make any sense whatsoever to take ANY part of your clothing off in front of a boy if you want to stay sexually pure. Keep the clothes on and you won't run into this scare again. Use your brain and you won't get into such sticky situations.

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LadyDesi112 answered Saturday July 24 2010, 11:41 pm:
Hey,
I highly, highly, highly doubt you're pregnant. More than likely, if semen would've splattered on your ......, you would've noticed it, and even still it would've had to do some traveling. Sperm normally dies within a few seconds after it touches surface skin (air) anyway. If you're really worried, you could take a pregnancy test, but they can only detect reliable results around the time you'd expect your period. Don't worry though, you're pretty much in the clear =)

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askingalexandria answered Saturday July 24 2010, 11:23 pm:
No, you're not pregnant. I'm a very paranoid person about things too, but sperm cannot live very long when it comes into contact with air. I believe it dies within a view seconds of being outside of the ..... as you would say. So there is no need to worry, YOU'RE NOT PREGNANT (:

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CuteyKitty123 answered Saturday July 24 2010, 6:35 pm:
No i personal dont think you are pregnant because his penis needs to inject right in to your vagina.

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chelseamims answered Saturday July 24 2010, 5:03 pm:
no if his ...... didnt go into ur..... then you may not be prego if you think u r just go get a prego test hope this helped

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vikkikimberly answered Saturday July 24 2010, 4:42 pm:
no. their is a myth that if it touches down there whilst wet from your own wetness that itcan swim in.. but even then its still a VERY low possiblity.
his cum really has to be Inside of you to actually do anything
so i really doubt that you are pregnant.

to settle your mind though i would think about buying apregnancy test. or just sit it out till your next period. (if its over four weeks go and see a doctor/buy the test). as someone that is exually active (altho still a virgin like you) i can relate to you situation, its scary, i know. but dont worry.

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OhMyLucyDarling answered Saturday July 24 2010, 2:51 pm:
No, Very unlikely.

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