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I'm the leader of a VERY important clique (its the best clique in the school) anyway one of the people in it walked away to join a dif. clique I dont want her back I need to find a new clique person to replace her how do I find a new person? (link)
LMAO wow if your clique was really as great as you say you would have already replaced that person because ''important'' cliques have girls waitin to join


im in the 8th grade and there is this really sexy beyond sexy guy i like but hes in the 6th grade. im pretty short and hes taller then me so thats good. what i want to know is it okay to date someone that young?i know people say age doesnt matter but give your honest opinion! (link)
WELL..! i have a friend who is in the 8 and her boyfriend is the 6th but he is relle cute and yeah we tease her about it but its just us messin around with her she knows that its not serious we know she relle likes him and he treats her good so its not a really big issue if you really like him then go for it as long as he treats you rite


helloo :]]
bear with me, i know everyone's
question on here is like this but eh.
well, me and my boyfriend have been
going out for about 10 months but our
relationship slowly started going
downhill about 2 months ago. we rarely
see eachother or talk to eachother. i
always have to txt him or call him. he
never calls me or txts me anymore and it
just doesnt seem like he's putting effort
into this relationship. i wanna start over
with him but he's put me through so confusion and hurt. im just wondering what your
opinion is on all of thiss. thanks :] (link)
Well guys are very weird they have a very weird but obvious way of showing that they dont wanna be with someone. It sounds to methat he is loosing interest in the relationship. My guess is that you should let him go if he has quit putting effort but before you break up with him atleast try to talk to him after a couple of weeks if nothing changes let it go. You dont deserve for someone to treat you like that.


okay, so theres this guy at my school who i REALLLY like.... but then he found out i liked him thru some of my friends... I was really worried that he wouldnt see me the same way (u know what I mean? like evrytime we talked i wouldnt want him to think, "oh, its cuz she likes me" or something.) but he doesnt treat me different, he kinda treats me... better. He's in almost all of my classes and we talk all the time. He sits at my lunch table with me and he always sits next to me. He usually walks me out of school, even if he has to go back inside, and... he tickles/pokes my ALL the time! But now I'm not sure if he really likes me, or if he's just being nice because he knows i like him... What do you think???
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Guys arent smart enough to act like that if he didnt like you. Maybe he is just waiting for you to make the first move but im pretty sure he is sending u the signs


I'm 13 & so is my boyfriend Logan*. Were both in 8th grade except we go to different schools. We hangout alot & stuff but here's the thing. He has this ex-girlfriend named Kelsey and everytime we're somewhere and she's there too he always trys to like hide from her & not be seen with me and he says it's because his brother still dates her older cousin and he doesn't want to make things weird for him. But I'm not sure. The other night we were at a basketball game together and he did EVERYTHING he could not to let her see us. I just don't understand it. And he has another ex-girlfriend named Blair that he goes to school with and he ALWAYS talks about her to me. Like "let me tell you what Blair did today at school.." or "you'll never believe what Blair said today.." or "oh my god it was so funny today cause Blair.." and just all kinds of stuff like that. I'm not sure what to do. And I want to say something to him because I DON'T like listening to stuff about them at all but I don't want it to seem like I'm mad even though I kinda am. Ughh. I'm just confused. Someone hellpppppp. (link)
TELL HIM!!!!!!!!! you just needa come rite out and say SHUT UP! tell him you dont wanna hear bout otha girls and talk to him about how you feel but alot of 8th grade guys are immature so it could just be that


Love at 16...?
What do you guys think? Is it possible? Or is it just a bunch of teen emotions? (link)
POSSiBlE VERYY POSSiBlE ClASSiC YOUNG lOVE =]


as quick as i can... I want to go out with a boy in my class but i cant get the corage to ask him out. i dont even knwo how i should ask him out. and i dont even know if he likes me. should i go for it? how? HELP (link)
I dont think you should ask him out. Do a little research get your friend to talk to him or something like dat play a little hard to get and wait for him to ask you out. TRUST ME!


my cousin is having a valentines day dance and i want my boyfriend to come with me but the problem is is that iam white and my boyfriend is black and everybody in my family is racist and iam afraid if i invite my boyfriend to the dance my family won't approve and be mean and say horrible things to him and me like they did to my mom when she married my stepdad becouse he wa black but i really want him to come becouse i don't get to see him outside of school what should i do? (link)
I think that your family needs to learn to accept the fact that you have your own opinion and your own life. My dads side of the family is the same way i didnt really know know my dad until i was around 10 and by then my mom had already raised me a totally different way then what he wanted and eventually he had to accept that.


alright this might be lnog but here it goes..
so ive known this guy, call him Jack since 4th grade
well we started going out voer the summer
and i honestly fell in love.
like i cannot even describe in words how it felt when i was around him.
abut anways..
we went on adn off for a few months

then along came kyle,
whom im with now
and jack is with molly


thw thing is..
i really still love jack
and he said he'd always love me
but i dont know what to do?


help plz (link)
Well i think its always hard to be in another relationship when you have very strong feelings for someone else. And often times the other person you are in a relationship knows that your other feelings are there. I think you should talk to Jack about how you really feel and maybe even work things out again


the guy i like is really confusing me. I know he likes me back but he acts kind of weird.
like i'll IM him and he'll barely even talk but then like 2 days later he'll IM me and we talk for a while. I dont really see him in school alot becuz hes a grade above me and its a vocational school. Does it sound like hes just being shy? (link)
Guys for the most part are just naturally like that, its usually nothing personal. I think if you open up the conversation doors then you wont have to worry. He will start acting differently once you guys get a little more used to eachother and the way you two feel about eachother. Well i hoped i helped =]


My BFF's older brother (who just so happens to be a Senior) says he loves me alot. And i kind of like him too. So what I want to know is if it is cool to date your BFF's bro, or just say no?

He is like 4-5 years older than me.

Much Hearts,
DaAdvicePerson (link)
OMG! I Have been there and done that, it causes alot of drama between you and your friend, trust me its not the best idea the age thing isnt a big thing but the friend thing is. Chances are that if you do go out with him then your friend will be mad at you and she will start complaining to her brother and that is going to cause friction between you and your boyfriend ! so dat big bro bro is a big no no


ok so there is this guy that i have dated for a long time and we ended up breaking up but the thing is i still love him
he has a new girlfriend and everything
and i dont know what to do
i have a boyfriend too but idk if im happy with him
i just hate being alone!
PLEASE HELP (link)
Things happen for a reason and chances are that guy wqas a jerk anyways Im pretty sure you deserve better and you will get better =] but you cant hold on to your feelings for your ex and if your not happy with your current boyfriend leave him play the field for a little bit and find a guy who makes you happy


I am very interested in learning about how to talk to boys in person. i used to be very good but i became shy since then and lost that ability. i can talk to them but i sound so stupid and it is annoying. I dont knwo what to talk abotu with them. Please i would like to knwo what subjects or things to talk about with them. and please dont say your interests because i dont knwo what or how to do that. (link)
I think the thing is a lot of girls get to worried about what they say around guys like there is certain stuff but for the most part guys just like to be around girls who are themselves and dont try to hard. Just have confidence and dont hold back, have fun.


the topic was what i was asking about how to make a girl laugh. (link)
Well if you want to make a girl laugh it should come naturally. Find out the types of things that make her laugh, Make fun of some stuff different girls like different things and sence i dont kno which specific girl you are talking about i cant give you direct advice sorry
hope i helped


today is tuesday and we have a school dance on friday its a sweethearts dance and the guy i was supose to go with i have been going with him since october and from what i heard he moved...
to houston...
without telling me....
should i call him ...?
i mean ...
help please i have to go he's all i think about and now he gone im acting as if he's dead and all he did is move what should i do?.?.?.
:-( :-( ;-( (link)
UMM. DEF! need to call him.


not using compliments and stories. can someone help (link)
i could help u but with what?


The other day I had to step out of my dorm room to ask a question to someone but my hair was in really terrible shape so I coudn't go out there looking like that. So I put on my shower cap to go out because I lost my headscarf. But, the thing was my shower cap smelled and once I walked down the hall I could smell it and it was a strong enough odor for others to smell I believe. I was near about 3 people one girl was standing on the other side of the desk another girl was sitting at the desk I was standing at but she was sitting down and another was standing on my opposite side but she was facing the opposing direction of me. Do you think anyone else smelled it and if so how do you think that will effect me and people I comunicate with on a daily basis? (link)
Its probably gonna end up being a joke. And your probably gonna look back and laugh about it, i doubt it will effect you on a daily basis ppl will get ova it eventually


I'm always unnoticed, no matter what group I'm in. My friends in my group now sometimes don't even realize I'm there, and i really feel like they dont care about me or dont want to hang out with me. How can i be noticed, and make people smile, and just flat out like me? It seems like no one in my group thinks of me as a good friend besides maybe 2 people. It makes me really sad and i'm not confident or loud, but thats what i really want to be. How can i do that? How can i make people notice me? thanks.. (link)
You dont neccesarily have to be loud to have fun just make jokes. Have agood time without looking like you are trying too hard or anything. They are your friends im sure they love u and appreciate you. All you have to do is learn to shine in your own way. Make your own light and just incorporate yourself with the group invite them over or something.


how do you stop loving someone? (link)
To be honest you cant DO! nething to stop loving someone it has to happen on it's own. It takes time and you can not sit there and moarn over it. You have to continue your life get yourself back in the game Show him/her you dont need 'em in your life.


this may be long but i need your helpp please!!
my friend of one year, we became really close and we became a group with 3 other girls. so anyway, this year shes starting to be really rude to me, ignoring me, and treating me different than my other friends. i have talked to her about it at least 7 times and she does not listen. if i had the choice, i wouldnt be friends with her.. but we're in a group. AND shes in my lunch, and my only friend there and she totally ignores me. what can i do, or what can i do to not make me so upset?!! (link)
first off you cant really define her as a friend, you honestly have to make new friends outside of your group. You can still hang out with the others in your clique but eventually your going to have to make new friends anyways.




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