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what should i say? how should i talk?
I am very interested in learning about how to talk to boys in person. i used to be very good but i became shy since then and lost that ability. i can talk to them but i sound so stupid and it is annoying. I dont knwo what to talk abotu with them. Please i would like to knwo what subjects or things to talk about with them. and please dont say your interests because i dont knwo what or how to do that.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Well you talk to girls right? Well its no difference really. Unless you are talking about boys! lol. But talk to them about what you talk to about your friends. Talk to them about what you did the other day, school, you know whatever comes to mind. Usually when you start talking to a guy they will also start talking (unless he's super shy) and keep the conversation going on.
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I think the thing is a lot of girls get to worried about what they say around guys like there is certain stuff but for the most part guys just like to be around girls who are themselves and dont try to hard. Just have confidence and dont hold back, have fun.
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There is really no difference in talking to guys and talking to girls. You just need to be casual with it. Make some friends- Introduce yourself. Maybe you'll be paired up in an activity of some kind; whatever. Whatever it is, just be sure you talk. Talk about anything. How's your day going- Typa stuff. Just general talking. People don't want to hear about you, or about them- They want to hear about the both of you. If you just tlak about him, it'll be too much pressure on him, and if you talk about yourself, it's too much pressure on yourself. Just try to talk about things that aren't relating to yourself at all.
For example- You could be playinga basketball, or whatever, together. Compliment his shots. Share opinions on the games; the teachers. Whatever!
You just have to talk.
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