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asking someone out
as quick as i can... I want to go out with a boy in my class but i cant get the corage to ask him out. i dont even knwo how i should ask him out. and i dont even know if he likes me. should i go for it? how? HELP
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I dont think you should ask him out. Do a little research get your friend to talk to him or something like dat play a little hard to get and wait for him to ask you out. TRUST ME!
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You never mentioned how well you knew him or if at all outside of class. I'll have to assume in my answer that you know whether or not he's single.
The best thing for you to do is approach him and tell him that you and some friends are going to see Hannibal Rising or whatever movie you want on Friday or Saturday night and ask if he would like to come with you.
In the event you are having a party and that works better to invite him to it try that. If he seems disinterested in the idea then you know he's just not in to you and asking him out would not be a good idea.
Asking him to a party or movie with friends saves your bacon here if people in your class are gossips or rumor mongers who want to make you miserable over someone rejecting you for asking them out.
I think you need to have a friendship with the guy first and see if you are compatable there. Once you establish that you can just ask him honestly would he ever consider going out with you. Always use the truth with guys and just blurt out what you feel and forget about it.
If he says no it's no big deal as there are tons of guys that will be entering your life in the long run. He could say yes as well. Just be honest and ask him as it's the only way to get what you want. We cannot read minds ;)
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well why don't you have a friend ask if hes intrested or something? you know they say a boy is more afraid to ask out a girl and over 50 percent say that they would brather the girl make the first move. you could try to talk to him and such as well and point out details so he knows you've been paying attention to the conversations you've had. just dont make it too obvious you like him or then you'll look stupid. well good luck :]
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I know its hard to ask someone out so can just go up to him and just ask him or you can talk to him for a little bit and then bring it up. And yes you should go for it because if you don't you will never know if he likes you or not. Well I hope everything goes well for you!
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