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I CAN'T TAKE MY FRIEND ANYMORE
this may be long but i need your helpp please!!
my friend of one year, we became really close and we became a group with 3 other girls. so anyway, this year shes starting to be really rude to me, ignoring me, and treating me different than my other friends. i have talked to her about it at least 7 times and she does not listen. if i had the choice, i wouldnt be friends with her.. but we're in a group. AND shes in my lunch, and my only friend there and she totally ignores me. what can i do, or what can i do to not make me so upset?!!
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try talking to some of her other friends.see how she acts to them when no ones around. she may be having family issues. i was having troubles with some of my friends too like this and it turns out that they were all calling me a slut ! make sure you didnt say anything about her boyfriend/ex that shes still not over. that can cause friends to act weird . hope this helps.
britnee
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My friend did the same thing and I would always try talking to her and finally I was just like well if shes going to act stupid like that I won't try talking to her anymore. Don't try to be friends if someones going to be mean to you like that.
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first off you cant really define her as a friend, you honestly have to make new friends outside of your group. You can still hang out with the others in your clique but eventually your going to have to make new friends anyways.
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ok if she treats yu that bad why be friends with her? is it really that important. and im pretty sure yu would have other friends in that lunch if yu just looked around. and i had that group . the certain group with like 3-5 of yu and yu give yurselves a cool name blah blah friends forever. it doesnt always work . girls become bitches (( as usual )) but yu gotta let her know make her listen if she doesnt let it go then yu know its not worth it . and she doesnt respect yu as a friend. move on and make new friends
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You should be upset. If you weren't, I'd be worried...
It seems as tho she has made the choice for the both of you. Seems she is no longer your friend. It shows in her actions.
Friends don't ignore each other, act rude to each other, or treat each other in any other unfriendly fashion. A friend would have listened to you the first time, not blow you off after 7 times. Friends listen to each other and care about one another's feelings.
In reality, you have no friends at lunch, because she ignores you the whole time. Try to meet someone else at lunch to sit with and talk to. You may be lucky and find a new, REAL friend.
You do have a choice. Don't be friends with her. Why bother with that crap? So what, you are in a "group"- are their not 3 other girls within your click that you are friends with? There is no law stating you have to be friends with ALL of the group.
Trying to make her your friend again is not worth it. She is not worth your time. You deserve better than having some one for a so-called friend who acts like a bitch to you.
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well, i would just tell you to talk to her, but since you said you have like seven times, then i would just say to drop her. i've been in the same situation.
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Ignore her right back. I don't mean that as childish as it sounds, but seriously. Ignoring her will take your mind off the drama. I know you guys are in a group, so that is tough. Talk to your other friends about the situation. Maybe they can knock some sense into her. If that doesn't work try spending some one on one time with the other girls in the group. This way you won't be dealing with her immatuirty, but you can still keep up friendships you have with the others. As for her being in your lunch... this is your chance to socialize with new people. New potential friends.
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