I am a girl, currently in Grade 12, and I have had a crush on this guy in my grade since halfway through first semester grade 9.
He is really cute, and he loves singing and history. He is really funny, but can also be quite serious. He tends to be quite loud in class, but he is so sweet and nice that the teachers rarely get mad at him.
I am quite shy when in a group setting, but one on one I tend to open up a bit. However, I only ever see this guy in class, in choir, and when our two friend groups (occasionally) hang out together.
He jokes around a lot, and when we are in a small group of people together, he sometimes teases me more than the other people in the group. In class the other day, he was rolling around the classroom(we have chairs with wheels) and he came to talk to me. He has done similar things in the past.
I guess what I want to know is: do I have any chance with him? and how do I go about getting that chance?
It seems to me that he like you low key. He throws in little hints so that you get the message. He is shy just like you and is scared to confront you because he is scared of you saying no. He seems to feel the same inside as you do. Just get him alone some time and tell him how you feel and then ask him if he likes you. Don't be so aggressive when you say it, make it seem like you don't really care. Just be calm about it. Guys tend to go after girls who don't seem to show interest in them. Just keep calm and talk to him. I hope it works out and I hope I really helped. Thanks for coming to me with your question.
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So I have to do a presentation in my Grade 12 Chemistry course, and the teacher says a significant part of our mark will be based on preparedness and engaging-ness of presentation. Basically, what he meant is that I have to be really excited and happy up there, and be able to answer pretty much any question people ask me.
The problem is, I am super shy. When I get up there my voice goes really quiet, and no matter how prepared I am, I stutter and can't seem to remember what I was all going to say. This is going to make me look like I'm not prepared, no matter how hard I try.
Also, I am presenting with people who have naturally loud voices and exciting personalities, which will contrast me and make me seem even less prepared.
Any advice on how to deal with this?
Just imagine that no one is there. Also, do not look at anyone, look at the wall over their heads so they think you are looking at them. Focus on what you are saying and block out everything else. Thanks for your time, I really hope I helped. Ohh and clench your fists, that might help.
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My sister has had a tough time recently. She got sacked but not through fault of her own. She doesn't have friends to go out with so she suggested we see the fireworks tomorrow night (every year Nov 5th here in England ) because she finishes her job then.
However my boyfriend whom I've not seen in weeks is coming to see me and we're planning to see the fireworks.
Neither knows the other wants to come. They get on to a point but I'd rather it be me and my boyfriend on a romantic date. However I really don't want to upset my sister as she has no one else because she doesn't make as much effort with ppl. We're twins incidentally.
What should I do? What I want or support my sis ?
I know this answer is a little late, sorry for that. You need to tell your sister this and you need to tell her that she needs to make an effort to make friends. You can not carry her through life but you can show her how to carry herself. Explain to her that you need time with your boyfriend alone and that she should back off. Remember, it's not what you say, it's how you say it.
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My girlfriend and I recently broke up last month. Note, this was neither of our fault. Something happened with her depression, and she didn't feel the same about us anymore. So I didn't give up, after the breakup I consisted attempts of getting us back together, which ultimately lead to the exclusion of her life completely. This caused me to have minor depression, and major thoughts of suicide considering I cannot get back with the my one love, the girl who saved my life once before. I'm afraid without her I'm most certainly going to lose control as I have already lost who I once was. Please, this is my only chance. I need help to find a way to get her back. And please don't refer me to any kinds of medical help because I'm not ready to open up to that kind of treatment. I just need my one true love back, without her I can't go on.
Hey, I understand how serious this topic is. I've suffered from depression for two years and i've always been suicidal. I would like for you to take a minute and breathe. I understand that she was your everything but you will get over it. I broke up with my ex because he cheated on me and that was seven months ago. I've been single ever since. Trust me, you will get over her. I'm just now getting over him but i'm not fully healed. The only way I did it is to find someone else. I know i'm only 14 but I am currently engaged. Just don't give up on love but you have to give up on her. The more you dwell on her, the more pain you will go through. Gosh I know exactly what you're going through and it still hurts me to think of him. I don't know how to make it better but I'm trying. Ya know? Thank you for your time.
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Hey, I am born female but identify as genderfluid. But I'm sick of it, I'm sick of the constant fluctuation of my gender and I'm sick of always having to state my pronouns and explain what it means. I don't want to be genderfluid, I want to be a boy or a girl, I don't want to be a mixture of both! But I can't be transgender as I don't fully feel like a boy but I'm not cisgender as I defiantly don't always feel like a girl, it's so frustrating and I don't know what to do! If anyone has any advice to help me out that would be really appreciated, but I don't want any transphobic replies or rude or insulting things said, thank you.
Hey there. I'm a total Christian and I stick to my beliefs. You should decide to be a girl since you were born a girl. I do not understand your frustration with this subject but I do understand the whole world of frustration, meaning, I can only imagine how you feel. All I can really say is stick with being a girl because that's how you were born and God doesn't make mistakes. Everything happens for a reason, I promise. Thanks for your time.
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While my boyfriend is eating me out, my legs and my arms and everything go tingly and I cant control my body and I want to close my legs. Am I about to orgasm or what? Why does it make me want to close my legs?
You are reacting to the pleasure in involuntary convulsions of your vaginal muscles which causes you to orgasm and maybe even ejaculate. Many people believe that the female orgasm is a myth but it is very real. I am only 14 but I read a lot! Thank you for coming to me with your question.
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23/F
So basically I'll start off with I was with my boyfriend for 5 years and when we broke up in June I felt so sad i have always had depression and self harmed myself but no one knew Fourth of July weekend I felt the saddest I have ever felt and looked at my medicine cabinet and said what am I going to take to kill myself I thought about death every day and thought it was normal. I talked to my doctor and she put me on zoloft. I have never felt better until yesterday. I met this new guy and I finally moved on to my ex we had sex twice both with condoms. The only skin on skin action was us in the shower but we never physically did it until after with a condom. The next day I had an outrageous yeast infection and I found out yesterday I have Herpes. I have only been with 2 people and this is what happens...the guy I slept with is in denial and said he doesn't have anything but maybe he does now because I gave it to him! He was with his ex for 2 years and he said they are both fine. I just don't understand how this happened to me and now I am back in my hole where I don't want to live anymore. I feel broken and sad and nobody is going to want me.
I am very sorry about what happened to you. You have an amazing story that you should share with teens to encourage them to wait until marriage. What happened to you has happened to many people and I do believe that you can overcome this because if you are still alive after what you've told me, you can overcome anything. I had the same problem with depression but I'm finally getting over it and I want to help as many people as I can. Don't waste your time on men who only want to have sex. Trust me, there is someone for everyone. Wait until marriage but when you think you've found the right one, tell him your story and if he really is the right one, he will stay no matter what. The best thing I can tell you to do is pray. I'll pray for you. I hope you have a wonderful day, and trust me, you are not alone.
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i am 13, and i live with my adoptive parents. my real mom had me at 16 and got me token away when i was very young. i have always said that i would not be a teen mom, that i would wait for after marriage. but yesterday i found out that i am pregnant. how do i tell my parents? and i will not get an abortion and i don't want to give my baby away. so how will i tell my mom( that is 6 months pregnant) and dad that their 13 year old daughter is pregnant and wants to keep her baby?
I honestly don't know how to tell you to do this. Just sit them down and tell them easily. There is literally no way to escape this, so, just tell them and hope for the best. Or, tell someone you know you can trust before you tell your parents. I wish you the best. If you wanna personally talk some more, my kik is: kori_rice but you have to tell me where you know me from so I wont block you!
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Hello!
As the headline says, im trying to be a better man, and being able to do some self defense is never bad idea. I heared that some martial arts are tied with some sort of philosophy and through it teaching other things for life then just "beating people" (because beating people is NOT my desire in the first place). I will be most grateful if you give me any suggestions i could follow.
Thank you!
I am not very good in that particular subject. I just think that you should choose what you think is best. I can not get in your mind and make you choose the right thing. There may be more than one option that suits what you are looking for. I hope this helped you. Thank you for your time!
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Hi. So in the fall, I'll be going into 7th grade. But this will also be at a new school. So there are 2 middle schools in my town, and all of my friends are at the smaller one, and I'll be moving to the bigger one. Technically this will be my first year of real middle school though, because last year in 6th grade, I was actually homeschooled. This will not change my level of work at school this year, because I am a very extraordinary student anyway, although I am worried about middle school itself. I'm a newbie, AND it's my first year of middle school when everyone else started last year. I won't know my way around, I'll be late for classes, I don't even know how their systems work and everything. I'll be the new clueless yet smart girl that everyone pities. I'm smaller and an easy target for bullies, but I can come back with extremely witty comebacks that makes them want to wish they were dead in a ditch, if that helps. But I need to know some important things that will help me. I already know how to unlock lockers and stuff, so yeah. Thanks for your time.
I know how you feel a little. Just ask for a map of the school and study the routs to your classes. Dont worry about friends too much, just focus on getting around. I'm sure if you ask a teacher, they will help you figure out how to get to your class. This is gonna be my first year in high school and its a really big school. I'm totally scared but I know its gonna be alright. Keep your head up and be the good student you always will be.
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How do I make my dad understand how much he's mentally hurting me by taking away my iPod permanently until he can block chat sites? When he takes it away and blocks the chat sites, I can't talk to my friends or my girlfriend anymore, and it's really hurting me. I try to talk to him, but all he does in response is not listen and make fun of me. I really need someone's help right now... v.v
I am a 13/F
Actually he's the one who needs help. Neglecting to listen to your child is so wrong. I suggest that you try to talk to people outside of the electronic communication that you're used to. Tell them how you feel about your dad and maybe get some of their parents to talk to your dad about what he's doing. He may not listen to you because he doesn't feel that you are responsible enough to voice your opinion.
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Hey you guys thanks so much for giving me such great advice.
I'm letting you know I talked to my mom and the guy friend and he said that he will not do it again and I said if he ever tried anything I would call the police tell my mom and also his wife.
As for the therapist turns out e wanted to share the pictures of his newborn baby girl.
Hey there, I know I probably didn't help with the situation but, I'm glad to hear that everything turned out positively!! Keep up the good work.
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Sorry about the category. Wouldn't fit any. So, I need a name to be I guess my "nickname". Something pretty that I can go by, that people will remember because of its uniqueness. But it also has to be somewhat easy to pronounce. Unlike my name, Aislin (ā•z lin). But I'll use it to sign my art, and for social media usernames. Occasionally if I don't feel like explaining to new people how to pronounce Aislin, I'll just use this. I don't know if you've heard of the artist Viria, but that's her "nickname". Anyway, I need a pretty, somewhat simple, but unique name. Thx in advance. ☺️
Hey there, I'm thirteen and I've been studying psychology since I was seven and once you said "unique name" the first thing that popped into my head was colors!! I just finished studying color psychology and I remember that sunshine yellow is a very eye catching color!! I was thinking: sunshine or something like that. I'd like for you to use that name so, when you get famous off of your work, I'd know who you are!! Thanks for your time.
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I have been planning to commit suicide for the past week. I don't see the point of being around anymore at all. I get treated like crap by my friends and my family literally for nothing. I'm honestly the most unattractive person on this planet and everyone makes sure to let me know . Would people actually be sad If I actually did this ? Would people actually care? Because at this point it doesn't seem like anyone does .
I totally understand how you feel and I'm sorry that I couldn't get to your question earlier. I truly believe that there is someone for everyone and you just have to be patient with it. Trust me, someone will come eventually. And about the bullying thing, try to ignore it or tell someone about it. I never told anyone about my bullies but they eventually went away. The worst thing about it is i'm a girl and my bullies were boys. If you ever need to talk again, my kik is kori_rice just kik me and let me know who you are. Thank you for your time, I wish you the best. God bless ya!!
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Well i am 15 a male and i am a devout christian i don't know too many christians my age soemtimes i feel lonely and i strongly believe in not having sex until marriage it's really important to me i don't think there is anything wrong with being pure until marriage i'm not interested in dating anyone yet but with the way teenagers are today there a lots having sex i want to be with a christian girl who loves god do you think i will find someone like that and someone who strongly believes in no sex before marriage?
Well, I'm a Christian girl and I will not even let a guy touch me that way. Tbh: I haven't even had my first kiss yet. I'm proud of who I am and of course I get lonley, but, that's when God comes in. I talk to Jesus all the time and he comforts me when I'm lonely. I believe God will give you someone,just wait on it.
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hey so im 13 and im dating this boy and so hes my first boyfriend and and so i had my first kiss yesterday and so i didnt feel anything at all and then today we kissed alot and still but i dont wanna hurt his feelings telling him that i dont like him as he likes me alot. Im scared he gets mad at me and i dont want him to be sad. what could i do?
You should just sit him down and tell him how you feel but make sure you know you're new to this. Its totally fine to feel that way. I've never had my first kiss but I think you'll only feel something once you get to seriously know that person and truly love them. Thank you for coming to me with this, I hope I helped.
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hey i an from Limpopo.im in a new relationship.me n my bf we a naw datin for 1month n 3days.i love my bf so much n i try to make him happy but dat doesnt hide de fact dat my bf is still inlove wth his ex who has died.wen he need me i go n be wth him.on saturday it was his bdae n i made a suprise party for him n i invited his friends n ada gals.he was very happy n i was happy to see him happy.but dat dae at nyt he said i shuld not leave i shuld sleep ova n i did so.he started talking abt his ex who died n his ex was buried on saturday on his bdae.he told me dat he is over her n he dnt luv her anymore but his actions was telling me another story.he evn cried for his ex infront of me n didnt wt tu du or wat to say.my heart was heavy wen he was kissing me he suddenly stopped n he said he cant.yesterdae he removed de status on watsap he wrote abt me n write dat he love his ex n he change a profile pic n put his ex.i cried alone n my hurt was heavy realising dat im truly,madly n deeply inlove wth him.what do i have to do?
I have no idea of what you should do. Just sit him down and tell him how he's making you feel and don't hold back. Actually,love is eternal. If he says he doesn't love her anymore, either he's lieing or he never loved her to begin wity . I think he's making sacrifices of his own but you may not see it. You need to tell him that it upset you when you saw what he did. Kik me kori_rice if you need anything else but you have to tell me where you know me from. Have a blessed day. God bless you
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I'm christian I love god and I know he has plan for everyone I'm 15 male and when I grow up I want to be a priest or minister I want to help people get closer to god I think this maybe my calling ive been thinking about being a priest for awhile now I just want to devote my life to god what do you think?
I think it's amazing. But, you should not be worried about what I think, you should be worried about what God thinks. Don't let this world consume you and turn you around. When you feel yourself going the wrong way, ask God to turn you around. I absolutely love the idea of you becoming a minister. You can kik me at kori_rice if you want to.
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My friends did the challenge but we didn't know we had to say charlie charlie can we stop? before we could stop playing! Are we all going to be haunted until we die or just the person who first asked to summon the demon?
SCARED PLEASE HELP!
You should never play with demons. You should pray to Jesus and anoint your house with holy oil and pray about it to keep the demons away. If you're a child of God, you don't have to worry about that.
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I am scared to report c porn because i am afraid they will blame me. i don't know why. please report these sites for me?
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please help me and report sites above!
all i searched for 2was teen! OMG! i m a girl!
Okay, I'll do my best. Thanks for coming to me about this.
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