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What my life has come to.
I have been planning to commit suicide for the past week. I don't see the point of being around anymore at all. I get treated like crap by my friends and my family literally for nothing. I'm honestly the most unattractive person on this planet and everyone makes sure to let me know . Would people actually be sad If I actually did this ? Would people actually care? Because at this point it doesn't seem like anyone does .
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I am very sorry you are going through such a horrible experience. But I honestly think, even if you don't realize it, deep down inside, you don't want to do this. That's probably why you are reaching out. And I commend you for doing so.
I can assure you, without a doubt, that you are not the least attractive person in the world. And if people make it a point to say you are, I think that says more about them than it does about you.
If your friends treat you like crap, they aren't real friends. Did you ever think that maybe they do so because they might envy you for some reason? That happens more often that you might think.
Sometimes family can be difficult as well. But is it possible that they are not trying to treat you badly but their actual intention is not coming across well? For example, when a parent refuses to let a child get his or her driver's license until he or she proves themselves responsible enough that they will be a safe driver. It may seem mean or nasty to the child but it's meant to protect them with a loving purpose.
If they really are just crappy to you, there has to be a reason. That doesn't mean it's you. They may be struggling with their own issues. In any instance, the best bet to sit down and really have a deep conversation with them and possibly seek the help of a therapist.
Even if you don’t use one for this issue, I high recommend seeking out professional mental health services anyway.
You ask if people would be sad if you commit suicide, the answer is yes. I would be saddened by it and I'm sure that would be the same for anyone else who cared enough to answer this question. I am 100% certain that there are people in your life you would miss you dearly, many so much more than you could ever know.
But no matter what, taking your life is not the answer. You can get through this.
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Heres the thing hunny......killing yourself isnt going to solve anything. its going to leave your soul hurt, and without closer. I sthat really the last things on this earth that you want to remember??
your life is what you make it, so make it a good one. Be strong. realize that theres alot of people walking around on this earth that have issues of their own and they just LOVEEE to sometimes take those issues out on whoever is 1, closest to them at the moment or 2, looks weak and like they can really take it.
YOUR JOB is to make those people know that your not the one to be trying to do that with.
you do this by scoffing at them when they attempt to bring you down or poke at you, you simply say back "well thats weird cause i really could not care less what you have to say right now"
you can say in a calm, normal tone of voice that you are not to be trifled with.
you dont have to hit, or scream, or leave the room because they said something awful. Just say something sarcastic back or challenge their logic and usually they cant handle it and will shut up and back off a little. If people think they can mess with you THEY WILL, its a simple sociological law. youll attract people who use and abuse, and regret or care very little because your not willing to defend yourself when the moment comes.
KNOW that you are worth fighting for and that you have a right to be on this earth just as much as they do if not more.
Tell them that "with the way you act, no wonder people dont like you" just things like that. or "no wonder...(insert whatever you want here) whenever they complain in front of you about something someone did to them that they felt was wrong or unfair.
the "no wonder" statement works for everything.
see?
now you just spend a month trying to use these rules and see how it goes and get back to me.
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I agree with what Kori said. And I think that it was really good that you came on here and reached out. To me that says that you haven't completely lost hope and maybe even that you want to get better. I know that sometimes life gets rough, like REALLY rough, but that doesn't mean that you should give up all hope. And I know that it's cliché, but life really does get better. You just need to give it a chance and find the right people that make you happy. But please if you ever feel like you are going to kill yourself, please reach out to someone or call a suicide hotline. You are beautiful, okay? No matter what anyone thinks or what you think. And you are so valuable. You have so much going for you. Please don't ever throw that away. And feel free to message me on kik also. My kik is odethia160
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I totally understand how you feel and I'm sorry that I couldn't get to your question earlier. I truly believe that there is someone for everyone and you just have to be patient with it. Trust me, someone will come eventually. And about the bullying thing, try to ignore it or tell someone about it. I never told anyone about my bullies but they eventually went away. The worst thing about it is i'm a girl and my bullies were boys. If you ever need to talk again, my kik is kori_rice just kik me and let me know who you are. Thank you for your time, I wish you the best. God bless ya!!
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