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Hello, my name is Emmi. ^~^ I am a 15 yr old female. I like things like anime, rock music, writing, reading, and drawing. I joined this website because I really like to help people. I know how hard life can get. I have gone through depression and I have anxiety issues. So I know from experience how that feels. So if anyone needs anything, I am here. And also, always remember that there is always a better answer than suicide. Never kill yourself because by doing that, you are preventing yourself from experiencing anymore happy times here on earth. Stay srong!

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are there many other people who cut to deal with problems? im on anti depressants i cut myself with razors (but i dont think drugs have anything to do wit it)like on my wrists its not to kill myself and i dont tell anyone about it and im definitely not doing it for attention. im really embarassed about it but its my way of dealing with things. i never tell anyone the truth when im asked wat happened and no has ever suspected anything other then im accident prone. is this wrong? (link)
It is wrong. You need to find other ways to express yourself. Like writing, drawing, singing, or even just talking to someone about what you are stressed about. You should never feel like you have to harm your beautiful skin. You are worth more than that. And the scars do last. Even if the physical scars fade over time, the emotional ones will stay. Like for me (I used to do it) I am so ashamed of it. And the scars are still there and every time I look at them it hurts...emotionally. Also it can become pretty addicting. So, if it gets any worse try to talk to someone you trust about it and get help. Stay strong love.


16yrs old , turning 17 on september 20...am a boy...recently, I been hating my life, I wake up every morning with that feeling inside like I don't want to wake everything is s*it , everybody s*cks like the whole world n' life is useless because my mom wakes me up and I barely sleep then wake up 6am , I don't know if I lost my emotions , but I think I didn't lose them , because I still can feel one thing "hopelessness or sadness" that one feeling inside you which gets you sickened and want to rip somebody's head off or kill everyone or even never want to wake up!
My question is ummm ... Is this just a teenage stage of my life that I'm passing through or is it depression that I'm having?
PS because of this I sometimes lose my faith and cuss my religion and hate everyone even my own self and girlfriend but I don't show it , but I feel ALL of this inside me! Like HELP ! Help me know what I'm in!

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I do not believe it is "just a teenage stage". Because I know for a fact that not every teenager goes through that. It seems too extreme. It sounds like you have depression. When my depression got really bad it was the same way and it truly sucks. The best thing you can do is to reach out to the people closest to you and tell them how you really feel. And/or get professional help. Depression is a serious manor and if you ignore it, it will only continue to worsen. And about the numbness thing, just remember that it is okay to feel. It is okay to be weak sometimes. A human can only be so strong. I think you just need to try to focus on the good things in life and maybe find some more. Find something you truly love and enjoy about life and focus on that and the things you need to do to get there. There is always hope, remember that.


I have been planning to commit suicide for the past week. I don't see the point of being around anymore at all. I get treated like crap by my friends and my family literally for nothing. I'm honestly the most unattractive person on this planet and everyone makes sure to let me know . Would people actually be sad If I actually did this ? Would people actually care? Because at this point it doesn't seem like anyone does . (link)
I agree with what Kori said. And I think that it was really good that you came on here and reached out. To me that says that you haven't completely lost hope and maybe even that you want to get better. I know that sometimes life gets rough, like REALLY rough, but that doesn't mean that you should give up all hope. And I know that it's cliché, but life really does get better. You just need to give it a chance and find the right people that make you happy. But please if you ever feel like you are going to kill yourself, please reach out to someone or call a suicide hotline. You are beautiful, okay? No matter what anyone thinks or what you think. And you are so valuable. You have so much going for you. Please don't ever throw that away. And feel free to message me on kik also. My kik is odethia160




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