Gender: Female
Location: NYC
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Age: 20
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Last Update: July 25, 2015
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Hi. So in the fall, I'll be going into 7th grade. But this will also be at a new school. So there are 2 middle schools in my town, and all of my friends are at the smaller one, and I'll be moving to the bigger one. Technically this will be my first year of real middle school though, because last year in 6th grade, I was actually homeschooled. This will not change my level of work at school this year, because I am a very extraordinary student anyway, although I am worried about middle school itself. I'm a newbie, AND it's my first year of middle school when everyone else started last year. I won't know my way around, I'll be late for classes, I don't even know how their systems work and everything. I'll be the new clueless yet smart girl that everyone pities. I'm smaller and an easy target for bullies, but I can come back with extremely witty comebacks that makes them want to wish they were dead in a ditch, if that helps. But I need to know some important things that will help me. I already know how to unlock lockers and stuff, so yeah. Thanks for your time. (link)
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Hey! No worries girly.
Listen, although I have never been home-schooled myself, most of us experience new environments that at first may make us feel nervous, uncomfortable and completely clueless at first but growing up for me I got use to changing schools a lot & moving to different states meaning new schools.
I was always the shy, "mute" girl through school. Simply shy & I hated going up to people and asking questions. But don't be nervous about not knowing what the school lay-out looks like or not knowing in what wing of the school your classes are... Teachers & staff ARE there to help you with that stuff.
All you have to say or do is tell any teacher "listen I'm new to this school (you don't even have to say that you've been home schooled but you definately can) and I don't know where my classes are, can you help me with that?"
Acctually, you won't be the only new student I'm sure. Lots of kids don't know where their classes will be located or what they'll be like in the beginning but in about a week or so you'll catch up! Trust me. This even goes for the students who are in 8th grade or that have already been attending the school you're about to attend.
Like I said, as a person I was always just a shy humble being. I had a few select friends but I was never loud & outgoing. As far as being the new face every 2 years at a new school I got use to it and I became unbothered.
There's really nothing to be worried about. You'll get accustomed and as far as the other kids...don't even worry about it hunny :) Kids are kids...you'll probably meet a few kind people, a few mean people, some class-clowns, a few loud people, some quiet... you know! :) But you will be okay! Be yourself and keep doing good in school!
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Will sex hurt the first time badly ? 😩
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Most likely there will be slight or medium pain.
Before I lost my virginity I heard that the first time having sex hurt from a bunch of gals.
Personally when I had sex my first time I felt pain, and budged away from his penis. He never went inside of me all the way because I wouldn't let him due to the tightness and pain I felt.
The second and third time we had sex I still felt some pain, but less and less each time.
Eventually the pain went away.
It's normal.
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Lately my mouth has been hurting really bad at the top. The part that connects your gum to your lip is really hurting me. Whenever I move my lips a certain way it give my pain. I tried looking up what could be wrong with it and the only information I got was that it could be torn but the symptoms of it being torn says bleeding which hasn't happened to me. Does anyone know what the problem is and how I should handel it because it's been a week and it hurts to smile (and I like smiling). (link)
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I am no doctor but perhaps you just have an infection or one of those ingrown bumps that grow inside of the mouth, or sometimes on the gums.
Just a few weeks ago I had a pain on my gums near the root where the tooth and gum connect and I couldn't even talk or move my lips without my mouth hurting due to that pain.
I was contemplating on going to the dentist but eventually it just went away.
Don't be too concerned, unless it gets worse or carries on for a long time.
Just deal with the pain for a little bit without feeling too concerned or worried.
Good luck!
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This summer I wanted to get a job. I applied for an internship and I just sensed (tingly feeling in stomach)that I would be considered for the position and I was. I thought this job would be the best fit for me. After I applied for the job I overlook how long it was. The job ends in September and I start school in August. I realized that I may not get this job because it is far from the school I attended and the commute is far. I really thought it was a great opportunity for me but was I wrong. When I inform the company that I could not commute, I was no longer considered for the position. I feel completely okay and calm about the situation. But, was my gut feeling wrong. Because I thought this company represented what I wanted but I am unable to get it because of school. (link)
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You can never go wrong with school.
I'm glad to hear that you were pretty much at peace with the outcome thus far.
You weren't wrong but then again it's all about what You want in the end. You went with your gut feeling and that was to go with your education.
You never know what the outcome of things will be. The internship could have been a good thing for you, but then again you never know. School may be better for your future.
Now that you have made your decision just focus on school and work hard to get to where you want to go!
Like I said, you cannot go wrong with school. So many people mention how they wish they could go back to school, or to have continued with their education rather than whatever else seemed like a great option at the time.
Good luck! Work hard for you want :)
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So we were sitting outside of our house by the pool. I CSS wearing a swimsuit, so my arms were exposed. She then lifted my arm, and shouted at the top of her lungs, "you need to shave that armpit hair!" People were outside, and they all heard her! She always yells at me for not thinking before I do something, but here she is doing it now! I mean really, why would you shout that outside! I've been rambling enough now. I just don't know what to do! Please help me! :( (link)
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Armpit hair is a natural thing that grows out of both guys and girls.
I don't get why your MOTHER would shout this out. I mean, was it a joke? Maybe she was messing with you, even though it resulted in you being completely embarrassed.
Though, if she was serious and she didn't intend for her blurt out to be a joke, then I'm a little weirded out by your mom. (I'm not saying this out of disrespect.)
Like I said, armpit hair is a normal thing. EVERYONE has it. Girls just shave it. Well some...
And MOST guys never trim nor shave their armpit hair, which is completely okay.
Talk to your mom and inform her that you are aware of what is going on with your body. Let her know that she also embarrased you and ask her to be more considerate of your feelings. Speak to her with the most upmost- respect and if she continues to do stuff like this then talk to a family member and see if they can speak with her on behalf of you to reason with her.
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Hi! So one of my friends is going out to dinner for a special occasion, and I heard her say (right in front of me) that if some guy couldn't go, I would be invited. I definitely want to say no if that happens. I think that that was so rude of her. Do you agree? Am I overreacting? (link)
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You're not wrong for being a little upset.
You shouldn't be flat out or openly treated like a Plan B or alternative option.
It's one thing not to know that you are the alternative option, but when you do know and they unintentionally put that out there you just need to answer with pride and do not accept the invitation.
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Well...i have two pairs of shoes i can only make three outfits with the cloth i have,i only have one hoodie that actually FITS!i ended up wearing it for a whole year.My teacher told the whole class to wear fresh and clean cloth i felt so embarrassed,everybody knew why she had said that my ex dad gives my mom 400$ every month he says he loves me but it sure doesn't seem like it..why?well he only bought me a pair of shoes 2 years ago and doesn't buy me cloth at all my mom mostly spends it on other shit...i end up asking her every week and the same excuse."We'll go shopping this month."it seems like she doesn't realize i need school supplies and clothes,its rare for her to me shopping,im 11 should i really deal with this shit?well anyways once we went shopping she always makes me shop at FUCKING P.S KIDS!even though she knows how much i hate it,but sometimes i actually find shit that's my style,she barely takes me to old navy it has shit that's my style,she always convinces me to buy cloth that i hate because shes like"Buy this one it matches these shorts." and shit,i once had to wear a hoodie that smelt bad and was dirty as faq to school just cause mom didn't want to spend a hour waiting it for it to wash,all the kids in my classroom could smell me,OH! and guess what my parents are to lazy to fix the boiler for hot water FUCKING FUCKTASTIC!right now i'm in my grandmas house :D BETTER THEN MY HELLHOLE I SO CALL HOME! ITS FREAKING BETTER HERE THERE'S A SHOWER THAT ACTUALLY WORKS AND THEY WASH MY CLOTH!OH WAIT!i have three jeans 2 shirts that fit one flannel shirt 2 tank tops 1 bra and the dirty HOODIE!I FEEL LIKE CRYING SO MUCH!THEY FREAKING FEED ME MORE THEN IN MY HOUSE!I SRSLY NEED HELP!WHAT DO I TELL MY PARENTS ABOUT THE SHIT IT I HAVE TO GO THROUGH!I REALLY WANT TO FUCKING MOVE OUT ALREADY!let's get back to topic now..So guys what do you think i should do? I REALLY NEED HELP! (link)
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Hey, this is seriously not okay or fair to you. Now, I don't know what your mother spends this money on or what she is dealing with financially, but I don't understand why she can't at least buy you a few pieces of clothing every now and then. You don't need luxury or high-brand clothes but clothes in general is simply a must and clean ones at that. Go directly to the source and talk to her and your father about it. If nothing changes then talk to your family about it and see if they can communicate this issue to your parents. If no changes happen or nothing gets done about it then I would definately suggest to talk to your teachers, school councelor or principal about it. Perhaps any other staff member. I know it may seem embarrasing for you to mention to others, but do not think like that because they may be able to help with your situation.
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