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Last Update: July 12, 2015
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I need advice and fast, I really need to talk to my best friend alone though one friend keeps following me around and it is becoming too much but if you ask her to sit with her other friends for today she would get super insulted but I just want one lunch to speak with my best friend about my problems which include her. How do I get her to sit with her other friend (my nemesis)without offending her or making her think I don't want to hang with her anymore (link)
I feel your my problem is similar to yours you should just talk to her and be really nice about and hopefully she will understand


I live in Mid-Michigan, and I am applying for jobs all over the state.
Let's say I get an interview with a company in Detroit, which is two and a half hours away from my present location.
If and when I get asked in the interview "When can you start?" what should I tell them?

I know the things I absolutely need to do before I start, if I accept a written job offer from the company, are:

Give my boss a minimum of two weeks notice at my current company
Find an apartment in Detroit
Pack my belongings and move down there

How should I answer the question?
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You should just be honest the truth always has a way of coming sooner or later and if it doesn't work out then there will be other jobs


My boyfriend and I had sex a little over a week ago, and I am currently on my menstrual cycle. Could I possibly be pregnant even though I'm on my period,and even though it's too soon to tell?
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I don t think your pregnant but if you are really worried then talk to your doctor or take a pregnancy test


I have a friend who i've known for a couple of years. He has been a great help to me when I needed it the most and when I needed someone to talk to. Unfortunately, he's also crossed boundaries with me many times. Coming onto me sexually, asking me lots of questions as if he's keeping tabs on me, etc. In the past i've told him how I felt and he's backed off a bit but before long the questions come again. I feel like I can't get rid of him because he knows intimate details about my past. I'm worried that even if I attempt to end our friendship directly by telling him, that he will try to use something against me. This person no longer feels like a friend. It feels like someone who just wants to intrude upon my life by asking me about my whereabouts and just other personal things. He wants to hang out but i'm not really interested. I've done away with my text messaging and he no longer has my number but he does have my email. He still pops up at least once a week and when I get a message from him, I feel honestly sick to my stomach.

I've done my best to distance myself from him without being mean or telling him directly to leave me alone. I just wish I could word an email somehow that let him know that I care for him but that I just think we both need to go our separate ways. I'm scared though.

For the info, i'm a gay male and he is too.

Any advice would be helpful. At this rate, the only safe thing I feel I can do is just be very slow to reply to his emails and make it short n sweet.

Please help.

~B (link)
So i think hes just hiding that fact that he likes you its best that you talk to him before things get worse


Like REALLY short! I am a 14 year old girl and I want to join the basketball team at my school next year but I am 4'10 in height!!!
I think I am done growing because I got my period when I was 11/12 years old.
But is there still a way to make myself grow taller? Or should I just not join the basketball team next year?
My mom is short but my dad is average height. (link)
Dont worry about your height you can still be a good basketball player




I'm a 16 year old male
Recently I spent the weekend at a lake house with a couple friends at a lake house. My friends sister was there who is a year younger than I am.
We instantly got along really well and have a lot of things in common. We held hands for a little bit but then her brother came up to us so we stopped so he wouldn't know.
If he found out we both are afraid that he would be mad at both of us and we wouldn't end up being friends.

She's one of the most beautiful girls Ive ever seen and I just have a feeling that I can't loose about her. Help! (link)
If you really like this girl then tell her brother how you feel and if hes your friend then he will support you


Hi. My friend is in a position. Ok so this girl she knows recently got a broken ankle and that really sucks for her. And another friend of mine is jealous that she has a cast. She's never had a broken bone before. And this friend also does gymnastics. She's trying to get herself a broken bone do she can get herself a cast. I want to give her advice but I got nothin. I went through a stage like this myself, but never broke anything. And my friend is not insane. I assure you. She doesn't want hate or reasons why she shouldn't (I already went through them with her). She just wants to know how to break a bone. (Foot, leg, wrist, or arm). Thx. Again SHE AND I ARENT CRAZY. Just a way to break it without making it look like its on purpose. (link)
its not a good idea for you to break a bone that would be crazy if your friend likes gymnastics then she should not break a bone




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