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I need advice and fast, I really need to talk to my best friend alone though one friend keeps following me around and it is becoming too much but if you ask her to sit with her other friends for today she would get super insulted but I just want one lunch to speak with my best friend about my problems which include her. How do I get her to sit with her other friend (my nemesis)without offending her or making her think I don't want to hang with her anymore
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I feel your my problem is similar to yours you should just talk to her and be really nice about and hopefully she will understand
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Girl tell her whats really bothering you, tell your friend that she is not the only friend you have in your circle, and that you gonna continue speaking to your other friends weather she like it or not. I had a friend like that she clung to me like a fungus, found out she was telling all my buisness to other people, she was obsesssed with me, and It would drive her nuts if I decided to go on a date, Your friend need to go find new friends and allow you to move on. Talking about her to your other associates is immature, you need to be mature about the situation and simpily end the friendship with her. iI she dont want to end your friendship with you set some rules. Tell her that when you wanna talk to your other friends that she is not to throw a tandrum or get an attitude with you, and kindly tell her that nobody will and never will come first before your best friend. Also suggest that you wanna breathe, tell her she suffocating you. Also explain to her that she dont need to follow you everywhere you go. If thay dont work ,Just tell her whats on your mind and for her to move on.
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sounds like you all hang out like a group together. Not sure i am understanding why its a problem to get alone. Aren't there any times you can see your friend without anyone else being around?
You control the situation if it's at your house, your room. So ask your friend to come over to your house because you need to see her,alone, just her, not your other friends around because you would like to discuss something with her that is just between you and her.
Let mom know so she can play interferance if by chance this other gal shows up at your door. She can tell the girl that you are not available right now and promise to tell her you came by. Moms an adult and can figure out what to say, no matter what the gal tries.
I wouldn't try this without telling your parents and siblings understanding to , that they aren't to allow just anyone inside who comes by looking for you because you need a private time with your best friend.
Your parents would find it admirable that you are choosing to address relationship problems in private rather than air dirty laundry publicly for all to hear. I am sure they'll be glad to make sure you get a private time with the friend.
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