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My good friends sister and I have a crush on each other
I'm a 16 year old male
Recently I spent the weekend at a lake house with a couple friends at a lake house. My friends sister was there who is a year younger than I am.
We instantly got along really well and have a lot of things in common. We held hands for a little bit but then her brother came up to us so we stopped so he wouldn't know.
If he found out we both are afraid that he would be mad at both of us and we wouldn't end up being friends.
She's one of the most beautiful girls Ive ever seen and I just have a feeling that I can't loose about her. Help!
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If you really like this girl then tell her brother how you feel and if hes your friend then he will support you
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I'll answer short and simple.
Talk to the brother, if he's such a buddy he won't have a problem with you as long as you treat his sister great! Show him you can and will!
If he doesn't approve, you don't need any approval. Do yalls thing, yall are only young once. & it's not at all an age difference !! :-)
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im going to agree with the other poster here about this.
how long has this guy been your buddy?? should the relationship NOT work out, would he care and or still want to be your friend?
you ARE both young and it Is true that teen relationships can usually be short lived but a FRIENDSHIP and companionship until you both CAN DATE can also be a really good thing as well. staying really good friends and just being there for each other over a prolonged period of time could allow you to REALLY get to know one another and then one day when your both ACTUALLY in a position to date without someone else's consent, it will be no problem! = )
its ok and perfectly natural for guys and girls who are within the same age range to develop feelings for one another, but are you willing to risk the friendship with you guy buddy if you were to openly date right now.
you could just date on the down low and not tell anyone and just "be friends" to the out side world so that if it doesnt work out no one will ever have to know??
thats the only other way i can see this working. plus you'd have to have her SWEAR she would never tell anyone that could make it get back around to her brother and if it does, deny it.
idk thats all i got. good luck.
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Do you know for sure that he is extremely protective of his sister? I know that a lot of guys are, and I notice that you said that you are worried that he would be mad at you. I am trying to see if this fear of yours is well-founded.
I would suggest asking him what he would think about one of his friends hypothetically dating his sister. If he seems cool with it, then tell him that you like her and you think that she likes you too.
After confessing your feelings for his sister, consider his response. If he's not supportive of it, then what is more important - his friendship or having a relationship with his sister, who you can't seem to get over? Before you answer, remember that teen relationships don't usually last long, so if you are good friends you might reconsider risking your friendship. If he gives you the go-ahead, then start pursuing a relationship with her.
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