umm...im tall, blue eyes really sweet and get along wit pretty much anyone i meet. juss ask me anything cuz ive probably been through it all.
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See, my sister and I we both like this guy right?! Well this guy has a girlfriend. But he took my sister to the store today and he was all saying how he likes her and he wants to kiss her and stuff. And I think that is wrong, he has a girlfriend. He also told her that he's afraid to be without a girlfriend and that he is only with his girlfriend because of that and he wants to date my sister but he is afraid of rejection. And this guy knows I like him. I mean, I don't like him majorly. But it's enough to make me weak in the knees, ya know. And I mean I know I'm jealous here. But they rub it in my face and I don't want to tell her that so is there anyway else I could cope with this situation without being sad or crying. My sister keeps taking everything from me. She took my friend too. I mean I still have my friend but she hardly will talk to me now.. Ah, please help. (link)
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well if ur sister ends up datin this guy then dont be upset. there are tons of guys out there. u should try to talk 2 ur friend about everything. tell her ur sister is takin over and u really need someone there 4 u. hope i helped ya!
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My boyfriend is amazing. I love him to death. But he is a little immature sometimes when I need him to just be serious. Any way I could tell him in a nice, non-offending way?? (link)
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sit him down and have a really short talk. just say sometimes when i need u 2 be there, ur off in immature land. plz dont be a baby, be my bf. hope i helped ya!
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Sorry, it's a bit long (or it seems so when I'm typing it.)
This might be confusing, but do you know how when you ask a question, and under my questions, you can now delete your question? Well I deleted one that I asked, and now I'd like to atleast look at it, because I want to figure out the date I asked it. I remember the title of it, but since I deleted it, does that mean it's gone forever, like, what about the people that answered it. Because there were like over 20 people who answered. So is there some way I can get the question back. I rated everybody, or almost everybody who answered, so could it still be in somebody's ratings? I'm not looking for many answers, just for mods who know what they're talking about to answer this, or anybody who knows what they're talking about to answer this. Thanks in advance. (link)
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if u kno someone that answered ur ? before, then look at their advice column and go 2 VIEW. this can take u back 2 the ? and when it wuz asked. otherwise, its gone 4 good. sry. hope i helped ya.
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I have a new neighbor and shes reall cool, i wanted so things to bring up to talk about wit her? i just dont want any acward silences. Also do you no anything to do when we chill at my house? (link)
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just start askin her her fav. movie, color, etc. and stuff like that. maybe play sports or listen 2 music. anything u can think of. hope i helped ya!
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I have had my Shih Tzu for 1 year and one month got him when he was 3 months old. My problem is he is very difficult to potty train,,,sometimes he has accidents in the house, can't figure out why at his age he does, being I thought he was potty trained he goes for long periods without doing anything, then out of the blue he messes in the house..Can someone help me please??? (link)
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my dog does the same thing. wut u have 2 do is make sure u take him out about every 2-3 hours. this should eventually teach him that outside is where he does his business. hope i helped ya!
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hey, my question is that i have a friend ok shes going to be 14 next month ok shes like all scarying me bc of her x.. like he got with a other girl he said they r going to get marry but see the thing is that the girl his with he doesnt even know in person i told her to move on she said its hard i know it is but what can i do to make her to move on or for her not to be hurted all da time bc it makes me sad my self bc it makes me feel like im not a good friend if you can help i would love it ok bye!! (link)
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u definently need 2 help her move on. tell her that her X is with a person he doesnt kno and that she shouldnt be hurt by it bcuz her X is being an idiot. she shouldnt wanna be w/a stupid guy. try to help her find a new bf that will make her feel really special. hope i helped ya!
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ok my I dumped my boyfriend a couple of weeks ago and now i really like him but he acts weird he flirts with me one minuite then round his friends he doesn't wanna know me but I think he still likes me but he keeps saying he's got his other girlfriend pregnant and I'm sick of hearng iit because I think he's lying what should I do I'm really confused please help me (link)
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u should call him and have a serious talk about everything thats been goin on. ask him if hes really serious bout his other gf. hope i helped ya!
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I hate life like you wouldnt even believe. My dad left when i was a baby and my mom is on meds and living with a bf or maybe just some guy she has sex with and so ever since i was young i have been forced to live with my grandmother. My mom and aunt are on meds for depression and stress and they both claim its cuz of my gma which doesnt surprise me cuz she makes me insane, i wish i was dead like every 20 seconds. ever since i had sex she has been talking about eh guy for ever and its really hard for me cuz i really like him and she is the reasion why we are not together and all she ever does is tell me how worthless i am and how im stupid and how the only job i will get is selling my self even tho my grades are ABBBCC and she tells me that i am really low and just basicall puts me down every chance she gets. and i believe that is why i have no self confidence what so ever. and i believe that is why i had sex with my bf because he was the only guy who ever made me feel special and beautiful. but thats besides the point. everyday she reminds me of my mistakes and its getting old and i just want to shoot my self so i have been drinking and taking pills to make me feel alright and what not and well my question is this what can i do so i dont feel like shit 24/7? just a second ago i was going to go out cuz one of my friedns called me and she said oh you look easy enough, so how manny boys do you think you are going to fuck and so i riped my shirt and threw it at her adn said 100 get in line bi***
any ideas or insight would be much appreciated
thank you (link)
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gosh...ur life is so sad. i wish ur mom didnt do that stuff. man wut an idiot. ur grandmother has no right to say that stuff 2 u. u can just stay away from ur house as much as possible. when u have 2 come home, then go straight to ur room and dont say a word. plz dont drink or take pills anymore they arent worth it. if this continues on and ur really really really fed up w/it, then just tell ur grandmother. tell her 2 shut up and that she has no rite to say that sh** bout u. and if it still continues, i would tell somebody. look into foster homes cuz this isnt fair 2 u. hope i helped ya!
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I'm 13/f, and I've been really sad lately. I'm in 8th grade, and for a while I had a lot of excitement in my life; I had my bat mitzvah during the summer, and I've been feeling that my life has been dull. I had been sad about my friends and guys, sad in general, especially at night. One night, I got so sad I cut myself...
I'm feeling depressed and I don't know what to do:(
-what do i do?-
*depressed (link)
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dear depressed
take my word 4 it when i say dont cut. that is serious business. dont ever do that again. everyone gets sad at times in their life. its completely natural. being sad about guys is not worth the trouble. guys are idiots at this age. ur friends will always be there 4 u. if u feel that bad, then find a friend that u trust and go 2 them. tell them how bad it is. they will comfort u 100%. hope i helped ya!
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I'M SO SORRY ITS SO LONG, BUT I NEED HELP BAD.
I am a 13 year old young lady. There is this guy i like, Kyle he is also 13. I am beginning to like one of his best friedns too, by the name of Joel who is currently 14. I already have a "special relationship" with Kyle. He likes me and my best friend too and we like him back. i don't want hings to get even more messed up with him. See, one of my friends thinks that Joel likes me. But there is also another problem, one of my best friends has a huge crush on him too. She just won't admit it because he doesn't like her, but its so sbvious by her actions and expressions that she likes him. i am in a huge pickle. I really don't want to lose two of my friends, but if he does like me i shall find it hard to say no if he asks me out. I sound like such a horrible person, i know. but I don't want to but its just so hard when you liek a person and you actually have someone who might like you back. What should i do, should I go out with Joel if he asks, or no? (link)
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ok. if joel asks u out and u like him then i would say yes. if things dont work out then it wuznt meant 2 be. if u arent sure whether u like him or not, then say no. if ur worried that ur relationship w/Kyle will get messed up then dont go out w/Joel. hope i helped ya!
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ive got this wonderful b/f...im so in love everything is so perfect when im with him...but recently we've been talkin about sex and i half want to...and i half dont..im really really scared...so many things could go wrong i just dunno wut to do....i dont want him to get mad at me or upset even though he said he wouldnt....tonite i stopped him for the 2nd time....plz plz help!!! (link)
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well....sex is something u should never do until ur married. but if ur really serious bout it, then i guess u should ask him 2 wear a condom or somethin. hope i helped ya!
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I know that i can answer my own question but i want to know what yall think....I am mad at two people right now and in a way i feel like i know what to do but then i feel like i dont know what to do....LOL! i have already talked to them both about it and tried to reason with them. i know that, that sounds really stupid but i just really want to know what yall think that i should do.
~Signed the person that needs advice sometimes too~
sammie (link)
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dear sammie
if u think that they still dont understand, then u need 2 resort to desperate measures. u maybe should try writin them a note or a poem or something. something they'll never 4get. if u do it in the right way and ur friends still are mad, then i would consider new friends. real friends would understand no matter wut. hope i helped ya!
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Ok, ok. I admit it. I'm not eating enough. But no one will leave me alone about it! I have this one teacher who's about to call my mom. I seriously don't want to eat more, but if everyone (like my mom) gets on my case about it, I will have no choice! I'm doing well losing weight! I have never looked better! And if everyone gets involved I'm gonna gain it back. Everyone always asks "What did you eat today" And when I say "nothing" they get all mad. How do I get them to leave me alone? (Please don't be like everyone else and tell me it's not good for me) I just want to know how to get them off my back. I would lie but I'm a bad liar. Thanks. (link)
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as bad as it is 4 u, i understand how bad hard it is on u. when they ask u if u ate then say yes and if they ask wut u ate then just say like some cookies or some pringles or something. hope i helped ya!
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I’m female, 15, and I hate everything about my family, I’ve always been rejected and pushed aside and neglected, my brother is the center of everyone’s life because he is such an asshole, my parents give him whatever he wants because they can’t stand to hear him rage and scream and say everything bad and hateful he could possibly say. I think they give him such free rein because he has turrets or however the hell you spell it and they just blame his bad behavior on it. They have always been too focused on trying to help my lying, trouble making, hates-the-world, asshole of a brother, so I can never feel anything- they can’t deal with me being sick, or sad, or angry, because they can’t help me, they’ve stopped trying because as soon as their attention would switch over my brother would do something and start screaming and saying shit about me, and how much he hated me and my parents and that everyone else does everything wrong, not him. My parents won’t get him help, they now take their anger at him out on me, they yell and scream at me when I tell them what I think of my brother and how I think they’re doing stuff wrong with him and how he needs help, my dad always punishes him at the wrong time when he’s actually calm, he can never say anything right to my brother, and then they ask me to go give him food or ask him stuff and my brother takes shit out on me. I hate everything about my family, I’m tired of being pushed around and neglected, and they’re making me into a person I hate, what can I do that doesn’t involve anything that costs money? because I’m not that rich. Plz help me, I’m honestly ready to kill myself.
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plz dont kill urself. its not rite. but wut u do need 2 do is sit ur parents down and tell them exactly how u feel. if u feel so bad then tell them. tell them everything. if they still refuse to be parents, then u need 2 make a decision. is it worth all the adoption trouble? if u feel like u need 2 talk, then IM me at volleyballash101. hope i helped ya!
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okay this is actually a very long thing but ill make it as short as i can:
Theres this guy and we were like BEST FRIENDS last year and we were always flirting and everyone knew we liked eachother.. and then over the summer we told eachother that we really do like eachother.. and then the next school year rolls around and were still friends but like the whole school knows hes trying to ask me out, so things are a little harder and more akward but we try hard but then things start to get so annoying cuz people wont stop bugging us and like mostly him cuz he is just like retarded and too afraid to ask me out so we like take long walks talking about it and he says he wants to ask me and not me to ask him and that he still likes me and everyhting but he still doesnt do it.. it gets really old and i let him know that but things kind of continute the same then things start to slow down a little cuz we both have kind of lost energy trying to find time for eachother cuz were not in any classes together and not from the same town. So then all of a sudden he says he doesnt like me anymore.. after liking me for sooo long, and then a few days later he says he does and tehn the next week he doesnt, so RIGHT NOW hes saying he doenst but omg he acts like he likes me like even more now and he like i dont even know but now im hanging out with a lot of guys more than usual and he gets all like jealous kind of and i don know what to do, cuz we will prolly never end up going out cuz hes stupid but i still like him, but i hate him for what hes done to me and how he wasted my time!! ahh i need help! please do your best, i knwo this is kind of too retarded of a situation but i tried
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dear deathly confused
he definently likes u. u just simply need 2 tell him that if anything is gonna happen then it should happen soon cuz its gettin very annoyin 2 both of u. tell him that if he doesnt like u then he should tell u so u can get on w/ur life. hope i helped ya!
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ok i was hangin out with my bf who i only get to see wednesday, friday saturday n sometimes sunday bc we go to diff skools n stuff...and hes PERFECT i love him alot n weve been goin out for about 4 months...well he ALWAYS forgets to call me or watever but today was reallie pissing me off...last nite i told him to call me when he got home n to not forget so he laffed n wrote it on his hand n he neevr called...and today we wer gonna plan to do something since we both have it off and he didnt call ALL day! i decided i wasnt gonna call him bc its up 2 him to call me now! wat shuld i tell him when he finalyl does call? i kno hes gonna make up some excuse on why he ddint call or he wont bring it up at all...how can i bring it up n tll him wat he did wat messed up.. (link)
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when he calls u definently need 2 tell him that he screwed up big time. i would bring up today and ask him wut yall were gonna do and then tell him that if ur gonna do stuff 2gether then he needs 2 call u and not leave u responsible 4 all this getting 2gether stuff. hope i helped ya!
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i've been really fed up with everyone -- for no reason at all. i can barely stand one of my best friends and i have the urge to scream at my family all the time for the smallest things. i'm not a bxtch or anything, and i'm not pmsing. i've also felt really anxious lately. and i have gotten two white hairs in the past few months, and i'm just a teenager. does anyone know what the frick is going on? thanks. (link)
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dont worry bout the hair. my aunt got grayz when she wuz 9. if ur fed up w/everyone, then take some time for urself everyday where u can write in a diary or something and just get away from the day. hope i helped ya!
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ok well i have a bf, and i like him alot. we have been going out for about 1/2 a year so far. but one of my good friends is good friends with him, and sometimes we'll all hang out, us 3, and she kind of..shuts me out. i doubt she means to. but she'll touch his sweatshirt and try to like pick the lettering off it cuz it "bugs her" or she'll walk in front of me and kind of cut me off and go with him. i feel kind of left out and like he maybe like her when that happens. i dont think he likes her...but still. she'll play around with him to like punch him lightly and theyll have little "fights". idk im prob overreacting but i was wondering if u cud help. id rather not talk to her about it unless i have to. (link)
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u should tell ur bf that u feel kinda shut out by this. if he does nothing about it, then u will have 2 go 2 her to get her 2 stop. if she doesnt stop, then u mite run into some problems ahead. hope i helped ya!!
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i get depressed like really easly.. like today at school i was really hyper and happy and all that but now im really up set and want to cry over nothing. i just randomly melt down.. is there anyway to stop this or is there a reason im like this? (link)
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there are tons of people that get depressed really easily. in middle and high school, many kids just feel like cryin over nothing and there is nothing u can do about it but cry and get it out of ur system. u just gotta tough it up. hope i helped ya!
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when im w. my boyfriend i am like on top of the world and i luv him alot..but then when i go home at night i have second thoughts and i get really confused on if i really do love him and if we should break up or not...what should i do because i dont wanna break up w. him when im w. him ...but i get so confused when were apart! (link)
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everyone thinks about that kinda stuff. its absolutely normal. if u have any doubts then stay w/him. he mite do something so amazing that will blow u away so that u never leave. hope i helped ya!
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