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I need some good rap songs for my party. Can you list some? I'll rate 5's I already have Shake , There it go, Badd, Laffy Taffy, and When I'm gone. Include the artists please. I'll rate 5's.
ok this one, is like...weird...but its enjoyable to some. its called:
My Humps
Black Eyed Peas
can someone tell me why my cat pees everywhere?and how can i make hi stop doing it?all 5s
well if its a male cat, and you dont have him neutured, then hes probably spraying to attract female cats
Okay, this is VERY long but im Very confused so please help me!
Ok last year (6th grade) THERE was this guy and he is cute, smart, funny, but shy (just a little bit though) and he was new to our school. but he went to our school in kindergarden and he was in my class and I liked him (my 1st crush).
So then in the 6th grade I liked Him A LOT. and no one knew because almost every girl in the grade liked him and my bff (the only 1 who knew) said that I shouldnt like him that it was pathetic because i was just like every one else.
But i couldnt stop liking him. not just because he was cute but because i loved his personality everyone just liked him becuase of his looks.
but i really thought that he was ruining my life because ever since i started liking him, i got bad grades. so i pretended to hate him. and he went along with it and we started to fight and I acted like i hated him but i really really liked him. so when the year ended i was upset that we were fighting because i wanted to b friends with him. he was so nice and interesting. (you know that feeling when u just want to get to know someone?)
so this year i still liked him and so did this girl i thought was my friend but she was a brat and so i asked him out 4 her but then she started lying about me saying stuff that i made up about her a and when i asked him and he said no i pressured him into doing it because i thought she would except me now. but it just got worst he REALLY hated me now and they broke up after a few weeks.
after a while we started talking again and became sorta kinda just a bit friends and stuff because we both had this same teacher who was really nasty and we exchanges stories about him.It was fun and sometimes I would catch him staring at me and stuff i REally liked him i swear it was no longer a crush i really LOVED him. I mean I dream about him every night and sometimes i even cry myslef to sleep because Iknow I would never have a chance with him I asked my friends if they thought i could get any guy and they were all like yea ur blond and blue eyes and thin and athletic and crap but i thought thta i had an ugly face i mean i guess i am ok but i dont know i have freckles(no affence 2 any one out there who does 2 i just dont like them) but still no one knew and i was starting to think he didnt even picture me as a friend just as someone he knew.
but then last night we had a dance at our school and he kept staring at me and everyone was grinding and everything and then a slow song came on and he started dancing with a punk girl and i was like thats not his type he is a surfer dude person not a punk or something y ius he doing this? so i ignored him the rest of the night and tried to have a good time but when i came home i cryed for
3 hours.
I am so depressed and I cant just let him go I am going in sane please dont think i am an obsessive freak like some girls I am really in love with this guy. I know it! and every day i see him i want to ask him if he likes me but i think that will totally ruin any chance I have to be with him. I cant ask him out either everyone thinks I hate him and my biggest fear is rejection.
Please help me I will rate 5 to anyone who atleast trys to help
THANKYOU
~going crazy~
im in the same exact situation. but i asked my love out and he said no..and my friend asked him if he liked me and he said no. but my advice is to just try to forget about him. i know its hard cuz you see him everyday and you think about him all the time. but just hang out with your true friends and just have fun. go to the mall, have some friends sleep over, try to do some afterschool activities. study hard so you dont have so many bad grades. my love rides my bus so i just walk home now :-p anyway, read a book or watch tv or an interesting movie that you like when you start thinking about him. think about something else before you fall asleep so maybe you wont have dreams about him. actually, thinking about things will just keep you up all night so count sheep. :) thats what i do. haha. well hun, i hope i helped. if you need anything, my sn for aim is SummerSunset48 or just leave one in my inbox. =D
♥ Julie
*this may be kinda long sorry! but thanks for taking the time to read this*
*well me and my ex boyfriend "mike" have been broken up for 9 months now! we talk about once a day or sometimes every other day! we have hung out quite a few times..and this is where the problem starts
*last night he came over and picked me up at my house around 10! he lives like 30 mins away from me so the whole time we were driving he was just kinda flirting with me..like making fun of me and stuff! well we were going to his friends house to get him and then gonna go bowling but his best friend was there and he doesnt like me so we didnt go there..instead we just went to mcdonalds! he kept asking me if i wanted something but i said no! well he got something and while he ate we sat in his truck and just talked..he kept staring at me and i was like what and hes like can i not look at you! and he kept calling me turtle lip which is what he called me when we went out! well then we left and went to his house and i started playing with my hair and
he was like whats wrong? i was like nothing and hes like what are you thinking about and i was like nothing and he was like dont lie to me i know better..well i didnt wanna talk about it! so we get to his house and he undoes his seatbelt..he looks at me and goes do you think it would really work out? i was like i really dunno and he was like honestly and i was like i dunno maybe! well i told him i was cold so he moved the thingy in the middle up and came and cuddled with me! well he was rubbing my feet for a while and he knows i love that! then he layed his head on my chest and was listening to my heart beat! well then he looked at me and was like can i bite your lip and i was like why and he was like i want to so i was like sure..so he did..then he layed his head on my chest again and just stared at me and was like can i kiss you so i was like i guess so we kissed! and that happened quite a few times! he kept trying to hold my hands and hold me in his arms! well i got up for a sec so he laid in my spot! well i was like fine ill go in the back and he was like no lay on me so i did! the seat belt thing was in my way so i went to the back..so he came back there with me and of course we cuddled and ended up messing around! weve hung out several times before this and weve never touched eachother like that or cuddled/kissed or anything! well then it was 1:30 and his dad was like you need to take her home! ya it seems awesome i know..but heres where it doesnt make sense! today he was on AIM and imed him (he was away though) and i was like you know things are gonna be hard now cause i cant get over him at all..and he signed off so i was like what the heck! so i got on myspace and he was on so i was like whatever cause sometimes it just leaves it on! then again later i got on it and he was on it again but he wasnt on AIM so i felt like he was avoiding me! so i called him and was like why are you ignoring me and he was like im not im watching a movie ill ttyl so i was like whatever! and he hasnt been on AIM all day..sometimes hes not but its kinda weird! i dunno if its just me or if hes ignoring me! i guess my question is what should i do? let go or keep trying? keep in mind he is my 1st love but i have been trying for 9 months.. how do you think he feels? do you think he really likes me and is scared to tell me or fall me or what? ughhh someone please help me! thanks so much
sorry it took so long for me to answer this! hopefully he has talked to you by now. but if not, you should keep trying. because if you really love this guy...than all you can do it love him! i know this is short and stuff but i gotta go. im in a hurry. if something else happens, just ask again! i'll be there for ya!
so hey, is there actually a step to the 1,2 step? if there is, could neone explain it, or give a website with instruc.? HAHA THANKS.
will rate!
:)
NO! actually i dont know. but you could make up your own! hehe.
Julie174
What is the top of the line eyeliner?
ok that was my brother if you say the bah and stuff...well the top of the eyeliner is just make up? l0l. welp i kno i didnt help! sorry!
Julie
hi i was just wonderin if ripped jeans or torn out jeans were still the style? and if they r where should i get them where is the best place?
yeah ripped and/or torn jeans are still in style. You probably should go to http://www.kohls.com/main/searchzeroresults.jsp or you can just buy a pair of jeans and cut it the way you want it! hope i helped, if you need anything else, let me know! see yaa
*~Julie~*
my mom wont let me see my boyfriend at all. he doesnt have a computer so i cant e-mail him or IM him. and my mom has total control over the phone. i havent been on a date with him at all! ever!! and i've been going out with him for about a month and a half. i wont see him in school because we're in different parts. i miss him so much and i love him so much. what should i do? heeelllppp!!
hey! this is my question! haha. since i dont kno the answer to this, i wont reply. cuz its my question!!! but i hate the fact that im the first person to say something! argh. ok but please help me people. l o l
Since its summer I never see my boyfriend. My mom doesnt want us going out on dates actually she doesnt even want me having a boyfriend. Im 13!!!!!! It is so unfair. Anyway how can we see each other more without my mom finding out?
i have the same exact problem! i havent gone on one date with my bf because of my mom. ok, back to you. you could call him and tell him to meet you at the movies or somewhere. thats what i did..but he didnt have i ride. :O so...you could always do that...or when your home alone invite him over for a little while. (find out how long you'll be home alone) i cant think of anything else right now but if you have anymore questions, im there for ya babe! haha. or just IM me at SummerSunset48 bub byez.
♥ Julie ♥ ^o^
ok i like this guy and i want to tell him but i would get nevous and red in the face if i told him. so i want to do in a way that i dont have to tell him.plz help.
you could call him, tell him online, write him a note, have a friend tell him, or just wear a lot of blush and stuff on your face so he wouldn't be able to see the redness! haha, well hope i helped. if you need anything, let me know or IM me on SummerSunset48 on aim. see yaa
*Julie*
OK my cousin is pretty much a slut. she's 11. she wheres really tight shirts that go up past her bellybutton along with a really short skirt. She wears VERY thick padded bras so she uses a C cup. When someone calls her a slut she giggles and says "nuh uh..!" And I'm gettin sick of it because my friends are like "how does it feel to have an 11 yr old have bigger boobs than you" and honestly i really dont care because im not fake but no one realizes that. and on top or it, she brags about gettin slapped in the ass by other guys and she shaves which i dont think she should be doing when she's 11 even though its not my choice. What can do to help her without gettin her upset??
im sorry but i have to say this...
slap your cousin across the face, kick her until shes down, punch her teeth out, kick her ribs and scream "STOP BEING A FUCKING SLUT YOU BITCH!"
ok...now it's time for seriousness..haha.
i seriously think you should hit her. haha. but tell her shes being a slut and you hate it. tell her that shes a retard and if she doesnt stop being a slut, shes gunna be ruined in middle and high school. haha. sorry to be mean but this is what i think. haha. well hope it all works out. if you hate me and rate me a 1, thats ok. i just needed to tell you what i think you should really do! haha. see yaa
*~Julie*~
hi my name is jess i met this kid at camp named matt i think i like him and i want to know if he likes me back how is this possible to find out if he likes me back
Thanks jess
ps. please dont delete this it is urgent
*dont listen to that retard*
Well you should ask him. Well not "do you like me" because he might denie it. Have someone that he doesn't know is your friend (that way he wont denie it cuz he thinks they'll tell you) go up to him and ask him who he likes or if he likes you. OR you can just ask him out (paper or in person) and see what he says. if he likes you the answer is yes if not, you'll be fine. If you need anything else, leave one in my inbox.
^o^ Julie ♥
Does anyone know some cute stuff to do to an ao0l profile.. any html or anything you can do to make it cuter?? WILL RATE HIGH!!!
well you could put stuff like if you have a boyfriend/girlfriend then you can put in i love _______ and you can put in people who you know are going out. You can tell about yourself, you can put your best friends names. I use BuddyProfile. you can get one at BuddyProfile.com It's fun to make a profile. haha, If you need anything else, let me know and I'll do my best to help!
Love Always,
Julie ♥ ^o^
My friend says that blink-182 is a band which mainly girls listen to. I was like, no dude, blink-182 isn't like that. There are about the same of both. It's not a guys or girls band, kind of something which everyone listens to. Who would you say is correct?
your right. its for boys and girls. your friend is stupid if they thought it was just a girl band.
im not sure if i could really follow your advice jus on the main fact that his gf and i are friends now, we were in cheerleading together so i would really feel bad about asking him out.
well if you really like this guy, tell him. Don't ask him out then. Just tell him and see what he does. If your lucky, he might break up with his girlfriend for you! But if he doesn't and just wants to be friends, then thats ok. You'll get over him. If you need more help, let me know.
Julie ^o^
okay this deffinitly doesn't fall under the advice category, but its bothering me and i figure someone on here is bound to know. in malibus most wanted, when he says, your a mix between "blank" and oprah...i think i'll call you moprah. who is the blank?
ps...i am full aware that this question is beyond stupid : )
I love that movie and it's your a mix between Martha Stewart and Oprah...imm gunna call you Moprah. Hope i helped.
Julie ^o^
I'm 17 and i started going out with this boy who was 15 and i was 16 at the time. we went out for a month then i dumped him bc i didnt think i liked him anymore. We remained friends and started to become friends with benefits. Now i really regret breaking up with him i think about him alot. He started liking this other girl an we stopped talking. now over the summer we have drivers ed together and he kind of flirts with me and his gf is leaving for college this year. i dont know what i should do or what i should think...im really confused right now. any help would be great!! thanks.
I know it seems weird but ask him out! It may feel a lot harder because he has a girlfriend but it won't hurt to try. If that doesn't work and things turn out bad OR if you don't want to try and you think it's a bad idea, then let me know and I'll get right on it! haha. I'll answer ASAP. Good Luck and hope i helped!
Julie ^o^
I have another question, earlier i asked one about breaking up with my boyfriend and still likeing him and we became friends with benefits. well we were both were virgins and lost are virginities together. It was my first time so it didnt really feel to good. after he asked me if i felt good an i told him no. we did it a couple more times after that time and it still didnt really feel the best. i guess it got him angry bc he told my sister and his friends that i hate sex. is it normal to feel like that after your first time? is something wrong, what should i do?
oh it's totally normal for the first couple times hun! If your sister is a virgin, you should tell her what happens. if shes not, then she should understand! His friends are probably boys right? well...then they can take a girl yelling at them. ;) If you want, try it again. If it still doesn't feel too good, don't worry. It's normal. Hope i helped. if you need anything, let me kno and i'll answer your question ASAP. good luck!
Julie ^o^
i need to find a new bedspread. my mom told me to look online but i cant find any i really like. i already looked at www.pbteen.com and all the department stores i can think of. does any one know where i can find a cute bed spread? 15/f
walmart.com!!! hah. That might help though. I have more but don't have time to write them down so let me know and I'll send you a LOT more. Good Luck
♥ Julie ^o^
I'm 15/F turning 16 in october. I'm desperate to get a babysitting job, so my cousin told me to make flyers to put around my neighborhood.
What should kind of information should I put on the flyer, like my name and phone number.
How should I decorate it and what additional information should I add?
Lastly, what SHOULDN'T I put on my flyer?
Thanks guys. ♥
you should add things like your expireaince with kids and CPR classes that you've taken, if you can cook meals and change diapers and things like that, your phone number should be added, and definetly your name, your charge (4.00-8.00 an hour) I don't think theres anything theres much of anything you shouldn't put on there except things like " i dont do laundry, i dont change diapers, i dont do dogs. and things like that. well hope i helped and if that doesnt work, let me kno and i'll do my best to help you as much as i can. Good Luck!
^o^ Julie ^o^