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hi my boyfriend and I had sex for the first time. yes I lost my virginity to him. Girls use to say that you usually bleed for the first time.
When I lost my virginity to my boyfriend I did not bleed at all.

Is this a problem or not every girl bleed when they have sex for the first time? (link)
no that's normal I believe he just didn't go really deep and also its safer when he doesn't make you bleed in a way you get consequences but preganancy kind hope I helped =)


ok so my boyfreind is 15 im 13 the age doesnt bother me that much but the fact that he has has sex before does we can talk about it openly and all but i think he thinks i am imature for telling him there is no way in hell i will lose my virginity when i am only 13 and stuff i dont really no wat my question is i think i just need to talk to someone about it help please (link)
aight look if he thing your immature then he just cares about him just gettin some and that's it he has to respect the fact that your gonna loose it @ that age and that a great decision because let me tell you something he's already has done it with girls so imagine those girls he's done it with how many guys the girls done it with understand me the chain continues... your really smart thinkin that because I know a lot of people that regretted loosin there virginity young well hope I helped =)


HEY GOTTA QUESTION ABOUT CONDOMS.

now me and my bf were about to do stuf the other day and he told me he couldnt because he got the wrong condoms. and i fuess he said *sensitive* condoms were made to feel more but he said they BREAK easier. soo is this true? just wondering becuz i think its a good idea u kno for all those who do purchase the *sensitive, ultra sensitive..etc.* (link)
not all condumns are 100% sure the one I heard that could break easily are ultra thin if you wanna use a good condumn I've seen in the internet that durex are the most recommended unlikely to get broken quickly hope I helped =)


ok. so my mom is going to iraq and my dad is moving me from west bloomfield, were my boyfriend lives to clarkston where my dad wants to live. we are moving next week. should i keep going out with him and do that whole long distance thing or should i break it off and explain?

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I think in a way you should leave the decision to him like explain to him what's going on and then ask him if hell feel better for a long distance or separate well hope I helped =) but remember if you guys do a long distance relationship I think you should just try not to get to close but also remeber when you move over there you guys are never going to be seein eachother and hangout well bye


i really really like my guy friend we are neighbors and he tottaly gives me mixed messages we see eachother everyday and i just can't stand to be away from him i don't know if he likes me or not should i tell him how i feel or not. pleez help i will rate five no matter wat the answere (link)
I think what you should do is at first talk to about like who he likes and stuff ... also yea you should twell him how you feel maybe he like you too... but also make sure you guys coukd become friend first well I hope I helped and hopefully everything turns out good well bye =)


my boyfreind and i met on canada day when i was visiting poeple in reddeer it was great he was great and we connected great and all but londg distance is hard do u have any type s to make it easier or should i dump him because of the distance (link)
in a way its not a good idea to have long relationships if you feel that you can trust him 100% then go right ahead but remember you guys are @ different places different people so you don't what's happenein like in a way it better someone there where you are because you'll be able to spend time... but also if the guys different then right ahead... again long distance isn't bad just what you feel right hope I helped =)



okay so im 16 and i have never made out. i now have a new boyfriend and im nervous. like a part of me doesnt want him to kiss me and i dont know why. am i just nervous or am i still not ready? i mean im fine with the quick peck on the lips but i dont want to make out. i dated a guy for like 6 months without making out.. i know this cant go on forever but ah i dont know... also in a way the whole tounge in the mouth thing grosses me out... and i dont know how kiss so i wouldnt know what to do. everyone tells me to just go with the flow.. but sitll. wont your teeth knock together?
anyways..

what is wrong with me? (link)
makin out with a guy is always nice I think you shouldn't feel weird like I'd understand when he makes his first move don't back out or I think you shoukd tell him my last boyfriend was my first makeout and I told him that I'd never before so he just told me what to do but in the nice way... so if he really a mature guy and hell take it the mature way just tell him how you feel about makin out and stuff and yea your friend are right just go with the flow just do exactly what he's doin it well hope I helped =)


I'm in love with my best friend. But unfortunatly he is going out with some girl I really don't like. She's the type that will hurt him really bad inside and will leave him for someone else. That is her process. How do I break them up without him knowing I did it on purpose?

Oh and he (best friend) knows im madly in love with him.

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well I think you shouldn't break them up because in a way your gonna feel bad what you've done like regret also if your best friend accidently find out hell probably won't want to talk to you anymore... I think you should just always be there for him and when he notices that hell always have you as a best friend hell probably fall for you how you fall for him also you could tell him how he feels I think you should like always ask to go out and stuff but as friend ;)... but @ the same time remember you don't wanna feel awkward around a best friend when something doesn't work out well hope I helped =)


I wanna loose like 25-30 lbs Before September. Cause every year in Gym we get weighed which i hate! About how long will it take to loose this weight doing it the proper way?

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i think the best way to loose weight is to just run and wear a sweat suit trust me it works... but also when your loosin weight dont go off and eat appropriate things well i hope i helped =)


If you are sent an invitation to someone's Sweet 16 and the card says RSVP, do you have to call to inform them that you will not be attending? (link)
yes you would have to call to tell them you are not attendin


When you get horny and turned on and then you masturbate, does that cause you to get more discharge? Because the more horny I get, there's A LOT of discharge and it's not because of my period because there's A LOT more!! (link)
when girls get horny they get wet which means they dischrage but a lot is normal its nothin to worry about hope I helped =)


Okay…..^_^ this might take a while. Well, at camp, on the second day of the time we were there, Abby and I were sitting on a loveseat during this camp activity thing. Everyone was told that they had to sit in the middle, (which is where we were sitting) So, Mikey gets up from the back and looks around for a place to sit. He looks straight at me and sits down INBETWEEN me and abby. We are sitting there, and my heart was kinda pounding. Anyway, he starts to poke my leg…. and so of course I had to poke him back. So we went on like that for awhile. And then he laid his hand on my leg for like 5 seconds and smirked at me…. almost like a challenge…>.> so I had to do it back of course. So then, we went on like that forEVER and it was almost like the nervous game but I stopped. And then I elbowed him in the side, and it was funny!

Okay! NEXT DAY! WOOOOO…Okay, I was in crafts with abby and kirstie and Marissa. And Mikey was in Ping-Pong, which is in the same room. Then I finished my craft, and he had lost at ping-pong. I walked past him to go talk too abby and he stops me. He’s all….”sit on my lap” and I was all…O_O no! and then he was all…. Please? And I said, No, cause I’m not a slut. So he asked me to sit on the arm of the chair. So I did for like a minute. But then my butt started to ache so I got up and moved into the chair next to him. Then he started to show off, and he rocked back and forth in the chair he was sitting in, and flipped it backwards on purpose. He was sitting like that for a while, but then he was uncomfortable, cause he couldn’t get up. So he asked me to help him. So I tried…. for like 2 seconds, but got bored so I gave up. Then he was whining and whining and stuff. Then he stopped and looked at me and was all, “hold my hand…” And I was all “._.;;;;;” But I did, ^_^ and then he said that I had really soft hands which made me laugh. Then abby and kirstie helped him get the chair up, but he wouldn’t let go of my hand.

THEN, , we had swimming. I went down to the pool, but I didn’t know he was going to be there, and I didn’t want to swim cause I had my cloths on, and I had my period. BUT, he kept threating to push me in and I didn’t wanna get wet so I sat next to the lifeguard. The lifeguard was all, “If you touch her and push her in then I’ll get pushed in to and I WOULD NOT be happy…*glare*” (cause she was holding my hand so he couldn’t get me.) ^_^ Heehee, anyway, so he just stood over me and dripped water on me, and splashed me, AND HE WAS SHIRTLESS! …*Drool* but then I got bored so I wen’t and put my legs into the water in the shallow end with kirstie, and It was nice and we were sitting there and I was all ahhhhh. But of course, he had to come over. So he walks over in all his wet shirtless glory and is holding a Frisbee. He dips the Frisbee under that water and all the sudden splashes me. I sat there very quietly, and he said…”You can hit me if you want…” and I was all…”I’m not going to hit you…. *and then I jumped in the water fully clothed* I’M GOING TO KILL YOOOU!” Lets just say he ran away like a little girl, lol.

Then since my group was with his for the next activity which was ultimate Frisbee, he pretended to be sick and sat on the sidelines and watched kirstie and me. We were doing handstands and stuff and it was fun. After that, we were walking back past the rec hall, and he ran up out of no-where and just grabbed my hand. It was like…*Mikey appears out of no-where* *snatch’s hand* I got very scared, but I let him hold it! ^_^;;;, then some random kid was all, “Hey Mikey! Is that your new girlfriend!” and I looked at Mikey and went “EWWWWWWWWWWW” and walked away. ^_^ Heehee, oopsie? Then after that, there was just random flirting and him throwing stuff at me and being adorable, and stuff

Then when we got back home and stuff, kirstie randomly asked him why he kept hitting on me at camp, and he said its cause he likes me!


Okay,my quistion is, do you think he likes me, and i'm wondering if i should date him, cause he is in rehab right now....and after camp he made out with some other girl. WHAT SHOULD I DO!?!?!?!?! (link)
I'm guessin that he does like you and I think you should talk to him like I don't it isn't gonna hurt and I think he made out with that girl was because you said ewwww in front of him lol so just say how you felt and can we get to know eachother g to the movies or an arcade well hope I helped =)



Okay, so my friend just hooked up me and this guy. & I like him, and I'm pretty excited.

But the chances are my parents arn't going to let me date. He want me to go to the movies with him, and personally I don't like going to the movies of first dates. Excpecially when you just turned 13 and have overprotective parents.

I offerered to go to the pool club with him, I don't think he's too crazy about that idea. And he really does like me, alot. I made up the excuse not to go to the movies. I feel bad. What should I do? (link)
I think what you could do that instead of you just not likin goin to the movies why don't you just invite him over to your house to watch a movie and then your parents could meet him and won't feel overprotective maybe they'll like him and stuff well hope I helped =)


im 13 and ive been talking to a guy who went to my school like all year. he's a year older than me and in the fall he'll be a freshmen and i'll be in 8th grade. we talk so much and i really like him but he has a girlfriend and before he had a girlfriend we would talk soo much more about like personal stuff and how far we would go with eachother. now its all different and i haven't really told him how i feel. i always kinda assumed he liked me too but now he has this beautiful girlfriend.. help?
thx so much (link)
I believe the reason why this guy would always talk to you and stuff was because he pribably justs saw you as friend that he could talk about anythin... like don't feel bad because remember you can't always get your hopes up.. and also i think you shouldn't be callin him and be like I thought you liked me and stuff especially that he has a girl it makes you seem desperate... just remember that you guys are going to start a new year in different grades which mean you have your own people and he has his so just try to move on and then when you get to the same school just keep in touch.... well I hope I helped =)


ok this is sooo gay but i was just wondering if you knew a site/screenname that has really cute things for profiles. like with hearts and cute quotes

thanks so much (link)
I think you could just go to google and write the type of qoutes you want and/or write thing cute things for profiles


okay..so there's this guy that i've sorta always liked..and we dated at this beginning of this year but we broke up after like two weeks..and he told me a few days ago that he likes me and he wants me to ask him out or something cause he'll have more respect for me..anyways i really dont wanna get hurt like i did last time and i want something that's going to last..and he says that he's tired of being single and he wants a relationship..but i dont know if i should believe him or not. so what do you think i should do?

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well honey in a way he sounds fake I'm sorry but you should never ask a guy out let him ask you out if he really said that he don't wanna be single and he wants a relatioship why can't he prove it tp you by sayin sorry for the past or bringin flowers... has he benn showin that he wants to bewith you like always callin you to show that he's changed and bein serious... well I hope I helped just wanna say that just be really careful like notice how different he is this time even the smaleest thing ever... don't get heartbroken and ooo yea if hes yall been broken up for more than month then it won't be a good idea because you don't know what he has done in between you get me well bye =)


In your honest opinion...

How realistic is it to think that you will one day marry your first love? I don't think it's likely, but it happens, right? I'm 16 and he is 17. And I've never felt this way about anyone in my entire life. I just want to experience everything in life with him. We talk about getting married sometimes, I mean seriously talk about it. When we do talk about it he tells me that he is serious, that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me.

Opinions? Advice Please? (link)
well isn't that cute my boyfriend tells me the same thing and I know he was serious and I wanted that too but I told him that we are going to be together forever but remember I know for a fact that when you turn older you wanna do many thing goin clubbin chillin with the boys also probably strip clubs when he gets older he wants to enjoy his life and do what ever he wants I'm not ryin to discourage and change your mind but you must know that everythin is true so I think right now just be going out then when you know you guys could already start a life together get married... hope I helped =)


I've heard a lot of words that I can tell are sexual and I figured all of them out but two...
1) What does it mean to be "fingered" (ex:Would I mind if he fingered me)

2)Being hitted on (ex: he was hitting on me)

I've been so confused, thanx (link)
hello I think you must be really young to know these stuffs but what ever well bein fingerend mean when someone insert there finger inside your vagina like a penis but usin the finger instead and there movin there finger around but INSIDE your vagina... and being hitted on is like flirtin with he was hittin on me= he was flirted with me hope I helped =)


I'm 13. I have a MAJOR crush. But, according to my friends, he's not just a crush anymore. Well, I really like him. When I got ahold of his email, we started chatting online all the time. Finally some of my friends dilivered his message. He liked me too. One day while we were chatting he asked me out to the movies. I couldn't believe that I wasn't able to go. Anyways, now, according to my friends, he's my officail boyfriend. That the part I'm not so sure about. I mean, a boyfreind when you're only 13? I feel too young for that... Is he my officail boyfriend or am I really too young for that kind of thing? (link)
I think you havin a boyfriend @ 13 is not young... I think what you should do I'd really talk to him and next time you do I think you should make a move like wanna come to my house and watch a movie but if your allowed I don't now how your parents are... but yiur definietly not to young to get a boyfriend... but if you wanna wait that fine there's never an exact age when you gotta start datin... hope I helped =)


I have had unprotected sex a lot and my boyfreind had accidentaly ejaculated inside me before quite a few times and while im on my period he always does because i've never gotten pregnant.. does this mean that i'll never get pregnant? is something wrong with me?

please help (link)
no I don't think nothin is wrong I just think your LUCKY!!!! but girl you should really stop until one day it gets really serious and this time you get pregnant I'm not tryin to jynx you but use a condumn what the big deal or birth control pills... just don't take advantage the fact you don't get pregnant




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