Member Since: July 20, 2004
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Last Update: October 4, 2004
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i am a girl and for halloween i dressed up like aguy and sometimes i do it for fun with my friends. and all my friends call me homefry and stuff. i don't like girly clothes stores and sometimes i do things like gangster-ish. am i bi or something? (link)
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Well do you like chicks? I mean are you physcially and/or emotionally attracted to girls? If you're not then no...if you are, and you like guys too then maybe you are I dunno what the whole situation is.
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I have liked this guy for almost two years and he seemed interested too! but he is extremely shy and now he just graduated Highschool so i won't get to see him anymore, i invited him over my house but he said no, any suggestions on what i should do? i mean he really seemed intersted in me cause he e-mails me everyday.....Any advice on how i should get over him then? should i tell him how i feel in an e-mail? (link)
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Going to college is always a very confusing situation for anybody. What he might have felt a few weeks ago could have changed completely because of the transition he is going through. He also might have liked you as well but is feeling that the best for both of you is to keep it as friends. A lot of people change at college, and he's probably going to find a new life there including new friends and new girls. Being the girlfriend whose back home wondering what the guy is doing at college isn't a fun position anyway. I advise you to just let him go. I don't think you really need to tell him how you feel unless both of you guys are willing to accept this long distance and strenuous relationship.
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i need to listen to some new bands... i love the ones i listen to,so i'd like something like them (the strokes, weezer, von bondies, and coldplay)
not rap (spare me), or hip-hop or anything. just rock... and i usually end up liking the bands that aren't very well known...
hear of some?
if so... let me know. (link)
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Reel Big Fish, Offspring, Yellowcard, Alkaline Trio, Taking Back Sunday, The Darkness, Oasis, Blink182, Chevelle, ACDC, Led Zeppelin, KISS, Black Sabbath, Blue Oyster Cult, Green Day, Hoobastank, DMB (only the CD Busted Stuff), I'll think of more and send them to you
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guys im worried.. ok so this guy im dating, we dont talk about EVERYTHING yet; weve only been goin out 4 3 weeks, and hes told me that his parents dont want him dating right now because of some wrong decisions he made in the past..but he never comes right out and says what those decisions were, and iv never asked because im scared he might not be a virgin anymore, and im a lil more prude than him, i know that for sure.. im 14, almost 15, and hes 16, almost 17... and whenever i tell people that im dating him, they're like "girl what are you thinking, ive heard so many stories about him" ive never asked 2 hear those stories either,cuz im scared of the truth, but i know he went out with this "slut" last year that was a grade older than him, and a girl 2 grades older than him which is who he made the bad choices with.. do u think hes jus datin me cuz im a grade younger, so his parents might let him date again? im also scared he might not be a virgin, which means he might try something i dont wanna do with him, although i made it clear in the beginning im takin it slow n im not a slut... eeek hes at work camp this week with his church which is where he hooked up with his g/f he made bad decisions with (but that was last year @ camp).. i hope shes not there again.. and i dont really doubt the fact that he'll try 2 put the moves on other girls... hit me up ladies~ im worried about this one.. (link)
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This really reminds me of the movie Chasing Amy. You should see it. It's about a man that is going out with this girl who has a lot of stories surrounding her like she's done two guys at the same time and shit and he is really worried that he is inadequate compared to her. And he ended up being sneaky about it and it ruined the relationship. The girl would have been a lot happier if the guy would have just come out and asked about it and had a conversation about it. If you guys are serious enough and like each other enough, you would have no problem talking about your "pasts".
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ok im just curious...if your pregnant...will you bleed at all? and if so how long after do you bleed? (link)
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You won't bleed. You only bleed during your period and the whole point is if your pregnant it is maintaining the egg and if you bled it would be flushing out the egg which would completely defeat the idea of being pregnant at all.
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Ok awhile ago i told you about my friend, he told me he loved me and then flirted with my bff the next day. Well i took some of your advice and now were cool but theres just one thing. Im kind of a mom's girl and im sick of that. So i talked to him about it. And now on monday we are going to a school to drink, but the thing is im 14. He says he wont let me get drunk but i donno. Please help me get out of pier pressure? (link)
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First off your really young. Second getting drunk when your really not into it is pretty lame and you should tell him that doing something just to try to be cool for other people when your really not into it makes you look really immature and lame. If he pushes you into doing it then blow him off...he doesn't really love you if he makes you drink when you don't want to.
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what are some excersises or cardio i could do? (link)
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really easy ones are jumping jacks...i usually do that when i dont feel like going outside and it really does the trick. Try to do 100 jumping jacks every 2 hours it really helped me drop off some extra weight. Of course you would need to be on a diet as well if you want to lose the weight along with it, but if you feel like mainting your weight...this is a great thing to do cuz you can eat normally (don't go crazy) and do this without gaining an ounce.
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hey yall! well i did a really stupid thing! i had sex with my bf without a condom. But he pulled out before he came. But when he pulled out he got cum like on the really high part of my leg and I thought i was pregnant...but now im like bleeding(its been like a week later)...does that mean im not? PLEASE PLEASE HELP MWA! (link)
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Of course it means your not pregnant. If your still having your period after a week of having sex then no your not pregnant. But to be on the very safe side maybe you should consider getting one of those easy pregnancy tests just so your 100% sure.
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i'm thinking about asking my parents for a Lap-Band procedure. it's where they make like a .5 inch incision and stick a rubber band that can be inflated around the top part of your stomach so that your food slowly trickles down into the bottom part of your stomach, filling you up faster. it's a lot safer than gastric bypass because there's no cutting or re-routing involved. have any of you heard about it or even had it? please help me! i checked my BMI and it's 53.5! i almost cried!! thanks.
alicia:-0 (link)
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I'm not sure how old you are alicia and i have never really heard of that procedure, but you sound pretty smart so I'm guessing you have tried all the diets and have tried to excercise and it hasn't worked. I understand completely that it must be really difficult for you, so I think you should definitely approach your parents with this idea...good luck.
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ok i dunno if i like this poem i wrote can you guys help me
Checking my pulse:
checking my pulse
trying to see if i'm alive
as i lay here
me sweat making my hair stick to my face
my heart pounding
my stomach spinning
checking my pulse
becuase i just told you
how i feel
i feel as if i've been lifted away
into a world unknown to me
into a world lead by you
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It sounds like a pretty good poem. What I got from it is you like this guy and you feel like you have died and gone to heaven and pretty much your version of heaven some kind of world that focuses around this guy you like. Did I get that right?
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my love life right now sucks! i cant get ne guy 2 look at me all i want is a really good looking guy to like me for me!
love iLuv2Shop (link)
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If you're so worried about a good looking guy getting to like your personality and to not pay attention to your looks...isn't that pretty hypocritical of you? You're saying that you're looking for a guy with good looks that at the same time only cares about your personality. You want advice? Lower your standards.
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well ok ive never had sex before....and every guy i have ever dated always wants to have sex...ive gottin fingered before 3 times but like im scared to have sex...does it hurt really bad yer first time? like i dont know im kinda scared and i want to do it i just dont know what should i do? (link)
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Okay to start of easily...the guys who are pushing to have the sex with you are usually the guys who have very little confidence about themselves, so there's a good chance that these guys have small members...so if you do end up choosing to have sex...it probably wouldn't hurt that much. Plus, jumping from getting fingered to having sex is a big step. Many people would just believe it's just one base away...but there's a lot of other thing that you might be more comfortable with exploring that you can possibly suggest to your boyfriend. If you're comfortable you can try oral sex which is a lot different then getting fingered, and the good thing with oral sex is that it can be done to both your boyfriend and you. If you do choose to do this then he should be happy there. If he pushes you still about having sex even when u have done oral sex then seriously just tell the guy to push off for good or that yoyr relationship is over.
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ok i was talking to my best friend online today and like a week ago she went to her friends cabin and she did some bad stuff there n got in trouble and she rilly changed dramatically and it wasnt good like lately shes been rilly mean to people including me and she was always telling me people hate her now.. and they kind of do becuz shes been sorta mean to them and i was so sick of it and i told her that shes totally changed and it wasnt so good and i told her not to take it the wrong way.. and she did and she like is super mad at me now and i feel sooooooo bad and i rilly dont want her to be mad at me i like rilly hate myself now and i totally regret ever saying all that stuff to her and i wish i could take it all back and now she like wont talk to me and stuff all cuz i told her the truth and i told her i missed the old her and stuff and i rilly dont want her to be mad at me i mean ya i know im such a mean person and i hate myself for wut i said to her and i dont want her to be mad at me how to i get to talk to her again and tell her im super sorry i mean i told her im sorry but shes still mad n stuff wut should i do? HELP ME PLEEZ ILL RATE U FOR THIS!!! (link)
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This kind of thing happens all the time. Okay, to start off you did the right thing by telling the girl the truth. Unfortunately, the truth for her (as it would be for most people) was a firm slap in the face. By saying sorry too much you are probably annoying her and she knows that your pretty much obligated to say it because you guys are friends and you made her feel kind of rotten. The thing is making her feel rotten was not your fault at all. You're her best friend and the hardest part about being best friends is the responsibility of each person. And your responsibility in this situation was to tell your friend the truth because you knew that it need to be told. It's hard to hear but you had to be the bearer of bad news and you needed to do what you did. My advice would be to tell her the same thing I just told you. Tell her that best friends get eachother's backs even if it turns out that one person has to tell her best friend something that would make her feel rotten. Don't tell her that your sorry, (because it's not your fault at all), but you should tell her your sorry of the fact that she had to hear the truth and that you're there to listen and that she knows that you're a great friend. Tell her she can trust you and that you guys will always be friends. Your friend just appears to be in a very difficult situation and it's very possible that she's not all that mad at you particularly, but maybe it's just that she's mad at a lot of different things and she feels that she can just dump it all on one person...and who better then her best friend. Just talk to her and tell her the things I told you to tell her. Remind her that you guys are best friends.
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ok well theres this guy and way back around the middle of the school year i found out he liked me. Let's call him Bob. Well Bob was very very annoying! He sat in front of me and all he did was turn around and get in the middle of my conversations with my friends. I even got my boyfriend at the time to warn him about his behavior...well it worked and he moved his seat. He wound up finding out my s/n and he turned out to be a pretty nice and sweet guy and after a while we became really close and we even went out for like an hour! lol ( I realized he wasn't my time) He's that type of guy that is totally nerdy and dorky but cutte at the same time that all the desperate girls go out with and since I was on the rebound I fell for him for a little while ...I told him that going out with him was a huge mistake and since i asked him out online i told him that it was my cousin on my screen-name! I feel sooo bad! Well now it's gotten to the pont where he is totally in love with me and threatens to kill himself b/c I still love my ex... I really like being his friend but he just keeps saying all these things to make me feel bad. What do I do with him? (link)
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Look...tell him calmly that at this point you are not exactly interested in him in the same way as he is with you. However if you still would like to stay close with this guy...you should say to him that you two should continue being really close friends and see where that leads you. Make sure he feels important to you because he is definitely begging for approval here. Say that you guys are getting so much more out of being really good friends then being girlfriend and boyfriend. If he does not accept this and tells you that he doesn't want friendship at all and just wants to be your boyfriend then tell him that if he really cared about you that he would accept the way you feel and care about your opinions enough to understand the situation your in. The most important thing here is to make him feel important to you though...that's one of the biggest things a guy is looking for. It's not even just being more then a friend at this point...he just really wants to play an important role in your life right now, and your job is to tell him that he would play much more of an important role as a really good friend instead of a boyfriend.
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