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i was wondering if anyone new any good hair styles i could do for school besides the normal hair straight or scrunched and ponytails. i want something cute but like not over the top and doesnt take more than like 30 min to do. my hair is slightly past my shoulder. and i usually wear it straight

french braids might work

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I'm tired of my super straight hair and since it's nasty outside it doesn't come out straight anyways so I was wondering if anyone has any suggestions on what kind of scrunching gel or whatever works best and keeps the "wet" look even when you're hairs dry? And eliminates frizzyness too? I've heard of Pantene has one but i'm not sure. Thanks for all your help. I rate high.

i use BIO straight and sleek. you can get it at bath and body works

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I like a guy... but it's a total dead end. Things would never work out as far as dating, but we're really good friends. Me having a crush on him is tainting our friendship. (he doesn't know I like him, but I can't think about him without wanting him as a bf.) I do not want to want him but he's just so awesome. I really like him. Is there any way to STOP, though? I know my heart will just get broken, and I don't want to let my feelings get that far. Cursed emotions!

take a little time off from this guy n meet some new guys. i have the same problem with my guy friends but u just hafta meet new people n think of him more as a friend

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This may be long, so brace yourself lol.
Ok, so I like my ex boyfriend and i have "I love you" in my profile.My other ex kept on wanting to know who it was and I didn't wanna tell him because he'd get extremely mad. So then after awhile he started calling me a bi*ch, as*hole, and prick n stuff.He said that I think I'm too good for everyone and that's why I won't tell him. He thinks it because I only told my cousin (my best friend) that I liked my ex so that made him think that I thought I was too good for everyone. He was a really good friend of mine, and since I won't tell him who I like because I wanna keep it to myself and my cousin,he doesn't want to be friends anymore. Was he being wrong or was I? please help! What should I say to him?

hes blowing this way out of proportion. its shouldnt be that big of a deal to him that you dont wanna tell him who u like. he is your ex boyfriend. tell him why you think you shouldnt be telling him so he'll realize that you just dont want to upset him.

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Okay, I have a problem. I don't know if it's normal or not. I guess I'll start out by saying I'm fairly outgoing and loud. Anyways, my friends and I and some other guys went to this guy Micheal's house today. Micheal's a 9th grader (I'm in 8th) and we were there for like 4 hours without his parents home. Anyways, when basically everyone except one other guy had left, we started cuddling on his bed. He was holding my hand and like rubbing his hand on my stomach and stuff while we were watching a movie and earlier we held hands while I was just sitting on the bed and he was on the floor (his matresses are on the floor) and I don't know, I liked him being there with me and doing stuff with him, but I got so nervous! I don't know why, I just felt kind of awkward. Do any of you get this way too?

P.S. Micheal likes me if that means anything for details.

-Christeena

if your not used to doing that with guys then yea it would be a little award but thats totally normal and you probly got nervous because you liked him. hope i helped


~jj~

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Friday night I was at the movies. Me,my 2 friends and this guy that likes me took some pictures. I sat on his lap. I have a boyfriend of 3 months. Is that cheating and is it bad and should I tell my boyfriend? I feel really bad! Please help!

dont feel bad. what you did isnt cheating.

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15/m there is this girl that i like a lot. the problem is she's 2 years younger than me and she doesn't live in my school district. we both play basketball in a summer league (different divisions) so we see each other sometimes. but neither of us are allowed to have a gf/bf until we're 16 and our parents are friends so they would probably find out if we started going out. i asked her out like a year ago because i liked her and i heard she wanted me to and she would say yes. but when i asked she said no because she didn't want her parents to find out. so i thought i was over her until earlier today. i went to her game and when i saw her i realized that i wasn't over her. i also heard that she still likes me. but i don't know what to do. should i make another move? what should i do?

ask he out again and see what she says.if she still doesnt want to go out with you because of her parents then i guess you have no choice to wait untill shes 16. hope i helped!


~jj~

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Do you think it would be ok for a 14 year old girl to go out with a 17 year old guy? he's really responsible.

yea its ok as long as you dont think hell pressure you into doing things (like having sex) that you may not be ready for. hope i helped!



~jj~

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Would it be safe to say im in love if...

he's always on my mind

i danced with him and every time i think about it my heart literally skips a beat

i cry when i think about him leaving me for a different school next year

i think you get the picture....

pretty much yea id say your in love

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i am SO ugly. i know most people think they're ugly when they aren't, but i AM. i've been called ugly before, i've seen mirrors (unforunately), and they look horrible lol! how can i sort myself out so i can look pretty? my hair is kinda frizzy, i've tried SO many products on it; frizz ease, pantene pro-v, andy collinge, herbal essences, sun silk.. and loads more. anyway, none of them prevented frizz or 'flyaway' hair. i have straighteners that aren't really all that good, worth about 60 quid. i want some ghds but i'd have to wait until like august to get them, for my birthday (unless it's worth spending my bank account on them?). and then there's the fact that i don't wear make-up. i haven't got a clue how to put it on. i don't even wear stuff like lipgloss, i'd probably get it all over the place, and if i tried eyeliner/mascara i'd end up poking my eye out! lol! so anyway i'm clueless when it comes to make-up, any tips on how to use it/the best make up to buy would be so helpful! i've worn lipgloss before, but it just feels so.. greasy, and uncomfortable, it was from the body shop i think.. anyway, if you can help me look pretty instead of an ugly duckling, i'll be really grateful. thankyou!! xo

first of all STRAIGHTEN YOUR HAIR!!! you probly would look soo much prettier if you did!! plus you wouldnt have frizzy hair. get a new conair straightener if yours dont work. theyre like 25 dollars at CVS and other drug stores, trust me 25 dollars is not alot to pay for it. second of all get some black eyeliner, doesnt hafta cost that much maybe 2 or 3 dollars, and experiment with it! thats how i got to be good with makeup. just do different things with and dont worry about poking yourslef in the eye with it. if you just cant do it at all and you really need help get one of your friends who can do it to do it on you and to teach you to do it on yourself.dont try anything with mascara untill you get eyeliner nailed dowm perfect. third of all get lipstick that looks cute on you. lipgloss is sticky but with lipstick you cant tell your wearing it. hope i helped! if you have any questions for me about makeup and stuff please ask them!


~jj~

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I want to make my hair wavy. I already have natural waves, but they aren't that strong, and anyway they're frizzy. My friend uses mousse and scrunches up her hair, and she also uses tongs. I told my mum I wanted to make my hair wavy, but she keeps saying that the only way you can have waves in your hair is to get a perm. It's not, is it?? Because my mate says she's never had a perm. But whatever I say, my mum keeps saying that you can't have wavy hair unless you get a perm, my mum ALWAYS thinks she's right, I can't get through to her. Anyway, how do you make your hair wavy? Please tell me any products/tongs etc that are good, and if there are any sites that tell you how to get wavy hair then I'd appreciate it. I used to curl my hair with tongs, because I did Irish dance competitions. But the curls just fell out like 30 minutes later, so if you know how to actually keep the waves in place, that would be helpful too (I tried tresemme gel spray but that didn't work). Thanks! xo

get a wave iron thingy {i dont remember the actual name} those usually dont look natural but they work well to wavy your hair or get a curling iron and curl your hair. hope i helped!


~jj~

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im 13. what would be an easy pet to take care of, that doesnt cost alot of money, and is affectionate?

a cat would be the best pet for you. most dont cost alot, all you have to do is feed it and clean it litterbox, and they are very loving! hope i helped


~jj~

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I am 14,female.i dated this guy for 4 months(my first relationship. at first i didnt like this asshole at all but as the months passed i started to fall for him crazy. not experiouncing these feelings Ever, i was confused and depressed because i knew he would never like me as much as I did. so when he found out i liked him that much he started to take advantage of me. now im usually not the type to let ANYONE push me around but since i went gaga and stupid everytime i saw him i let him.so my friends forced me to break up with him but i got back with him in the next day. but then HE broke up with me just to laugh at my face. i still really like him(god knows why).i would still really like sweet revenge on this guy.what is the best revenge on this guy?making him jelouse?or just embaressing him?

id make him jealous and embarress him!

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My mom waon't let me have a b/f or watch some R movies. It seems like she is Overprotecting me from the outside world. What should i do? HELP!

Feelings from the inside out,

Jess P.S- I rate HIGH!

you cant really do much about your moms feelings but what you can do is just dont tell her about your bfs and go to friend's houses to watch R rated movies. shell never know what your doin so you both will be happy.hope i helped


~jj~

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does anybody understand how to play the game minesweeper thats usually on computers? Like i understand how to play it but how do u no where the "mines" are or whatever

thats the whole point, you dont know where the mines are! but when you click on a box, if theres a whole bunch of boxes that go away and only one left in the middle then that one is the mine. you always know where the mine is when theres only one box singled out that didnt disappear.hope i helped!


~jj~

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breaking up with your boyfriend for his best friend...?

OR

still going out with him because he's a really good guy and you're afraid to break his heart...?

OR

what should I do, because my boyfriend is the most amazing guy ever, and he'd cry and be depressed for months if anything happened. But I just don't have feelings for him anymore, and his friend and I like eachother... help!

i think u should dump your bf but if your that worried about his feelings then dont go out with his best friend rite away. its one thing being dumped but its another thing when your ex goes out with your best friend. just explain to his friend that you wanna wait a little while before you guys go out. hope i helped.


~jj~

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this probably happens alot.. me and my best friend came to a public school for the first time.. and she met a guy who shes supposedly in love with.. it bothers me alot because they are constantly together and she totally ignores me.. but when hes not there she acts normal around me. i told her about it before and she apologizes.. but she does it over and over again. they are always showing pda and they always have to be alone. im not jealous.. i just want my friend back

just give her some time. trust me shell probly get over him (she most likely wont like him forever) and then youll have her back and everything will be ok again. it mite help to find a guy you like so then the four of you can hang out together and you wont miss her at all.

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Theres this guy i like ( im not going out wtih ) and were pretty good friends. He said he liked me last week but he doesnt talk to me anymore that much. I dont talk to him a lot at school cuz hes not in any of my classes but i see him between classes. I really want to hang out with him and stuff like that but i dont know what to do. What can i do to get him to notice me more??

when u see him in between classes go and give him a hug. if hes walkin in the same direction you are then go and talk to him.

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So on AIM you can send IM crushes through this IM robot named Cupid. And I did that, and I sent it to this guy I like and well...now hes going to know! So when he asks me about it..what do I say? I kinda regret it...and I'm scared hes just going to laugh and totally be like "ew". He said I was pretty but hes so hott and theres too many girls that like him. So, is my friendship ruined with him or what...ahh im scared! I wish we could un-do the IM crushes

dont be scared just wait a few days and if it doesnt come up then dont worry about it! i suggest tho that you flirt with him ALOT and talk to him so he'll like you back and act less like you guys are friends and more like you like him so he gets the idea. if he still doesnt get it then just tell him because guys can be really stupid

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AMy friend called me "emo" because I dressed like it one day and I like emo music. Theres nothing wrong with that, I think I am too but I want to know how to dress like it bc I didnt even know that I looked emo till they said something or how emo chicks look other then the whole pierceings thing.

i dont know what the hell an emo is but i suggest you not follow labels and just be yourself and not to give a shit if someone calls you an "emo"

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