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sry its so long
15/m there is this girl that i like a lot. the problem is she's 2 years younger than me and she doesn't live in my school district. we both play basketball in a summer league (different divisions) so we see each other sometimes. but neither of us are allowed to have a gf/bf until we're 16 and our parents are friends so they would probably find out if we started going out. i asked her out like a year ago because i liked her and i heard she wanted me to and she would say yes. but when i asked she said no because she didn't want her parents to find out. so i thought i was over her until earlier today. i went to her game and when i saw her i realized that i wasn't over her. i also heard that she still likes me. but i don't know what to do. should i make another move? what should i do?
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i would continue to be friends with her.. well because it doesnt sound like you see her enough to worry about and it sounds like it would all jus be trouble.. maybe jus wait til your 16 to make another move.. much luv dez
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ask he out again and see what she says.if she still doesnt want to go out with you because of her parents then i guess you have no choice to wait untill shes 16. hope i helped!
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I think you making a second move would be like disrespecting her parents. They already said she cant date until shes 16, so defying them would be disrespecting them. Then they'll ask her not to talk to you again or whatever. The best thing a gentleman would do is ask her parents' permission. If they say no, take it like a gentleman, but if you have the guts, try saying "I really like your daughter, and I will be good to her, etc. Please give me a chance..."
You have to show that you really like this girl.
Or,if you cant do that, wait , only one year left!
But if I were you, Id take the first option if I really liked this girl.
And I think shed love seeing you asking for her parents permission, it shows you like her so much youd do anything!
Hope I helped, RATE ME PLZ!
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I guess you could try again. But if she's no, then if I were you, I would wait until you were both 16. Or try to talk both of your parents to lower the dating age. good luck!
♥ Always,
Maria
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