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Okay, I just don't understand this emo/goth trend. So I have some questions:
1. How come all emo kids say how unique and individual they are, but they all dress the same and look the same?
2. They say that labels are bad, but some go parading around their weirdness (AKA emo-ness). How is that supposed to work?
3. If you're kid was emo and stuff, would you cry? I know I certainly would. (This is the poll question.)
4. How did emo-ness come to be? I thought this world was supposed to be a happy place. Why do they insist on draping dark hair over their faces and obscuring their eyes with black liner if the world is such a sunny beautiful place?

Any help to eliminate these people *cough* I mean help me understand this clique is appreciated.

i dont judge people but now a days people are trying to be so 'scene' but there not being themselves. there just trying to follow a croud. because they think its so cool.

if they say there different..
then why are they following everyone else?

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lyrics: apple bottom jeans, and the boots with the fur....reeboks with the straps.

okay thats all i know, please tell me the title and artist.

artist= flow rida
song= LOW

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my girlfriend and i were having unprotected sex, but i pulled out before i came. i washed my penis and peed after, and then we did it again, but i was wondering if there could be any left on my penis from the first time that i came, which would make her pregnant

PLEASE dont give me crap about "you can get pregnant from precum" because it's completely untrue, anybody with google could tell:
http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/0922.html
http://www.corporatemofo.com/stories/021201inandout.htm
http://www.idsnews.com/news/story.aspx?id=33698&comview=1
condoms = 3%
pulling out = 4%

if that's not enough evidence maybe a government website can convince you:
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/query.fcgi?cmd=Retrieve&db=pubmed&dopt=Abstract&list_uids=12762415&query_hl=9&itool=pubmed_docsum

im not an idiot i did research before we did it

please just answer my question and none of the crap about precum because that's what i got on the other advice websites

you cant get pregnant from precum??

thank goodness.


No. she's fine. sperm dies when it touches air. and you peed and washed it.

you guys are fine.

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please tell me your first time sex stories..from what i have heard none of the first timers are pleasureable. i would really appreciate it if you shared yours and tell me how it went. thank youu soo much (:

i had a little to much to drink and some fat guy who had a lip ring took it..

it was painful and when i got home i bled.


i didnt have pleasurable sex until about a year after.

when i met my boyfriend.

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I have sex quite often with the same person,we've done it mannnnny times.
Tonight i was on my period and he knew that but still wanted to do it.
So i didnt mind,so we started to do it and he pulled out with blood all over his dick
He ofcourse got extremly grossed out and ran in the shower and obviously wanted me to leave.
I'm scared that ,just that will change things forever.
Do you think that things will go back to normal? or Do you think he's that grossed out that he'll never wanna do it again?

The same thing happend to me.


but if your close to him there should be no problem.


i mean i pull my tampon out in front of my boyfriend.



but maybe he just wasnt used to it.

if hes being an ass then breakup with him.

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not sure if this is the right category but yah..


say this guy has a girlfriend and he lets another girl like give him a hand job but it wasn't really a hand job because he still has his pants on and the girl is just rubbing his dick from the outside of the guys pants,


and then the guy rubs the girls vagina but outside the pants..

is that considered cheating on the other girl?

Um yeah. if this is the girl, break up with him. hes not worth your time.


if your the boy,YOUR AN IDIOT.

if you really loved someone you wouldnt think about doing that.


as jerry springer says..


once a cheater always a cheater.


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I want to know every detail of women and women have sex. With out a dildo!

I am Bi-curious

Hit me up!

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What do you think about sex before being married. I don't know if it's wrong or right so I'm asking you. Please voice opinions and experience.

i think if you really love the person sex shouldnt wait until marrige.


i wish i would have stayed a virgin and saved it for my boyfriend now. but it didnt happen that way.


if you love the person then you have nothing to worry about.

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I met this nice Italian guy on Myspace,
and he wanted to know if we could talk
over MSN, so of course, I was like, sure.
He seemed really nice but then he wanted to
get on his webcam, so I said alright.
I've watched other people (non-sexually) on webcam.

Of course I had to tell him: don't strip or anything,
and he said he wouldn't, but then I guess he
changed his mind and took all his clothes off?
I felt weird saying "No" and he obviously wasn't
going to take "No" for an answer.
Oddly, I watched him but felt really nervous the whole time.

Not to sound like a dork or anything,
but I've never really seen a guy close up naked.
However, I was kind of disgusted with this naked guy.
I was also really scared, which is weird,
because most of my friends have actually
had sex with a guy and obviously they are
comfortable with even more than just looking at that!

Is this usual? Is it ok to feel a little freaked out by...male parts?
I am really boy crazy and I love guys, so why
do I freak out so much if I see a naked guy?
What if I'm a Lesbian?

And by the way, I won't be watching that
guy on webcam again so don't worry!

ah how uncomfortable.


ofcourse you were grossed out. you didnt know the guy.


trust me hun. everyone goes threw that. i went threw it i thought it was just disgusting until i met my boyfriend. since i know him i think its alright.

dont worry. you'll be fine.

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my boyfriend has a hairy dick.
is that normaL? i'm confused,
i find that discusting.
and he wants me to blow him.

and i wont if he has a hairy dick.
what should i do?

tell him to shave it.

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every girl on advicenators that has ever had sex before i was just wondering...at the time that you had sex had you shaved all of your pubic hair off or did you just trim it?

Shave it dude.

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how much is a pregnancy test

well if you go to dollar tree there only a dollar.


and there 99 percent accurate.

thats what i do.

i dont like paying 30 dollars on a test its yeah never mind.

just go to dollar tree.

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I'm planning on having sex for the first time very soon.I am very hairy "down there" so should I shave ? I have shaved it before but it was really irratated and pinchy and itchy. What should I do ? Also I don't wanna be hairy like that.HELP !!!

um...YEAH.


do you want to look like a forest??

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ok so i see like a hot guy on tv and ill be like "oh he's hot i wanna have sex with him". Like ryan seacrest for example...or simon cowell....or a couple guys at my school....is this normal?

hahah yes.
i do that all the time with ryan seacrest.
i would do him in a heartbeat.


i mean...

you shouldnt be thinking about sex until your older..

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see i like this guys and i have for a very long time, well me and him have kissed and done stuff, but i dotn know if hes using me or not. i mean hes kinda got another girl and he hasnt said anything about gettin rid of her so i think he might be using me but he tells me all this stuff about how he has feelings for me and how hes falling for me and stuff, adn he even told me he loved me. i mean weve had sex, but i dont know if i want to continue having sex or doing stuff with him (sexually) until the other girl is gone, becuase i feel kinda bad for doing stuff when i know the other girl doesnt know about me and i dont wanna feel like awhore. But, i also really really REALLY really like him!!! a LOT!! and i dont wanna lose what we actually do have=] im really confused and i would love some advice. Please HELP ME!!

you are a whore.
stop doing that stuff.
that poor girl would be so hurt if she found out.

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No explanations please, just a straight up answer.

Is it easier to get pregnant before, during, or after your period.

Thanks

after=easier.
during=best time to have sex way less chance.
before=not that easy to get pregnant.

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Is there a way to delete all of your past google searches and your entire internet explorer history (you know how when you start to type in an adress or a search the word pops up)

Thanks in Advanced!

go to the top and go to
go

then click history
then delete them.

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ok so i got my self in a siruation where...i just cheated on my boyfriend...and before that night i was a virgin and now im not. and like. i dont know what i shoudl do. I didnt really want to have sex with the guy...but i was in a situation where i had to be sorta quite and i was saying no...but i dont think he heard me or maybe he just didnt care. but like. he didnt use protection and im not on birth control. and im pretty sure he pulled out before...but like. i just dont know what to do and im freaking out.

awe.tell him you were raped.
because it sounds to me like it.

if you say no and dont want to heck even if you say no and do want to its rape.
you have to agree to it.
trust me ive been thru the same situation.
i would tell him you were raped.
before the word gets out and comes back to him and he will think you wanted to because he will here what people are saying.


so tell him.
maybe cry a little
but yeah.

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15/f/uk

Im 15 and from england..
Me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex almost 2 weeks ago. It didnt last very long because we realised what we was doing was wrong. He was only in me for about 5 seconds.

He didnt cum.. but we know about pre-cum and the such..

Last night i pressed on my lower stomache and it hurt a little. And all last night i was worrying about being pregnant. This morning i woke up feeling really sick and had a slightly upset stomache. i still feel kinda sick now. and my stomache still hurts when i press on it. My boobs feel slightly sore every now and again.

Could i be pregnant?

If im pregnant i dont know what to do! if my parents found out they would ban me from seeing my boyfriend forever, i would be grounded and never aloud out, i would be in sooo much trouble!

My period isnt due until around the 17th-25th (it always varies) i cant wait until then to see if i miss it cos its driving me insane with worry! i know i shouldnt worry because it could cause me to miss my period but i really cant help it!

I cant get a pregancy kit because my parents would find out
I cant get in to the doctors
I cant afford an abortion ive heard its really expensive

I really dont know what to do :(

Any advice?

same thing is going on with me

i would go to the store ALONE or with a freind take a pregnancy test and use it in there bathroom.

and try not toworry
i know its hard but just try.

you could be pregnant.
if so go to plantparenthood with a freind.

and they will help you with what to do from there.

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Today the old navy opened in my town. I went shopping of course and they had a board saying We are hiring. I took one of the tags and went home and applied over the computer (thats the only way to apply). Do you guys think that i have a good chance of getting hired considering they just openned and they had signs saying "we are hiring" Or do you think they would have all of their employees that they would need.

thank you


i think you have a good chance of being hired considering they just opened too

and they need new imployes so yeah

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