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I'm Leah. I'm 16& a sophmore, but very mature for my age. I could actually do very good in school if I actually applied myself, but I don't. I have a boyfriend, Randall and we've been together for over a year now and i love him alotalotalot I'm usually happy because I think lifes too short to be depressed or crying all the time. My friends are my life and I definatly wouldn't be the same without them.

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what are some good books for teenage girls. i like books that like have to do with drugs and things us teenagers struggle with.. so basically books that i can relate to. they dont have to do with drugs and alcohol but i want to read something that gets me into the book

go ask alice
what happened to nancy
kim: empty inside
annies baby

those are sort of like diaries of actual people,
go ask alice is about a girl who deals with drugs, what happened to nancy is about a girl who is raped and gets AIDS, kim: empty inside is about a girl with an eating disorder, and annies baby is about a girl who gets pregnant and is 14. and they are all really good books.

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what is freshman friday?my friend said if its freshman friday the seniors gonna throw u into the garbage is it true? how do u avoid it?

most likely nothing will even happen to you. its only like on cartoons, being a freshman isnt even that bad. it has some disadvantages, but people dont actually make you dump their food for them or anything like that

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I tried to upload a picture on my advice column but it said it was over 15kb, how do you make a picture smaller?

i have a program called Irfanview and it works good for this, and stuff like myspace for resizing.

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used cars sites
know any?
I NEED ALOT OF SITES PLEASE
I need a car... lol

autotrader.com

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well ok theres a guy in my vocal class and we have become somewhat of a couple just not going out and what not, because i am moving in 3 months but i asked him out anyway i just figured i would just ask just to see...and he's thinking about it...was it a smart idea or should i have not of bothered at all?

well this depends on how far you're moving and how serious the relationship will get. if you're just wanting a fun relationship that doesnt mean much then i think its alright, but i also think that if you could make it work out in a long distance ordeal, that would be perfectly fine to. its all up to you and how your going to handle it.

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Does anybody know a good poem that talks about a girl who finally realizes that she is in love with a boy.. but when she realizes that she is in love with him he doesn't want her now..thanks in advance

i don't know one off of hand, but i usually get my quotes/poems at firehotquotes.com or i go to xanga and search under the tab "blogrings" poems or quotes. hope i helped!

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me and my boyfriend have a long distance relationship. we've been together for 6 months. i was playing around on myspace and i found his (i didn't know he had one) so i was looking at it. i was looking at this girl who had been commenting him and it seems like theyre going out because shes always like "love ya" so i looked at her profile and it says stuff about him like they are only friends except for her headline which says "

You need to ask him, don't try to be blaming or hateful though. It it's a long distance relationship, it would be possible that he is, and you would definatly need to break up with him. Why didn't he tell you about his myspace anyway? was he trying to hide something? maybe those are some questions you need to consider.

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Hi,
I am a female from Canada seeking advice.
My bf who I have been with for 6 months is very controlling of me. We are in a semi-long distance relationship, we are still able to see each other a few times a month despite the short distance.
He gets upset when I don't tell him where I am going all the time, he gets upset when I am on the computer while on the phone with him and he uses the computer when on the phone with me, he even tells me to lay on the bed and turn off the light. He gets upset when I have to leave him for the bathroom or to say hello to someone in my res room. He considers me forgetting to call him when I promised very hurtful to him and compares me to his ex gfs and friends who do that to him. 3 months ago I OD'd and was hospitalized for depression and anxiety and ever since then he has been like this. I have tried everything from talking to him calmly about his behaviour and why to yelling at him to stop being this way and nothing has worked.
Is it just me or is it him? How do I make this bearable for myself? I still love him and don't want to leave him.
Please help!!!
Thank you.

i'm sorry to say this, but when you're with someone, you are supposed to be able to talk to them, and they will understand. If he's not understanding, he's not worth it. It's not going to be a healthy relationship ALWAYS goes his way, either he can change for you, or you need to break up with him. Even though you think you love him, if you were with a guy who treated you right, you would know instantly that this guy isn't right for you.

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ok well i get made fun of almost everyday. . mostly because i am really white. is there anyway i can make them to stop? ive tried standing up for myself and being nice to them and i dont want to tell a teacher because ive done that and they didnt do anything. . so wats a good way for them to stop?
Thanks

I know this sounds typical, but act like it doesn't bother you. I'm really white too, and when they would call me a ghost, i would just laugh it off and be like "yep sure am." after a while it was boring for them because obviously i didn't care. i know you think it won't work, but i rarely get made fun of anymore.

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my dog keeps eating holes in the part of my underwear the my (ya'll no whats at in frount and im getting so mad how do i get he to stop and why is she doing it

Dogs are weird and i guess they like the smell. My dog used to try to do that too, but just keep your underwear in a drawer and away from your dog.

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my mom is overprotective. she won't let me date until i'm 16 and stuff like that. I can't go anywhere without an adult unless I have my best 2 best friends with me and I can't watch movies uless they are PG or PG13 until she's watched them, and I hate that. I think she's overprotective because my dad died when I was 3weeks old. my little brother can do almost anything. It's not fair. How can I get her to stop being overprotective of me?

first of all, talk with her about it, but dont be hostile. My dad used to be like that and i would complain and yell at him, only making matters worse. Just talk to your mom sincerely and tell her how it bothers you and that she should give you a chance, and if you do anything wrong she can take away the privelage. make a agreement between each other or something.

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ok, stupid question.

do you think 14 is too young to get your upper ear peirced? my parents say i'm too young for a peircing like that...i don't know why... but i was just wondering if you think so?


i don't know. just wondering.

i think that whenever your ready to take care of your piercings yourself, then your ready to get all the piercings you want. like if your parents cleaned your ears for you that would be different, but if your willing to take responsibilty for them, then your ready.

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Ok so this has gone on so long could someone please tell me how i can remove my pubic hair from down below. I tried shaving and it leaves it all with wiskers its like a mans beard!! I mean the other day i went to the doctors and he had to feel my bladder and it was all like wiskers i was so embarassed if i see him again im going to be so embarassed someone help please! is there any products i can get that won't hurt? someone told me to use nair! but it said not to use it on pubic areas now all i got is wiskers and its embarassing what if i meet a nice boy when im older and he sees wiskers and runs. Help someone please.Im 17/f thank you and i will rate high

i have this stuff called "bikini zone" its like a lotion you put on and then shave off you hair. It works really well without the razor burn and bumps.

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hi i'm 13 years old, almost 14..and i've never been kissed before in my life. not on the cheeks or lips or ANYWHERE! and i've never even had a boyfriend in my life either. but i want one SO badly! i dont care if my first kiss isnt "real" or whatever..i just want puppy love! i dont care! i just want it to happen..i dream about it so much everynight. and i feel like such a loser because it feels as if every other 13-14 year old girl in the world has been kissed except me. even some of my more unattractive friends have...idk. i dont think i'm hideous or fat or mean or any of hte above...but i dont know ..something about me must turn guys off..just please help idk what to do. and if i'm ever going to get my first kiss soon

first of all, dont worry about it! i mean if you think about it, if you want to kiss someone so badly and you just kiss the first person thats willing to, it wont really matter that it was your "first kiss" because it wasnt special. most girls your age havent kissed anyone either, so your not left out. and guys your age are still going through that stage where they want to kiss girls, but are still shy. just give it time, i promise it will happen!

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Well, Okay. There's this boy named Senad & I have liked him foreverr. Me & him are always on/off, and idk. I want him back so badly and things completly switched between us. In the beginning he wanted me so badly, and I didn't like him that much. Now I am obsessed, and he's like uhh. It sucks. Before he met me which was around January when we started talking he was so shy, and afraid to say the wrong thing. It was so cute. Now he's so mean, and bossy. I'll look at him in class, and he'll be like "What the fuck you looking at?" Just because his friends are there. It's so immature. Then when I am with him we makeout, and stuff. Sometimes I think he's using me. On Friday we were in a pretty big fight, and we were at the same persons house cause she had a few people over and he was like "Wow fuck her!" and then by the end of the night we were alone in the living room, and he finally talked to me & madeout. I don't know what to do? He says he "kinda" likes me to people, and tells me different. I like him so much, and do not wanna give up. What should I do to get him back? Someone pleasee help.

Well, I'm sorry to say, but hes not worth it. and dont think of it as "giving up", if you keep letting him call you names and then two seconds later make out with him, he knows he can do WHATEVER he wants, and you'll come running back. But if you wanted to get him back, don't make out with him, make him want it. if hes mean to you, ignore him and go talk to someone else, it will make see that you dont care, and that will make him realize if he wants you, he has to respect you

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hey ummm this might be long.... ok this guy i really like asked me if i wanted to lose my virginity to him....and i was like asking him questions like if we would ever go out and he said he didnt know maybe.... and he also doesnt want anyone to know about it...which i can see that to because i dont want it getting around school either but i have the feeling that he doesnt like me and he just wants to lose his virginity....but i dont know. and like after we talked about doing it around his birthday and then like all of a sudden he asks my best friend out and im like OMG... and they went out for a couple of days........ but i havent talked to him about it anymore because i havent got the chance to... but i dont think he likes me anymore... so does anyone have any advice?
--->confused

don't have sex with him! really, sex IS a HUGE deal, and if you don't love him and he doesn't love you its seriously not right. just wait until you find someone that wants to actually be in a relationship with you, not just having sex with you.

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I live down south in Georgia and right now its very hot. I've noticed that latley when it's been getting so hot, its very hard to keep my hair smooth and straight. My hair's been up in a ponytail all week because its so frizzy and poofy cause of the heat and its starting to curl up after I straighten it. Is there anything I can use or do to make it go back to being smooth, sleek and straight again?

I have this Chi shampoo. It works pretty good and not very pricey. I also used to use John Frieda's Frizzease but it made my hair greasy, but you can try!

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ok, well like a year ago i was like inlove with the jonas brothers, well now eveyone is inlove with them. Then i because inlove with the veronicas and then everyone knoews of them, i want a myspace song like good music, not screamo or whatever, but kute, good, and unpopular.

mmm
i know exactly what your talking about
i like the higher and cartel

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Why is it that when I shave my legs I can still see dark small circles where the hair used to be?

Is there any way to make them stop appearing?
Does this happen to anyone else?


Please help.

mine do the same thing! its just that your pores are really big. i had to get my legs waxed and it wasnt there anymore, until it grew back

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Aside from flowers poems letters notes what are good ways to win a girls heart. I mean really melt her heart. We broke up but I still love her. I dont want to lose her. Any ideas. I ran out of ideas. Something(s) a girl cant resist. Im not good with what women desire or what melts there heart. Your advice tips etc will be highly appreciated and I will rate you high.

well what my boyfriend did once was made me a CD with all our songs and gave me all ofthe pictures of us, it was really sweet

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