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We don't have nay idea what to name our band. We're all very different individuals who can't seem to agree on anything but we are all together in this rock band. We play indie rock music. Any ideas for a band name or suggestions on how to come up with one? (please dont suggest googling band name generators) (link)
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oh god...there are literally like, trillions of possibilities... "anna's fall," "turn to stone," jonestown massacre," "red autumn war," "clock strikes 13," "bulletin board rejects.." to name a few. just look around the room for ideas. maybe its like a nickname, you cant just pick it, something has to happen, then it becomes a nickname, and it sticks. anyways hope i helped, lemme know what you guys decide on naming your band :) good luck -ali 16/f
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ok so theres this guy. i DO NOT like him as more than a friend. well he is really tickleish if you poke him in the side. so when i found out i did nothing but poke him constantly. hes not6 mad or anyhting he is my friend so he and i both thiught it was funny. well anyway he plans on "getting me back" because i am also very tickleish. when i walk with him to english he makes me so nervous. i start uncontrollably shaking and almost about to cry. i dont want to be like this and i dont know why i do get like this.
1)why do i get like this?
2)what can i do to stop doing this?
HELP PLEASE! ITS FUNNY BUT EMBARRASSING! (link)
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thats pretty strange..haha it sounds like you might have some sort of anti-social poking complex. or maybe your so subconciously worried about being poked and jumping/laughing/screaming in front of everyone thats in the hallway you start to cry. like an anxiety attack.. when that happens just try to clear your head, breathe deep, and focus on something happy. or drink some water. anything calming ya know? hope i helped :) -ali 16/f
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I'm 14/f. I'm 5'9 and weigh almost 155. I really really want to lose weight. After this week, because of some many tests and projects, I'm going to the gym again. My main problem is my boobs. I'm a C/36,and I want to be a small C/34 (I want a c/34 to be a little big on me) and I want smaller boobs!! They are sagging and I don't know what else to do about them. I'm planning to lose 30 pounds but I need to learn some pectoral exorcises to keep them from sagging. I hate having these saggish boobs that kind of go to the side because of my current weight. They're like fat boobs. I want smaller, higher boobs! HELP! (link)
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once you lose the weight, your boobs will go higher and smaller all by themselves. breasts are actually the first place you gain & lose weight.. they are sagging bc of the weight in them; theyre probably more fatty tissue then mammary (boob) tissue. in the meantime while your losing the weight, wear a bra (not padded, if you want them to be smaller) that doesnt just lift them up, but squashes them up. because there was a girl in a class i took with saggy boobs who just wore a plain everyday bra and you could see them sagging when she turned to the side.. so you'd want them up, im presuming :) hope your diet goes well, and all works out haha. lemme know how things go. hope i helped! -ali 16/f
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im on jv cheer right now. for next years team, i made jv again =[ i have my bhs, which most other jv girls dont. and im going to be a junior for next year. the ONLY junior on jv. i am captain for this year, as a sophomore. do you think its embarassing being on jv again as the only junior? do you think i have a chance at captain again since i have been on the team before and am oldest? or do coaches not like to make same captain 2 years in a row? please help =[ thanks. (link)
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nahh actually coaches like the same girl being captain, because then that girl will know what to expect, has seen and done it all already, and can help, motivate, and reassure the other girls. (esp. freshies haha :) my freshy year, me and my best friend were jv captains. we made jv our sophomore year too, and we were both captains again. shes not in cheer anymore, but im a junior now & on varsity, so yea, coaches like girls that have been captain before. :) it might be a little embarrassing to be jv again, but if anyone but varsity says anything to you, just be like, at least i AM a cheerleader haha. good luck :)) -ali
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Alright my computer is so messed up! First of all i was the one with soem iTunes issues and then i followed some genious advice to run a diasgnostic thing, i have no idea what it is but i followed the instructin and did it anyway because i was desprete, but anyways... now my computer's wireless is turned off and i used to be able to know how to fix that, but its not working anymore, my computer is SLOWER, it took liek 5 minutes to open up Windows Media Player, that shoudl not happen. my computer has never been that slow. And all these programs are now blocked and i don't know how to unblock them. i tried the whole msconfig thind where you like enable the services but that doesn't wor, i'lm liek basiclly restarting my computer over and over again trying ot enable those thigns and it does not do anythign. and my whole life is on that computer, music, pictures, and veryyyy important papers, so I'll just die inside if you tell me that i have to reboot that thing. No way in hell will i do that. But right now i just at least want my wireless turned back on... how do i allow this again. AND YES as i have told people beofre I AM THE fucking ADMINISTRATOR, that is not the problem. so don't tell me to do that. i'm not a moron. please im absolutely desprete for help right now. and i'm calling Dell and Microsoft adn they dont knwo howto help so can somebody please give me any ideas whatsoever and tell me the consequences of doign such thigns like LOSING and DISENABLING programs!!!!!!! thanks you :) (link)
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it sounds like you mightve flooded the memory if you have all that stuff on their. the only thing i can tell you is to reboot. but if you can borrow a bunch of flash-drives and put all your stuff on them, then reboot your computer and then put everything back.. that most likely will work. also trying wiping out your trash bin icon. delete anything you dont need. sorry to have to tell you the one thing you dont wanna hear... but at least this way you can save your stuff.. the whole flash-drive bit. hope i helped :) -ali
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i have cheer tryouts tomorrow at 12:30. im trying out with 2 other girls at the same time. heres what we have to do:
-cheer (w/ bhs in it. i have my bhs but its kinda ugly and i land sometimes on knees haha),
-fight song,
-extremely fast and tiring dance!,
-stunting (im a back base, and new to basing liberties!!! help),
-jumps. toe touch, pike, hurdlers.
please give me any and every advice you have for tryouts......EVERYTHING! thank you!
im currently jv captain, and trying for varsity this year and im a sophomore right now =] (link)
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haa im varsity captain & im a junior, so hopefully i can help :) im also a back/base.. tumbling really isnt a big deal.. most high school varsity squads only have about 5 of them.. just be sure to practice. it should be passable, but doesnt have to be perfect. for basing, just remember to push up and keep pressing in when the flyer hitches the stunt. and be sure to move your face back when she cradles so you wont get hit :) as you probably know.. that sucks haha. for your dance/routine, make sure your movements are clean & tight. try to practice in front of a big mirror if you can. or tape popsicle sticks to your wrists to keep them straight. be LOUD!!! coaches like girls who can be heard in the stands! for jumps.. be sure to stretch! so your jumps will be bigger. oh and use lots of facial expressions, even if they feel dumb. this is a BIG part of competition.. and dont forget to smile :) it portrays good school spirit and a positive attitude.spiriting helps earn you bonus points too.. good luck! -ali 16f
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I've been on the pill for nearly a year now. From the first month, everything was fine. I had my whole schedule down so no surprises. But I've started to gain nearly 15 pounds in water weight and it happens before and after the period week. I can't find any comfortable jeans and now I have PMS. I've had my period for years and never experienced PMS before. I didn't know I was that bad until people told me. I don't even want to see my friends because of it. It's just constant mood swings and i know it's affecting my relationships and work. I can't concentrate at all. I've been thinking about switching to YAZ.. but when I looked it up online.. and the bad experiences worried me.. I'll like to hear some experiences from here. Does it really affect the physical and mental issues or make it worse? (link)
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its normal to gain & lose water weight before & after your period, so i wouldnt worry about that. just buy a pair of fat jeans haha. but it sounds like you actually have PMDD, not PMS. but im not a doctor, so i cant say for sure. PMDD is like PMS, just alot worse. you cry for no reason, yell and HATE your boyfriend, bitch at your best friends, fight with your parents, and generally hate the world & everyone in it. plus you have horrible mood swings.. i know about this bc i have PMDD haha. i just tell everyone my "really mean aunt is visiting," and they know what i mean. but YAZ is actually a birth control designed to control PMDD, so you dont turn into a raving bitch every month haha. there are horror stories and side effects to go with every birth control, so the safest thing to do would be to look up PMDD, talk with your parents about it, explain about YAZ, and go to the doctor or gyno to ask question and gain advice. hope this helps, its the most rational thing i can think of haha.. sorry its long :) -ali
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i was laying in my boyfriends lap, my head kinda on his stomach but he was sitting up. and he started fingering me, and he has many times before but this time was different, i don't know why but it was like it was so good my body went into shock, i didn't moan or breathe heavily like usual, i just had trouble swallowing. and after that i sat up and we started making out, and in the middle of making out, i started crying.
i have no idea, it wasn't a bad cry really, i wasn't sad, i just started crying.
can anyone tell me if this has happened to them or why it happened? (link)
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ive never heard of that happening, haha but theres nothing wrong with you.. since you had trouble swallowing, it was most likely that, making your eyes just water. like when youre choking or throwing up; your eyes water. thats the most logical explanation :) i cant really think of anything else it would be. hope i helped :) -ali16f
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Ok, I got a graphics tablet for christmas. It's one of these:
http://www.techfresh.net/wp-content/uploads/2007/05/bamboo_wacom_2.jpg
((A Bamboo graphics tablet))
anyway, over spring break, a virus came and I lost all of my computer files and everything. I had to start all over, since I never took a software picture ((I think that's what it's called?)). So, I discovered that I lost the disk that came with the tablet, so I can't re-instal it! Is there anyway I can download it, or possibly get a new disk? Thanks! (link)
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call the company and explain your story to them. they should send you a duplicate or replacment disk.
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i like movies like eternal sunshine of the spotless mind and little miss sunshine and the garden state. doe anyone have any recommendations of movies like these for me? i also like the science of sleep and thanks you for smoking. (link)
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i cant really think of alot of movies like that, but the couple really good ones would be "super size me," "strangers with candy," "dan in real life," (which stars steve carrell, like little miss sunshine.), "running with scissors," "candy (with heath ledger), "edward scissorhands," "hard candy," and "ghost world." they are all good movies & are really funny, wierd, and entertaining lol. well thats more than a few.. but what the hell, the more the merrier :) hope you like them :) -ali 16/f
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i just tried taking one out for the first time dry because i put it in wrong and it hurt cause it was dry...s a tampon easier to take out if it is like, full?
Also, How far does it go in? if i separate the flaps a lil bit, should i be able to see part of the tampon? (link)
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well, they deffinetly are way less comfortable coming out when theyre dry. but cardboard is always uncomfortale, so try playtex sport or tampax pearl, both of those are the most comfortable of the brands, in my opinion. if you "open your lips," no, you shouldnt be able to see the tampon. you should, however, be able to see the string. playtex has a knot in the end of the string, to make them easier to grip & pull out. whenever i use them, my personal preference is to put the tampon all the way in, which leaves the string hanging out about an inch. it just insures a better fit & less leakage. you shouldnt go more than 6 hours without changing your tampon, but you sleep about 8-10 hours per night on average, and i figure if you can leave them in for that long while your sleeping, it wont kill you to not be able to change them for that long during the day for whatever reason. so dont freak out & worry about leaking (unless you on your first day-heaviest flow.) but i wudnt recommend it.. hope i helped! -ali 16/f
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I'm in a photo imaging class where we work with photoshop and stuff and our current assignment is to pick an advertisement of anything and completely remake it as our own. I was thinking about doing a skittles or a car ad. But I'm completely blank on what to do with it. I'm not a very creative person so I'd really appreciate any help you could give me. (link)
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well for skittles instead of the rainbow, you could do a prism, you know, a beam of white light going through a crystal and producing the color spectrum? like the pink floyd logo (google it if you dont know what that is, but most everyone does.) so you could use that, or use the bands logo, and be like, "SKITTLES... snack like a rockstar." its dumb haha, but funny & rather catchy. and people will understand it. just and idea haha. hope i helped :) -(A)
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There is a book that was at a Scholastic Book Fair about 4 years previous, and I had read it. I cannot remember the name, or the entire plot, so I will write anything about it that comes to mind. If anybody has any ideas, PLEASE, tell me.
It was about a prince (I think his name was Christopher, but I cannot be sure), but he was lost when he was about 2 years old and he was taken in by someone in the forest. I think he had an interest in engineering and he liked to build. When he got older, he somehow had a penpal with a girl in the kingdom (it turned out she was a princess too). She had a spell cast on her by a witch that gave her the ability to read minds when she touched the person. At some point, she was in danger and he went to save her, and she almost died but he saved her, and some how her gift to read minds was gone. The family found out somehow that he was a prince too. He also built a bridge for the kingdom.
Please let me know of any ideas! I can't think of it at all! Thanks! (link)
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its called once upon a marigold by jean ferris. i read it in 8th grade :) hope ive helped! -ali 16/f
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In your honest opinion, would it be right for me to go watch a horror movie on Good Friday? (link)
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i dont see why not; but just as long as its not a horror movie that turns into a porno haha..like hostel. it should be fine.
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basically over the last day iv had sevre stomach pains and then today i suddenyl noticed a lump under my chin (where the lymph node is) i also noticed a lump behind my ear and where all my lymph nodes where in ym neck and head. i was wondering if it was a virus i have could someone give advice on what it could be and if its connected with the stomach bug i had (link)
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it sounds like stomach flu, but you didnt specify enough for me to be sure. in any case if your sick you should visit your doctor. also; keep warm, drink lots of juice, wash your hands, and be generally healthy throughout the next few weeks. this will help you recover faster and help to boost your immune system. hope this helps :)
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i put eyeliner on the top of my eyelid, and on the bottom one. and throughout the day it goes to the side of my eyes and leaves like a black spot on the edge of my eyes and goes underneath my eyelashes. is there anyway to prevent that? sorry if you couldn't understand it. i also tried using liquid eyeliner because it doesn't go away as easily, but as soon as i put it on, it goes right into my eye whenever i blink. it's like it doesn't dry quick enough. is there anyway to prevent that too? thanks in advance. (link)
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all you can really do is keep a compact with you & wipe the eyeliner away with your fingers. and as for liquid eyeliner, it runs super super bad at the first sign of moisture (i.e. your tears, or eye-wetness) so dont put liquid eyeliner in the outside. just use regular there, and be sure to keep both kinds of eyeliner with you so you can put more on in the bathroom at school if you need to. hope this helps :)
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i have pretty yellow teeth. i DO brush them.. im scared like hell to go to the dentist though so i cant go and ask tem. anyways i DO brush my teeth but their still pretty yellow. it might be from coffee... so any adivce on the best outcomes or if they get gooey and slip off... or whatever happens to the whiteness strips.. anything that might be useful. thank you (link)
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ive found that white strips dont really work that well. my teeth are getting yellow from smoking, so i found a way to whiten without strips that really works. oral-b has a rembrandt whitening PEN. its about 6 inches long and its blue. you turn the cranking bottom, the gel comes out the top, and you brush it on after you brush, so it whitens while you sleep. crest has a whitening toothpaste thats in a dark blue & white tube. use these together every day and your teeth will be super white. i get compliments on how white mine are. good luck, hope this helps!
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Alright, so I'm 15/F, my boyfriend is almost 17/M. We've talked about losing our virginities to each other alot over the past month, and he wants me to wait until I'm perfectly ready. He said he wanted my first time [he doesnt really care about losing his] to be as special as ever and that if I wanted to plan it or whatever, for me to take as long as I need.
The thing is.. I don't care about my virginity now, but I don't want to regret it later. I love this boy, and I want to invest alot of my life on him, even if we aren't "together forever".
How can I make my first time special? It'll be at his house, most likely, when no one's home.
Also, I'd really appreciate it if you could tell me the story of your first time, and how that went.
Thanks. (link)
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this might be long :) ok well if you feel the way you do, like i did, you most likely wont regret it at all. when your at his house alone, & you decide you finally want to, you dont have to tell him, jus start hXc making out on the bed..one thing will lead to another..then you can tell him you want to. be sure to have a condom with you, just in case he doesnt. theres nothing more dissappointing then preparing yourself to have sex for the first time, then not being able to =/. my first time was last year in january (i was about to turn 15..a little young, i know.) but we were up in his room alone (his parents were downstairs) and his sis & her guy were in her room. well stuff started happening & clothes came off..he asked me for a b.j. but i didnt feel like it, so i just said lets have sex. so he got a condom. it didnt hurt..but it didnt feel great either. but after litterally one minute, it was great. (for your first time, id do missionary, alott easier.) hope i helped :)
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Alright, so I took the ACT today, and it was horrible. I mean, everything about it was bad. I ran out of time(so I had to guess) on every section, and the math portion was crazy hard, and I can't focus at all. I have friends in pre-calculus right now (I'll be in it next year), and they said that half the stuff on it they didn't even know what do. I bought a computer disk set for practice with the ACT and SAT, but haven't used it much cause I've been busy. But I was wondering, does anyone know any tricks to help he read faster AND comprehend the info that I read. Because that was what made me probably get most of them wrong. Any other helpful hints will be appreciated considering I'll have to retake it again anyways. :[
Thanks! (link)
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i know this sounds cliched', but getting alot of sleep and eating certain foods really help! go to bed early the night before, then maybe take a shower in the morning if you want, it might make you feel clean & refreshed, because lets face it, no one can concentrate when they feel gross. some foods that are good for stimulating your brain are eggs, oranges, blueberries, tomatoes, milk.. so try eating a breakfast of like, eggs, blueberry pancakes, an orange & a glass of milk. or something, haha. you can get creative. but other than that i dont really know any other great tips..meditatings good. just sit on your bed & focus on your breathing; block out everything else, for about an hour. studying might help.. xD. anyways sorry its long, i hope i helped :)
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what is considered a large,medium,and small
penis in inches
thanks (link)
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4-51/2 is small, 51/2-61/2 is average, n about 7 n up is big...er. at least thats pretty much how i go by
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