My name is Abbie. Im 15. I always loved giving advice. So i wanted to try this out. I love all kinds of things and want to know more about things. givig advice is one of my hobbies.
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Well basically in my group of friends, I have always been that background girl. Out of drama, out of fights, the nice shy one of the group. Although that may sound pretty good, I'm also the one that gets overshadowed by EVERYONE. I never, ever get the attention from guys, I'm never the one that all the girls want to hang out with. Pretty much, I'm never in the spotlight. I'm so sick of hearing how my friends are jugglin like 4 different boys constantly, and I have a difficult time getting one, especially when guys must be crazy if they pick me over my friends (all my friends are absolutely gorgeous by the way) I've always acted like it never bothered me, but lately it's just been really getting to me, because my whole life this is the way its been, and just for once, I would love to get the attention even just for a slight second. I don't know...any thoughts or advice would be appreciated :-/ (link)
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try stepping out be yourself but make it heard. try telling them how you feel about how they overshadow you. i had a group of friends and yes i was the shy one but i figured i couldnt be close friends with all of them so i start to get closer to one of them. it helps. hope this helps.=]
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How do you get a guy to like you....im 15/f. i think this guy might be intrested but i want him to notice me and like me. (link)
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well you cant just get a guy to like you but i know what you mean so.. you could flirt smile alot and laugh at his jokes. or just tell him how you feel about him. hope this helps. =]
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Well I am trying to loose weight so I will be thinner so I look good for cheerleading next year but I do not know if I am doing it in the right way or not here is basically what Im doing I eat half a bagel in the morning with a little cream cheese that is reduced fat, then I drink water at school for lunch because Im never real hungry because it is at 10a.m. then for dinner I eat a tiny bit of food so my mom thinks I am eating still because she gets mad at me when I say I want to loose weight but I need to because I am 5'5" and I weight like 135ish. I have lost 16 pounds in 3 weeks is that too much or is that good? (link)
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well you should still eat but excerise more run for 30 mintues sit-ups, push-ups, and jump roping. you shoudnt just stop eating because you want to lose weight. hope this helps.=]
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Ok well i think i might be depressed but i don't know?
I was looking back on old pictures and i used to always be so happy and peppy. And now i'm just not
I'm only 14 so can i be depressed?
I don't know i'm kinda confused and my mom and i arn't close. And i have no other adult to really get me help or whatever? idk what to do. (link)
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you can be depressed but i dont think you are. try getting closer to your mom ask her how her day went? things along that line.maybe find a conselor. they help when you need it. hope this helps.=]
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i have a parakeet, maybe 1 to 2 years old, and a male. lately, i have noticed that the feathers around his beak are a redish color. they have turned more pink now. what could this be from? i dont know if there could be a dye in his food. i feed him Hartz universal diet for small birds. he also has an orange cuttle bone in his cage, but he has never used it, so i dont think that could be it. so what are some possibilities of why his feathers are redish pink?
thanks! (link)
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try vitaimns you put them in the water i have cockateils and when there feather fade and stuff along that lines we put vitaimns in their water. dont worry! hope this helps.=]
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Does anyone know the name of the song that goes
what ya know about me
what ya know about me...
my lip gloss is popin
i thought it might be what ya know about me but i couldn't find it on i-tunes
thanks in advance! (link)
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i little sister was singing that song a few days ago. it called lip gloss by lil mama.
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Hi everyone!
I'm in a show and I need to find a pair of DENIM OVERALLS asap! The cheaper the better! Wal mart has them for about $17 but that's a little much for something that will be worn for a minute & 30 seconds total. I need a womens sz. 7 to 11 (doesn't matter) & some I can buy at a store. thanks! (link)
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try a thrift store. they have alot of clothing items for under $10.00 maybe even less. hope this helps.=]
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ive had a Vivitar Digital Camera a little over a year and ive always used the USB cord to connect it to the computer, and have basically had no problems. Now, i havent used my camera since January.. and i recently took some pics. i just tried to upload them but apparently it isnt noticing the cord is connected? i dont know what to do. it made the little beep it makes when it connects, but then said the USB port was overloaded, so i reset it, nothing happened, so i switched ports. now its not doing anything. i turn it on and it just sits there. i switched ports again, and still nothing, but i know this port works because its the one i hook up my ipod to. whats wrong? please dont suggest buying a new cord. (link)
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well this happened to me the computer just doesnt remember the cord your using. if the camera came with i disc try download the software back into the computer. if this doesnt work the only thing is i know you didnt want me to suggest this but buy a new cord. sorry. hope this helps.=]
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hey. well there's this girl, we'll call her ...lauren. well in eigth grade we got into a fight. [yes, a fist fight] well, the thing is that she didnt even know me when she wanted to fight me. (she was the one who wanted to fight me, she punched first and so i hit back) and she won. but, she like.. sat on me and i couldnt get up and she talks about how stupid that is to do that to someone because its unfair all the time. anyway, sorry for rambling. but, she hates me. Honestly, i don't know why. I'm not one of those girls who does things and someone would actually have a ligit. reason for it. she just...hates me. i mean, in class i dont talk. and out of school we have NEVER talked, not even for a second. well, besides the fight.. but that wasnt for very long. lol. she's always soo nice to me- but behind my back she talks about me. anyway. i dont want this to escalate into a fight again because i have to focus on my studies. [like, seriously] I hope someone can give me advice on what to do whenever she does try and talk about me. do i just ignore it? do i stand up for myself? and how would i be able to do that without getting into a fight with her. if you met her, you'd know what i meant. shes the type of person who gets mad at EVERYTHING. please help & thankyou in advance. (link)
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well you should stick up for yourself tell her you just want to talk not fight. tell her whats on your mind. find out why she hates you//what you did for her to hate you. things like that. if you stick up for yourself in front of alot of people then youll probably end up fighting because you cant call her out. she look whimpy. i try not to have many girl friend since they are sketchy. hope this helps.=]
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So this guy I know has liked me for a long time keeps trying to get me jealous and it's really annoying. I know it sounds like I'm jealous, but I'm not.
Anyways last night he's like "What do I say to this girl I want to have sex with?" I'm like "Um..." And just gave him advice. And he's like "She's really, really hot with a good body." and I'm like "that's nice." And he changed the subject. Then once again he kept bringing up my exes and asked me to describe them. I told him about one, and he asked if I only dated guys with blonde hair. I said no I like guys with darker hair and he asked if I liked his hair colour then I said I didn't know. He then blew up at me, saying I was a bitch and I was hurting him and he was only trying to be nice. Then he admitted once again how much he liked me, we made small talk and once again he was going on about that chick.
Before you say I'm jealous without knowing it: I'M NOT!! I just talk to this guy a lot and now every 2 seconds it's "I want to have sex with this girl, she's so hot. We're going to be going out" blah blah blah. (link)
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you could do one of two things tell him you honestly dont want to her about people he wants to have sex with. or play his game right back.
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does anyone know any excercies that will make my boobs smaller? please help (link)
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im trying to do the same thing right now my watching what i eat. try sit ups, running,and jumping. if your lose a little weight not too much tho. soon your breast will start to go down cup sizes. hope this helps. =]
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I found out my best friend and my boyfriend have been hanging out one-on-one. It upset me, I really love him, but I know how my best friend is with guys and that just worries me.
My boyfriend and I got into a big fight about it, and my best friend promised it wouldn't happen again. But then, they hung out again tonight. I'm not sure what else to do, they know it bothers me. They're aren't doing anything, I mean she has a boyfriend, but I'm uncomfortable with them hanging out without me there. (link)
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tell her how you feel tell her that you really like him and you wouldnt do that to her. try talking to your boyfriend about how you feel tell him how he makes you feel. if your friend is true shell stop. hope this helps.=]
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hey
kk im 13/f
ok so there's this girl, laureen [or laurene can't spell it!!!] & she's rly nice and stuff BUT...
so shes got a killer fashion
im talking abercrombie, cchanel, dior, etc.
i dont care about the brands but shes rly hot [me not lezbo juss sayin!] & lots of guys like her. and i mean i want to be her friends, but she seems so exclusive, her and her other friend gabie!!!!!!
they are both rly pretty but i dunno whatt to do!
also........
there is this oby i like
his name is donovon and i tink he likes her. i mean i dont know but ive heard him talking qabout her and i mean were in 7th grade and a rly cute boy in 8th grade likes her!!!!!!!!!! omg ok annd, with gabie, but both of em are rly funny but i dunt noeo what to do!
how can i get donovon
how can i be rly pretty like them
and be reaaaly smart too
they are unbeliebeably cooL!
thanks people!
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okay starting off you dont want to change to get people attention be yourself try talking to those girls laugh when they say something funny. just be yourself around them. ask him if he likes anyone give him signs flirt alittle(not alot) try telling him how you feel. remember dont change yourself to impress someone soon theyll find the real you and might not like that side of you. hope this helps.=]
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Basically, I want to loose 20lbs by the end of school. Right now, I'm 16/f and weigh 151lbs and 5'6. I would like to weigh 130-135. So far I've been eating::
Breakfast- Oatmeal, Bannana, Diet Iced Tea.
Snack- Grannola bar
Lunch- Turkey Sandwhich, Yogurt, Carrots
Snack- Strawberry's, or some sort of fruit.
Dinner- A Lean Cousine Or Healthy Choice. (under 400 calories)
Every Day or so I also take a walk, or work out for forty minutes and then lift weights.
am i doing everything correctly? Do you think I can loose enough weight by the end of school? And what kind of foods should I add to my diet, if there are any?
thanks for the help :)
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okay. your on track. just rememver to keep that up. crash dieting is bad. hope this helps. =]
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this must be the worst problem I have. I'm extremely sensitive. Is there any ways to not cry? I try to take deep breaths and calm down but it doesn't work.
Like I haven't went shopping for a year and my dad said he'd take me today but he changed my mind. big deal. But I kinda teared up and had to make an excuse to stay upstairs for the rest of the day or else he'd think I'm mad at him or something and maybe it'll hurt his feelings.
The worst thing is that when I start I can't stop and then it gets really ugly with the hicupping and stuff.
please help.. (link)
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okay. i get the same way. but i found out that if you keep a jornal your can vent and it makes you feel alot better. i try and make it like its a person i know kinda crazy//weird. but if it works do it. hope this helps. =]
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Ok my BFF has another BFF which I hate!! I think my BFF is talking about me to her, but I not sure.
How can you tell? I can't stand my BFF's friend.
What should I do, Be nice to her, or be as mean as possible? (link)
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okay. as a matter of fact i was in the same problem like 3 weeks ago. one thing you can tell is when you see them togehter they are always whispering or walking away from you or even telling you to stay. what you should do is confront your bff tell her how you feel. try and tell her whats up and how its affecting you if she cares shell try and make things right. hope this helps.=]
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Do friends flirt with each other just cause or are they saying they like me?
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well theres different knds of ways people flirt but if you ask me if friends flirt then they probably like you a little or so. i dont think friend just flirt because they can. hope this help.=]
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Not sure those of you in the US will know this but it's a mass mini-marathon (2 and a half to three miles) across the UK to raise money for cancer research.
My sister and I have decided to enter and I should stress, I have NEVER done anything like this! It's in two months. I am 5'6, about 10 stone and haven't done any regular exercise since I left school four and a half years ago.
I'm not expecting to turn into some major athlete and you can walk it...but I want to run at least some of the way.
So what sort of foods should I be eating, what should I be drinking, how often do I need to exercise and are there any other tips you can give me? (link)
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well i never race like that or anything but if try less fatty food or foods that could slow you down. drink water or green tea. try doing situp about 10 2 times a day. and run for aleast 20-30 minutes itll get you body inshape so it knows what its doing. this will probably get you together in time. GOOD LUCK! =) hope this helps. =]
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I was only wonderin if like you could fall in love with a person who you just had sex with??
because i did but he has been my friend for a long time but now I dont know how i feel... i dont know whether i see him as a friend or something more
help!! (link)
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if you knew you had feeling for this person then you has sex then there could be feelings appearing. well if you think about him alot if you day dream about him dream about him when you look at him you think of him as more than a friend then you like him. just talk to him about it maybe he can help a little more then i did. hope this helps. =]
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Hi
Everything in my life has built up to a head and im not happy anymore. I moved into a new home before christmas with my son and his father which i was happy about at the time as it was a fresh start for us as a family. we moved in around october last year as since then we have been tormmented by our neighbour its as if she is living with us and our son can hardly play in his own home. To top this all off iv had alot of problems in my job which is very close to where we live and apart from feeling so insecure in my life at this time my relationship does not seam to offer me any comfort as my boyfriend has his own problems and is going through a devorce from a relationship he had years ago he also has children from this relationship. this may all seam like alot going on and it is, i have always tried to make a good life for us but everything is falling apart. Im starting to think i should make a fresh start with just myself and my son as i can not see anything improving here in my relationship, home or job i love my son to bits and only want the best for him to. Has anyone ever made a fresh break like this that turned out for the better that they could advise me on what steps to take im not really finantially secure at the moment, but im not afraid to work. so i knok we would be ok regards money.
Thanks for reading
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okay. just to start i havnt made a fresh new start like this but as i read it sounds like you should start a fresh start with only you and your son at this moment your boyfriend has alot to think about and if its not improving then maybe you need a break. it sounds like a alot of work but you can do it. hope this helps.=]
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