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Alright so me and my boyfriend have been going out for like monthsss..and lately its hard to want to kiss him cause hes got a lil bit stinky breath..but he doesnt know it. i always offer him these mints just because i like them a lot and i always have a bunch but they dont help your breath they just taste good.
What can i possibly do to maybe make his breath smell better without telling him cause thatd be awkward and kinda mean....Esh!
Thanks for the helpppp.

Hmm...I would just occasionally just ask your boyfriend if he wants a mint of some gum. If he says yes, your problem is solved. If he says no, keep offering!

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Sorry about the wrong category btw! Well I have this important party to attend on sunday. I am worried to get pimples so I decided i'd use the clean and clear acne spot treatment on my whole face....will it work? Will it harm my skin?

Well, It worked on me. This treatment didn't hurt my skin but everyone is different, so make sure you are not alergic to anything in the formula. Some people tend to have very soft skin so if you are one of those people, only use a tad bit.

I would try a little bit of this formula on my face, then see if your skin is better or worse.

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Last night I cut my self shaving by accident and there was like three cuts and they bled a lot. Like.. The blood soaked through a tissue and a bandaid and now around the cut its like purple.

What should I do ? Like why is it purple?

Hmm..I am not sure about the purple-ness but I think that you should just keep your cut covered up. If it bleeds over a bandaid, just get another one.

One time I cutted my finger and it bled through a lot of bandaids but it got better.

If you applied pressure to your cuts, that might have caused the purple-ness.


HOPED i HELPED!

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I already asked this question earlier and got some feed back but I wanna put it back up at the top and see if I get some more oppinions before I develop my own conclusion...
Info: Ok I am 23 and he is 19. We are both artists and musicians. I am black and he is white. Question: I had a crush on this guy at work. Turns out he had a crush on me too. He asked me to date him exclusively. I said yes and we did. He told his family that we were going to be dating and they flipped out because 1/2 of them are racist. We talked about it and decided to work through it. We didn't have sex but we did make out and mess around some, shared some private goals and beliefs etc. Then he calls me after we spend the night together, the day he was supposed to talk to his family and work something out, and says that he isn't as interested as he thought he was. He says we should be friends, but then he stops calling and talking and everything. Then I hear that he was using me to get this chick at work jealous. But he doesn't seem like a malicious person like that, and I think he loves his family too much to take them through that for nothing.He also cried on my shoulder and wrote a song dude! About our relationship and situation. What do you think? What is going on?

Okay, I think something happened between his family. Now, if my family said something so mean to me [as in a threat] I would probably be scared so I guess that is what this boy is feeling.

The World is filled with Gossipers so don't believe everything you hear at first. Go to the source. Study this boy very closly. Ask yourself questions like:
*Is he around a girl that may be a girlfriend?
*Is he dating a girl at work?
*Is he single?
*Does he seem happy?
*Is his family ALWAYS there?

These questions might be the answer itself.

If you get lost from doing all the questioning, just go straight up to this guy and say;; Look, I have heard that you were using me to get a chick here and if that is true, you should tell me because I deserve to know.

If he doesn't respond, walk away and say "that's all I needed to know."

It will probably be a yes if he didn't respond.


If you need more help feel free to ask me anything! ^.^

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i remember seeing this movie, but i dont remember what it is. i remember a part when theres a girl sitting in a car and she puts a gun in her mouth and shoots herself and theres all blood and smokes comin' out of her mouth. ya it was gross lolol, but what movie was it i cant rememberr

It was;; The Texas Chainsaw Masacare

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My legs are pretty uneven. Im a healthy weight, except my legs really bug me, my thighs are normal, but my calves have no muscle or fat on it.

Do you know any exercises for my calves?? PLEASE AND THANK YOU!

Well, most of my friends say doing ballet will help with your calves. I am not positivly sure but go give it a try! ^.^

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how do you get an animated image to move on your myspace page?

like i want to put a moving picture as my "headline" and whenever i do, it stops moving :[

help!!?

Okay, I would say that you are not using the correct kind of software. If you do not have a software that allows you to do that;; like PAINT.net, then I would consider using www.lunapic.com

After uploading your image, it will say;; Add Animation [in blue.] Click That. From there on, click browse image;; click on the image you want and click upload image. You will see the image flash on and off.

As for the myspace issue, I am not sure because I am not allowed to have a myspace.

If you need help feel free to E-mail me because;; as you can see from my profile;; i know how to make animated pictures.

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so i changed my e-mail on myspace but now when i go on search and type my new e-mail adress in it says Sorry we weren't able to find "........ " on MySpace.

care 2 explain? cause i can log in with it?

thxx

There should be a confirm e-mail. You have to verify that, then everything should be fine.

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People have like glowing stars on their myspace pictures and their names written on their and hearts dotting the "I"
how can i do this?

what program??

Where can i get it from??

PLEASE AND THANKS

www.lunapic.com

I'm not sure about the glowing stars but for the i's dotted with hearts, click on a little T icon after uploading your image then choose this font [after writing what you want it to say]


FiOLEXGiRLS

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Ok I wear pajamas to sleep but on tv and stuff I see girls wearing a tank top and some shorts.
Baby-ish? or am i old fashioned?

Well, I usually wear regular pajamas but when it gets really hot, I tend to wear shorts and a tank top. I don't think there is anything wrong with wearing regular PJs but that's just me ^.^

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i hav a crush on a SENIOR {im a freshman}. we talk and i need advice on how to not just walk by with a wave! i need to start conversation but i need advice as to howw!!!!! how do i start something intersting???

Eye Contact is always a good thing. Like if you see your crush just look at him and smile, then look the other way. Make sure he is looking back. From there, just walk up to him and say, hey, whats up. QUESTIONS ALWAYS LEADS TO ANSWERS. If you really want to be flirty say this "hey, do you have anything planned on the weekend?" I think he'll get the clue! ^.^

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I'm going to their concert...what should I wear??

(Pictures please)

Regular Clothes. Maybe a fan shirt. Like:
MCR ROCKS!

They usually sell them at the concert.

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How Do I create a playlist on myspace? Where I can have a lot of songs and people can choose wich one they wanna hear?

http://www.projectplaylist.org/

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I'm a 21 year old female. I live in Pennsylvania. I met this guy about two weeks ago off of a dating website. He lives in Canada. I know two weeks doesn't seem long, and to fall in love with someone you've never physically met is stupid, but this guy stole my heart. I instantly fell in love with how much of a gentleman he was, how much he cared about me, and how sweet he was. I'd never felt so happy in my entire life. People actually commented me on how happy and alive I seemed. We got into some sort of argument over something, and he told me that he felt as if we were too incompatible. And the distance. I told him I'd move to him and everything. The thing is, I just can't get over this. I cried the hardest i've ever cried before in my life last night. I didn't sleep a wink, I got up for work at 5:30 this morning feeling like a zombie. I sat at work for three hours just staring into space, not doing anything, feeling like I didn't even exist. I haven't had anything to eat since 7:00 last night... the thought of putting food near my mouth just makes me sick to my stomach. I came home from work at 11:00 because the pain was just too much to handle. What should I do? I don't know how to cope with this at all.

I think everyone has gone through a stage like that. I know I have. Some ways to cope with a broken heart is just to do something fun to get away from life!

Some things I did were:

*Shopping with my friends. I am the kind of girl that absolutely loves to shop and when I'm with my friends, I forget about all my problems.

*Go Clubbing. Get all fancy and dance with a few friends! The music helps me drain out my thoughts and makes me just want to DANCE and HAVE FUN!

*Take a trip to a luxurious spa! Even if you are going to a spa by yourself, IT IS STILL FUN! You feel like a princess and it helps you get away from life. Even if the spa is just for one day, it will be TOTALLY worth it!

*Blast up some music and clean the house. I know that cleaning your home may not be fun, but if you have a few friends over and you guys just start dancing and laughing, everything just FADES AWAY. By the end of the day, you'll be laughing like crazy. If you have friends like mine, you will be close to peeing yourself because of all the jokes and pranks! The very VERY good thing about doing this is that you have fun and forget everything and YOUR HOME IS CLEAN!

*Have a ALL-GIRLS sleep over. Call all of your friends and just sleep over. It will be like when you were little. Then you girls can play some fun games like: truth or dare. You can play board games, or you can dance like crazy people. It's always fun especially because it brings back old memories and you and your friends can play PRANKS! For example, the first person who falls asleep gets their complimentary 'make-over'!



JUST REMEMBER TO HAVE FUN! AND FORGET ABOUT THE PAST!

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okae. so this might get long + sorry if it is. but here we go. on Fri. my school had a dance.and the guy i like , joey was there. me and him went out back in oct. he broke up with me. well i got really depressed at our dance. and when lips of an angel (our song) came on i started crying. and i then said i was gonna throw up my food. but i didnt. but today being a stupid idiot i am told my best friend i did. when i would never be bolemic (sp?) - aka throw up my food. how should i tell her i was lieing. or should i just pretend to overcome my "eating disorderr?"

Well, friendship is built on honesty. When your friend talks about the problem again, just say, oh jeez i was just playing! Oh mi gosh! you take everything so seriously. I swear I was joking!

You can also tell her that since you cried like crazy you threw up. You went to the doctor and he/she said it was because of crying.

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ok
14/m
i'm going to a party on saturday after i get back from vacation, and my ex girlfriend is going to be there. we were together for 4 months, and i absolutely loved her. we broke up about a week and a half ago. she's going with this guy that is apparantly the reason we broke up, and its REALLY pissing me off. i thought about bringing this really pretty friend i have to make my ex jealous, but she's already busy on saturday. so what should i do? i definitely want to go to the party, but i don't know what to do about the fact that she's going to be there with that guy...

thanks guys
Sam

Hey Sam.
If I were you, I would go to that party and avoid my ex. It is the best thing to do. After all, I don't think you want to get into a fight. If your ex spots you just say hi and if she introduces you to her boyfriend then be the bigger person and meet him. Then just say oh, well nice seeing you again! you 2 have fun.
OR
you can always try to get a really nice looking girl to go with you to the party to make her jealous. Make sure you hug and kiss like crazy! it will totally tick her off!

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I am a level 1 moderator. how can i become higher? i rate at least 5 questions daily ( if i can get on the computer. ) so how do i get to be a level 2 or 3 ? thnks.

Basically, you get chosen by DangerNerd.

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When boy celebs talk about their chest hair, girls scream and stuff. What's so hot about chest hair and back hair? I think it's kinda gross..

Hmm....I like them because they have to take off there shirt to show it.

haha...lol

^.^

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Ok it's going really rough these past 5 years for me because my parents constantly fight but their family doesn't beleive in divorce so oviously they can't get divorced. What can I do?

And is there such thing as love? Or is it just an attraction? Many people think they're in love and then they get married early and stuff and yeah.

Well, Just give your parents space and try to find a solution for the things they are fighting about.

My parents have fought over stupid things and they got over it.

It's like your period. It comes and goes and sometimes you never get it.

Just always remember that none of the fighting is your fault.

I would probably talk to a close, trustworthy friend about this. It is common. You are not alone!

If your parents keep on fighting, ask them to go to a marriage counselor.

You can also try to talk to them and tell them that you just want to see them happy.

Yes, I do believe in a thing called love.

As a 14 year old, I haven't experienced TRUE and EVERLASTING love but I have fallen in love more than once.

Young adults [such as myself] tend to fall in love quite too soon.

It's not a problem but if you fall in love every time you meet a boy or girl, you'll never know what love is.

Love is giving your heart to somebody because you trust them with all your secrets and you know they won't tell anybody.

Love is when you are willing to die for a person knowing that they will do the same for you.

Love is like a best friend who was always there...you just NEVER knew.

Yes, I'll admit, one time I fell head over heels for this one guy.

He wanted us to get married!

Then I realized, if he TRULY loves me, he will wait until we graduate from college.

He didn't want to, but that's too bad.

If you really like a boy or girl he or she will devote his or her whole life to you!

Just don't rush into things.

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I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for four and a half years. We had an argument last night about our sex lives. He said to me that he's tired of routine and him always initiating sex. He says that he is tired of me being "conservative" when it comes to sex and can count on one hand how many times I've actually initiated. We've argued about this before and afterwards I would initiate because I know he's right. But itd only be once until he complains again. The problem is that he's right and I know I can't be mad. I don't know why I don't because I'm not shy and I really enjoy sex with my boyfriend. Last night I said to him "I'm sorry, its just not me. And you what... I don't think I can ever change that.." And out of, I don't know, anger at myself, I said "why don't you find a girl that can give you what you want." We both agree, although I've never said it aloud, that sex plays a big factor in a relationship. But after I said that I felt like, no I don't want him to find someone else because I want to be the girl that can give him what he wants. Its just so damn hard for me to initiate. You'd think after four years we wouldn't have this problem.. But I do really need to try harder because I'm in love with him and vice versa and I want to be with him for the rest of our lives and I don't want to lose him because of my lack of initiations. Can any one please give me advice and what to do and how to help me open up to him when it comes to sex. I say to myself "its just not me" but maybe its more than that... maybe its because I was raped when I was 14 and my virginity was stolen from me. Maybe that plays a part?

Well, thank you for reading this. Any advice is appreciated.

21/female

I think you should tell your boyfriend what happened. [when you were 14 and you got raped]

Tell him the whole story.

Tell him that you want to spend the rest of your life with him.

If he says something like "i know you don't love me" just say "yes i do, why would i stay with you for 4 years if i didn't?"

WELL, I HOPED I HELPED!

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