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divorce
Ok it's going really rough these past 5 years for me because my parents constantly fight but their family doesn't beleive in divorce so oviously they can't get divorced. What can I do?
And is there such thing as love? Or is it just an attraction? Many people think they're in love and then they get married early and stuff and yeah.
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my parents have been fighting ever since i can remember, they fight about everything, and they fight everyday. some fights are worse then others. everyday they talk about gettin a divorce but they still havent. i dont know why they dont but i guess ive just learned to live with it even thought i hate my home life. theres really nothing you can do about it except try to ignore it and stay away from your parents as much as possible when they fight. (maybe go in your room or go out with friends alot) i hope things brighten up for you...
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Well, Just give your parents space and try to find a solution for the things they are fighting about.
My parents have fought over stupid things and they got over it.
It's like your period. It comes and goes and sometimes you never get it.
Just always remember that none of the fighting is your fault.
I would probably talk to a close, trustworthy friend about this. It is common. You are not alone!
If your parents keep on fighting, ask them to go to a marriage counselor.
You can also try to talk to them and tell them that you just want to see them happy.
Yes, I do believe in a thing called love.
As a 14 year old, I haven't experienced TRUE and EVERLASTING love but I have fallen in love more than once.
Young adults [such as myself] tend to fall in love quite too soon.
It's not a problem but if you fall in love every time you meet a boy or girl, you'll never know what love is.
Love is giving your heart to somebody because you trust them with all your secrets and you know they won't tell anybody.
Love is when you are willing to die for a person knowing that they will do the same for you.
Love is like a best friend who was always there...you just NEVER knew.
Yes, I'll admit, one time I fell head over heels for this one guy.
He wanted us to get married!
Then I realized, if he TRULY loves me, he will wait until we graduate from college.
He didn't want to, but that's too bad.
If you really like a boy or girl he or she will devote his or her whole life to you!
Just don't rush into things.
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Awh, don't think that your parents marriage is typical, because it's not. Yeah, lots of parents get divorced, but every family and relationship isn't like that. My parents fight sometimes, and there's been times where I was thinking about who I wanted to live with [I thought they were gonna split], and they've been working it out. My parents have been together 21 years, and if they can make it last this long, then not all parents have a dysfunctional relationship.
Just suggest family/marriage counseling & see if things change. If not, just try to occupy your time with a sport, or an after school activity, or go to a friend's house so you don't have to be around the fighting constantly. Trust me, that's not how love is. And you'll find that out when you're in it, k? So keep your head up & don't worry. Love is far from what your parents are dealing with.
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