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I think my buddy likes me
well i have this one guyfriend, well we're buddies,he hugs me a lot i would say too much, which i think its kind of weird, well this past friday he said that he was attracted to me in some way. I did not know what to do so i didnt say anything, the worst part is that he has a girlfriend and she talks to me, I feel really bad!... my question is what should I do and how do I know if he was telling me the truth about what he feels for me??
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Talk to this guy and say are you serious about what you said and if you felt this way about me why are you going out with [girlfriend's name]. Or you can confront his friend and tell her what is going on so if she hears something she will know that you tried to stop him.
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The next time you're talking to him ( in whichever way you're most comfortable talking to him; phone, IM, or in person ) then just be like,"Hey, I have a question about what you told me this past Friday. Whenever you said you were attracted to me... is that true?" And see what he says. Whenever he answers "Yes", cause I'm pretty sure he will, then I would have a serious talk with him about it.
I would just be like,"Oh, well I just don't understand how you like me whenever you have a girlfriend. What about her? She's really nice, and she talks to me, so whenever I think of this it makes me feel really bad. :/" ( or whatever you want to say ) And just see what he answers back and talk it out with him.
I hope I helped.
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Ask him online one of these days. Be like "You know what you told me last Friday?" and when he says "Yeah." Ask him if he meant it. And then just keep talking from there.
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