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Me and a friend always do a duet every year.. its usually country but could be pop and we are teens. we have sang "when you love someone like that" by reba and leann rhimes and "leave the pieces" by the wreckers. we really like these songs, but we dont want another song about a break up and would reallly like a song that people will like and really be amazed with. Does anyone have any ideas of any good duets we could do?
I gotta feeling- Black Eyed Peas Love Story- Taylor Swift If I were a boy -Beyonce halo full -Beyonce Also go on the internet and then on mtv.com and look at top music. Hope this helps! Xoxo, Farrah Gonzalez
So, I'm about to sound completely messed up. So i need some help on this hah. Alright, so there's this guy Josh. He treats me like crap sometimes, he doesn't even care, but I've NEVER EVER liked someone SO MUCH as him. I'm like...addicted to this guy. I can't even explain. but all he really cares about is sex, and we aren't even dating. I bet he talks to other girls and blah but i like him a lot..and theres this other guy alex who is nice but one of those feminine guys? Who are really sentitive..but I have a feeling hes gonna ask me out tomorrow. And I don't want to get into that but he'd treat me better. AND THEN there was this guy DRAKE that I was talking to earlier this summer, we hung out and got really close, but now he doens't even talk to me or respond to my textes? And there's no way he could have found out about Josh. I really don't know. Should I stick in the single life and keep juggling this around? Or...? This is so fucked up ahhahaha its killllin me.
I think alex is best for you. Josh is a jerk and doesnt deserve you because he is only wanting you for the sex and after that you are gonna get hurt after he gets tired of using you. Drake doesnt even answer you so he isnt reliable. I say ask alex and if it doesnt work out stay single for a bit. It never hurts! Hope this helps! Ttyl. Xoxo, Farrah Gonzalez!
okay so i'm 19 and i will admit i'm a pretty horny 19 year old VIRGIN. the farthest i've been is making out and the last time i did it was like three years ago. it's not that i dont want to do sexual things with guys, its that i'm nervous. who isnt nervous their first time getting fingered, giving a hand job, getting felt up, etc. i think it's because i feel like i'm not comfortable with my body but i've realized that guys like boobs. its not abnormal, duh. girls are usuallly self- conscious about their body, right? i honestly wouldnt do somethinng with a guy if i didnt want to, but i WANT TO its just the point of actually getting there. yeah i know, if its a guy you love you shouldnt feel nervous but you dont know me! no matter how comfortable i am with someone, it still feels awkward. like okay your feeling me up as i sit here, cool? i overanalyze everything. how can i overcome this? i know that if i just do something once, i'll overcome this fear, but until then how can i get over it?
Also try taking a hot bath with bubbles and use precautions and birth control and condoms and youll be fine hope this helps!
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Thats a cool site! You should add a place where ppl can add there own things that would make it great
Okay so I had a problem with two boys earlier that alot of people gave me advice on. I took a short break from talking to two boys that I cared so much about so that I could decide which one I wanted to be with. When I decided I needed only Jason in my life I waited a couple days then I was going to go hang out with himat his house. (turns out I shoulda called first) Well when I got there his mom told me he was in his room and I could just go in. when I came in the guy I had cared so much for and spent the last six months with was kissing his new "girlfreind" how suprising this all was concidering just 8 days ago he was with me. Anyways I pretty much acted like i could care less and everything was all fine. So when I left his house I guess I was very on the reboundish, when I ran into matt. This is jasons best freind, a guys that hits on me everytime I see him but also talks down on me at times > he's the total player type. So anyways we were talking and when he put his arms around my waist it just felt so great to be touched that I couldnt stop him, same when he kissed me I wanted to kiss him back and I did many times. The thing is I knew when I didnt have sex with him immediately he was going to tell me to leave. I expected it because I know him and how he treats girls, but if I expected it why did it hurt so much? Why did I care? And when he told me he wanted me to leave he said it in this sweet little way and then said but will I see you later? outloud I said no but in my heart I yelled yes. I dont like him never have but why do I want to see him so badly again, and why is all this crap happening to me? please help me
When you saw jason and that other girl you wanted someone to love you and Matt could maybe deep inside you also wanted matt so you could make jason jealous. I say both are bad for you cuz ones a sleaze and the other cant wait for you for long. Dump both and get someone who will care for you. -Farrah Gonzalez
Okay so I had a problem with two boys earlier that alot of people gave me advice on. I took a short break from talking to two boys that I cared so much about so that I could decide which one I wanted to be with. When I decided I needed only Jason in my life I waited a couple days then I was going to go hang out with himat his house. (turns out I shoulda called first) Well when I got there his mom told me he was in his room and I could just go in. when I came in the guy I had cared so much for and spent the last six months with was kissing his new "girlfreind" how suprising this all was concidering just 8 days ago he was with me. Anyways I pretty much acted like i could care less and everything was all fine. So when I left his house I guess I was very on the reboundish, when I ran into matt. This is jasons best freind, a guys that hits on me everytime I see him but also talks down on me at times > he's the total player type. So anyways we were talking and when he put his arms around my waist it just felt so great to be touched that I couldnt stop him, same when he kissed me I wanted to kiss him back and I did many times. The thing is I knew when I didnt have sex with him immediately he was going to tell me to leave. I expected it because I know him and how he treats girls, but if I expected it why did it hurt so much? Why did I care? And when he told me he wanted me to leave he said it in this sweet little way and then said but will I see you later? outloud I said no but in my heart I yelled yes. I dont like him never have but why do I want to see him so badly again, and why is all this crap happening to me? please help me
Ok when you saw jason and that other girl you were hurt and wanted someone to love you. Matt was the one around so you didnt object because you wanted someone to do that and you didnt mind who did it. Also since matt is jasons best friend i think you would make jason jealous by being with matt. This is a common thing when a relationship ends so that crap happens to everyone and i know it sucks. Both jason and Matt are bad for you because matts a sleaze and jason couldnt wait for you for 9 days before sucking face with another girl. This is wat i think, and get a bf who will treat you better. Hope this helps let me know if it does! -Farrah Gonzalez
19, female.
so there's this guy, we use to be pretty close like THREE years ago. we still see each other now and then but its nothing like what we were before. we're both attracted to each other but i just always have a hard time even texting him, let alone ask him to hang out. its that "having a crush on someone, nervousness" but like a week ago i had to ask him something so then we started talking and i was like can we hangout when i get back from vacation? and he was like yea im down. and so now i'm back but i just dont really know how to ask him to hangout. he's always busy too, playing sports. he always has hockey and baseball. so i kind of want to just be like "so...when are we hanging out" but i dont think that will get me very far because i can see him being like "whenever" and its different because i always text flirty with him like i've said "you only see the one side of me, and thats the good side" and he was like "well whats your other side?" and i was like naughty;) and he was like why arent you like that with me! and so on haha. AND the thing is i've been to my cousins twice since i've been back and he's their next door neighbor and not once did he text me even saying like yeah we should all hang out, because hes close with my cousins too. i just overthink everything! is there a good way to ask him to hangout without the fear of being rejected and him being like sorry im busy. AND i dont even know what we would do!
anything is appreciated:)
Well you should first off ask him before another girl does. Although sports is a hectic schedule he doesnt have them each day so check out which days he doesnt have them. Even if hes busy one day the worst he can say is maybe tomorow. Maybe you can even go to one of his games with a couple friends. Then maybe he'll decide to hang out with you. Hope this helps! -Farrah Gonzalez
I really want to put a picture on my profile, but my current only computer is my iPod touch. For some reason I the button doesn't work.. Anyone have any ideas?
Peace and love :)
~Kate
You should go to a friends or the public library and use the computer there you can always download pics from your phone or camera ect. And put it on a usb or a disk then you can upload the pic. Hope this helps! -Farrah Gonzalez
I'm a girl & i'm 16 years old. I was talking to this kid for almost five months, and i liked him a lot. Obviously i thought he liked me too, considering thats what he told me. He went to prom last minute, then met a chick there & they started dating right away. I was left hanging and he wanted nothing to do with me, and this was out of nowhere. I couldnt do anything about it, and it made me feel helpless. He's still dating this girl and i dont even know why. I dont know why i still care, but i do. He still textes me sometimes and i think he wants us to be friends. The whole situation still has me confused, what should I do?
You should confront him and ask him why he is giving you mixed feelings and let him know how you feel. Tell him he needs to understand and that all you want is the truth. Hope this helps! -Farrah Gonzalez
where can i find a restaurant that serves this in new jersey, preferably northern new jersey
OR where can i buy these new mexican chiles?
I would recommend going on google or yahoo and looking it up your bound to come across something. Then you can go on mapquest and get the instructions there. Hope this helps! -Farrah Gonzalez
Hello
Around the last week of June(2009) or the first week of July(2009), my enV 2 fell into my town lake
The same day I replaced it with the enV Touch
Now today -July 15, 2009- my dad randomly decided we should go look for it.
We had no luck. But we're trying again tomorrow
He says it's extremely possible the memory is still functionable and I could get all my stuff back since I lost it all when I got my new phone
But He's not 100% sure
IF we do find my old phone, do you think the memory card will be functionable?
I think it will work. You should also try contacting your phone company because my brother accidently sent his phone halfway across the country and he got a memory card exactly as he had it before with all his pics and music maybe you can do That too but it also depends on your phone company but i recommend you do -Farrah Gonzalez
Okay so basicly my problem is sometimes I cant stop thinking and practicly torturing myself over things that have happend in the past,I
never used to be like this so I dont know why its come on all of a sudden.
For example id be lying in bed and I would think of something embarassing that happend and just beat myself up about it.
or id be thinking why did I do that,about a certain time.
this is driving me crazy,and it makes me super paronied about stuff that has more then likely been forgotten.
like last night i was thinking about this one time i was making out with this guy,and I convinced myself i did something wrong (because after that we stopped hooking up (it wasnt sex related btw) but I kept coming up with possible conclusions as to why that happend,telling myself it must have been this or that,then id feel embarassed about it.
I know what your probably thinking im mental!,I am do like seriously am I going crazy? whats wrong with me and how do I stop myself from doing this,it only really happens at night before i go to bed. has this ever happend to anyone else?
any help will be aprciated thank you.
Your definately not mental! Dont worry about that. I think you need something to feel better about yourself such as thinking back on times that were fun or good for you. Maybe a time with friends a time of accomplishment and so on. Dont worry sometimes I think about stuff that make me feel bad about myself and embarrassed too. Its a phase you'll probably grow out of. Hope this helps! -Farrah Gonzalez
Are there any interesting things about the sims 3?
Thanks,
Onebirddog2000
I have sims three on my phone its like reg sims but with a bit different features. Its easier to get promotions and things and its easy to slap ppl. You can also earn money by doing deeds for ppl such as slapping a sim kicking a trash can or just getting groceries. Its a fun game and i recommend it. -Farrah Gonzalez
15/f
I have a profile on Facebook and under my friend suggestions is this guy that I went to school with since pre-k to 8th grade. Ever since I first saw him in pre-k I thought that he was really cute. We became not so much friends but in between acquaintances and friends. The entire time I went to school with him everyone thought that I had a huge crush on him, but I only thought that he was cute. I dont know if I should be friends with him or not. Im afraid to ask him to be my friend because Im afraid that he will say no. And if he says yes Im afraid that my schoolmates will make fun of me again for being in love with him. Im friends with all my schoolmates so its hard sometimes. I would ask my best friend but he's her ex,so I cant. Anyway and suggestions to what Im dealing with can help. Thanks and please help me.
You should ask him to be your friend. You shouldnt really care if people say you like him because people will always talk if not about you someone else. And if he doesnt want to be your friend the worst he can say is no. Guys come and go anyway. Dont mind peoples talk and just be friends with him. -Farrah Gonzalez
This may be long, so in advance, thank you for reading. :)
17/f
My best friend Sam has been my best friend for about 4 or 5 years. We've known eachother longer, but we weren't always best friends, but yeah.. I'm very close with her. A few months ago, she did something so unforgivable, I guranteeeeeeee you can't even imagine it. It was very shocking, to know that she turned on me & another close friend. Anyway, being the forgiving person I was and not into causing drama, I quickly forgave her, and never told her how I felt. I'm not very good at expressing how I feel. So, I just tried to move on. Well, that happened a few months ago, and just about in the middle of June I was over it. My biggest problem with her, is she is a huge liar. She doesn't have many friends. Actually, she has two. Me and one other girl. (who i can't stand!) Anyway, before that huge unforgivable thing she did, she was lying to me a lot before that too, like I knew it, but I was never positive so I couldn't call her out on it.. you know what I mean? So, after she did that really bad thing, I did tell her, if you continue to lie to me, then we can't be friends. Well, things seem to get a little better, she still told an occasional lie, but it got a lot better. So, then in the beginning of june, she called me like nonstop, wanted to hang out 24/7 and I was surprised because she isn't usually like that. Well, I found out she was being like that because her other friend was away on vacation. That didn't necessarily make me feel good.. she never hardly calls me, inless I ask her too or something, or sometimes she will.. we text a lot but, I don't know. If i want to have a conversation with her, I have to text her. Then when I saw her somewhere the other day, she pretty much ignored me. I don't know why shes doing this to me, when she was wrong before (even though i don't hold that big mistake against her so much anymore..) and she is still being a bad friend! I have a ton of more friends, and I can't even include her anymore because they all hate her. It's really irritating! And the people she does hang out with, are her sisters friends, who are going to college next year, they are not even her friends! And then yesterday, after this big party, I had some things i wanted to tell her, and i was like oh call me, and she was like, oh ok well i'm actually going to bed right now, I'm so tired. So I went up to this place where everyone is hanging out it seems, and THERE SHE WAS. her lying is getting so annoying! & then whenever she comes over, she leaves at 9:00, she won't ever sleep over or anything. its really weird. & its not like i'm boring or something, she never wants to do what i suggest! & i ask her what she wants to do, and she'll be like "i don't know"
is this friendship even worth the time? should i just end it? she is my best friend, not just a friend.. so that makes it harder. i really don't know what to do.
My ex friend was the exact same way no one liked her so she would hang with me and i really didnt mind then i learned she was talking about me behind my back to my best friend about how i couldnt keep a secret which i can! That pushed me over board so i am not her friend anymore. I suggest you do the same thing because she isnt a true friend you have a lot of others friends so dont worry. Maybe she will even learn how to treat a friend. Without my other friend i am happier. I hope this helps!
ok this is disgusting but i think i may have picked up head lice from some where ... i work in a department store so is it possible that i picked it up from a customer or co-worker there?
And what are some easy ({and discreet)) ways to get rid of it. I am very grossed out by it and i want to get rid of them ASAP!!!
I thought it was dandruff becuase i do have dandruff so i thought the itch was just my dandruff but about two days ago i found a bug in my hair. i looked at a pic of lice and it looks like thats whats going on. I am VERY disgusted by it ... i wash my hair every day (3 times a week i use ant-dandruff shampoo) so it's not becuase im dirty or anything.
Please ... discreet and easy, fast and effective ways to get rid of them!!! (my hair is to my shoulder blades if that makes a difference)
Trust me dont be too embarrassed everyone gets lice sometime. Well first your going to need to go to a walgreens or rite aid or walmart any store will do and get the lice shampoo. It works! Trust me! Second your going to need someone to help you take them out of your hair and kill them. They will be out in a bit and stay away frum whoever gave them to you!
I hope this helps
I'm 17 and so is my boyfriend. He has this cousin who's about 30 years old, maybe a little older. Well his cousin hasn't spoken to my bf in about a year and they live five minutes away from each other. Well suddenly his cousin decided to reconnect with my bf and they've been spending every day together for the past week and a half. I honestly wouldn't mind because its family but his cousin is so rude, annoying and racist. My bf quit smoking pot but if he smells it, it makes him want to smoke and his cousin always smokes pot around him. If we're in the car he'll smoke a cigarette and not bother to blow the smoke out the window. We live in an area where there's a large hasidic Jewish community during the summer and it makes the full time residents a little annoyed because it gets really busy and hectic...but most people will never say anything. Well one day my bf and I were driving with his cousin and he starts yelling racist comments out the window.I was so embarrsased! After that he whistled at two 16 year old girls that I used to go to school with..and remember this guy is about 30yrs old. One thing that drove me nuts happened a couple days ago. After being with him all day my bf was supposed to drive his cousin home but instead his cousin wanted to stop by a friends house. I thought we were going to be there for 10 minutes but instead we were in this run down, dirty apartment building for an hour and a half while his cousin got drunk with his friends and then we eventually drove him home after stopping for cigarettes that he saked my bf to pay for. This guy is driving me crazy. He always makes my bf drive him around and do favors for him and my bf just does it because he's too nice to say no. I don't want to tell my bf I hate the guy because that's his family and my bf always is willing to hang out with my family so I'd feel bad but I don't know what to do. I don't want my bf to be taken advantage of.
Sit your boyfriend down and tell him wat you think becuz honesty is the best policy. Its better to tell him becuz with that uncle of his he can get into serious trouble. Your just concerned for him so if he really does like you he will see that and i hope this helps!