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ogielove
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well im overly jealous, like words couldnt explain. and i want to stop it. My boyfriend has tons of girls that are friends, and he talks to them and stuff, and i just dont want to be jealous any ideas on how to make that feeling go away? Because i know guys dont like it when they know a girl is a jealous person. (link)
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inorder for you to get over your jealousy with him, why don't he include you in his circle of friends, then i think you would feel more comfort,I no me personally if my man has a group of female friends, unless he's a star i would feel pretty uneasy.
faitheb
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What do i do when i want to get close to someone i barely know.I'm not totally sure but people say she interested in me.Under ther circumstances i can't get close to her.She's hardly on aim and doesnt have a myspace and she barely picks up the phone.We've only met each other once but that day there was good chemestry between us and I know we could have a great relationship if i just make the right moves.The problem is, i dont know what kind of moves to make...
what do i do??? (link)
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Listen life is short, just plain out tell her, because if you don't someone will, and you lose out , just tell her, i would like to get to no you, and hopfully that it would turn into something special and if not we can be friends, take her to the movies, or ask her where would she like to go or meet.
I hope I was some help to you
faitheb
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alright. here's the sitch.
i have this boyfriend, who i've been dating for
2 days. and i love him very much.
now that probabbly sounds rediculous,
but me and him dated once before, for about
7 months. he treated me like gold. i loved it.
but after a while he seemed to lose interest.
he broke up with me. and he said upfront that he
started to like another girl. i was very hurt, but
i appreciated his honesty.
after like a week of us being broken up. he called
me at 2am. crying. saying he made a big mistake,
and he cared about me yada yada. and i believed
him, and took him back.
then literally 2 days later, he told me he thought
he was making the right decision by asking me back.
but he just realised he doesnt feel the same.
and i felt stupid for taking him back.
now, weve been good friends for about 4
months now.and the other day i went to his
house andhe told me he liked me again, he
claims he never stopped. he ended things
with this girl for me. which must mean something.
he asked me back out when i went to his house.
and we didnt do anything sexual, he just held me
tight and said how much he missed holding me.
and he would kiss my forhead and such.
now,weve been pretty good these past days.
i just feel kindof paranoid ya know.
like when hes gone and i dont know where he is
i'll be all nervous and such. i hate this feeling.
i dont think he would do anything, but its still
a weight on my shoulders. i'd like to learn some
advice on how to not be so paranoid, and learn
to trust him. so our relationship will be stronger.
anyone know any REAL advice on how to do that?
thank you so much.
xxxoxoxo (link)
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You must be a good woman, a woman , that when she loves she loves hard, and when someone shows us they loves us we are like puddy in their hands, which could be good or bad, we are the ones that heart get broken the most, i can asure you as long as your paranoid it will soon fall apart or you will, normally i would tell people if you feel paranoid in the relationship, then why be in it, when your man walk out that door you should feel comfort and relax that he would not leave you or hurt you. If he is worth having,
then relax don't rush the relationship, be his best friend as well as his girl friend, do some of the things he's interested in, lol that will keep him near,
TAKE CARE GOOD LUCK
FAITHEB
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does anyone know a good survey sight that lets you take a survey
and you get money for just taking it?!
i really need to know!
so someone tell me!
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Hello yes i do and here are the sites.
http://consumerpromotioncenter.com
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Today I went to my friend Lindsay's party. It was a swimming party, Lindsay's friend from another school, Ashleigh, was thier. All the boys love Ashleigh. Im so jealous of her. Im kind of fat, and they were forcing me in the pool. I just said that I had my period. Ashleigh calls out "I hate fat people." Everyone always does that to me and I neved know what to do. Any ideas? (link)
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Hello, I think that she or they are not real friends if they call you fat ect. we should be happy when we are around friends.
your new friend Faitheb
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Hey my name is Rachel and iam 17 years old and my granny is causing me to be depressed I'll give you some examples.on my 17th birthday she told me that nobody loved me and that I was stupid becouse I was in special ed classes at school.my granny also told me that Iam to fat for my own good and she told me that my mom killed my dad becouse she divorced him when I was 3 and said it broke his heart and that's why he died,but I think she had a pretty good reason for divorcing him when I was 3 becouse he molested me.I took an extra adderal and bloodpressure pill today hoping I would lose weight becouse my granny keeps telling me that iam fat and ugly and I was kind of hoping it would kill me from overdose.my cousin is the only person I can go to with this problem becouse I can trust her to keep it a secreat.I've talked to my cousin about my suicide attempts and she just kept an eye on me and didn't tell my mom about it becouse she knows how my mom is.what should I do? please help me urgent. (link)
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people that say bad things about others have low selfasteem, perhaps your grandma feel bad about her self , so she takes it out on you, don't let no one put you down , i don't care who it is, if this continue you need to talk to a older adult you can trust so you can get help
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I've been having this horrible pain, about 5 inches to the right of my belly button. It'll come for about 30 seconds, then go away. But it`ll hurt so bad it forces me to sit down.
(its not period cramps, it hurts much worse, and its totally different, plus I had mine last week)
And now, I feel faint, really hott, and super dizzy. When I was at the movies I was nauses (sp?)
What could be wrong? Please help, I feel horrible! (link)
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you really need to see a doctor
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im so upset all my boyfriends friends think they can do what ever they want to me my boyfriend always hits me and i cant tell my parents or the cops my boyfriend said he will hit me till i cant walk anymore please someone give me advice (link)
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If your boy friend is hitting you get out of that relationship, before it really do lead to him killing you, listen i believe in not sugar coating things,you said that boyfriend said he will hit you till you cant walk anymore , so you you would rather stay with him so he can hurt you then taking a chance and tell your mother and the cops.take a chance and save you
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Why has my parents got baby oil next to their bed...my friends keep saying all this stuff and its just floating around in my brain. I need straight answer its not like i can ask my parents (link)
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well your parents are grown, and they had to have sex to make you, we use oils for many things, rubing your partner ect. but the best way to find out is asking, because sometimes when we listen to our friends they can give us the wrong message.
if you need to no what to ask your parents or how to ask them. let me no and i will give you somemore advice
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Did anybody here have a life-changing tip/situation/movie/book/quote they would like to share? I want to change my life for the better but have no idea where to start! (link)
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Yes from the tv show starting over
there was a man on there that said a rich man will get rich from things he love to do hobbies ect. a poor man will stay poor by working for someone else dream, from that point i started do what i love to be successful
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Please dont be offended by this, it's something i have been wondering about, it sounds discusting (and it is) but i think it must have happend.
Did God only create Adam and Eve or did he make other humans too?
I ask, because if it was only up to them to populate the earth hen surely incest must have taken place :-s
Adam and eve could have lots of children but then when they died there would have just been brothers and sisters left so that means that they wuld have had to make babies with eachother to make more people.
Is that what happend? i know it wasnt illegal back then but it's just so icky.
i know its a wierd question to ask but no one else ever talks about how people were made. (link)
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yes Adam and Eve, children and there children populated the earth
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I'm a Christian. Lately, I've been worried about something. I've been thinking things like "What if Christianity isn't the true religion and Islam/Buddhism is?" Basically I'm scared that Christianity may not be the true religion. I believe in Jesus, but what if Islam is the true religion? Then I would go to Hell forever because of one decision, you know? It makes me scared =(. What do you think..? (link)
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as long as you have love peace in your heart, you will enter heaven , all bibles come from the first book all religion no of jesus,islam believes he was a profit,
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Let me start of by saying: I would not be asking this if I didnt already feel bad && want to change this. SO please, don't preach.
Down right to the point?
I stole my friend's new 300 dollar digital camera. (reminder: I know it was wrong, no lecturing)
While doing it, i KNEW it was wrong.
When she noticed it was gone, she cried.
It broke my heart.
I know God forgives, but my gut tells me..he won't.
I don't know, I want to send it back to her.
I think I will, as soon as I get her adress.
i CAN'T APOLOGIZE THOUGH. I CANT TELL HER.
I don't even know why I did it.
I love her. Im not jealous of her.
I don't need a digitial camera.
I don't want one.
But I did it anyway.
Just because I knew I could.
I knew I wouldn't get caught.
I'm evil. I'm a really bad person, I know.
Yet, I can't change it.
Here's where I need help.
- appologizing to God for this.
HOW? I knew it was wrong while doing it, I knew the devil was pushing me and God was telling me not to, yet I listened to the devil.
It's happened before. I never learn.
I'll always do the wrong thing.
So what? he's just going to keep forgiving me?
- how do I stop this
any ideas?
- this feeling
even if I give it back, I'll never forget what I did. seeing her cry. knowing how much it meant to her yet still taking it. how can i forgive myself for it? what should I do? I know myself very well. I wont change, I'll do it again. And I wont let myself forget it. I know I'll always feel bad because of this.
AHHH GOSSSHH just help me please, I feel awful.
what should I do? with everything?
this feeling is sick.
I want to die.
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Prayer for Inner Peace and Calm
Dear Lord and Father of mankind,
Forgive our foolish ways;
Reclothe us in our rightful mind,
In purer lives Thy service find,
In deeper reverence, praise.
Drop Thy still dews of quietness,
Till all our strivings cease;
Take from our souls the strain and stress,
And let our ordered lives confess
The beauty of Thy peace.
Breathe through the heats of our desire
Thy coolness and Thy balm;
Let sense be dumb, let flesh retire;
Speak through the earthquake, wind, and fire,
O still, small voice of calm.
Prayer of Repentance
Merciful God,
we have sinned
in what we have thought and said,
in the wrong we have done
and in the good we have not done.
We have sinned in ignorance:
we have sinned in weakness:
we have sinned through our own deliberate fault.
We are truly sorry.
We repent and turn to you.
Forgive us, for our Saviour Christ's sake,
and renew our lives to the glory of your name
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well ive been a christian since i was 7 but for the past year ive barely even prayed and i dont feel a connection with God..everytime i do pray i just ask for him to forgive my sins because im afraid if i died right now i'd go to hell..no matter what i do i cant seem to get it right and so lately ive just been putting it off but thats not right. how do i start to feel a connection to God again and stop feeling so empty spirutually? (link)
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The Lord Is Thy Keeper
I will lift up mine eyes unto the hills, from whence cometh my help.
My help [cometh] from the Lord, which made heaven and earth.
He will not suffer thy foot to be moved: he that keepeth thee will not slumber.
Behold, he that keepeth Israel shall neither slumber nor sleep.
The Lord [is] thy keeper: the Lord [is] thy shade upon thy right hand.
The sun shall not smite thee by day, nor the moon by night.
The Lord shall preserve thee from all evil: he shall preserve thy soul.
The Lord shall preserve thy going out and thy coming in from this time forth,
and even for evermore.
- Psalms 121: 1-8
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I have been feeling kind of down latley and just miserable. i feel like i have no friends and no life. i dont have the life that most teens my age have like partying and just having fun..most of my time i sit at home..i am very insecure about myself and i wish i wasn't. i feel as if i dont love myself but i wish i did..i believe in God but i dont go to church because i moved to a different town 2 years ago that i dont really know anything about. But i do watch several sermons on T.V. everyday. I just want to know any uplifting passages/verses from the bible you know..or passages/verses that have to do with being proud of yourself and appreciating your life or any other good passages/verses you think i might need>thanx soo much for reading..please help me out i need som guidance... (link)
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Loving God,
there are times in each life
when there is no one.
No one with whom to share
a word,
a laugh,
a sad remembrance,
a gentle touch,
a fond embrace,
a kiss of love.
Bless each one who suffers
from such loneliness.
Enrich life with a friend
or gentle stranger
who will spend a moment
noticing
and loving.
In those times
your love shines through,
the world is reborn,
and Christ is known.
So be it!
Amen.
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Ok so this is kinda embarrssing but I fart allot. Its really bad.
Does anyone know what could help me? (link)
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THIS IS VERY GOOD TRY IT AND LET ME NO HOW IT WORKS.
www.BeanoGas.com
DO YOU DRINK A LOT OF WATER, IT'S VERY IMPORTANT TO DO SO
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OK, can anyone give me their personal experiences or advice about knowing if someone likes you? Yes, I did google "flirting" and I understood all that. but, the person I am talking about is my best friends husband. He has done all those things they gave me in knowing the signals, but, at the same time, for some reason I dont think he likes me in that way. He teases, jokes around, stares a little, touches and even sometimes makes sexual comments. The thing is, how can I tell if he is being flirty or just friendly? Thanks (link)
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Hello if He teases, jokes around, stares a little, touches and even sometimes makes sexual comments. friends don't do none of thoses things,
let alone another woman's man and he's your best friend husband, my advice is if you want your friendship to last,WITH YOUR BEST FRIEND what ever he's thinking DON'T ACT ON IT.
FAITHEB
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Ok I'm going to a party tomorrow and am being introduced to a guy. Any tips on what I should wear or how I should do my makeup/hair? I don't want to dress like a skank but I don't want to be too conservative either.
I have really long curly dark hair with red streaks (curly) but I can straighten it, really tanned skin, brown eyes, and a slighty curvy figure.
Thanks (link)
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Just be your self dress where he's going to say dang girl you look good, if you feel sexy , you will look sexy
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ok so I got my period about 1 and half years ago in february 15,2005 but that was the only time. it nvr came back once a month and stuff it nvr came back...is this normal? (link)
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It happens I had the same thing, mine came at 9, for 1 day then never again until i turned 15 lol many many years ago, .
however you need to still see a gyn, it could be a hormonal problem,
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I'm watching my friends kitten from saturday to wednesday. I'm going to have to keep it at MY house. I have to feed it, play with it, and all that stuff. How much should I charge? (link)
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I think as a friend you should not charge, but if you must 50.00
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