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Last Update: September 21, 2013
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A few months ago I had a 'thing' going on with my ex boyfriend, he text me first every single night and we always used to exchange looks when we saw each other, after weeks of persuasion off him I sent him a picture of myself because I knew I could trust him (if you know what I mean) and shortly after that I became really paranoid. We stopped talking and he was still trustworthy but I don't know if he still has the photo and I don't know how to ask him because it will be really awkward.. any advice? Just so people know I'd never do anything like this normally, I'm not that type of girl. (link)
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okay listen never send nude pictures of yourself. i have done it, to who i thought i could trust and the picture wound up on facebook. everybody saw it. do not send them, i had sent it in about march in 2011, and it got onto facebook in november or 2011. when he told me that the picture was deleted, it wasnt. also, i almost lost someone i really care about over a different nudity picture. just never send one again.
but honestly theres not much you can do. i have been in your position before but worse. you just have to see what happens. if you can hangout with, and try to go through his pictures, if u dont see it he might not have it, if u see it, delete it. or ask him. just say it, "hey..i was wondering if you still had that picture of me that i sent to you."
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ok so basically i've been bullied ever since i started middle school. im in guidance ALOT so i have not really been in the classroom. Im getting 40s and 50s. i also sit alone at lunch and talk to no one at school. The guidance consulers and my parents wont let me go to another school or get homeschooled. School is so bad, I've nearly committed suicide at school but backed out. The only option is dropping out but I dont know what to do. No one understands. they tell me to lighten up and suck up. My science teacher said I ruin class for everyone when all I do is take notes. Everyone at my school is pure selfish, even the teachers too. (link)
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when your in class try to participate. raise your hand and try to find a sense of humor in yourself. or join a club or a sport. changing schools may help the situation a little bit but probably not much. if you "cant" make friends in the schools where you know people, what makes you think moving to a place where you know no-one will help? just try to find an amusing personality in class.
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Soo for starters I'm female,13 and my i guess 'friend' atm is male 15,i like him ALOT (perhaps even love:P) and i dunno how he feels about me anymore,for instince a couple of tuesdays ago (we had both agreed to go seperate ways for a couple months) and he re-asked me out,of course I said yes then that friday(i see him every fri night) before i'd see him he messaged for us to 'just be friends',he's done this several times and idk what to think,please don't say to get over him because believe me i have tried to,most of the time i do feel over him until i see him(which is 1-2 times every week)or even think about him. He is my first boyfriend and i've know him since i was 10 but didn't have that spark until last fall,it's not like me and him ever liked 'had it' the furthest we've ever done(don't laugh!:P) is a long hug,(by long i mean like only 7-10 seconds). Please tell me what i should do,& how to make a guy re-interested in you etc,all help is VERY much appreciated. :P -ConfusedChic (link)
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alright well i would deffinitly ask him about it. ask him why he always wants to go back to being friends and than start dating again. but it could be because it doesnt seem that you guys do anything... i mean i am not saying have sex!!! i mean try kissing or adding some excitment if the same thing happens with him again
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The other day I got my first period, but i'm to scared to tell my step mum? We're kind of close but I don't like really talking to her about that stuff. I sent her a message on her mobile not that long ago saying that I got my period, but she just ignored it :( Someone please tell me what to do because i'm really scared to tell her, seeings she's my 'step' mum. (link)
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Heyy, trust me dont worry about telling her! shes a girl too, she goes through the same thing. it might be a little embarressing at first but we cant help it. it 100% natural. she'll get you the supplies you need to take care of it. plus, it would be very embarressing if you bled through your clothes at school, or even at home. and another thing is, it could be worse if you had to tell your dad.
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So in a couple of days it will be my 1 year with the love of my life. I know we are going out to the Olive Garden but i would like to do something else beside just go out to eat and im not sure what. So im looking for date ideas for after.
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well depending on where you live you could go get coffee and go to the beach and take a walk around sunset. or so something the both you really enjoy doing. if you dont live near or around a beach try to find a place for a simple romance. someplace that wont be chaotic but relaxing. maybe a couple massage. you will both be greatful for that.
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First off call me ice. Anyway,how do you know if you're in love? Trust me there aren't that many cute guys in my class. I mean you have the regular jocks,nerds,crazies,populars, and just plain mean people ( when i say crazies i mean it- she chases guys all over the place! And plus,she stuffs her freaking mouth full of food and lets it drip on your hand! Ewwwww) but apart from that,not much. Oh yeah we are all in 6th grade. I just wanted to know how you know you're in love. Thank you so much!
From Ice (link)
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you know yours in love when that person is the only person who can brighten your day. and i'm not talking about when you have a crush on someone and all you think about is them. Love is like a deep affection for someone. There's really no way of explaining Love. when you are in love, you will know. you'll always get those butterflies in your stomach.
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i'm 13 and i'm from indonesia. i'm an only child. i think my father is cheating on my mom. i saw him browsing random women's facebook page at night when he thought my mother's asleep. i also suspects that he's cheating with his secretary who is an indonesian native (we're chinese) and poor and ugly. i don't know what to do. all i know is that he's been browsing women's profiles at facebook and he's sent some flirty text message to some women. should i tell my mom? i had a dream last night and it really scares me, i dreamt that i told my mom my dad is cheating on her and my dad killed both me and my mom. he seemed to be a good father. just yesterday he saw us a paper with plane schedules to our hometown but then we saw a schedule to another town ($$$$). when we asked "are you planning to go to $$$$ he denied it. i'm really suspicious. what should i do? (link)
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i would keep it on the down low with your mother. tell her what youve seen and read, and that your just scared about it. i hope all works out
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I've been in a long distance relashionship with a boy who lives about 1,000 miles from me. I know this may sound stupid but please just listen. We met on a teen chat room and i gave him my phone number (back in march) we started talking daily on the phone for hours.. We realized we were so compatiable and we decided to start dating. Mostly talks on the phone/ the occasional video chat. In August i convinced my mom to let me pay for a plane ticket for him to come here and go on vacation with us , she agreed. The day I met him at the airport was the best day of my life! We had the most amazing time ever at the beach but 4 nights and 5 days went very quick and before i knew it we were dropping him back off at the airport. Ever since he left that day things have been had. Always having that feeling of wanting something you know you can't have right now. We have been on/off for the past couple months not because of fighting or anything but because its been hard not being able to be with eachother. We have recently gotten back together . I told him that we might be moving down there in March ( which is true but i kinda think my moms just telling me what i wanna hear) If we don't move down there i told him i would pay for a plane ticket for him to come here in june and he could stay longer . I told him to not forget that in less then 3 yrs i would be eighteen and would move down there to be with him. & until that day i would keep paying for him to come here atleast once a year. We have been back on lately but last night he didnt text me or call me like he always does.. & so i knew something was up. I texted him n said "whats going on? :( ... & this morning i woke up to a 2 page message from him saying how he talked to his DAD and decided he just wanted to stay friends until i moved down there if i did. he said that he wanted to still be friends n he would still tell me he loved me because he does and always will. I cried when reading this. I'm very sad and haven't texted him back. Why can't he just wait until June then we can be together for like 2 weeks ... why cant he just wait for me? I know he's the one & he's all i think about. I'm sorry for the long story i just needed to get this out.. does anyone have any advice for me please? :/
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so you are approx. 15/16 years old. i, myself am 16 years old. Just think of it this way... maybe he wants to meet other girls before being tied down. that's not to sound negatively, but its the truth. i'm sure he still likes you, but why should he and yourself try to be tied down to someone who lives 1,000 miles away? especially at our age. If you do move down where he is, than fine, pick up your relationship from there. It sucks having a boyfriend/girlfriend that you cant hold and kiss everyday. You asked why could just wait for you...well technically he is. he is waiting till you down there or until your 18 years old. i swear to you...i am in the same prediacment, i have a guy waiting for me to turn 18 so we can be together. it sucks, but sometimes its just what you have to. dont be sad, you can still talk to him.
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Ok GuYS FIRST OFF I WAS ADOPTED WHEN I WAS 3 MOUNTHS OLD FRM A 3RD WORLD COUNTRY MY MAM NAW IS SO KWL BUT GROWING UP SHE BECAME AND ALCOHOLIC I WATCHED OVER HER FRM THE AGE OF 8 TO THE AGE OF 13 WHEN SHE GOT BETTER I STARTED DRUG DEALING BUT STUCK TO SCHOOL FINSHED SCHOOL AND BECAME VERY GUD AT MARTAIL ARTS ON NATIOL TEAMS FIGHTING ABROD I STOPED ALL D DRUG DEALING ENY WAY MY DADS ALWAYS PUSHED ME AWAY AND NEVER TALKED TO ME BOUT ME ONLY SPORTS HE MAKES A PINT TO TELL ME DHAT IM RONG WHEN I GET BIG OPERTUNTEYS HE MAKES ME THROW DHEM AWAY HE HITS ME THREATINS ME HE CALLS ME A CUNT HE TELLS ME TO GET OUT OF HIS HOUSE HE MAKES ME FEEL LYK IM 3FOOT TALL HE DOES A LOT FOR ME DOH TODAY WEE WENT AND DID SUMTHING REAGRDING MY MONEY AND MESED IT UP FOR ME I USED DESE WORDS DAD U FUCKED UP MY SHIT GREATLEY AND NAW HE WANTS NUNTING TO DO WITH ME HE WONT TALK TO ME WHEN I TRY TO BE MANLEY BOUT THINGS AND TALK IT THROU TODAY AND SAY SORRY HE GOES MAD LYK HE SHOUTS AT ME LYK IM HIS ENEMY AND HE NEEDS TO KILL ME HAS ALWAYS TREATED ME LYK DIS...... I WASENT PERFECT BUT I STOPED HAGIN WITH MY CREW A YEAR STOPED DRINKING AND GOING OUT SIDE D HOUSE LESS ITS TO WORK OR TRAING WHEN I MENTION COLLEGE I GET HIT WHO CAN HELP ME IM AT THE STAGE WERE I WANT TO KILL MY SELF MY DAYS LYK 50YEARS OLDER DHAN ME TO SO HE CANT COMPARE LIVES HE SAYS TO ME ITS NOT MY FAULT IM OLD BUT YET ITS NOT MY FAULT IM 20 AND URE 70 I WANT TO KILL MY SELLF PLESE HELP ENY 1 (link)
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well for starters why dont you show him this? what youve posted, and how it bothers you. Try having a family confrontation. sit down at the table and you, your mom, and your dad can all have a family conversation. Tell your mom that your dad makes you feel like that, and tell her what he does. just try to remain calm.
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During your first year of h.s. do u hang out with new friends or friends from ur grammar school cause idont have many friends from my grammar school and im worried that i wont have nayone to hang out with if i dont make friends ritee away? (link)
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as high-school continues on youll make new and more friends. try joining clubs and sports, and talking to the people who sit around you in your classes
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Hello, my boyfriend and I just bought a new house. The outside is great but the inside is horrible. Actually, it really just needs new carpeting and a fresh coat of paint throughout (everything can be easily fixed!) but since we are making this house our own, I don't want just plain white walls in every room. My problem is, I have so many ideas for each room and none of them really coordinate! Plus, if they DO coordinate, I don't want everything to be too matchy-matchy. How can I create a good them for the whole house but still make each room unique? (link)
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well do soft warming colors. like browns, tans, and redish browns. make them close colors but so they look more like shades. if you do the right colors and shades it look gorgeous. im sorry if i didnt make that very clear, but i hope you understand what im saying.
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Do boys like it when they want to finger you, but you have a hairy vagina? (link)
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most guys find it a turn off. and most girls find pubic hair embarressing. in my suggestion i would shave it off . thats what most girls do. some women shave their sides and keep a line in the middle. depends on your age. personally i shave it all, and so do all my friends.
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So I am fourteen, and a guy. and about a month ago I asked out this girl who has been a wonderfull girlfriend. But lately I have been feeling angry or sad. Obviously I don't want to, and I don't know if there is a way to stop it. I always get jealous and angry when she talks about her old boyfriends, or when she talks to guys. thanks in advance :-) (link)
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alot of relationships are like this! including alot of my past relationships, my friends, and cousins. The only thing to do is to talk to her. if you dont it can progressively get worse,, its not deffinite but it can deffinitly happen. Just tell her that it bothers you that she is talking to other guys and her ex boyfriends. Ask her to cut down and gradually stop. It might cause a fight but if she really likes you and want to date you, she will understand.
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soo im 14 female . this has been happening to me since i was like 12 i guess ; like i get this kind of stuff on my underwear like whiteish / greenish . but i think it comes from my vaginaa ? is that normal ? what is it ? ! /;
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yes it is very normal. it is like a dis-charge. im simply sure it is to keep you vagina moist.
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Me and my bf have been going out for a year now, I just discovered that I got mono... and I'm like wondering how I got it. Me and my bf kissss a lot, ,since wev first started dating,, and I got mono, I dnt share drinks with anyone else, what does this mean? Does it mean he was with anoter girl and got it frm her? Thanks for reading (link)
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just because mono is the kissing disease doesnt mean he was kissing someone else. if your in school you could have simply gotten it frmo there. or work, you cuold have gotten it from. Me and my cousin both got mono. that was because we shared a drink. i doubt he's cheating on you. also when my cousin and i had mono, my now ex boyfriend got mono before that, and he got it from his friend. it just spread around. but my cousin got mono before i did. but it could have been anyhtingg.
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Ok. My best friend Lydia is planning to kill herself with a overdose and I want to try to convey to her that suicide isn't the answer. that people are here 4 her. How do I do this so she won't get mad at me?? I don't want her to die. We are both 13 and are girls. (link)
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i suggest telling someone that you and her both trust. Always think of a difficult situation this was... "if it wont affect me next year than itll be okay" or even next week, or next month. nothing will last forever. Drugs are not a good thing to get into. i suggest talking to a social worker at school or her/your parents.
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Im 14 and scared and nervous to tell my mom i started my period yesterday. Can someone help me out please.:) thanks
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awh welcome to women hood =] just tell your mother that you need pads or tampons..she'll get your hint. and if u have questions about it say u need pads/tampons and just ask the question(s) nothing to be emmbarressed aboutt.
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what do guys really and truthfully look for in a girl??? (link)
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honestly, it depends on the age group, and what kind of guy it is. some men like honest sweet feminine women, while others like slutty women...
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So I was making out with my boyfriend on my bed, we were all clos and everything. A felt his bonerthrough his pants on my stomach. He started to kinda slowly pelvic thrust but was trying to make it not so noticeable .. I think. As he started doing this, we were still making out, and he was breathing heavily and kinda let out a moanish like little squeal (it was quiet and went with his breathing) why was he doing this?
Oh. And he was also grabbing my boob at the time. (link)
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your boyfriend was horny. theres this thing called "blue balls" which is when i guy gets a hard on and cant do anything about, and some guys say it hurts. but to make himself atleast somewhat pleasureable he was dry humping youu, and he had probably came.
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Hey :B I'm in eighth grade and 14.
Last week, I was at my friend Emily's house and her little brother had his friends over. Amongst them was a 12-year-old boy called Cody in 5th grade. He was really cute, the kind of kid you KNOW will be hot when he gets older ;)
So later that day, he added me on Facebook and has not stopped talking to me since. He goes to my school, and I see him around sometimes but there's no time to stop and talk.
I'm not trying to sound full of myself or anything, but I think that he has a crush on me? Because
- he always starts the conversation first
- at school if he sees me, he smiles and waves
- on Facebook, if I ask him a question, he's always like, "oh, I'll tell you tomorrow if I see you"
- if I don't see him at school one day, he messages me, "i didn't see you today :( "
- he told me that he had been held back a year in kindergarten and how he's supposed to be in sixth grade, and how sixth grade and eighth grade arent really that much of a difference :>
- He asked me to go over to Emily's house again one day so that he could meet me there
- he asked me if I was busy this weekend and if I could go to our school baseball game to watch him play
- if there's an awkward pause in the conversation, he's the one who goes , "soo, whats up?" come on talk!"
It's really cute and sweet and all. I think I may be starting to like him as well:/ I'm always thinking about him, the song that he told me was his favorite soon became my favorite, and I'm online more often in hopes that he'll come online :P
But it's just wierd dating a kid like, three grades down and I just, I dont know. I'm confused:/ What should I do from here? (link)
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well considering that your 14 and he is 12 isnt that bad. but he is in 5th grade and you are in 8th. think back to when you were in 5th gradee. think about how young everyone looked compared to how mature they are now. and not that anyones opinion counts, but wont you be embarressed to say your dating a 5th grader meanwhile your in 8th? i wouldnt do it...or at the least wait a few years. you will find yourself in a lot of trouble if you date him. (he is also to young to relize what a relationship is, odds that it would last long would be slim)
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