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I seem to get angry more often now that im in a relationship.
So I am fourteen, and a guy. and about a month ago I asked out this girl who has been a wonderfull girlfriend. But lately I have been feeling angry or sad. Obviously I don't want to, and I don't know if there is a way to stop it. I always get jealous and angry when she talks about her old boyfriends, or when she talks to guys. thanks in advance :-)
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alot of relationships are like this! including alot of my past relationships, my friends, and cousins. The only thing to do is to talk to her. if you dont it can progressively get worse,, its not deffinite but it can deffinitly happen. Just tell her that it bothers you that she is talking to other guys and her ex boyfriends. Ask her to cut down and gradually stop. It might cause a fight but if she really likes you and want to date you, she will understand.
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The only answer I can give you is she is with you. Trust is a big portion of a relationship and without it there is not a chance in hell for a relationship to work. You need to trust her and understand that when she talks to guy she isn't doing anything to hurt you. However with the whole tlaking to ex boyfriends I would talk to her about that. Tell her how that makes you feel we girls don't get it unless you tell us how your feeling and if its hurting you tell her to stop. You have to understand that she needs to socialize with other people but to be respectful towards you. Do you trust her? I hope it works out!
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I know you probably don't want to hear it but you two are both very young.
She is still getting the hang of the whole dating thing as so are you. It is never cool to compare past relationships with a current boyfriend/girlfriend nor is even talking about them a favorite topic. Communication is a big thing in relationships and if you feel overwhelmed and agitated that she constantly talks about her past relationships then you should ask her not to bring it up with you anymore as it angers you. Also, Have you been spending an excessive amount of time with your girlfriend? Being around each other 24.7 will cause tension in a relationship. Make sure you both are able to breathe, Take a day to go out with your guy friends and let her go out with hers. Being up each others ass all the time is of course going to be a ticking time bomb before you two explode at one another. Talk to her, If you think it would benefit the both of you then tone it down to every other day and if you constantly text then try to tone that down too. Remember, As long as you two have your own time once in awhile your candle will always have it's flame. As far as your jealousy goes, You need to learn to trust your girlfriend as she is with YOU not someone else. Jealousy is one of the main things that kills a relationship.
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