Student...wanna be a Zoologist,after highschool.I've always been told that I give great advice, and my friend got one of these and i didnt know places like this exist, so i decided to give it a shot.
E-mail: Teenqueen_1_3@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Ga.
Occupation: Student
Age: 15
AIM: DorkyJay27
Member Since: July 12, 2004
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Last Update: July 23, 2004
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okay, my two BEST FRIENDS are made at me becasue i went and hung out with one of my friends and not them. now they are mad at me...what should i do?please help fast!!
-so confused- (link)
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did you make plans with them first? well tell them you dont always have to hang out them, you do have other friends,they should understand that.
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Hey see I knew this boyfor about 8 years now and he went away when we was10 years old then he finally shows up yesturday and expects us to re be friends...... and I hardly even reconize him.!
so what should I do?? PLZ HELP (link)
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Get to know him again. And be friends with him if you still think he's the kool kid he was.
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hey okay well mai boyfriend constantly sends me these pics of these celebrities practically porn pics sometymes and it bothers me and hes lyke oh yeah shes hott and shes hott and sumtymes makes jokes about'em which I think arnt that funny esp when it deals with something sexual ... i meen i knoe he doesnt have a chance w/'em er n e thing but it styll bothers me... when he did it tha 1st tyme i thought he was gonna stop then i realized that hes not stopping! should i act pissed a bit jus ta make him knoe that thats not ryte or should i jus let it happen...cuz it wont matter he doesnt have a chance and thats how he is...?? (link)
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Just tell him to stop, you dont have to get pissed or anything, just tell him you dont want to see pics like that.
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Okay its now summer and like 2 weeks after summer started, my friend that i used to like was in a car accident, and was hospitalized for about a week and it made me realize that i still had feelings for him. So he asked me to go out with him so i did and we have been going out for about a month, but summer is my time to be like free and meet new guys at the beach n everything you know? I mean i like him, but i don't think i really want anything serious right now. Should i tell him i want a break? Should i break up with him? Or just stay with him?? (link)
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Tell him your not real sure right now about settling on one guy. So basically tell him you want a break.
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everytime I get a bf my friends think he's too ugly and that I need better, but it hurts him whenever i tell him what my friends think about him and makes me feel bad. I know how he feels because they dont know what hes like. I told them to stop but they keep at it. and my bf dosnt feel like doing any thing when im around bc of what my friends say. how do I get them to stop???? for me and him (link)
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tell them that if they are your true friends then they'll stop for you. If they dont stop then i wouldnt call them friends, and i would avoid them just to try to teach them a lesson that you are serious when you say somethin.
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Im 14 and ive never kissed a boy?! is that bad!? will people not date me because of that!? i mean boys have attempted to but i didnt let them because they were jerks and they just wanted sex! so help me! i need to know if thats a bad thing! and you'll probably say just to wait....he'll come to me but i cant wait any longer!! :*(
~Help me~ (link)
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No it's not a bad thing,lol, i just got my fist kiss this month, and im 15, so it's definatly okay not to have your first right now.
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How cAn I ge my boyfriend totalk to me???
all he dose is egnore me and Its like everytime I go to talk about him around his friends he gets red in the face andsays he dosn't know me.
What should I do?????? (link)
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Dump his ass! Geez, he doesnt talk to you? And you call him your BF? that's not right what so ever. Just plain dump him.
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17-F Okay...I've never had a really good relationship before. All my friends and seem to have the perfect boyfriends and I can't even meet someone that I connect with. I feel like I'm never going to meet my special someone. I know that your suppoes to be happy with yourself until you can be completely happy with someone else...so I did that...I fixed everything I don't like about myself and really am happy with my life as it is...except not having my significant other...what can I do?
-Sincerely, hopeless (link)
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There really isnt anything you can do. You just have to get through these tough times. But he will come around,for now just have fun with dating ;) lol
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Well im 16 and so is my boyfriend. We've been together for 14 months and our love for each other is stronger than you could ever believe. Around our 11 month anniversary we lost our virginity to each other. I honestly don't regret it but im starting to believe that we are too young. I love him more than anything and it scares me how much i love him sometimes. Do you think we are too young to have this kind of relationship ? (link)
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What's done is done. You sholdn't regret it and it's goo that you dont, I know plenty of people who are younger then you and have already done it to more then one person, and i've also thought that 16 was the age to at least consider/do it. So no i do not think you're to young.
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There'a a guy in my grade that i am BEST friends with. I know everythign about him ( not exaggerating) and he knwos everythign about be. I am closer to himthan anyone else i ahve ever met. Theres jsut ome problem...
I really like this kid. He makes me feel really special. I told another one of my close friends baout it and she just told em that she had figured. She told emt aht me and this kid had flirted so amny times before. including when he had another girlfriend.
I really like him but i dont knwo if i shoudl tlel him or not because i dont want to ruin teh friendship that we already have. I love being his best friend btu i like him so much. please tlel me what you think....Oh also, he sends me mixed signals as to whether he likes me too or not... could you also tell me some of the signals i shoudl look for? thanks (link)
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Okay well, bring it up in a convo. like your jokin or something, and just see how he responds to it. OR if you want to be serious with him, Just tell him,but apparently you dont want to lose the friendship Also for some signals to be lookin for physical contact on you, and how he responds when your hangin out with other guys.
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I am currently 14 at the moment and there is already a lot of drama in my life, with boyfriends. One of my past boyfriends wich I will call i (guy 1), I was really happy w/him. I've known guy1 since elementary and we didn't really know if we liked eachother so our realashonship kept going off and on. Untill this past year I thought we were going to stay 2getheer for a longer time, but he just went up to me one day and told me it was over w/no reason at all. I was really heartbroken b/c he made me feel so happy. Then another guy, (guy2) came along and made me feel happy for a while. But I broke up w/him after 3 months b/c I was wasn't so sure if I liked him, or if I was just in love w/the fact of having a boyfriend. I was w/guy1 7 differnt times and in between those times i was w/other guys to, but those realashionships never lasted long, they all cheated on me. Now i feel like i'm searching for another guy just like guy1. I have this dream now that guy1 calls me and tells me that he loves me and he wants me back. I still really love him and i've never finihed that dream so i never get to see what i say. I don't know what to do can n-e-one please give me advice? (link)
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Everthing happens for a reason, try to move on girl, but try not to compare all your other guys to "Guy1" apparently he isn't wantin anything anymore...maybe you can ask him for an explanation of why he broke up with you.
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My guy's away this summer and is supposed to call me every other day or something and it's been like ten days. Today's our 8-month mark. Just opinionwise - should I call him? I called him last time we spoke on the phone.
My mom suggested I make him wait - "let him miss you and call you." She put it this way: "If you don't call him and he doesn't call you, you'll be upset that he didn't call. If you DO call him, you'll still be upset that he didn't call."
Lol
So what do you guys think I should do? Thanks! (link)
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What would you rather do? You're mom has a very good point. But if you do end up callin him, tell him about the situation.
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ok..there is this guy, and ive gone out with him a couple times now, but then he dumped me the last time for no reason. i tell people im over him, but im really not. and when im w/ him he makes it seem like he still likes me, but then online hes really mean to me and will just start yelling at me for no reason?? what should i do?..
-confused (link)
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You should forget about him. Also when you see him ask him why he's mean to online and stuff, b/c it could be his brother or sister or some1 else who has his password for his s/n. You have to make sure you hear it from his mouth.
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okay my friend is like my bffffeaeaeaeaeea but like she is kinda slutty like she has soo many peircings and like she flirts with all my x bf! and im scared that the next boy i care about she will try to make a move on him. wut should i do? i mean she is my best friend for ever and i love her to death! but she tells me that she would never hook up with one of my xes or wit someone i like alot so please help me out her asap (link)
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If she is your bff and cares for you like you do her, then believe her words when she tells them to you. Another thing you can do is tell her what she has done and how afraid you are that she might make a move on your next boyfriend, and just kinda ask her to tone it down a lil when your with your boyfriend.hope i helped
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okay so ive liked this boy for the longest time every since the beginin of the year ive liked him on and off again. so then when the summer came we were talkin and hanging out and stuff and he grew to like me back so we made plans that we were gonna hook up one day when we were both free. so i was all lookin forward to this day. well i just talked to him online and he told me that he didn't mean to hurt me when he says this but "i really like this other gurl and she is the only one for me right now but we can still b friends" well wtf! PLAYER!! god i cried! i mean i knoe im not supposed to cry over boys but i mean this one really hurt my feeling i didnt kno wut to tell him but i was just trying to be nice about the whole thing saying "i hope everything works out" and just letting it go! did i do the right thing? or was i supposed to tell him how much it hurt me? or was i supposed to play it cool and act like i didn't care? or wut do i do now? please help me asap!
signed
broken heart (link)
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I would have done the same thing, just tell him "hope everyhthing works out" i wouldnt have told him i was crushed by that. And really the only thing you can do now is move on. and let it go.
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Hey, i have a problem, theres this guy that i really really like..and i always have, and at once tyme he said he liked me and he wanted to do stuff with me, and it was the happiest tyme of my life..but then all of a sudden everything stoped, like he stoped IM'ing me...and smiling at me...everytning, and i found out he liked his x-g/f again..i was crushed..i was never so sad in my life...and to make matters wrose, after this once again he said he liked me and i feel fer it again and i ended up getting hurt again. :-( and i think i know what ur gunna say, that hes not worth it if he does this to me and stuff..but he is worth it, id go threw it all again jsut for him, b/c thats how much i care about him...i dont wanna move on, and i..ugh, idk, *please help me*
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I know where you're commin from. Guys can be very confusin. Movin on is very hard, espically when you dont want to, or you just dont know.So heres whats up.Tell him how you're feelin, I know I know it's hard to tell him, but that's your best bet, tell him you got hurt from these other times, and that you dont like bein hurt, and if he truley cares for you then he'll try to make it work out somehow, if not then you either sit there and stay confused or you move on.
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okay..i cant help it..i always let people walk all over me..and i serioulsy dont know how to be mean..and people say the meanest things about me..and i guess i just let them walk all over me..what should i do? (link)
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Dont let these people get to you when it comes to their comments. They dont matter. You dont have to be mean. You just dont have to give a damn. But make sure people know that your not gonna let them walk all over you, be nice to them for a limited time, but if they start gettin on your nerves then stop doin what your doin, like for instance, say you have HMW in a class for a while this kid asks you for b/c "I forgot" well you let him see it for a lil while, then once it gets annoying, tell him A:NO B:Some1 else has it or C: it's in my locker. I hope I helped you somewhat.
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this guy i know wants to get back with me after he hurt me once got back with me hurt me again and then while i was getting over him he made out with a 12yr old girl when he is 18 and now he thinks everything is ok? (link)
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Dont get back together with him. Tell him to go to his lil 12 year old GF or something, basically just leave him, he isnt worth it.
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well. i have this really good friend. (a guy) and well he has this problem. this one girl he LIKED SO MUCH...acted like a total jerk and steppped all over him. i feel terrible first of all. and hes almost "scared" of liking ANYONE and 2nd of all...i like him and i keep hinting- HELLO?!!? I LIKE YOU!...how do i get him to notice me as more than a friend. and how do i get him to change his mind 'bout girls. (link)
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wow this is a lil tuffy. lol. let's see. First of all to get him to notice that you like him, be a lil more intimate with him, def. go out with him, and it's okay if you ask him out ;), and I really dont know if you can get him to change his mind about girls immediatly, but you just bein his friend and hopefully somethin more, we'll probly eventulally change his mind. I hope I helped you.:)
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i have had a best friend for 3 years now...we have gone throught everything together...are 1st kisses..are ex friends...are heart breaks...u no all the best friends type of things...i recenetly got back with my ex...we have been togheter for 2 years on and off..but now its been 3 months str8..and i stil hang out with my best friend..just now i have less time since i have him and all..it seems like sometimes she gets jealous cause she says "come on u dont need ot hang out with him, he gets so annoying, how annoying u hang out with all couples" like i no if she got with the love of her life she would do the same wat should i do? i feel so bad (link)
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Find time for her, have a girls night out durin the week, and tell your BF. Because most likely she is jealous and probly misses the old times that you 2 used to have, lol and make sure when she gets a BF to make sure yall still have that time with each other.
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