Member Since: April 23, 2005
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Last Update: January 26, 2006
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Ok this might sound bad, but I want everyone to think about it. I want to become anorexic, and it's not because I want to be skinny. I'm already pretty thin. The problem is my cheeks(yes face cheeks). They are chubby and not cute at all. I think not eating would make them thinner right? I'm not going to make it a big thing and not eat until I die. Once they get thin ill eat regularly again. Theres no other ways to lose weight in your cheeks right? I mean I know it sounds really dumb to do that but I'm kind of desperate here. Is it that bad? Do you think I can get really sick? Will it work if I become anorexic? (link)
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You can die from anorexia. The lack of food will at first break down your bones, making them weak and more venerable to fracture (breaking). You're vision will become blurred, you will become weak, and without sugar or fats in your diet, you'll pass out. No one cares about your cheeks. You're probably a very pretty girl, and everyone is pretty in their own way. Besides, anorexia is an addictive behavior. Once you start, you won't be able to stop.
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I have an extra curricualr activity. There's this guy there. His name is Gabriel. He's not the hottest guy in the world, but I think he's totally nice. We have a lot in common. We see eachother once a week, and talk on AIM. We're in different grades. He's in 8th, I'm in 7th. We don't go to the same school, and won't be able to see eachother over the summer. I really care about him, but he doesn't know. My friends think he's ugly, and that even if he is nice, he's not worth it because he's ugly. I don't care about looks so much. I'm really shy too...
What should I do? (link)
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Go out with him! -shrug- Who cares what other people think?
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Hi. I am 13 years old and I am on the computer a loottttt. All of a sudden things started blanking out when I was on the computer. You know how if you stare straight you can still see things on the right and left of you? Well on my left eye, I cant really see anything to my left when I'm looking straight. Its like blurry. And if I focus on something for example this word....dog.... if I focus on the g the d a o dissapear and then theres only a g with a white backround there. Basically when I focus on anything everything around disappears. And when I stare straight I cant see my arm. Its just not there. But it really is I just cant see it. So, I cant really see anything unless I focus on one thing. And if I watch tv and for instance if I see a face, I cant see their body. Its really weird, and Its hard to explain. Do you think I'm going blind? If I went to an eye doctor what would they do? This is VERY scary and its really freaking me out! Help me please!!! This has never happend before. (link)
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Tell your mom/dad and get her to get you a doctor's appointment.
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I have a problem with getting a boyfriend! I don't know why because I think I make a really great girlfriend (I'm told this also) and I'm extremely loyal. I'm not ugly either. I think I'm pretty OK looking (long brown hair, blue green eyes, 5'5", tan). I'd show my picture but you all would probably say "No wonder you can't get a boyfriend!" But anyway, I always seem to attract guys way older than me who are perverted and just want me for one thing. Sex.
Is there any way I can get a guy to notice me? I know this sounds cheesy and stupid, but I don't really feel "complete" without one. I don't have any friends at all. I had some but they're unreliable and never want to hang out so screw them. I want a boyfriend really bad! Plz help.
I rate btw. And also don't tell me I'm pathetic... (link)
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-.- Get a cat. You won't feel so lonely anymore. You don't need a boyfriend to be yourself.
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About a month ago a friend of mine told me that she was seeing a girl. At the time I didn't think much about it but know I'm feeling a tad confused. I'd always thought of myself as straight but I think I've got a crush on her. This set me thinking hard enouh and on consideration I've realised that I find a whole bunch of other girls. I'm still definitely attracted to guys as well.
She thinks I'm straight as does everyone else. I don't know what I am or how I feel. She's got a girlfriend so it's not like I could make a move and experiment with her. What should I do? (link)
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Tell her how you feel. She has probably gone through the same thing, as have I.
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Hey me and my girlfriend just broke up she broke up with me in january a different girl dumped me and i got over her for a little while but when i started talking to her again i couldnt help but love her again i miss her so much i dont know if she likes me
what should i do should i ask her out or should i sit here and wish she would go out with me please help!?!?!?!?! (link)
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I'm in a similar situation. Don't go out with her again. It will just break your heart.
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Well i new my bff for 9 years now, and i was moved away in a different state for seven of them (but we kept in touch, i visited constintly) but now we are losing a bff style, like whenever i call she has to go, or if she doesnt she'll proply hang up on me in a few minutes anyway. i cant trust her because she always lies to me and brakes promises and tells secrets.i am really starting to dislike her, but never the less i have known her and was her bff for 9 years now, and she used to be so kind and sweet to me (its only been a year where she was rude to me) i miss her being the way she was. please help me! (link)
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Just go with the flow. You will figure it out on your own.
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ok i like this guy, but my friend likes him too. but the problem is that everytime i like a guy she likes him too. its so annoying. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!
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Maybe you and your friend have the same taste. Back off and let her date him if she liked him first. Otherwise, talk to your friend and you'll work something out. Ask her permition to ask him out, and if she feels bad about that, move on.
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i am getting pro-active because everyone says its so amazing haha and nothing seems to get rid of my acne but if it works for me.. and gets rid of my acne would i be able to discontinue using it after awhile? because i dont want to be so dependent on it.
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No, you shouldn't. Be lucky it works on you; I have to take medication to keep my face clear.
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Well I'm an A-cup and it's really hard for my to find good, ok-priced bras..Victoria's Secret is cool but it's too expensive! But anyway, where can I buy a bra that I can wear with tank tops...don't say strapless because they'll fall right off of me! Also, don't say walmart or target..:-\ Just tell me what kind of bra I should wear! Thanks (link)
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Go to Dillards. I'm a D cup, and its hard for me to find things, too. My bras are really expencive because I need a lot of support and most bras are B or C cup, because thats a "normal" size. Dillards has stuff of all sizes.
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I am African-American/Japanese and the guys that I am normally into are white skater types. Nobody I've ever really liked has liked me back, and I've been told it's because I'm too shy. Is it really because I'm too shy or is it because of race? Do guys really think about race? (link)
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Some guys do, some guys don't. I think Japanese girls are hot, myself, but then again, I'm female.
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okay so i am 14/f and i have never had a boyfriend before. Many times i have come close like this year but then something always gets in the way and ruins it. What i want to know is what is wrong with me i mean i have alot of friends and i am active and athletic and people tell me i am beautiful but i never have had a boyfriend and i dont know if i am doing something wrong. If there is anyone that could help me with trying to fix something that maybe i am doing wrong that would be great!
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Oh, please. -.- There is nothing wrong with you. Lots of people don't get their first steady relationship until they're sixteen. Sit back, relax and have fun. You're young and you don't need to settle down yet.
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i am a 14/f and there is this boy that lives down the street from me that is a couple of years older than me and i really like him and want to get to know him better. Everytime that i am outside practicing volleyball he drives by and will wave but he never has said anything to me at all. What should i do to catch his eye? i really want to get to know him and he seems like a great guy to hang out with even if all we become is good friends. Please help me! Thanks! (link)
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I know I have a sick mind, but if he watches you like that he's probably bad news. You don't want to get into drugs and sex too early.
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okay well there is this guy that has liked me all year long and he tells me all the time that he always thinks about me and he dreams about me and it really didnt bug me because i just ignored him when he told me stuff like that. But then all of the sudden he put something in his xanga that scared me and has haunted me ever since. It said that he would take a bullet for me thats how bad he wants me. And i have been scared that he will do anything just to get me. I dont know if i should talk to the police or a counselor but if someone could please help. He stalks me all the time and he knows everything about me like where i live, what my mom's car looks like and the sticker on the back of the car. To me that is very scary. If someone could please help i am afraid for my life here... i feel like one day he will bring a gun to school and shoot me thats how bad he really wants me and if i say no to him then that makes him really mad. Please help ASAP! ITS URGENT!
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Mention it to a counciler, but don't count too much on it. They won't do anything. Go stright to the police after school and explain everything to them, tell your parents, and make sure you lock your doors and windows. The police will take you serously most likely. Also, make sure you do abolutely NOTHING to even hint at leading him on. Make sure you talk to the cops.
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