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hey im 17 and latey my boob keep goin numb like every hr sumtimes its actually hurts its never my left boob, just on the side, is this normal??
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That isn't normal at all. You should give your self a quick breast exam and make sure you have no lumps. I'd highly recommend going to a doctor and telling them to check that out because you could be developing breast cancer. Ask your parents if either of their families have a history with any types of cancer.
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ok my myspace layout wont change.. I change the layout but when i press view profile my layout loads for a second and i seen it all but when the page is all done loading my layout is all gray with these pink dashes around the boxes. There are very few layouts I can put without it being gray. I even cleared all my boxes so there was nothing on my profile and it is still grey.. What do I do ? (link)
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Well first, a common problem is that you don't fill in the captcha (the picture with random letters and numbers and the box under it to type what you see) and click view profile without the new layout being put it. Second, you might want to check if you have one of the myspace 2.0 layouts on and at the same time you are putting a layout code and the two are conflicting and causing your screen too look weird. Make sure those two things are set straight and if it still doesn't work you might want to contemplate asking tom.
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is it save to have sex with your boyfriend at the age of 12 or 13 (link)
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Is it safe? Well I doubt that there are any adverse affects with having sex around that age. As long as you plan on using a condom with spermicide then i don't think there will be any problems. I do suggest that you tell him to be gentle since because you are young you might have a slightly small vagina and it could hurt more that it usually does if he has a large penis.
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my boyfriend and i were messing around the other day. usually, i just give him a hand job and he just rubs my clit.
well, the other day, he kinda rubbed his penis around my area. but then, i don't think he went in the vagina per se. just in the clit area. he didn't cum inside me either.
basically, he rubbed his penis inside me a bit, then he cummed outside then after a while he rubbed inside me again.
what are the chances that i'm pregnant?
btw, i haven't had my period even though i'm more than 18 years old. i talked to several doctors and they all said my ovaries and stuff were working fine. they tried to induce menstruation a couple of times and it did work but i never have a cycle unless induced. (link)
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I doubt that you'll be getting pregnant from just that, even if you didn't have your condition. Though the chances aren't high you might want to think about getting an emergency contraceptive, with a doctor's recommendation of course since the pill might have an adverse effect on your condition.
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and I have no idea what to get my boyfriend.we've been going out since xmas eve 08. he's 17 nd im 16. please help me think of something I can do for him or give him that he would like if you need any more information just ask ill let you know. thankyou for your time! thanks in advance! (link)
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Well guys are extremely hard to buy things for unless you know them really well. Though I can't tell you exactly what to get him I suggest that you think about what he is interested in and do something creative off of that. If all else fail, get him a nice card and something funny like a box of chocolate or something.
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I've had sex with my boyfriend and i love him more than anything but i don't like the thought of giving him oral. I have gave oral to another guy before i started going out with my recent boyfriend so he never really lets me live that one down. Now i'm kind of easing up and would want to give him a bj but if he cums does that not mean we can't have sex? like i wouldn't want to give him one and it be done with. When i done oral for the first time the guy warned me when he was going to sum so he didn't do it in my mouth which i was so relieved about. Also if i have my mouth down there and then we have sex i don't think he'd want to kiss me which is also kind of offputting. Is there a happy/medium anywhere lol
I think my question is alot of questions in itself so answers to any would be grateful. (link)
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Well to answer your first question, if he cums you can still have sex but he'd have to be able to get it back up fast. If he can't then you probably won't be able to have sex afterwards. I doubt he'd want to kiss you after that because most guys think that's kinda gross. I mean imagine a guy eating you out and then kissing you. It seems kinda nasty to me but he might not mind. Then again he might be in such a lust filled haze that he doesn't even notice the fact that you had his dick in your mouth before yo kissed him. The happy/medium will only be there if he's a certain type of person. You might want to try all this out with him though. Sacrificing sex once will be worth satisfying this dude if you really like him.
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ok so i really like this guy and he said he likes me (he even said he loved me) but were not going out officially, were just friends with benefits really. we've hooked up a few times but we've never really talking about being in a relationship, but i kinda want to be in one with him.. idk it sounds retarded but i dont know what to do. any advice? (link)
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If you two are god enough friends with benefits then I would think that starting a relationship is a good idea. Of course, it might be hard changing a completely physical relationship into one that involves lots of feelings and stuff like that. You should talk to him and tell him how you truly feel. He did say he loved you so if he still does, I doubt anything will go wrong.
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Ok In the beginning of the year I started dating this guy I never expected to be dating named Jack the thing was we were completely opposite I was totally pushy and he was just so laid back so in Novemeber we broke up and I moved on and he did also he went with this girl who I was in middle school with but I didn't know until he told me and she used to be my friend until she went with an ex of mines before. So you know since we're in the same grade same high school I see him (Jack)all the time so recently we just been hanging out and stuff and all of a sudden on Friday he asked me back out via text message and I'm like what about your girlfriend and he texted me back saying lol sike naw so I just was like ok and dropped the subject. Later that day we met up and just hug out for the rest of the day and we were in Old Navy and he metioned it to me again and I was like I thought you were playing and he said he wasn't and I asked about his girlfriend and he was like I want her to break up with me that's why I avoid her and I'm thinking why?? but I mean what do y'all think I should do cause when we hung out it was like he told me everything about him andhe opened up so much. (link)
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don't go out with him until he breaks up with his current girlfriend
its not worth you ending up being part of a scandal
if he can't man up and break it off with the other girl
then he really isn't worth your time anyways
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is it only possible to get an STD if u come in contact w/someone else w/an STD or can u get it from that person even if they dont have an STD? (link)
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if someone doesn't have an STD then you can't really get one from them
STD's are received from people who already have them though they can look like they don't have one
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ok i know you can "pop your chrry" by simply putting a tampon in or riding a bike. but how do you know that you did. obv with the bike thing you would know. but what if your on your period so there is already blood. but i think i did the other day and i was just wondering for sure if i did. any ways to know how? (link)
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it would hurt
and you'd feel it
when you 'pop your cherry' it not only bleeds but it is either painful or uncomfortable
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what are some more websites with games like
albinoblacksheep
and
http://www.mindistortion.tv/ (link)
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ebaumsworld.com
newgrounds.com
addictinggames.com
popcap.com
that's all i can think of off the top of my head
you might want to google search it
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I really wanna be wicca but my mom keeps acting like its a big joke!I search stuff about wicca everyday!It's so intresting!I asked my mom if she can search a wicca place nearby but she said I cant go to it!I REALLY wanna be wicca but i'm afriad to tell my grandmother because she's like a jehovah's witness and so am I but I dont wanna be it anymore!I seriously need help! (link)
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unlike some people(bananafontana) i will answer your question instead of ranting about my beliefs.
first off, think for a minute. do you really want to be wiccan? are you sure its not like a phase or because you thought one thing is cool about it. Now if you are sure then let's get to your mother. she probably doesn't want to accept that her child is interested in the wiccan religion. if she is a Jehovah's witness like your grandmother she wouldn't be too excited to take you to a wiccan place. make your mother understand that you are serious and that you will not change your state of mind. print or write down some of the things you have been searching. give her facts and things like that to make her understand you definitely aren't joking.
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okay well last night my boyfriend and i were having sex... we've been together for almost a year and love each other alot... my mom knows we're sexually active, and is okay with it because she knows we both love each other. okay so we were doing it... and we felt like a pop... so he pulled it out, and sure enough, it was broken. and i don't mean like a little hole, like actually broken- like it snapped and rolled back down his penis. it only went inside of me maybe 2 times (thats what he says, but i don't even think it was in once) and yeah the condom was completely off... it was hanging on to his penis by that little ring. so my period's due in a couple weeks, and i don't know if i should get an emergency contraceptive. my mom says don't; it's not necessary... my boyfriends freaking out, and i really don't know WHAT to do. also, he didn't cum inside of me or at all, but there was precum. i think it broke cause the condom was too small... he did have trouble getting it on. so does anyone know what i should do? THANKS SO MUCHH!!! ♥ (link)
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you could take a 'morning after' pill if you are really scared about what happened but i doubt that precum would get you pregnant. you could wait for your period but if anything happened it might be too late
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where is the best place to look for new jobs? I would really like to have weekends off! (link)
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Your local newspaper listings might have good jobs in your area. There is also monster.com careerbuilder.com and hotjobs.com. there are more but those are the only ones i can give you since i dont know your major you can do to http://www.saleshelp.com/guestservices/destinations/JobSites.html
for more specific websites
good luck!
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on myspace.
does anyone know
how to have the music play
when people looking at your pics?
thnx. (link)
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when people are looking at your pics you can't have any music but.. if you want to have music whle people are looking at your pics i suggest you use the myspace slide show thing and put it on your profile so people can look at you pics and have music
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So tomorrow I'm donating blood for the first time. I'm pretty good with needles, so I'm not too nervous or anything. Anyone wanna tell me exactly what happens? (link)
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when you go they will probably ask you if you have any blood abnormalities [unless you were already there] most likely you will have to wait in a room for a bit then they take you into a room and put a tight rubber band on a vein so it will enlarge. then they will clean off the area and inject you with the needle. depending on how much blood you are donating the container used will differ. its not too much of an unpleasant thing and it is over fast.
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what are some funny or good videos like,salad fingers, muffins,shoes, funny things like that?! thankss :D (link)
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magical trevor!! its makes me fall out of my chair laughing
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This is a serious question... I can lick my elbow and everyday the guy I like asks me to do it, to keep up the "tradition." I'm always like ahh no.
What are some cute & clever things I could say so that I dont have to do it..? (link)
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i think of this according to the type of message you get across
flirty- well i can lick something else if you let me
bouncer-the elbow is off limits punk
black person-i can lick my elbow whenever the fuck i want [Z snap]
i cant really think of anymore since its a strange situation...
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My boyfriend and I had sex last night for the first time. He didn't pop my cherry, but part of him was still in me. Does this mean i lost my virginity? Or am i still a virgin? (link)
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really it depends on the way you think. technically you arent a virgin since you did have someone in you. but the topic is up to discussion since some people think that if your hymen is still intact you are a virgin. so it could go either way. just think the one that makes you feel better =]
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okay i know i you will probably think i am a total idiot but i need to know. okay the last time i was on my period i accidentally had two tamponds in at 1 time. can that hurt by body? (link)
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no this wouldnt hurt your body unless have the two of them in caused physical pain to you. like if you felt an 'Ow that hurts' down there then you might want to go to a gynocologist or check for yourself
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