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Im 20 years old, I have faced many obstacles and problems that I have had to go through alone with no help and the help I recieved wasn't ever any good. I have faced women problems, friends moving, suicide, killings, deaths, car accidents, sibling rivals, fighting, weird hobbies, my best friends being raped. I have been through a little of everything and I was the one many of them turned to so I like to help out.

Hobbies: I do a lot of work in recording studios, and video/editing studios so I know film pretty well. I am a director/producer. Thats what I am in school for, to further my knowledge of set production for I am a pre production wizard. I read a lot so I have knowledge. And more.

Education: I graduated at the top 15 percent of my class in high school which was college prep, and right now im in my 3rd year od college. I have an AA degree in media arts, a 6 month screen writing certificate from NYFA. I am 11 months from my BA in FILM and HDTV, and I am a semester away from an International Business Degree.

SO if you have any questions im polite and easy to talk with and you can ask me any question you have, I will be honest no matter what.
E-mail: spin18@aol.com
Gender: Male
Location: New Mexico but live in AZ
Occupation: Sudent/Film and TV Producer
Age: 20
AIM: Tightwireprod
Member Since: January 15, 2004
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is it bad to give a guy head if you have cuts in your mouth? bc someone told me you werent supposed to and well like i accidentally bit the inside of my cheek and it bled and welll im hanging out with my boyfrind tongiht so i was jw? (link)
Dear J/W,

Its not the idea that matters, its the consequences, diseases, STD, HIV are all possibilities. Also that leasion you have in your mouth bled and if you get sperm inside the cut you have a chance of getting an infection, also if he hasn't cleaned any sweat or whatever else has touched it can infect the cut as well. So its not a good idea.

Christopher Lee Espinoza


ok so how come some people kiss with their tongues and some dont?!?! lol

and if you want to kiss with your tongue and the "two people" have never kissed with their tongue how do you get that to happen (link)
Dear kissing,

Why do people kiss with their tongues and some don't? Well the secret to this is STYLE, kissing is just like fashion, and everyone does it the way they like it and what feels good to them, its just like sex it depends on the couple and person. As for how to use your tongue for the first time, while kissing tease the other person using your tongue, like occasionally lightly caress their lips with your tongue. This creates the awareness and leads them in the kissing direction(wanting to use your tounge) that you want them to engage.

Hope this helps,

Christopher Lee Espinoza


is it a turn off if girls dont shave? (link)
Dear for guys,

Every guy is different, I personally prefer trimmed, but I have friends that hate hair there period but its all about personal preference. The only way to know is to ask or just see how he responds to all three "Shaved, trimmed, grown out".

Christopher Lee Espinoza


what is the difference between jail and prison? (link)
Dear difference,

The difference between jail and prison is that in jail you are in a cell that can occupy more than two people,less guards, larger cells, better food, there are common rooms that you might be able to play video games (im serious) and watch tv. Jail is the exact opposite. Jail is just a miny deliquent home but or all ages.


I recently got a rabbit... I would like to teach it how to use a litter box....My question is ...what kind of litter should I use? What are things I should look out for? What are some things that are normal for a rabbit to do when litter training?....anything relating to rabbits will help so if u know anything about the topic I just brought up OR NETHING else please let me know..Thank YOU! (link)
Dear new parent pet,

Yea I have a rabbit, The litter you should use, I use hay for the litter and bark for the bedding because they like both hay and bark and if they get used to peeing on the hay they won't eat it. Oh watch out for carpet because they will eat carpet till there is noting else here is a rule of thumb "rabbits like to dig especially in the dirt and eveything they chew and scratch is just another thing they need to get through to get to the dirt". Oh if you have a male rabbit i would recommend getting him nudered because he can get aggressive as well as thump none stop. And don't let them around cords for they will chew them to bits and I mean all of them.

Christopher Lee Espinoza


well i really would like to become an actress. i know there are probably thousands of girls in the country that wants to, so if you reply please dont tell me anything like that or anything negative.
heres are my strengths:
-i can be very dramatic
-i can do different voices, and im good at impersonating people
-im good at memorizing things
- and i just love to be someone different and hear different stories

weakness:
- i can be extremely, extremely shy around people i DONT know



so my questions are:
1)is there anything i can do to get over my shyness?
2) should i start out with headshots? im not really sure..

thanks guys! i know it was long but i'll rate high for good answers


oh and ps. pleeease dont say "start out on plays" because i did plays in highschool and i absolutely hated it (link)
Dear Actor,

The name is Christopher Espinoza, I am an Arizona Producer as well as an Az, Ca, Fl, and Ny model agent. This is my field and my play ground so here are a few tips, yes get a headshot that will be imporatant to even getting a foot in the door for if you have no headshot or resume with you on the casting days you might as well not show up. Second find a skill in acting that sets you apart from the rest, you need to show your unique quality you need to stand out. Start working on your acting, and I mean do it no do and say you did, so when there is a student project offering just credit and food be first in line because now your name is out, your refining your skill and the film makers on the video are going to be the film makers you work with in the future so remember be nice and play hard. And no never start out on plays, plays are way different so stay away, on be in a play to get the practice. Now being shy is most youngens in the industry, models and actors alike they need to get comfortable and when you are an actor you get treated like an actor (ex: sylvester stallone hates when people look at him in the eyes, so on set no one looks at him in the eyes, but that takes years to do). But remember acting is a job so start doing it. A practice tool that helps, not all people like it but it works, if a stranger talks with you tell them nothing about you. Thats right make up a character in your head and be that person tell that persons story, plus it helps get rid of shyness a little. Oh Remember there are two types of shy, "Im better than you" shy, and "I dont know how to start" shy.

If you need anything else don't be afraid to ask.

Christopher lee Espinoza


so wut exactly is a hymn (link)
It’s part of the vulva, the external genital organs. It’s located outside the vagina. The hymen is a layer of tissue, just like the tissue around the opening of your vagina. Most females lose it in their earlier years for sport activities as well as doing the splits ect.

Christopher Lee Espinoza


Okay so i have to do a coursework piece. it has to be like a police report on an incident.

i have these things to include..
- who killed who
- what weapons were used
- what role the two unidentified characters had in the deaths.
- your thoughts on why the killings took place
- the statements that the two men give to the police saying why they were in the graveyard.

i dont know what sort of language to use for each point and how to start the sentences/paragraphs. also the connectives like therefore, in conclusion etc..
so can u give me a little help for this

rate 5's for anyone who gives a helpful answer. (link)
Dear police report,

Here are a few terms to know.
Assault
Causing injury or attempting to cause injury to another person.

Burglary
Breaking an entrance into, or entering, or remaining unlawfully in a building with intent to commit a crime.

Robbery
The taking of property forcefully or with imminent threat of force with intent of permanently depriving rightful owner of the property; for example, a stick-up or mugging.

Theft
Theft of property other than by burglary or robbery, for example, pick-pocket or shoplifting.

Vandalism
Destruction or defacing of property.

Vehicle Trespass
Theft from a vehicle.

http://members.aol.com/Welts23/PoliceGlossary.html
the page above will also give you hella terms and their meanings.

Hope this helps,

Christopher Lee Espinoza



what does it really mean to get your cherry popped..because i know there isn't really something in your body thats called a cherry..is it?? i know you have to have sex to get it popped but wut happens when its popped..and what exactly is the thing we all call a cherry?? just curious thanx.. (link)
Dear Juicy Cherries,

No there is not a literal part of the femal body called a cherry, people are refering to the moment in which a female looses her virginity (cherry pops means breaking the hymen during sex). Just means you lose your virginity,and the "Cherry" has two terms, lose of virginity and breaking of the hymen. Hope this helps.

Christopher Lee Espinoza


how do i put pictures in my myspaec under "people i'd like to meet" and "heroes" and all that stuff? (link)
Dear pictures,

Well sign up for a free account with photobucket and just add your pictures under your account. When you do that it will generate a code under the pictures (I believe its uder the tag code), then copy and paste onto your myspace editing portion of your myspace.

Christopher Lee Espinoza


Does Hydrogen Peroxide solution really turn your hair blonde. Cause I might put it in my hair.

Ill rate 5's (link)
Dear Hair,

It doesn't turn it completely blonde but yellowish blonde if you put to much, but what you want to do if you are going to do it blonde by yourself is before you put hair blech in your hair put Peroxide in your hair for 10-15 minutes before, it actually helps the color a bit more.

Christopher Lee Espinoza


OMG I NEED TO KNOW HOW YOU DELATE A MYSPACE! my mom iss soo pissed at me right now please i need to know ASVP!

(link)
Dear myspace,

Right next to your picture just go to account settings click it and it will give you an option to delete the account, only prob is it takes 1-2 days.


is it true that you have to be really tall to be a model?

i asked this quesiton to some people and they said yes.. but some said you just have to be really tall if you wanna be a runway model..

what about normal models in magazines and stuff cause i'm 5'2" but i really wanna be a model and i don't know if i could be one since i'm so short=[

thanx! i'll rate high for nice, realistic answers =] (link)
Dead Model,

It really depends don't just listen to the people below this for their answers come from reseaarch no experience. I help agent models all over arizona, ca, fl, wa and yes height is considered an issue a huge issue but here is an example. The shortest runway model is Riley Keough age 16 and stands a bit over 5'6, Another twiggy she was only 5'6 and was the first supermodel (not Janice Dickinson). 5'2 would be too short for runway unless a designer or production manager whats that. So editoral prints will allow you to be short as hell and be a successful model. Because al we do when we get to the cutting floor is scale and change the way the girls looks to meet our specifications. So, it is possible its just hard to get there.

Good luck!

Christopher Lee Espinoza


sry if this is in the wrong category. ok, so my high school is having their blood drive tomorrow, and they were going over what you had fill out before giving. and there was some mention of sexual history. for those who donated before, do you have to tell about your sex life? i understand that its probably confendential, but i prefer not to give that out in my high school. (link)
Dear Donation,

They don't give the information to the school unless its the school blood donation not a company donation (donation banks). I actually help them decide if they would use your blood or have you as a candidate because the risk of a std. So don't worry its for the lab not for the school.

Christopher lee Espinoza


hey

well i was wondering if ebay was real like do they take more money then there ment to and do they take the money adn not send the thing that you bought are they scammers or is it realy please tell me :):)

taek care every 1 love : hilda (link)
Dear ebay,

Ebay is the real deal, you buy something you get something. But the kicker is that since ebay is just the site it really has no control on how fast you get the item and how much you pay because that is up to the individual you are buying it from or recieveing payment. When you purchase an item it is up to you to make sure you get it and it is to your satisfactory, if you never get an item or its broken there are refund days on most and if you cannot get a hold of someone you an contact ebay and they will take action on the person. But ebay is great, I myself by from them maybe once a week or more depending on what I am looking for. Just remember read the persons file and see what remarks people have made about their business dealings.

Christopher lee Espinoza


Ok I have a great bf and love him but my ex bf who is also my best friend got a new gf and idk why but it hurts..i mean it shouldnt but it does cause i keep imaging she's so much prettier and better IDK WHY!! is this normal? thanks (link)
Dear IDK,

Yes, it is perfectly normal. It deals with ones inability to move on after they themselves have moved on. Everyone holds some sort of an attachement with a past relationship, the strong the relationship the strong the attachement. And when you watch the person move on to another you will critize yourself harshly because now you feel as if you were just a means to get someone better. Just don't think on it, its a little jealousy and it goes away. It also happens when you feel that person is now good enough.

Christopher Lee Espinoza


I would like teenagers to answer this one,

My daughter is 13. But the clothes she wears are not...happy. She always is sarcastic. She listens to strange, loud music. Is this the fashion these days? Should I let her be? (link)
Dead Mother of the Norm,

The big one three, expect a lot of this, I went through that stage for 3 years of my life around the same age as your daughter. It never fails, its the age in which she will come into her own and figure out what she wants to be (literally), there is a lot to expect during this new age, expect a lot of I hate you, and other vulgar things. Loud music is the most normal part of this age, wait till the clothes get weirder (chains on shirts and pants, spikes on shoes, braclets, and necklaces). I hate to be the one to tell you but this is just the beginning of this fashion. Let her be, of course but do not criticize at all no matter how much you would like to, above all try and take a small interest in the styles. If you have anyother question ask me I probably know better than almost anyone, for I do work with Hot Topic and Torrid, electrik chair clothing lines so I can help you understand it and the music for I do work with metal, goth musicans because of my line of work.

Its all normal and ok.

Christopher Lee Espinoza


Ok,a few questions here,my and my kinda sorta boyfriend are going to see a horror movie proably the hills have eyes,in a few weeks,and he wants to make out during the movie,instead of watching it,but one problem.........i've never made out,just kissed,so what do guys like when oyu make out with a girl,and how do you know if your doing it right,please help me i just need tips for making out,!!!!!!!!! please help!! (link)
Well first of all I would pick a better movie than that(saw it today). Im in the film industru (producing) and well more people scream and twitch during the movie so thats just a mistake because there will be nothing but distractions, as you said it will be your first time and I don't think you want that to happen if your going for impressions. Most makes just want you to put forth an effort that allows you to be comfortable as well as fell good. Regular rules for kissing apply to making out, breathe through your nose, no slober no bitting to hard ect. Take it like your first kiss and over the make out time just give a little further with your kisses.

Christopher Lee Espinoza


I have a boyfriend who I have been with for about a month and a half. He's only a year younger than me but since my birthday is at the start of the month (JAN 06) and his is at the end (NOV 24)it sounds like a bigger age gap (I'm 17 and he's still 15) I really love him and I know he cares about me. But theres this voice in the back of my head telling me its all wrong. Please help me I don't know what to do.
PS I rate really high (link)
Dear Issue,

Don't let the age barrier hit you where it counts. And I know the voice echo telling your that its wrong but that is actually society talking. I have always had a thing for women older than me (my whole life) and when I started to date in my teen years my girlfriend got a lot of grief from her peers and guys her age, which im pretty sure you are already feeling from those around you. And never let people get in the way of your feelings you will lead yourself astray as well as your boyfriend, it hurts to be dumped because your love was not stronger that the voice of a persons friends. Follow your feelings and your instincts not just your what your friends say.

Christopher Lee Espinoza


What happens when you get braces taken off? (link)
Its rather a fun process. Well they take them off which is very painless then they get a mold of your teeth so that they can prep your retainer to your adjusted teeth. And thats the end of it.




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