If you've not kissed a boy using your tongues before, it's best to ease into it. A lot of people start off by ramming their tongues into each others mouths and I can promise you that will NOT be pleasent!!
When you kiss normally, just open your mouth slightly and poke your tongue out just enough to touch your partner's lips with your tongue. Just do that until you get a little more confident about it and as you do, begin to just slightly move your tongue towards his mouth. It shoudl reach the stage where your tongues just touch in between your mouths. From there one of you can then slightly push your tongue into the others mouth. Don't push it in very far, only as far as is comfortable and just pull it in and out gently. Don't do it too fast or it will feel really rushed.
Most of all, try to relax into it and don't move on to do this until you're ready because using tongues can be quite intimidating at first. [ Vikki27's advice column | Ask Vikki27 A Question ]
Cspinoza1 answered Thursday March 30 2006, 6:49 pm: Dear kissing,
Why do people kiss with their tongues and some don't? Well the secret to this is STYLE, kissing is just like fashion, and everyone does it the way they like it and what feels good to them, its just like sex it depends on the couple and person. As for how to use your tongue for the first time, while kissing tease the other person using your tongue, like occasionally lightly caress their lips with your tongue. This creates the awareness and leads them in the kissing direction(wanting to use your tounge) that you want them to engage.
NinjaNeer answered Thursday March 30 2006, 6:42 pm: Easy way to get into tongue-kissing... just kind of tickle the other person's lips with your tongue, and gently get it in there... DO NOT go in like you're trying to lick their tonsils though. That's a little scary.
Erinn_the_bamf answered Thursday March 30 2006, 6:38 pm: It's just what they like better. No tongue is usually considered just kissing and tongue is "hooking-up."
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