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is being gay a chemical imbalence?? remember:I AM NOT GAY!!!!!!!! (please keep in mind my name has nothing to do with my gender-male- :)
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No, it's a choice. You choose to participate in that lifestyle. ]
It hasn't been proven why some people are gay and others are not, but here's what I believe. I think that at birth everyone is 100% bisexual. Kids don't have a sense of sexuality until they reach their teens so how can it be predetermined? As we grow and participate socially with other people we learn and experience things that make us sway one way or the other. It's not an imbalance because there is nothing that attracts a man to a woman other than what we pick up socially as we get older. Little boys don't have a "play with fire trucks gene" and little girls don't have a "play with dolls gene". They are given the "proper" toys and play with those particular ones and not others because of thier parents' reactions. If a boy plays with dolls the parent will probably frown at them and tell them no. Same kind of thing. I hope I made sense. :) ]
It could be. Nobody really knows the exact causes. Some people say it's a choice, others say it's just something you can't help. But being gay doesn't hurt anyone, so if it is an imbalance, there's really no point in "curing" it. ]
There are arguments on all sides of this issue. I personally feel it is probably something that is in you from birth.
No need to tell everyone that your name has nothing to do with your gender. Your name does not show up when you ask questions. If you would like to change your name, email dangernerd and ask. ;) ]
Nope. ]
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