Gender:
FemaleLocation:
Beverly HillsAge:
15Member Since:
May 16, 2006Answers:
256Last Update:
October 19, 2006Visitors:
14218about
I'm not very booksmart, and I'm definately not street smart. However, if there's one thing I am, it's PEOPLE SMART. That's why I'm good with this whole advice thing. You can ask me ANYTHING and I'm always glad to help. There's almost no question I can't handle, so ask away. Make sure you RATE and leave FEEDBACK, so I can improve my advice.infinate x's and o's,
cindy
advice
alright im 16/f and im still a virgin. ive only done things with 2 guys but i have only had the opportunity to do things with 2 guys..the 2nd guy i didnt even like but idk..it just all happened.do you think thats kinda of sluty? and me & this guy have a little thing goin on but im afraid that when we hang out agian we'll go a little bit too far. i really like him and i know he likes me but i dont know if i can stop myself. im supposed to hang out with him and stay the night over his house cause he is my friends cousin and my friend is goin too. but idk..i just dont want it to happen and i dont know if it will or not or if i can be able to stop at just making out..what should i do?
Number one, you're not a slut. However, if you are feeling slutty, you might be uncomfortable with what you are doing. What I would do is set limits for yourself. Say you don't want to go farther than 2nd base. Keep that in mind while you are hooking up with this boy. If you have a set limit in you head, you not only know your comfort level but it might help you from doing things you might later regret. Hope this helps.
-cindy
I'm 13 years old and I'm about 5'4. I once heard that if you're 5 feet tall, your supossed to weigh 100 pounds, and for every inch after that, it's another 5 pounds. Well, that would mean that I'm suposed to weigh about 120 pounds, but i only weigh 95. Does this mean I'm 25 pounds UNDERweight? It seems that if I gained 25 pounds, I'd be looking near obese. I don't feel or look underweight. Am I?
I don't know what you look like, so I can't exactly say if you are overweight or underweight for sure, but keep in mind muscle weighs more than fat and you have bone mass, therefore factors like these can effect your weight. If you don't look underweight, you're fine. Don't worry about it. Hope this helps.
-cindy
My throat has been hurting for a very lond time and I was just wondering if there was any special way to get rid of the pain.(other than medicine)
1)Try gargling with salt water. (mix warm water with salt and gargle --> it should help kill some of the bacteria in your throat)
2)cough drops
3)chloreseptic spray (whenever my throat hurts, I spray this and it helps)
4)motrin or advil always helps relieve the pain as well
If your throat keeps hurting, see a doctor.
Hope this helps and feel better.
-cindy
heyy cindy.
i met this girl last year (i'm 13f) and she was really nice and we became bffs and it's been almost two years. she's really starting to make me mad because she always thinks i'm mad at her ('cause i am... i just cant hide it) and she just does things that really make me mad.
like at her party, i was cooly bragging about my bikini (i'm really good friends with everyone at the party) and everyone was like aw it's so cute! and she was like, "omg!" (to this other girl... who had a cute but not-as-cute-as-mine bikini) "____ wins for cutest bikini!" and everyone started freaking out over her...
i was jealous, i admit. but like why would she do that?! it's almost the end of school. what should i do next year, should i act like we created space or should i just act like nothing ever happened? i'll rate high-- thanks!! xox
Maybe your friend is jealous. If I were you, I would talk to her. Best friends are hard to find and impossible to replace. Tell her how your feeling. If things don't go well, give each other some space and try again in a few weeks. That way, you'll both have time to think things over. I would try and work on your friendship because you don't want to throw it away over some stupid jealousy issues (or little arguments ect. Hope this helps and if you need more help you know where to find me.
-cindy
well recently i asked sum gal out and she sed yes but the problem is she is 1 yr younger and im gettin teased bout it should i break up with her or just take it i like her alot
and her best frend is my cuzin
plz help
i rate 5
If you like her, nothing else should matter. Block it out. Hope this helps.
-cindy
ok so last month around like may 3rd i got my first period. and it lasted maybe like 5ish days. (but it was only really heavy about 3 days) anyway..about a week past after i got it..and then i got it again! i know that when you first get it, it's irregular, so do you think i will get it this month? i'm just really scared that i don't have it or get it on monday, because i am going to a waterpark with my 8th grade graduating class.if i do happen to get it, (which im really hoping i don't), what should i do? i haven't started using tampons yet. i dont know???? any advice? thank youu.
If you just got your period, it will be irregular so you can't exactly predict when you are going to have it. As for the waterpark, it stops while your in the water. If you do get it, either just stay in the water, or put in a tampon. It's easy to learn how to do it. If your period is irregular after a while, go to a doctor and they can put you on birth control so you do get it regularly. Hope this helps.
-cindy
My mum told me I'm fat today and I know I am but the way she said it made me feel like I should be anerexic.
She was petit in high school and when she had me she was still relly small. When she had my brother she got ffat but I feel alot of pressure to be thin. This summer I want to go gym like everyday but I don't know how to lay off me...she really bothers me abut my weigh and I will lose it...but in time!!!!!
She makes me feel bad...she actually makes me want to eat!!
I know how you feel. Sometimes my mom says, "You better start working out." and things like that. The best thing for you to do is tune it out. Don't let it get to you. Immediately after she says something, think about something else and pretend like you don't care. I know you can do it. I'm glad you're taking the effort to get thin, and you mom will realize that eventually, even if she is a little slow. Hope this helps and feel better.
-cindy
Yeah, my granmother just died, we're having a funeral for her on saturday, and I don't want to be there. My dad says "Its not your decision to make" does anyone have some persuasion techniques? Or have you ever heard of a way to convince someone to do something your way?
I don't want to go. What' sthe best way to say it so I get to stay??
I'm sorry, but I feel that you should go. After all she was your grandmother. She loved you so much. Think about it this way, if you had died, would you have wanted your grandmother to be there? Or would you just want her to be like, "I don't want to go and ditch it." I'm pretty sure you would hope she would come, so be there for her. If you're worried about being too sad to go and whatever, it's best to get it out of your system. Sometimes you just have to cry. Hope this helps and I'm sorry about your grandmother.
-cindy
Is color gaurd popular like cheerleader, because my sister said that it was like being a cheerleader, but i dont know if that is true or not?
So, my question is this basically:
Are color gaurd people treated like how the cheerleaders are? (popular or not?)
Thanks ahead of time?
Hev
At my school, everyone makes fun of the cheerleaders. If you do cheerleading at my school, you'd be a huge loser. I haven't really heard about color guards though. I mean people don't really classify you as a color guard or cheerleader, they just think of you as a person doing that. It's not really a big deal. Hope this helps.
-cindy
So I am going to this party tonight and the theme is summer, so naturally you are suppose to wear summer clothes. I have no idea of what to where and what accerories to put with it, all i know is that i dont really want a skirt!
Please help!
If you don't want to wear a skirt, don't wear one. There are plenty of other things you can wear.
You can wear these shorts,
http://www.abercrombie.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?storeId=10051&catalogId=10901&parentCategoryId=12203&childCatgroupId=12203&categoryId=12839&productId=1&langId=-1
With this shirt,
http://wetseal.com/productdetail.asp?mi=1000&size=&style=36446568&color=700&token=
With gold accesories (like bangles).
Hope this helps and have fun at the party.
-cindy
i get frequent headaches. im 13 and its really really hard for mme to swallow a pill. my mom usually buys advil, the liquid that you drink and the liquid gells (advil pill). i can swallow small pills of other brands, but they're usually not as effective. my weight is starting to get over the limit for childrens advil liquid but i want to keep taking it. is there another good pain reliever out there that is drinkable? and can relieve pain for people over 100-115 lbs?
I had the exact same problem. I just learned how to swallow a pill this year. Here's a trick: (Bananas work well) - Take a little peice of banana and chew it. Right before you are about to swallow, put the pill in your mouth. The reason this works for me is because I'm scared I'm going to choke, therefore I have to pretend the pill isn't there. By taking food with it, you don't realize the pill is there, so it's easier to pretend. As for liquid medicine, I just used to take another spoonful of whatever I was taking. It worked for me. Hope this helps.
-cindy
whats are good ways to flirt?
BE CONFIDENT. That is always the first step. As for flirting, make sure you smile, laugh, and show your personality. Just be yourself. A good way to stand is to stand with one hand on your hip. Also, occasionally, you can touch his arm and things like that. Hope this helps.
-cindy
I'm not worried about my weight but I'm just curious... I've been keeping track of my weight daily, and sometimes the scale gives back some weird numbers. Like, I've heard that it's unhealthy to lose more than 1 or 2 pounds a week, but I'll go to bed one night and wake up 4 pounds lighter. It's so strange. Has anyone else had this happen to them? Or is my scale messed up? Or am I just weird? Thanks ahead!
It could be your scale, but it could also be you. Some days you could be bloated, and the next day not be. If you're keeping the weight off its one thing, but if its just bouncing back its just your body. (maybe retaining water, salt, ect.) Hope this helps.
-cindy
help!
im going to a dance next week with a guy i really like, i have no idea what to wear, how to dance, and how to style my hair! IM not very good with all this girly girl stuff it is all new to me and i can't spend a lot all my friends are wearing dresses what do i do??
plz help
scared
1)outfit -- You can always buy a cute dress at an inexpensive place like forever 21, wet seal, target, ect. Here are some cute dresses you might like. I'm not exactly sure how fancy the dance is, but you can always dress these kind of things up. (with shoes, accesories, hairstyles ect.)
http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=FOREVER21&category%5Fname=Dresses&product%5Fid=2027997009&Page=2
http://wetseal.com/productdetail.asp?mi=1300&size=&style=36590223&color=10&token=dJbSlZB0iquN1lWihE8hjeonEI2Rf8%2FimmfNj7yWc2FMFLMU84N4N7wudg%3D%3D
http://wetseal.com/productdetail.asp?mi=1300&style=36517091&size=&color=575&token=
http://www2.victoriassecret.com/commerce/application/prodDisplay/?namespace=productDisplay&origin=onlineProductDisplay.jsp&event=display&prnbr=UP-197923&page=1&cgname=OSCLODRSVIL&rfnbr=2667
2)Dancing -- just go with the flow. You can't exactly plan how you are going to dance, just move to the music and don't worry about it. If you're having fun thats all that matters. Also, you can look at how everyone else is dancing, that will give you a clue on how to dance.
3)Hair -- Depending on how much you can spend, you can decide if you want to get your hair done. If it's not a big dance, I wouldn't, it just isn't worth it. If I were you, I would do my hair in flowing curls. Just get a curler and ask a friend, mom, neighbor, someone that can do hair well. You can also do it yourself, if you want. Here are some examples you might like.
http://cdn-channels.netscape.com/gallery/i/s/simpson3/lg9.jpg
http://z.about.com/d/beauty/1/0/T/G/Lindsaylohan.jpg
If you need anymore help, you know where to find me. Hope this helps and have fun at your dance!
-cindy
idk what category but how do you get rid of sunburn or fix it or whatever?
You can't exactly fix sunburn, but you can try and help the pain. I suggest getting aloe, it will help. Also, don't wear any tight clothing, because it will cause pain to the burn. Hope this helps and feel better. Sunburn sucks.
-cindy
Ok I know smoking is bad for you and that I shouldn't do it. Im a 15/f and been smoking for I would say bout 2 maybe 3 yrs. I have tried to quit before and I can't.Now I'm trying to lose weight and I have heard it helps keep off the pounds. Is it true?(please don't lie so I will quit I want a honest answer.)
Yes, I have heard smoking helps you lose weight. However, smoking isn't the way to do it. Diet and exercise is a much healthier way to lose weight. Please try and quit. Hope this helps.
-cindy
Well! I am looking for some ideas. You see my boyfriend always comes over to my house or we go to the movies. IM BORED OF IT! What's something fun we can do! Oh and by the way clubbing is not an option. I live in Miami, Florida if that helps. I just want to have a really fun day and then end it with a romantic tone you know? Please help me out. =/
Here are some things you can do:
1)mini-golfing
2)rent a boat and go sailing
3)go to the beach and have a picnic when watching the sunset
4)have a bonfire, roast marshmellows and make smores
5)take walks on the beach
6)go out to a nice dinner
7)play laser tag
8)play basketball/tennis/soccer/vball
9)lay outside on the grass and look at the stars
10)rollerblade
11)salsa dancing classes
12)have a night time swim with candles ect.
Hope this helps.
-cindy
Okay, well I got school picutes. I didn't like how they turned out so, I just kept them in my bookbag and then handed them back in saying I wasn't going to buy any. (without showing my parents) So then my mom is calling my friend's moms [just to collect the daily gossip] and she finds out that they handed pictures out. And she's like, "where is your pictures?" and I lied and said "I forgot them in my locker, and then handed them in" and to make a long story short, now she's calling the school and my homeroom teacher to get the pictures back, JUST so my dad can see the pictures. Theres only a week of school left, and it's just embarrassing just to look at my teacher.
I'm not exactly sure what your question is, but if you're embarressed, don't worry about it. Seriously, you have one week of school left with that teacher. Also, I'm sure that teacher has experienced other things way worse than that, so don't be embarressed. It happens to the best of us. All you can do is laugh about it. Hope this helps.
-cindy
im having revival at my church all this week. i forgot to ask off from work, and im the type of person that hates to inconvenience people. i got someone to work for me monday. my only two days are today and friday. today, im supost to be training a new girl(about the 5th one theyve had me train),so, their definetely gonig to be inconvenienced. plus, tomorrow,i have a family graduation party to go to. i just feel bad asking for the whole week off, and inconveniencing them. any ideas on what i can say?
Just tell your boss the truth. Your boss probably knows how busy life can be, so she will understand. Just make sure you find someone to sub in for you, otherwise, your boss might get mad if you don't. Other than that, everything should work out fine. Also, if there are any hours you can work during those days, even if it's only 2 or 3 hours, go in and work. It will show your boss work is important to you, and you are willing to fit it in even with your busy schedule. Hope this helps.
-cindy
When i made this account i had a email account. but since then like a month ago i had to delete that email account and i read that you have to have a valid email account is there a way i can put in my new email?
I really wouldnt like to get suspended from this site.
Yes, there is a way. Go to Profile Settings on your side menu. At the top of the page (1), it says, change your e-mail adress. That should work, I've done it before. Hope this helps.
-cindy