Hi! My name is Alice and I love to rock climb...but that doesn't mean I'm good at it. I'm just a normal girl living in Florida. I have a lot of friends, and I'm from the south, so I say YALL. I like cheerleading, dance, golf, dogs, cats, and the Red Hot Chili Peppers. I love spanish! I am a VERY opinionated Democrat, anyone who knows me and has seen my dad's car knows I was raised that way. (LOL)
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I have like really horribly spoty legs. My skin is brown and they are just these really nasty looking black spots on my legs the doctor said it's cause I have sensitive skin and I used either the wrong kind of soap or cream and that they will be on my legs for life they're like scars and now that it's summer I can't show my legs meaning I can't wear skirts and it's HOT i suppose i could wear tights but then I get all hot and sweaty and start to stink any idea how I could cover them up? oh and please don't try to be funny by saying plasters (link)
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I have scars up and down my legs because I'm such a klutz! People at my school just laugh, but with me, not at me. If they are scars, you could try mederma, a scar lightener, or wear those cute long skirts that are sooo in right now. Hope that helps!
Alice
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All these girls in my school wear low cut shirts, and short short skirts. My school dosen't enforce the dress code at all. What bothers me is when I'm caught looking at some girl's clevage they say things like, "Hey!" I just get kinda angry because why do all these girls wear clothes like that then not like it when people stare at there ass n' stuff. I just don't get it. They get all upset when guys try to touch them and stuff. That I can understand. But they have to understand that gusy act like that becaues they dress the way they do. My question is: Why do girls dress like that, then be mad at everyone for acting the way that they do? (link)
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The eight grade class when I was in fifth grade dressed like this, so our entire dresscode was changed. Start a petition, and get people's opinions (shoot for the girls who you have a lot in common with.) Then, show the people in charge, and hopefully, they will see the light. But those girls act like that because they are insecure. They may love their bodies, but they don't love the person inside of it. So they think that guys will go for all Victoria's Secret model and no personality.
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ok me and my boi friend have been dating for 3 weeks to the date and today he has been compleetly ignoring me and i dont no why what did i do rong? how can i fix it? plz help..ill rate high thanxz
~trisha~ (link)
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Maybe he is scared that you might be breaking up with him. Or maybe your best friend told him something about you (such as you were a sl*t) and he is now avoiding your best friend, who you are around all the time. Am I right? This happened to me, and it involved many slammed doors, slammed phones, and pushed over cafeteria chairs. But talk to him, and see what is up. Hope that helps!
Alice
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I`m going to start out by saying this will be long, but thanks so much to anyone who reads this all and helps me out.
I have this best friend, Casey. Words cannot descibe how much of a bff she is to me. She knows everything about me, and always knows what I`m about to say. Were with each other 24/7 and we hardly fight. She`s practicly my sister, we do everything together.
A week ago, she got this new boyfriend, this guy that I didn't like before she started dating him. His name is Nick, he`s 12, shes 13. Casey is a virgin, he isn`t. They`ve already done sexual stuff together and its their first stupid week together.
Last night I was hanging out with both of them and Nick lit up a ciggarrette, and exchanged some pot with another older guy. He offered us both some, Casey would have taken some, but didn't when she saw how mad I got. We were way back on the golf cart paths somewhere, and it was raining, I didn`t want to be in the situation so I started crying and ran away. I was lost along the paths cause I had no clue where I was. Casey didn`t follow me, even though she promised me earlier if I wanted to leave she would come with me. Nick chased after me, blew smoke all over me, and burned me with his ciggarette to make fun of me. I ended up calling Jordan, my other best guy friend, he and his mom drove 45 minutes back into the woods to pick me up only to find I was stained with the smell of ciggarrets, and crying all alone, cause I knew my best friend was slipping away. I don`t know what to do, she used to be a good girl, she never would have done any of this. Now she won`t listen to me, at all, she said she`ll never accept any of the drugs, but I know she will, she almost took them last night and she told me "they were no big deal" She got mad at me when I left cause I was being "immature and embarrassing her" When my dad picked me up, after Jordan dropped me off at her house, he smelt me and now he thinks I`m a smoker, and won`t belive that it wasn`t me. What should I do? PLEASE PLEASE guys, I`m really upset, I`m losing her, please. (link)
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That boy is bad news. I'm FOURTEEN and I'm a virgin. And he's 12???? Tell Casey to get out of that relationship, because chances are, she's just another girl to brag about in the locker-rooms. About Jordan? Tell him the truth. If he doesn't believe you, then tell him to ask Nick or Casey. If Casey decides that she thinks Nick is cool, and stays with him, when she comes crying back to you, do not say I told you so. Be there for her, because that's what friends do. Hope this helps! I hate that for you.
Alice
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hi, well school has just ended for me. and now its been summer for almost a week. i havent seen or hungout with any of my friends. i havent even talked to them really. im getting the vibe that they dont want to hangout with me.
im kind of in a 'threesome' with my bestfriends. and of course, im the one thats left out. i just want .. new friends. but i want to keep these friends too. i dont really know what to do. can anyone help me? thanks (link)
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I sort of have this problem too. I get that vibe a lot. Why don't you join the local theater group, whether it be on stage or behind the scenes? You can also go to a pool and meet some new people. But don't lose touch with your old friends. Sit them both down and talk to them. Tell them how you feel about your relationship and where you think it's going. Chances are, they feel the same way. Hope that helps!
Alice
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I'm in my first serious relationship with an amazing guy. My family & friends all like him, and of course I like him very much. The problem is, since him and I have been together, I've spent less time with friends. They have been trying to hangout with me, but for some reason I have more fun with my boyfriend. I feel like a horrible friend because these girls are great friends. Is it so wrong that I'd rather be with my boyfriend at this point in my life? (17/F) (link)
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DO NOT isolate your friends!!!! I had this expirience. My friend would ditch us for her bf and his friends and all we were was P.O.ed. I may sound like a total brat for calling you wrong, but if I know one thing, it's that most friends last way longer than any boyfriend. But if you still find hangin' with your guy more fun, why don't you and your guy and your friends go out all together. Make sure you invite other guys he hangs with, too, so he doesn't feel like a 3rd wheel, and so your girls have some eye candy! Hope that helps!
Alice
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i have a friend who enjoys making me feel bad about stuff i have no control over. She likes this kid who absolutely can't stand her because she's clingy (i'm not trying to be mean, but i just thought its good to include every detail) she's absolutely in love with him and if he doesn't answer her on AIM she freaks out with the "are you mad at me? what'd i do" etc. He doesn't like her, but he does like me, and i like him. And she just can't accept it.(i sounded like a bitch, but i didn't mean to) Well he and i talk and may date, and she's always saying things like "i don't see why you talk to him, he's an asshole, if i were you i would have given up on him" and then she tries to make me feel bad or something by saying "i really like him, but there's nothing i can do, he likes you.. it's because i'm ugly...i just wish i had someone like you do" and stuff and i don't know how to politely tell her to shut up about it already. i mean, she just is always such a downer and i just can't take it anymore! i want to be friends with her and everything, but not if shes gonna be obsessed with him and always jealous/angry or whatever. (link)
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I have a friend like this and the way I get over it is to say to myself "She's just insecure." She is probably jealous of you, and unfortunately, nothing can help that. She's trying to put you down to make herself look good. Why don't you try doing something one on one with her, like something you both enjoy. If there is a cute guy around, encourage her to go talk to him. But if he shows interest in you, quickly guide her away. Tell her that the afternoon is up to her.People like her tend to be more friendly if they are alone with you and can laugh about a lot of insiders. Hope that helps!
Alice
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i'm 17. female...me and my best friend *stacy* where always together 24/7 before and after school. then i started summer school. she would come up there and help my mom. well one day she ran into her old boyfriend. started hanging with him. *jon* introduced me to *jason* we started daten. then about a week later stacy leaves jon then jason leaves me. now stay and jason are together. i ask her why she did that she said "s***t happens and to get over it" that really hurt me she was my only and true best friend. now should i be mad at her and have nothing to do with her. or give her a 2nd chance?
-keep in mind when she started hanging out w/ Jon again she changed alot to the point that me and her parents noticed her haveing more attitude and the forbid her to see him but she keep doing it and she is stuck on the fact that she is 18 and she can do what she pleases (link)
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Think about this decision and ask yourself if she is really someone you want to hang with for the rest of your life, Jason or no Jason. If the answer is no because of her attitude, wait and see if she changes. If not, drop her. She's not worth it. If it does change, think about hanging with her, but without Jason. I hope that helps!
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