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well i already have started my period but i dont have it now its been late and im expecting t soon. no im not sexually active and it does sort of itch (link)
well its normal. YEah i itch sometimes down there too. but itching is normal nothings wrong. it will get better juss wash really good. and wear white cotton underwear for at least three days and see how it gets. hope i helped!

♥ Cathleen


so i was at the beach and I noticed that my ribs look different than everyone else's. they're more...spread apart, i dont know. Like everyone else's ribs touch each other when they poke out...mine just look like...boobs or something.

Picture: http://xs313.xs.to/xs313/07115/MyPicture-1.jpg (link)
mine are the same way. its normal. OF cousre they are diffrent. lol but mine are like that. I hate it. but we gotta live with it. and also when you grow more it will look more normal. When did u go to the beach? i live in Myrtle beach! welp hope i helped! ♥ CAthleen


So i have a psp and i hate it! i wanna sell it but i have no idea how much i should sell it for. My parents bought it for me for about $350 which includes...case for the psp, case for games and dvds, car charger, wall charger, 1 atv game, memory stick, and 1 movie. They bought it for me for christmas. I used it for one week after christmas and hated it! So how much should I sell all of this stuff for? (link)
Well id say since its been so long since you've had it 250.00 would be a resonable price and if nobody still wants to buy it go for 100.00 no lower than that though. hope i helped! ♥ Cathleen! p.s i hate them too!


can a yeast infection go away without having to see your doctor and take medication?? i think i might have one. my discharge is all yellow instead of white is that it?? and do u still get your period when u have a yeast infection?? thats like three questions all in one. (link)
Yes it can. You can go to a local drugstore and buy cream for it. When you take a shower or bath wash really good down there. Well it might not be a yeast infection it could be that you're about to start your peroid. Yes you still get your peroid. do is it itch and are you sexually active?

hope i helped!
♥ Cathleen


I never wanna prank call again I get so paranoid. Like today during lunch, my friend prank called my boyfriend and like started asking him if he was going out today and stuff but I think the joke got out of hand and like she kept on calling and he txted me asking if it was me and like I really don't want him to be mad please give me advice I won't prank call anymore (link)
Tell him it was your friend but you were sitting with her. But you didnt say anything so you should be okay. Just tell him that you had nothing to do with it it was all her idea.


is it ok for an 18 y.o [senior] to have sex with a teacher?

also, can underage students [like 16?] KISS their teachers...

just wonderin! (link)
18 yeah. Not at school though. the teacher can get fired because of it. and the school district still shouldnt find out about it. underage no cause then they can go to jail. hope i helped.


Okay, well im 14/f and i have a size 36D boobs (im a little on the chubby side) but i dont think that matters. well, my boobs sort of sag a little and my nipple (the brown ring) is really really big. like of course ive seen my friends becuase were girls or whatever and theres arent nearly as big but they also have smaller boobs. ive watched like funny movies where u get glimses of girls boobs and it doesnt look like theres is that big either...is there like anyway i can get it smaller....if i lose weight will it get smaller with my cup size...waht do i do cuz its really weird and ugly and how do i get rid of the saggyness?
PLEASE HELP. (link)
well im 14 and have 36c boobs and my nipples are big. Its because they're not finished growing yet. its normal. mine are still like that. the saginess well mine are perky because i always sleep with a bra and wear one all the time. that helps. and wear a push up bra for awhile. but when you sleep they go every which way i learned that. so i wear a bra to bed. that really helps. hope i helped! ♥ CATHLEEN!


ok well im 15 and a virgin
but lately ive been really obsessed with the thought of having sex.
I really want to do it but i dont want to have anyone know and well it would be a real dissapointment to my parents if they everyfound out.
and well i really want to wait for the right time. i have no boyfriend and well i cant stop this obsession.!
what do you think i should do? (link)
well i juss recently lost my virginity. and i wont regret it. i juss wanna say i had those thoughts its normal. juss make sure u can trust the person you lose it with when you do it someday. all i can say is its normal to think about it. juss dont worry about it.


im planning on taking a hiphop class (it starts tomorrow) but i dont know what to wear and im pretty sure theres some type of dress code of sorts you have to follow for hiphop... but any suggestions on what exactly im suppose to wear? tight fitting shirt or loose? baggy/cargo pants or not? tennis shoes or something else? please and thank you! (link)
okay hip-hop would be tight shirt maybe showing a little bit of a belly if you're fit. Ummmm cargo pants is a must. and some nice tennis shoes. Believe me i have that outfit and it works! Ive been told i look like a girl off the ciara music videos! welp hope i helped have fun!


♥ CATHLEEN JACOBS


hello
If you were to get high/smoke pot about 2 times, how would a doctor be able to tell?

I heard you just pee in a cup and they can tell from that. How long should you wait until you're all clear? and does smoking 2 times have any affect on that? (link)
Okay if you smoke pot it takes maximum 45 days to get outta your system. Theres diffrent ways to tell. peeing in a cup, takin a strand of your hair, blood test, and slava! yeah i know it takes awhile but hey i rather wait. Considering how uve smoked it two times it will take a little longer depending on how far aprat the two times were. i would have to know to give you an exact time. But 45 days for one. Hope i helped!

♥ CATHLEEN JACOBS!


I'm really bored.I like to try new things and start fun projects like combining archietecture,photoghraphy and sculpture into a single art work.I just want to have fun.Please could you think of something fun for me to do.Any suggestions are appreciated. (link)
Do one of like youself. Or of ur family. that would be nice. Juss make what you feel.


i asked before what to use to clean belly button piercings and someone answered me saying to use saline soultion. does anyone know how to clean it with this stuff?? thanks (link)
another thing to clean it with which really helps and heals it fast is sea salt. you can buy it in a grocery store. yeah i know it sounds weird but thats what i used. Ummm u put juss a lil in a spoon get a shot galss put it in the shotglass fill it halfway with water then bend down putt he shotgalss to your belly and lean back for like 10 mins. and if it hurts carry bactine around in ur purse and it relieves pain contect instantly


I'm 13, and my boyfriend [who I have been dating for a year and a half] is 17. He will be 18 in April. I'll be turning 14 in October. I live in Louisiana and he lives in Texas. We met off the internet and have met personally twice. Both of my parents have approved and met with him, unfortunately, I live with my grandparents and they do NOT approve.

Some people tell me that the legal dating age difference cannot be higher than 2 years apart. Other people tell me it's 5 years. What is the actual difference?

Also, his mom or dad does not approve at all of us having any kind of romantic relationship [or any kind of relationship at all] together. Do they legally have the rights to keep him from talking/seeing me while he's still 17? (link)
okay sweety deep breathe. lol okay ive been through this same thing before. Well it is 5 years. and they can something about it. As soon as he turns 18 and before if they have a reason. but they do have to have a reason. now i will say if a male is 18 hes not suppose to date under 18 that is totally against the law. i mean watch out for the older ones too. diffrent states. and everything. well hope i helped!


i no you guys r prolly sick of these questions but please bare with me.
im 13/f,and me & my bf have been together for almost 4 months.although u may think im too young,were madly in love with each other.
i want to do something EXTREMLY special that he will never forget for valentines day.
please help.
also i cant spend more than 20 dollars?
thanks a ton.
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okay sweetheart.....20 dollars is not a lot but its not quanity its quality. so yeah. Okay ummmm you can get a small stuffed v-day puppy. and you know a card write youre feelings in it. Just be sweet all day. Be loveable. Hope i could help!


Well i've like a guy for about a year, and just recently i've found out hes a jerk. So i really need some tips or something to get over him.
Thanks!!! (link)
try not to think about the memories you two had together. ignore it. I mean yeah its hard. specially if you loved him. the same thing has happend to me. But either try to move on to another guy you trust and hopefully you can fall in love with the new guy and the feelings for the other one will go away. not at first but they will eventually. PROMISE!

-cathleen


I Am 16 And I Have A Boyfriend And I Love Him ALOT!!! Lately It Seems Like All I Can Think About IS Doing Stuff With Other Guys! However When I Am With My Boyfriend Or Talking To Him...I Dont Have That Problem! So What Exactly Is Going On Here... (link)
okay....i will say this ive had that problem before. yeah and it sucked. What i did was you know spend more time with him. If a thought of doing something with another guy popped in my head i juss ignored it and thought of him. I mean its hard at first but youll get used to it and if you start ignoreing it and thinking of him when you think of that it will proabley stop. hope ths helped.

-cathleen ♥


I really like this guy Jake, right? I'm 14 and he's 14 & he's in a few of my classes. Football player, hockey player, honor roll...perfect. We're friends & talk all the time, but we don't hang out one-on-one because I'm not as physically attractive as his past girlfriends.
I like him a lot, and I'd like him to ask me out, but I'm what my school would call fat-a size six. I know, I know. Fat. But is there a way that I can act, or something I can do, or say, or change my look, to make him like me as more than a friend?
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Okay sweetheart....first off if someone dosent like you for who you are then the he** with him/her. But since this guy is special. Take pride in yourself hold you head up high. Change your hairstyle. if you always wear it one way. Smile alot. Have confidence. Work on a high self-esteam. Just set your mind to it! Hope i helped!


i used to have pretty clear skin..the only zits i would get were around my nose in the "t-zone" but now theres scars on my cheeks..and even zits there too..basically all over..their not huge and hideous but they are visible..and i was wondering if anyone knew the BEST thing to clear skin..something not too expensive..just any kind of method it doesnt have to be a product..by the way my skins combination/oily but mostly oily and i wear liquid makeup because it covers best (link)
there actually is a foundation that covers and heals all at the same time i use it. and its at a resonable price its called.....covergirl clean make-up hope this helps you like it did me. it does depend on ur skin to sometimes though! good luck


I like this guy who likes me back. Only problem is, he has a girlfriend. He cheated on her with me, and we were hooking up for a couple weeks. Then we talked about it all and he said "im confused, because i mean i love my girlfriend but then i see you, and i like you too. i dont think we should hook up until i know whats going on with her." so i left it at that. i was really upset for the next few days. we still talk, and i saw him the other night and he was standing behind me with his arms around me. little things he does makes me know he cares. but i dont know what to make of it. he tells me he misses me, and he was sad today when he said that he doesnt think i still like him because i dont call him or IM him all the time. i told him i dont want to be a pain. i miss him so much, and i know he misses me. but whats the deal..? sorry this is so long (link)
okay sweetheart first of all dont let him play you like a deck of cards. Not saying he is. Just tell him you need to have a serious conversation with him. In person. Just the two of you. Then tell him how you feel. Ask him how he feels? Which way one he wants to be with? Cause you dont wanna waste ur time on one guy. Not at all. i did and got played. but you know its life. Just talk to him. Ever wanna know if someone is lying while ure talking to them.....well if they look to the right they're remembering and if they look to the left they're lying. Thats true i learned it and tested it befefore always works. Hope this helped! GOOD LUCK!


i used to be extremely social at home..always calling people..always wanting to talk to my friends on aim..but lately i just feel like sleeping or listening to music in my room and when i get on aim theres only a couple people i ever even want to talk to and when im on the phone im usually wanting to get off (besides with one guy) i dont even call people often anymore because i never feel like it..could this be a sign of anything? (link)
No its normal. I feel that way alot. i Mean it will show you who you're closest friends are and everything. You're just a laid back person who likes to chill. Hope this helped!

-Cathleen




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