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i was wondering if you could tell me at what age you had sex. not a lecture to wait or what can happen,, just what age you had it. thanks. (link)
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not saying anything about myself, but most of my friends who have done it were from 13-15
-Cameron
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ok, my fiance is 22 and he went to a therapist hte other day. he has a lot of mental problems (he was raped as a young boy) and thigns that other girls have done to him, he is scared will happen again. well the therapist diagnosed him with Bypolar type 2, parnoia, and depression. i don't know how to handle them or to help him out with them. i understand the depresseion, because i myself have lived with depression for a long time. so if anyone can tell me any ways i can help him out or things i can do to take care of him. becuase i love him alot and i want to help out. also could you describe these 3 things to me so that i can get a better grasp on them? thank you! (link)
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well, I have alot of issues to, I have a ton of depression problems, from my family really fucking me up, I dated a lesbain who I really cared for & that really caused a ton of problems, & now I'm afraid to commit again
to help him out, which I really wish someone would at least try for me, & so its good he has someone who will
you just need to comfort him anytime hes down, & be with him all the time, cos being with you sould make him happy, & that always help cos he wont have these problems as often if hes happy & hes with you cos he cares about you
you could also talk to him about getting on some depression medicne, it really helps, I'm 14 & I'm on some, & it helps, but it takes a while to find the right amount of the right stuff, so give it time, but its worth it
I hope I helped, & I hope things work out
-Cameron
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why do people in there teens who arent even married yet want to have sex, like when your older and you want to get married it wont come in handy to tell him/her that your not a virgin so my questions are
1) why do people in there teens have sex
2) why do GUYS like looking at porn
3) (no affence) but if your engaged or w/e wouldn't that just disguss the guy/girl that your not a virgin
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1) sometimes its a way of exaping your life, I know that might be hard to understand, but in a way it can, sometimes if you love someone, you'll do it, or sometimes people want to be cool or there just both turned on, theres many reasons
2) cos it turns us on, even girls will, people just like to be turned on, its hard to explain
3) sometimes it might, but not to everyone, & most people loose there virginity before there married, so I guess it would really depend, I don't think it would matter to me
I don't think its bad that teens are having sex, we do what we want, & I don't think pre-marrital sex is bad, infact 67% of people loose there virginity in high school, I don't see it as a bad thing, & apperntly nither do they, & its our lifes to throw away or do what ever with, it'll be our mistake if its a mistake
sorry if I was rude, but I was just trying to explain the way & I probolly many others see these things, I hope I helped
-Cameron
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ok my boyfriend told me that alot of times when guys have sleepovers they dare each other to give each other blow jobs and so like he told me he gave two of his friends bj's and his friend gave him one. A while after he told me that i gave him one but we werent protected and now im freaking out cuz im scared i might have gotten one. but could some one blowing him give him an std, if they didnt have one? we are both virgins also.. so is it possible that i might or he might have one? AND... can a virgin having sex with another virgin give one virgin herpies or somthing? (link)
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well... yes... you both could, but its not a 100% chance, maybe he never got 1, or he might have, & he could or could not have transfered it to you
& yes, virgins can carry STDs, even if they do not have any, they can carry them, or they could, you don't really know unless you get tested
but I wouldn't worry to much, I would look it up on google the chances & the symptomes, & then if you can (you might not want to let your parents know if your under age) I think that you might want to get tested if your get really worried & might be afraid that you have 1 or are showing symptomes
hope I helped & I hope things are ok
-Cameron
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i am old fashioned and my bf wants to kiss every period n the day and i am starting to get tired of it because first of all everytime we kiss he gets his spit on my lips which is really gross so i want to go back to being friend but how do i tell him with out hurting his feelings
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ew... gross...
well, if you want to just become friends, then tell him, or you could just find something to fight about, & then break-up with him then, & say that you just want to be friends, he should understand
I hope I helped
-Cameron
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Are condoms 100% safe? (link)
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I'm pretty sure its about 97%
not much to worry about thought, unless it breaks, so make it a little loose, pull it up a little so it won't snap
-Cameron
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I really, really need help here-serious help only, please. i've never really said this to anyone before, let alone a bunch of strangers over the internet, but here it goes. I think i'm gay and to make it worse, i'm madly OBSESSED with this kid in my class. Now, I go to an all boys high school, but i've had these feelings since before i went there. I first met him when we were both taking the entrance exam to get into the high school. now we're really close friends and i am just crazy about him. i mean, to the point where i have pictures of him on my computer. But i don't know if he feels the same way though. I highly doubt he does. what i want to know is should i come out and tell him(and the wolrd) that i have feelings for him, or should i just keep it all inside? i am seriously asking for your help on this one because i really need it. (link)
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well, I'm straight, but I dated a bi girl, who is now (well, we really think she is) a lesbian, & so I know a little about this
you should find out if hes like that too, but if hes not, then you need to becarefull cos if he dosen't want to be around gays or bis, then I don't think you should say anything
but I don't think you sould worry to much, most people go through this in there life (I think its 97%), so its not uncommon, but you might be gay or bi, you wont know untill later on probolly
& I think you should get a friend, who is a girl, & is close to you, & you can trust her, & tell her about your feelings, cos guys might take it the wrong way, but if hes truly a good friend, he wont care, & he'll stay your friend, & maybe it wont bother him, but that dosen't mean that hes that way to
I really hope I helped & hope things work out
-Cameron
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My boyfriend and I were having sex, same as normal. We put the condom on correctly, but it still broke in the middle of us having sex. He hadn't cum yet so we just stopped there and finished in ways other then sex. My boyfriend said he didn't pre-cum, but I'm not sure that he knows exactly what that means, and I'm pretty sure you can't control that kind of thing. Is there a good chance that I could still get pregnant or anything I could do?
I need a real answer, so please, no 13 year olds that are just guessing. (link)
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it is possibul that you are pregent, I would go get the morning after pill with-in 72 hrs. from when you 2 had sex, when you "pre-cum" its not all of it, just some, so it is still possibul that you are pregent
hope I helped, & I wish you the best of luck!
-Cameron
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Does anybody know some really good songs that they like? Im trying to make a list of really good songs But i cant really think of any. If you have any songs, doesnt matter what type or anything like that! Thank you! (link)
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Sarah McLachlan - Vox, Ben's Song, Full Of Grace, Angel, Do What You Have To Do, & many others
Dido - Sand In My Shoues, Who Makes You Feel, & Closer
Alanis Morissette - You Oughta Know, Forgiven, Right Through You, Ironic, Mary-Jane, Your House, & Wake Up
hope I helped
-Cameron
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im a dancer and i'm doing a lyrical solo for like the 4th time and i'm running out of songs. i need some songs that are really sad and tell a story. thanks. (link)
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Sarah McLachlan - Angel, Ben's Song, Gloomy Sunday, I Will Remember You, Full Of Grace, Do What You Have To Do, I Love You, Fall From Grace, & many others
Billie Holiday - Gloomy Sunday
Sheryl Crow - The Difficult Kind, Weather Channal, & Dimond Road
Alanis Morissette - Mary-Jane
theres alot, look at mainly Sarah McLachlan, thats her main thing is depressing love songs
hope I helped
-Cameron
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Hi I am a 17 year old boy and my girlfriend wants to have unprotected sex
with me, but i'm not sure i want to have unprotected sex.
We have had protected sex before. Please Help me?. (link)
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well, you are smart in asking on what to do
realise that by having unprotected sex, you can catch STDs, HIV, & AIDs, & you could even get her pregnet, even if you don't finish inside of her, it can still happen, so it is not safe at all, even sex with protection is not completly safe, so just tell her the risks, & that you really don't want to end up being a a father right now or have any STDs or anything, its to big of a risk
so, no, it is not safe or smart to do this
but it is very smart that you asked for adivise
hope I helped
-Cameron
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This guy, Justin, and I got back together a couple of weeks ago after breaking up. We have been on and off for about a year, the longest time we went out was for 2 1/2 months. Well I went out with this guy Nick, and Justin didn't call me almost all summer because he thought I was still with him. When he found out we weren't together he called me and we both confessed that we'd never stopped loving each other. Now that we're back together, I've fallen harder for him that ever before, and we have alot stronger connection. He's a totally changed person. He's trying to stop doing drugs and smoking, he backed away from a fight yesterday for me, he actually DANCED for the first time in his life and before we started going out he called my dad for permission to be with me. He's actually doing his schoolwork and staying out of trouble and he tells me it's because he loves me and will change to be with me, even if I don't ask him too.
That's just a little bit of background information though, so you can see that we really do love each other and this isn't just an impulse desicion. Well...I've always thought of him as maybe being my first and lately I've thought about it more and more. Don't get me wrong, I'm not going to do it for a long while, but I do have a few questions.
How bad does it hurt?
What do I do...if I'm on bottom OR top?
What are the condoms that are most reliable?
Did you regret your first time?
Anything else?
Sorry it's so long but THANK YOU SOO MUCH IF YOU ANSWER! (link)
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to girls, it hurts pretty bad, I'm assuming its not unbareabul, but not pain-less
since its your 1st time... bottam
Trojen, I guess, nothing expried
just think of it this way... no fun with no guilt feelings
hope I helped & hope everything goes ok!
-Cameron
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Hi, I am looking for music to put on my myspace, except I can't find any sites with music! I like punk rock/rock so does anyone have any web sites where I can get music codes? Thank you so much && I will rate 5's.
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singingfish.com but what you do is hit propterties & get the URL from there & then put them on your site
or you can go to musicvideocodes.com
hope I helped & hope it works
-Cameron
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Me and my close friend which is a girl were watching cruel intensions and it made us really horny, we both wanted to practise so we would be good when it came to us losing our viginity to a boy. So we practised positions and tongue kissing in our bikinis, and now all i can think about is being masturbating partners with her again.
I took 2 tests which both said i was i bi but cant figure this out.
f,16
p.s i never had feelings for a girl before it happened. (link)
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well, it is possibul that you are bi or lesbian, but it could also mean that you just want to be good, it can mean many things, it very natural, you probolly are not bi, but most people go through a stage in there life where they think that they might like to see what its like being with someone of the same sex, but its just a stage, & its very common (I read somewhere its like 97%) so I wouldn't worry about anything unless you started having feelings for her, & if you are, you may grow out of it, or you may not, but there is nothing wrong with it at all, its perfectly noraml
hope I helped
-Cameron
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Ok the subject sounds a little harsh for what I am about to say. My brother watches porn. I mean alot of porn. Its not really occasional, it's routinely. Sometimes I feel bad because, I get a little curious and I watch a video, but I mean now sometimes I feel sick. I regret ever watching the video because all I can think of is its contents. Thats not all I have seen, I have seen pictures and things on TV. I wish I had never seen any of it, because now my mind wanders to places I don't want it to wander. Does anybody else have this problem? Is there anyway for me to restore my "innocence"? (link)
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there is nothing wrong at all, its perfectly natural, as you get older, those things just tend to happen, there is nothing wrong with it at all
hope I helped
-Cameron
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how come people call girls sluts if they kiss guys (like me...but i havent done it in over a month)
a slut is someone who has sex w/a bunch of guys!! so how come IM gettin called a slut!?
but im not the only one...some other people i know are getting called sluts too. and its not fair! i dont have sex! how am i a slut? i just dont get girls at all...even tho i am a girl! i just dont get why they do things like this (link)
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they are just joking around, my friend, she calls me a man-whore (ofcourse... there are other reasons why... but its just a joke) & if they are serious, then they are more then likely jellious
hope I helped
-Cameron
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ok well, im going out with this guy named james and i really like him. but lately whenever we talk on the phone its really boring and he is really prude so it sucks. so these two guys like me named john and nick. and they think i should break up with him becasue they dont think he is going to change and they think i desurve more. so john asked me if i thought going to a dance with someone im not going out with would be considered cheating. and i said no so he asked me to the dance. and i said yes. so now i dont know if my bf will be mad at me or not. should i break up with him? should i tell him about the dance? what should i do? PLEASE HELP ME! (link)
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well, if you really like him you should stay with him, but if you don't then there are other guys out there, John & Nick seem to like you, I don't think its wrong, the last girlfriend I had we had boring phone conversations... but now that were friends they are more interesting, so maby your both just nervous
hope I helped
-Cameron
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What do you guys look for in a girl? (like, personality and looks wise) (link)
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ummm... physically...
I like, dirt-blondes, around 5'1" or 5'2" or even just 5', weight about 100 lbs., normally skinny, but athletic works too, & green eyes... I don't know why, but I just love green eyes on a girl...
personality...
very sweet, funny, good sence of humor, not to clingy (a little is nice though, just to know you care), pretty happy, can cheer me up when something goes wrong, & dosen't care what other people think of her
hope I helped
-Cameron
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Does anyone have any sad slow love songs similar to "All My Life" by KC and JoJo and "Have You Ever?" by Brandy??Please help me I'm going through a bad time right now and it would help me very much! I'll rate 5's thank you! (link)
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Sarah McLachlan - Angel, Do What You Have To Do, Full Of Grace, I Will Remember You, Answer, Gloomy Sunday, I Love You, Sweet Surrender, Last Dance (intrumental), Ben's Song, & just about anything by Sarah McLachlan (there are exeptions)
Sheryl Crow - Weather Channel, Dimond Road, The 1st Cut Is The Deepest, The Difficult Kind
Billie Holiday - Gloomy Sunday
Norah Jones - Carnival Town, Don't Miss You At All
The Eagles - Linen' Eyes
Alanis Morissette - Mary Jane, Your House
hope I helped
-Cameron
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How do I show or tell my boyfriend how much I love him? (link)
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awww, you could write him a song, or give him a mixed tape or CD with love songs on it
Ice Cream by Sarah McLachlan is a good 1, you could sing that to him, its an easy song, just look it up on google
Push by Sarah McLachlan is another good 1, its about her husband, its alot harder to do, but you could try & sing that to him, look it up on google or singingfish.com
hope I helped
-Cameron
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