I am one who is here
I live to help ppl
I judge not, so dont judge for the pride is hog posh
I belive that for someone to be happy
They must stop thinking one what they can get to become happy. And start thinking what they can do
For Thousands of years, Sage`s, shamens, preist and monks. Basicly anyone who knows a true thing or 2 will say. That those so called sins. Those so call bad karma habits. Are there to show you that a life free of those bad behavoirs is the one and only way to be happy
And im sure the white girls are like, pst, i can just blah blah blah and im happy. And the guys are like, Ha, thats a boring way to live(girls agree) But would you be here if you were free of sinful intentions? DIDNT THINK SO!
For all paths besides the path of saint hood are full of sorrow, pain, suffering, and insaneity.
And when you mix sins! Omg! Do the Math my friends
When does mixing sins ever work out besides the short comings of your life?
And if you do think aboot what i have said. You will so realise that you will never in your lifetime beable to prove me as a ignorance spreader. For it would take thousands of lifetimes
So Please! Study my words and wisdom. You will find if you are able to understand them. You will be blissed with untold amounts of joy the likes no closed minded person could ever have in there full lifetimes
If you are to learn anything from me. Let it be that the worst thing you can do to your fragle little mind. Is to be closed minded to any extent
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i am a f/14 i weight about 150 lbs and am 5'2. I bought a couple shirts from hollister and thy go down past my buckle line on my pants so, do u think thats to short and will make me look fat
and do you think i am fat cuz me and my best friend were trying on bathing suits and shes a little heavier than me and i tried on a bikini and she said it looked great but, i dont know (link)
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Honey, Nothing is gonna make you look less or more fat.
How much really can you seem to lose between outfits. Even if so the trick would only work a few times if any.
If you want to lose weight. Its really easy.
I know they all say its hard, but so is english.
Swiming is good. Advoiding foods which have horrible things in them which make is impossible to lose weight. put those 2 together and you`ll be a lil hottie in less then 2 months ;3
If you truely want something, your soul will burn!
And it will be done! But advoiding those foods come first girly. Its those things that make so many people over weight. Not the carbs, not the suger, not the fat, or trans fat. Yes those help Greatly. But people have aten bad for years and still people didnt blow up like this! its the drugs in the food honey.
Plus your 14! you might only need a month, kids burn mad fat liek woh.
ANd trust Buddha. I know whats truth!
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If more help is needed and/or you want to move on to the next step, Buddha man is here for your 100% of the way :3 just send me a mail
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A crush I've had from probably November last year knows that I like him, because I told him, and was really nice to me, although he was probably quite shocked haha.. but nothing happened because he liked someone else, a friend of mine, actually, but now they're not close anymore, and I've noticed we always seem to be the first people to notice each other walk into the room, or accidently catch eye contact.. there's been other people for me, but I'm kinda crazy about him, more so than I have been for anyone else in my life - do these little things that happen very often mean anything? What should I do? Or am I being paranoid, and should just get over him? Any help HUGELY appreciated! Thankyou so much in advance!!!!! xx (link)
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lol, how cute X)
Your sudden super crush on him as of late doesnt mean you necessary like him more. For you must like him for who he is and after long thought to like someone more. Being 14 your at a time where your mind will play tricks on you. Will make you feel extra this or that just because :3 A very confusing time indeed. Just dont get too paranoid or be to rash for one who is hasty misfortunates are close at hand.
Just be yourself while watching yourself and you`ll be fine
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so ive been dating this guy for almost 2 months. i knew him 2 yrs prior as my sisters friend. but weve always had a thing for eachother during those 2 yrs. infact we dated a couple times for maybe a day or two but this time we wanted to really give it a try. well id like advice on what to do. the other day we celebrated a friends bday- when he gets extremely wasted he becomes another person. not physical but very mental, he will bring me down and call me names. im not defending him but i do use the same game back until its like a hurricane hit us and were left with the aftermath to clean up. well this time i had enough so i broke up with him. he said something ill never forget and i cant believe im sharing it online becuz i cant even tell my friends in real life but i have to get this off my chest. he said outloud (and i really dont think he knew he said this, he really was out of his mind)...he says "quit embarrasing yourself your f***ing a fat obese person".
im a big girl, so yes hes talking about me. first i was shocked, he wasnt facing me when he said it its like he just blurted it before his brain processed it. after a minute i said "are you serious did you just say that?". he didnt realise what he said you can tell, he changes the subject asks what hes supposed to do and goes home. i broke up with him before his comment and he called me 9 times in a row the next morning to aplogise that he was "real drunk", i yelled at him and told him it was completely and officially OVER. i havent spoken to him in 2 days but his myspace page clears hes depressed about the break up. i dont know what to do...ignore that he said that becuz i want to be with him, but i dont know i havent even cried. please help? (link)
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Well, You have to acknowlage that alocohal is a hard drug. Nothing more, nothing less when you decide you indulge to the point of "wastedness"
And if he`s showing these behavoirs at this time. How long will it be until he`s over it? Will it get worse? It could be 4 months, could be 40 years
I think that best Path for you would be to move on
Dont lower who you are for a lay from a asshole who could be a pig for all you know. Man`s world is a very different place as im sure a girls life is from guys life.
And add these factors, drunk+drugs+party=guy to high to know who he`s with.
These relationships always crumble honey. Only someone who is also a druggie can be with a druggie. A druggie wouldnt mind the abuse, shes to high and basicly doesnt give a shit aboot life to the fullest.
You have to ask yourself. Who are you and what is this man to you, Really, REALLY!!!! I mean, MEAN REALLY! 2 months? And all your saying is bad things. Plz put 1+1 together friend.
And as for your weight, I lost 40lb easy! its really simple if you want my secert. Just send me a qustion stating what you want.
Truth will set you free so your soul can Soar
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Hi, I'm Jacky.
My life has been rough, because of me.
It got better, until I did stupid things, and now I feel like there's nothing else I can do to make it better, I just mess up more and more. The more I mess up, the more I look like a dumb ass.
First, I have a friend over and I sneak two guys downstairs at 11 at night, and my dad's caught us.
So, my dad and mom have absolutely no trust in me, what so ever. I actually think my family hates me, because I don't listen, and I do things I'm not supposed. I've been doing that, for the past years. Plus they found out I tried pot and I'm sexually active. So that's a huge minus. I get in huge fights with my parents, mostly with my dad. I feel like I just failed my family, honestly. I don't know how to talk or act around them anymore. I just feel uncomfortable and awkward.
And then, I reported this kid for selling drugs, which he sold them to me, and I told a teacher at school about it, and she ended up telling the principal on me, I thought I could trust her. Then I had to rat him out because of what I told my teacher, then I have to go to all this court shit and be a witness, which I don't really want to be. I wish this would've never happened, this kid is going to have a fucked up life with my involvement. What the fuck is wrong with me. It's all my fault. And I can't take it back. But that's my fault.
And 3rd, I cheated on my boyfriend with another guy. I couldn't stand my boyfriend, he's attracted to assholes, shit, and farts. And I'm being honest. He hits me. He's just a jackass. But he knows how to cover himself to make people believe him. But honestly, he was a huge part of my life. And now that's gone. But now I'm with the other guy, who hardly calls me, he says he thinks it's best because he doesn't want us to get too attached and end up being bored with each other. Now, I love talking on the phone, and really like him, but I don't know. I just think there's something wrong with me. I honestly think I'm hated by a lot of people. I do not know what to do with my life anymore. I'm really scared and stuck. I've cheated and lied before. And I've just been a bad person lately.
I wish I could've handled things differently. But, I didn't. I have no idea what to do. I feel like I've fucked up my life. I think a lot of people hate me too. But that's besides the point.
Please anybody, give me advice. I don't know how to start know, I have no idea what to do with myself anymore.
Thank you. (link)
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Well, im glad im the first one giving after reading all that.
It seems your not addressing sertin things in your life and in result your making bad choices.
I know things must be awkward but things will get better. You just need to find yourself. And never forget to keep finding yourself for if you stop, you stop growing as a person.
And I can see your doing which most young girls go through atleast once. Your in need of a boyfriend. You think you need a boyfriend. And its killing you and who you are. Ive seen this so many times. Your at the age where you start becoming the person you`ll be for the rest of your life. And I see that you just want to be somebody`s girlfriend and in some cases nothing more! Ive seen girls sit one the computer day in day out, 4 hours a day waiting for her boyfriend playing word seach. Talkin to me saying she`s bored and is very closed minded to new things.
Just know that what your doing if it is so, Is very distructive and you`ll only get worse and worse till its too late.
You dont have a place, and you need to find one that doesnt need a guy.
I can see your parents must be adopting a common yet very qustionable methon of parenting which I personally cant stand such a ignorant thing to do to a child. And Ofcorse there going to be harder on you then what your used to in the good ol kid days Jacky, its what is to be expected with the path you have choosen.
Basicly you cant have your cake and eat it to even tho how cloudy of a metaphor that is.
But if your not happy with your current relationship with your parents and want the old way back. Its as easy as doing what makes them happy.
There rules might be a bummer, but it makes them think you wont turn out to be someone who is isnt glutton, who wont let there greed over take them, where your not slothy or a lustful gal and dont get over taken with wrath and envy no one. To be someone who isnt a fuck up and has no pride.
Your parents know that those personality trates can only lead you into a state of mind where you wont love life. But those things happen only to those who have little discipline. All this happen, because you have little discipline. It can all be fixed with a little discipline in a snap.
It will take time and some discipline to win the trust over with your parents.
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Try not sneaking in or out less often.
Seem Less Sexually active! As in, if you were going out and wanted to ware something a bit slutish, walk out in a t shirt or a jacket and pants. The Little Things DO COUNT!!! Atleast to your Parents.
And as for the kid. You have to ask yourself what did you do? We live in a world where draconian punishment is acceptable in this so called modern society. And fyi he cannot get student loans so collage is going to be a hell of a task for him as for you as well. Even though nobody was hurt. He will be punished. And a wise man once said, "wish no hurt to your enemy and treat them as if they were family"
So how you take these sins will make or break you.
Some people dont do a damn thing and care only for themselves, sure they might wish or think about making there life better in some way. But bad people have those thoughts. Solthful, greedy people.
And with your boyfriend. He hits you! He`s a AssHole! Jesus if I had a nickle. Sorry but i must be frim with this kind of thing. And dont feel bad that you cheated, he hits you and he expects you to be loyal? I dont see the logic. He already tried to break your Spirit by hiting you. thats what "men" try to do Jacky.
But if you want to really get your life back in order and be that person everyone wants you to be
Look for the 4 noble truths, And studie that until you fully understand it left and right. It could take months, weeks, or even years, but the more you understand the more discipline and happy you will become. You have my absolute word.
Remember to Commit for Buddhaman Nevey stops learning, even if something little is gained, I want it! So feel free to express anything to me.
More qustions? You know the Name.
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what are some things that make a 15/16 yr old guy start thinking things? like ok so my ex still likes me but im moving so hes like pulling away thats why we broke up--so we barely talk but i see him at youth group and stuff so i want him to be thinking of me...so what can i say/ do that will make him think of me? i already wear short skirts and tight tanks that show cleavage [hehe what little i have anyway...] (link)
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My word honey
I think you awnsered your own qustion
But he`s moving. write him a letter every 5 days
that`ll keep him thinkin. other then that, your on your sweet pea
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so theres this kid and he's going to college this fall. he's one of my friends and before we use to be really close but all of a sudden we started drifting apart a lot. i liked him a few months ago but don't really anymore.. i had a dream last night and he was in it and i was with him. we were at some log cabin and he had to leave and he just kept screaming "i don't want to be alone" he kept repeating it over and over again. does it mean anything? this is kinda a stupid ? haha sorry. but if someone can tell me that'd be great. i know i'll miss him a lot when he's gone... (link)
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Well as one on the path of shamenism
This dream could mean distress of your friend.
But i would take this as a very imporant thing and no less.
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i was on birthcontrol for 3 months and switched to another one ive been on this one for 2 months. me and my boyfriend have sex. he just pulls out. do you think its safe for him to not pull out ? and just "ya know" inside of me. & whwn is the safest time after your period to do it ? (link)
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Well, I dont know why he would pull out if your on birthcontrol.
As for safeness, i think you should be more concern your on a very risky drug young lady and unless you want life to full of lust and crappy else were cuz of the "control" i would do some reseach that is if your old enuff.
AS FOR HIM! Pulling out would only cause him to have a less then best leg shaker. Tho its not surprize. Some guys cant take it for reasons there parents should be blamed on with the cutting of the foreskin.
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hi im 14/f and my birthday is in Novemeber. Im in 9th grade but supposed to be in 8th according to the whole what garde based on what month your bday is in but i got tested when i was little and they let me in school early because i was smart enough. so anyway i always feel so young because i can pass for 12! basically i look 13 but i want to look 14/15!! what are some ways to make me look older?? please anything! thanks and i will rate :) (link)
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Well, The grass is truely greener on the other side =] with humans atleast.
try a change of you! different dress ware, diff hair cut, hang out with chess players?
anf fyi, love what you got because b4 you know it!
It might be all tooken away from you. besides, i think guys like young cuties =p tho you would have to ask one
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ok so theres this guy who always grabbing my but which he does to alot of girls. but hes always helping me with starting blocks at track. and hes at my locker and putting his arm around my waist and playing with my hair which i never see him do to other girls sould i ask him out or does he even like me
14/f (link)
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Well, what you could do is just flirt back.
Show him your intrested. Dont ask him out tho X^O
People are stupid and they talk, which should be tookin away from`em =o
But if he`s acting smitten and your smitten then it Will come together. Im sure you dont like the wait but it is in times like these where true charactor shines.
Besides, he likes you im sure ;]
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We have been friends since we met in pre-school. We were each other's first friend. We used to hang out all the time. Even though we were so different (I was super-shy and she was more of an outspoken person) we got along better than anyone else. But in school, they put us in classes according to our last name, and we always got separated. In junior high, she started hanging out with the more popular kids, but we were still friends. But then, she stopped hanging out with me, mainly because she was so busy - played about five different sports and dance lessons and babysitting on top of that - because her parents forced her. She hasn't been over to just 'hang out' at my house in about three years. We'll be in high school next year. I've realised that I love her, but the problem is, we're both girls. Her parents are very religious; they don't mind gays, just not near them. Also, in the past few years I've changed a lot...I'm more outspoken, and I suppose you could call me 'Goth' (though I hate labels). I don't get to see her much, but all this is making my head spin. I want to tell her, but I know that if I do, there is definately a strong chance I'll never see her again, and she'll hate me. Help is appriciated. (link)
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Mann!!!! MY BROTHER! our stories are so much the same!!!!
So mann, take it from me. Read the 4 noble turths
If you do you`ll get a whole new insight on how you talk and think with ppl. hence smarter. All your shyness will be in fact replaced with a logical super computer which is way happier. PLZ! I did the whole goth thing with the girl just like this.
And Know! 90% of the time when shyness is involed, it doesnt work. Your better off not acting for now.
1. its been awhile since yall talked, she might not like you like that!
2. if you are gonna win this, you need to make her fall in love with YOU!!! the ONLY WAY!!!!!
3. Need more advise save my page!
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15/f
me and my bf have been goin out for 5months and 1week. and he lives 30 mins away so i only see him on the weekends for a day or 2. and last week i told him i loved him and he didnt say it back. that night on aim he explained he wasnt ready to say it. we have been to 3rd base and we go to 3rd base everytime i see him like twice everytime i see him. and everytime we do that i really just wanna do "it" but i know im to young and were both not ready but i dont know how to fight these urges. and i dont kno if i should tell my boyfriend that i've been wanting to or not. i just dont know how to handle this and get these urges away and if i should tell him about these "urges"....any suggestions....THANK YOU! (link)
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Well, I dont think you should tell him.
Guys think with logic, so that means if you add (im willing) to (he`s always willing) and he`ll take the high road ofcourse.
And I think you might want to cut back on the daily vists. If theres a problem then i think you should beable to get a clear picture of whats going on in his mind. Know you cant trust men too much at all. They`ll play along for years! But your young and too much cant be going on like that
And Keep in mind you only get one first whatever
And i know i know im in love blah, heard it a million times this year! But know you dont know what love isnt! to the fullest atleast.
So take things slow and nice, if he cant wait then is he really the guy you want to remember and possibly have a bad memorie too =X it happens
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my boyfriend wants to dance with me at my sweet 16. i dont know how or what to do. my party is in less than 2 weeks! what should i do. any tips on how to dance like people do in like clubs & slow dancing? (link)
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lmao, the clubs? haha well theres always youtube
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so im 15/f.
most of my friends dont smoke. but most of my boyfriend (who lives 30 mins away) friends do smoke and has asked me to try it before but i said no. my mom and brother smoke and sometimes i dont mind the smell depending on the brand. my boyfriend is against smoking and said he'd never do it. and i told him i never would either. but for some reason i want to try it. and i hope you dont judge me for that.i just dont want to get addicted or have my boyfriend be disapointed or angry. i talked to his friends who smoke and they say i wont get addicted by just trying it once. i think i wont like it but i just want to know. i know most of you will say not to do it. but i'd just like a 2nd opinion. thank you and please dont judge me. (link)
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Well, You shouldnt smoke cigarettes. There ignorant to the point. Not ever in time have so many people smoke such a insane thing. One cigarette can kill a man!
If your going to smoke do it right and stay away from easy addiction smoke.
The only reason people smoke is because its cheap easy and accepted and people have been smoking for years have they not?
Well people might`ve smoked, but i dont remember people rolling up dandy loins and smoking them.
Get the facts first of all. Only a child does a drug without 10 mins of reseach.
And honey, your 15, Still a child I must say, and take no shame in that, be happy that you can be happy with little b-4 soceity has its ways.
You should go to erowid dot org and studie aboot the chemicals in cigarettes. You`ll be very surprized what causes the cancer and what doesnt
And you`ll know that your "friends" who do smoke dont know a damn thing aboot what there doing, and if they did know, i highly doupt they would be doing it in pubic my friend, your local online shamen, Peace
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someone please give me solid advice for how to get my life started... i really have a fear of failing and ending on the streets. i currently live with my parents ( forced to because my dad keeps using his contacts to sabotage every great job i get... so my fears are not unfounded) anyway so please someone tell me how to get a great job or even a small one that leads to something bigger! i want to develop my skills but he won't let me do what i want! help... please.... (link)
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Well my friend, It seems your dealing with some pretty deep ignorance if what you say is true.
It raises alot of other qustions aboot your home life as well.
But I know theres only one way to deal with ignorance. With Pure logic. But! Your young and need to realise that you are. By realising this you should know your at a disadvantage mentally since they have there rules of "engagment" which makes it very hard for a "my child" to talk.
What you need to do and look at yourself in all ways. All point of views. Not just your point. When one`s ego comes into play with there life. Only ingorance will spawn in result.
After that. Look at what your parents have told you. And judge that advise with what you learnt at step one^
And then you will see if you can win an arguement.
You must beable to stump them, brain fart, Get confused, throw them off step mentally. If you can do that in a one on one conversation(must be one at a time) Then you will win in a sense where you have a stepping stone in there yard and a way out.
But gain no ego in this for it could cause you to act rash and immature.
Now that you think you can one up your folks. Look inside yourself and on the net for carrers you likes. If you want a risky high stakes high pay job or a check every month or three job.
Try picking a job that uses skills you`ll use everyday like a cheif, or a farmer, organic foods are costy and a good market if your good, or both and have something speciel.
Make a plan where you invest your money wisly so in 20 years you`ll be way richer while sticking to a less risky job.
And as for you father sabotaging everyjob. Get a job he cant sabotage. Use your mind you can figer this out, your a organic super computer this stuff is esay. As for me I have a pretty damn good plan which is the shizz.
And another thing to do is educate yourself more.
If your smarter then your parents then they wont beable to argue. Try the wheel of darma. A simple but educating philosophy
Need more advice post another one called "on life"
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