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birth control & pulling out


Question Posted Tuesday May 6 2008, 6:04 am

i was on birthcontrol for 3 months and switched to another one ive been on this one for 2 months. me and my boyfriend have sex. he just pulls out. do you think its safe for him to not pull out ? and just "ya know" inside of me. & whwn is the safest time after your period to do it ?

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lexusm answered Friday May 23 2008, 12:38 pm:
well stop switching birth control because thats dangerous but even though you are on bc still you a condom because bc is only 99.9% safe and you could be dat one percent and you can do it any time after your period!

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Hustle_Rose answered Thursday May 8 2008, 9:38 pm:
I don't know why so many young girls operate under the assumption that even if you're on birth control, you're still at some kind of high risk of getting pregnant. There is always a chance- as someone mentioned before, birth control pills are exactly as effective as condoms- over 99%. That means 1 in 100 women will get pregnant, IF that. It really is not very likely that your boyfriend will impregnate you as long as you are using your birth control properly. This means reading the instructions thoroughly and always making sure to take your pill at the same time every day. The reason for this is because the pill releases chemicals into your body which convinces it that it is ALREADY in a very early stage of pregnancy. Naturally, if you were really pregnant, your body would release these chemicals at around the same time every day. So if you aren't very careful about mimicking your bodies natural cycle, your body will not be 'fooled' and the pills will be significantly less effective.
As for the question about when it is safest to have sex- I am under the impression that a woman is least likely to get pregnant both right before she menstruates or right after. But it is still very possible and I would not rely on timing methods as a serious form of birth control.

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skylalou_1 answered Thursday May 8 2008, 6:55 pm:
well, since your on birth-control, this will be a better chance that you won't get pregnant, but there's always that small chance. But I mean if you wanted to chance it, then it would be safe for him to get off in you. and yeah it would be safe for him to pull out. i know it's not much.. but yeah

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orphans answered Wednesday May 7 2008, 9:23 pm:
Ok, birth control is suppose to be 99.9 percent affective just like condoms and other kind of pregnacy prevention.... sooooo what i am getting at is it kinda would not matter the diffrence if he came inside of you or not, as long as u are on a perfect! birth control sequence.... and if it is perfect, then it is just as effective as a condom..... but with sex like that u are not protecting against any std's so be sure that both of you get checked out before hand..

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Buddhaman answered Wednesday May 7 2008, 9:21 pm:
Well, I dont know why he would pull out if your on birthcontrol.

As for safeness, i think you should be more concern your on a very risky drug young lady and unless you want life to full of lust and crappy else were cuz of the "control" i would do some reseach that is if your old enuff.

AS FOR HIM! Pulling out would only cause him to have a less then best leg shaker. Tho its not surprize. Some guys cant take it for reasons there parents should be blamed on with the cutting of the foreskin.

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