I am 4teen years old, and I attend Voorhees High School, which makes me a freshman. I do not drink or smoke. I do it by choice; unlike most of you who do it because you think it makes you look hxc. I am a cheerleader. Go ahead laugh. You have no idea what we do, or how much effort we put into what we do until you try and fail. So don't talk shit about something you have never even attempted. I have a pretty decent life. I have two best friends. Caroline Korba and Casey Scarlets. I could sit here and blab on about how much my friends are my [everything] unfortunently I'm not one of those people who opens up to the world and makes close friends at first glance. These people who claim that they would die without their friend sicken me. Are you that dependent on the feelings of others? I have my close friends, and I'll always be here for them. But I'll also give them a cold shoulder when I know they need to take the situation in their own hands. Its not mean its facing reality. We all need to learn to find our own self reliance.
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Every time I get my boyfriend to have a boner he covers it up, what does that mean? It doesn't bother me that he has one but what is he trying to like hide? (link)
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He probably is embarrassed.
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Okay so I masturbate like 3-4 times a week and I like to alot. The problem is, I feel so perverted and gross. How can I sto pfeeling so disgusting? 14-f (link)
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It's okay, its healthy.
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lately i have been getting heavy distarge right after i get my period. It really smells and i feel wet and uncomfortable. Is there anything i could do to make it not as heavy or smelly? thanks (link)
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Wear a panti liner.
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To be blunt, I have a ton of hair down there that goes all the way up to my anus. is it supposed to go that far back? is there anything i can do to get rid of it? f-16 (link)
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HAHAHAH. sorry.
get a brazillian buttwax.
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15/m ....i am about to go a little further with my girlfriend ....and i was wondering if most guys shave their pubic hair or not...? (link)
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Ask her.
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approximately a month ago my Boyfriend and I were foolin around and while we've never had sex we got a little carried away... to sum it all up he ended up cumming on my butt- we tried to clean it off as soon as possible but technically it is possible that some could have slid down to my vagina... does anyone think that I might get pregnant- I was off my birth control and havent had my period for two months (always been screwed up without my birth control) but he never penetrated me- what do you think? (link)
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Haha, im sorry but thats funny.
And i would take a pregnancy test
anything could have happened.
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I am almost 15 years old.My boyfriend is 16 turning 17.I dont get along with either of my parents. Is it normal to want to have a child at this age? I talked to my boyfriend about it he doesnt help to much. He has told me he would do anything i want because he loves me so much. I told him i think i would want to wait till i am 16 at least. At the moment i dont no i feel like i want to take hold of the responsibilty now.Ill Rate High. Please help me extra ideas etc would be help full thank you. (link)
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If you do, you're wasting your life.
you'll have to
1). drop out of school
2). take care of it
3). have your parents support you
4). maybe your boyfriend will end up leaving you
5). your not even married
6). what will people think?
7). you'll have to go back to high school at an older age
8). it will be hard to support yourself
9). 15 year olds are no where near ready.
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i am 17 years old and i am a women. i hae this guy friend who has tryed to get me to have sex with him. but everytime we wore going to i told him a started my period and i need to get home to change my clothes. but i really want to have sex but i am scared that i will get pregant. since i am not on birth control. so what should i do (link)
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Use a condom, and be careful. Tell him about that, or go and get birth control.
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My boyfriend has fingered me before but this time he used two fingers and it was a little painful and I bled. I know that's normal. But today when I got up I noticed a big bump, like it it swollen on the outside of one of my lips. Do you think it is just swolen from a scratch or cut??Like from his finger nail?? i think its just swollen, but what eles could it be?? Pelase help me. (link)
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probably just swollen.
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I've just started to make love with my boyfriend, and I have a vague recollection from my sex education classes at school that when you become sexually active you should have a check-up, examination etc. Is this the case? Thanks! (link)
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For the girl, yes. See the gyno, but the gyno might tell your parents cause the gyno can tell if your a virgin or not.
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14/f. My boyfriend just turned 17. I am a virgin, he isn't. He's had sex with 2 people. We have been together for probably about 4 months. He respects me and I know he loves me and always wants to spend time with me. I know that he wants to have sex but tries his best to repect what I want. I sort of want to have sex, I know he loves me and cares about me. But there is another guy who I talked to before I knew him and he was in love with me. For some reason I stopped talking to him. And I'm just confused about what I want. Please give me advice, and when you have sex, do you immediately start to bleed your first time? and how much? I will rate. (link)
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If you have doubts, don't do it.
No not immediately, some people don't.
And its like dime/quarter size.
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okay, well my friend got fingered for the first time the other day and now she's been worrying about it. she think's that she is pregnant but i'm telling her that she can't be because it's totally impossible because she didn't have sex or anything. and she hasn't gotten her period and she's 2weeks late. i told her that i think it's because she doesn't have a regular period, because she hasn't had it for over 2years and normally that's when it starts getting regular. her boyfriend only fingered her, she didn't do anything to him so i'm really not sure what to tell her except that she isn't pregnant. what do you guys think?
PS. when she got fingered after she bled alittle, and i told her that maybe he scratched her or something because you never know. (link)
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She's not pregnant.
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What does "pop your cherry" mean? Like I know it has something to do with a hymen...what I'm not exactly sure what a hymen is!! Like does it just happen when you put something...up there? Does it hurt? Like what IS it? And is that a way someone can tell if your a virgin or not?? and i rate. (link)
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It means when a boy has sex with you and he rips this piece of thin skin up in a girls vagina. Yes, sometimes. Yes the Gyno. can tell because if that skin is ripped or not.
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I really like this guy, my really good friend, who is taken but he doesn't know it. I got him something for Valentine's Day, but obviously, I haven't given it to him yet... I'm wondering if I still should. I'm giving things to other people (both ladies and guys). It's nothing big, I mean what I got for him. Maybe I shouldn't give it to him... or? I don't know... I really want to but it might seem a little wrong. Should I? Or I shouldn't? (link)
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Do it.
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i had some drama within my group of friends. me and my 2 bffls told some of our other friends how it annoyed us that they always talk about their amazing sleepovers infront of us and we're never invited. They all hate me now, and they really dislike my 2 friends, but since i did most of the talking, they especially hate me. They said some really mean stuff about me and even said they "never liked me." i know i shouldn't care about girls who pretended to be my friends for 3 years, but it really makes me so mad! i have friends on my side too, but i feel so crummy about the things that said about me, calling me a b*tch and a hoe and annoying and stuck up. what should i do? i'm so mad at them!!!
15/f
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Tell them that that was how you felt, and you had the right to say that because that is actual fact that they did that to you, [ha sorry i am using a lot of 'thats'] but ask them how they would feel if you did that to them.
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My best friend recently cut his wrists and was waiting to die. He's at the hospital, he's okay, and he knows what he did is stupid. This is some serious matter to drop on someone, so I was wondering how to lighten my mood. I'd appreciate any advice that will calm and level myself before I talk to him. (link)
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Just realize, its not your fault and that he really just needs a friend right now. Bring him a cute gift or something, and just pretend it didn't happen. I know its hard, but it will keep his and your mind off it.
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Ok, I'm a 13/f who LOVES helping out the community. I do community work all of the time and I mean I make brownies and other deserts for the hospitals and nursing homes, I do all of my chores and get good grades. BUT I'm not a dork or anything. I mean I go out with my friends on weekends that I'm not helping out with a commuity service project or something. And I have a million friends. And I mean I'm never really happy. But is being too happy, and too helpful a turn off for guys? Because I'm not ugly (I'm a model I can't be ugly) but I still have only had 2 boyfriends in my life. When like EVERYBODY else who I'm friends with has had like at least 10. I rate 5 to any answer. thanks, Samm (link)
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You probably intimidate people, and from what i see, maybe you are to cocky and they might be afraid of not having enough time to hang out with you because you are so buisy.
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ok my friend and i been best friends for 4 years and i dont wanna ruin our friendship but now in middle school shes waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay popular and im not....and i feel like her secertary because people treat me like it eeryday "oh where is ____" or "hows _____?" never a how r u to me and she hardly spends time with me shes always with her popular friends and i feel left out i hav other friends but shes my BEST i feel like im jealouse.. plz help!!! (link)
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Tell her, tell them to stop talking to you if they are going to just use you. Stop letting people walk all over you.
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I really like this girl at school but she is my best friend. I'm scared that if I tell her and she says yes, I know we'll break up. Everyone knows that if you break up with someone you basically aren't friends anymore. Does anyone know what I should do? HELP ME!!! (link)
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Well, just give it a try. If you aren't friends anymore than I am sure in the future you two will start talking again. It's better that she knows though, or ask her friends shes close to ask. Even though thats a little lame, but it won't get you caught into a really bad situation if she doesn't like you back and gets weirded out.
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alright well me and my friend got into some trouble at the mall cause she convinced me to steal a shirt and i did and got caught and they asked her if she had anything and she did but she lied and said no then they asked her if she had anything to do with me and she lied and said no so i got into trouble for her. and ever since then which was on Tuesday - last week, we have been fighting but like i made this modeling thing and we were talking about it and i kinda miss being friends with her. but i promised my mom and my friends not to be friends with her because she got me into trouble. i need help. i dont know whether to not fight with her and have people dissapointed in me or to just give up on her.. ahh please help =[ (link)
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Well, if she was a real friend she wouldn't have gotten you into trouble and gotten herself uninvolved when she was involved. Maybe she will mature when she gets older, just wait it out until she confronts you.
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